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We can build a state of wellbeing with positive psychology | Gabrielle Kelly | TEDxAdelaide


hi I was driving down the road one day

with my twelve-year-old daughter in the

car she was sitting next to me we pulled

up at the traffic lights

and then notice that she was steering

out one of the windows she kept doing it

and after that she jumped she seemed to

turn around again and was looking a

woman in a red car next to us I said –

what’s the matter she said mom mom I’ve

just realized the vent woman in the car

thinks she’s the center of the world

just like I do I said well you’re pretty

young to have realized that did you

realize that there’s a whole lot of

people who get to be really old and they

never realize that it’s weird really

think about it isn’t it think about the

size of your own private mind just that

the big architectural structure we build

in the privacy of our life in which we

live is the University of me and the

universe of you and then are all of our

feelings all of our history everything

that’s happened everything we remember

everything we hope for all our dreams

the shifting sands and feeling it’s

quite a big architectural structure and

as I said I can see yours beginning to

show as I look out here at you so we

have there it’s bigger than our physical

self it seems more substantial somehow

from within the privacy of our own mind

but do we really know much about what

goes on inside that architecture and how

our mind works well philosophers

psychologists and psychiatrists have

been thinking about this for a very long

time people never tire of thinking about

this question about how does the mind

work Who am I what makes me happy what

makes my life worth living now it’s not

a new question as I think it’s not an

original question and yet for each

generation of person who’s born

that’s you and me right now at this

point we’re deeply concerned about that

because our lives matter deeply to us

it’s personal what’s going on in that

architecture that we build it’s our mind

that’s our self is personal it’s private

and we care really deeply about it

now the bad news is that the bonds of

love of being a human being they don’t

last very long after about two and a

half generations you’ll be forgotten I’m

sorry

it’s terrible news really the wheel of

life spin hard and we don’t get to be on

it for very long but then anything makes

it more important how we feel about our

lives and ourselves inside this

architecture of your mind that we create

for ourselves so who else cares about

this well if you think about it this

this living a good life and well-being

could be seen as a continuum of physical

and mental health from minus 10 units to

plus 10 just start to think about where

you might be if there are two sliders

running along on that continuum you’ve

got control both of the sliders say

where you live on them where do you live

a beckon to you on the continuum of

physical health and mental health I’m

not talking about mental and physical

illness by higher that’s maybe minus 10

to minus 4 people do experience that but

that’s not what I’m talking about today

I’m talking about the minus 4 plus 10 of

everyday life for most people in life

and the big population curve what do you

see to moment can you imagine moving

those sliders along does your mental

positioning change alibi hours sometimes

do sometimes wake up in the morning and

the mental structure by me was so heavy

you could barely get your head off the

pillow so just hold that idea about the

sliders were moment if you want to build

your physical health we know a lot about

them there’s good medical systems

available to us if we live in a country

like Australia and we know about that we

should have exercisable should eat well

that’s fairly well known

choose to build your general mental

health from – upon a +10 you can do it

you can do it if you’ve got the

motivation the will the time sometimes a

bit of money helps – but not only money

but mental health is a different thing

we don’t really know so much about how

to cope with mental health it’s not that

man understood

you see most of the research into the

mind and brain has been focused on

building and repairing mental illness so

for the 1 in 5 people who are mentally

ill sitting in the say minus 10 to minus

5 there are things that are available to

be developed out of this research there

are medications you can take there are

doctors you can see psychiatrist you can

talk to there are therapeutic

interventions sometimes like a cognitive

behavioral therapy but not only that

then to the mental illness type of thing

but what I’m most interested in today is

the mental health so the things for all

of us how do you build it what do we

know about it it’s interested in the

World Health Organization is interested

in it and about a couple of generations

ago it started talking about public

health and the started saying the public

health is a state of complete physical

mental and social well-being complete

physical mental and social well-being

not just the absence of illness and

infirmity sometime after them in the

1980s there emerged see change really in

the publishing industry

it was the self-help boom the human

potential movement when it turned out

that a lot of people started to become

quite interested in the inner life

particularly women this was a movement

and a pub

million dollar hospital oh really led by

the purchases of women who had this

started to become very interested in

that inner life in that inner

architecture sometime after that by

about 1998 dr. Martin Seligman who had

been focusing all of his research

generally on mental illness started to

take a keen interest in building mental

health he was joined by a number of

other psychologists and they launched

the movement of positive psychology

it was also moving on this on the

restaurant of emotional work that had

been done by other scientists in the

previous 50 years now one of these

people saw here dr. Sanyal is immerse

people she’s done some work on happiness

yes I have my happiness pie up there

their work show but if you want to if

you want to live a good life if you’re

interested in your happiness then 50% of

people’s general happiness is actually

established and set by the genetic

background there’s really not too much

that you can do about that 10% of it is

really influenced by your situation in

your circumstances and then in a lot of

cases if you can’t do too much about

your situation or circumstances

sometimes you can but often you can’t do

it at all but 40% 40% of the ability to

build happiness in your own life is in

your own control its produced by

intentional activities that you can do

so the thoughts that are walking around

and then architecture of self the

feelings that flow from those thoughts

and the actions that you decide to take

on the basis of their

very important in you and your happiness

and will be across the whole of your

life I was pretty stunned when I came

across that but in fact most of us many

of us when we think about that

architecture it does seem to be quite

that beautiful most people sort of feel

that we sit we citizen why we can’t

change now the science of erode

plasticity suggests that is not true at

all

it says really clearly than the brain

it’s not a computer store machine it’s

actually a bit more like a play don’t

mess with grooves running in it and if

you tip water into the play that map the

water will run on those grooves in a

very predictable way but if you start

making some new grooves in the play no

matter the water will run into new areas

of the playdough net and it turns out

the Play Doh net and the brain has quite

a lot of unused territory so there are

real possibilities about trying new

mental states learning them practicing

them and developing new grooves in the

playdough

length or new pathways in the brain with

which you can build a new architecture

if that’s what you want if that’s going

to improve your life but if you think

about my architecture and I’m thinking

about all of yours is it possible you

think to build the mental health of

everyone it’s one thing for me to

address it inside the privacy of my own

mind I’ve got a reason to want to do

that but what about the whole society

can you do it for a city can you do for

state could you talk for a country can

you build the mental health at scale

well that’s accepting what South

Australia is doing right now

the well-being and resilience centre and

you saw our great building up upon the

image back there a moment ago

who will be resilience

is taking a population health approach

to building mental well-being and

resilience in this South Australian we

were inspired by the business of dr.

Martin Seligman some years ago he came

he only spoke to 14,000 us South

Australians and professionals public

servants community members and he said

you know the science is showing that

well-being is measurable teachable and

learnable you put all those things

together then you can absolutely say

that you can build mental health and

scale and that’s what we’re doing here

we’re measuring and building well-being

of South Australians so how well

silicon’s and others research shows that

well-being is not just one item if you

want to adjust this structure and turn

yourself in the direction of a better

life according to how you define a

better life there are a number of

capacities that you might need to build

or pay attention to so the certain

dashboard of will be comprises the

following things

it’s called permit and it’s his proposed

a measure for wellbeing across a whole

population

his research shows that if you build

your positive emotion you deliberately

build it you try to improve the amount

of positive emotion you have any life if

you build and improve your engagement in

life if you pay attention to your

relationships and make sure that you

keep building those and improving those

if you wonder about what gives your life

meaning and you suddenly become

concerned and interested in that

question and if you also spent a little

time trying to accomplish things from

living a beautiful jumper to doing a

great day’s work playing very good golf

youmu build your permit you will improve

your will be you can do that it’s within

your power to do that for yourself now

we’re also interested in resilience and

the science of resilience is not quite

the same as the science of well-being we

think they need brazilians because we’re

human beings and then the life of the

ordinary human being there is illness

there is loss there is sadness there’s

exclusion there’s trouble and then

there’s dead and we share them that

happens to every one of us there’s no

possible escape from it so it’s normal

actually that we can expect challenges

and problems and that we need to be

prepared to be able to deal with them so

resilience we think is really important

and we also think that physical activity

nutrition and sleep is very important

because after all the brain sits within

the body and there’s plenty of research

which talks about how important physical

health is if you want a good mental

health

so perma plus is our measure and we

started measuring South Australians

we’ve measured about $35,000 so far

without collaborators

we’ve also began looking at and

introducing a train-the-trainer model

because we want to be able to push out

information about well-being and the

science of well-being and resilience

into the community so we’re taking a

distributed network approach we’re

taking a victory project we’re looking

for groups in community and

organizations and workplaces all over

the state and we energize them and

information from the science of positive

psychology and well-being research into

the society that way and so far we are

communicating with and delivering will

bring skills into the whole of the

prison system nearly the whole of the

education system in South Australia

we’re working closely with the whole of

the TAFE system that’s the significant

major group in vocational education

we’re working with many aging

organizations and we’re working in many

different workforces so you can see we

are taking that thing

right and in each case we’re not

interested in delivering programs that

we’ve forgotten we’re interested in

culture change we’re interested in

turning all of our architecture in the

direction of mental health by

introducing more and more people to the

knowledge and the science that can do it

mental health so we take an approach

that’s a little bit like slip slop slap

slip slop slap and that campaign about

skin cancer in the ordinary the science

of how to do that

into the whole population and it’s

entered the culture of Australia that’s

what we want to achieve with mental

health and introducing that knowledge so

as I said we have mentioned 35,000

people we’ve trained over a thousand

people in the skills of positive

psychology and well-being in resilience

science and we have reached over 38,000

people in seminars trainings or lectures

so we’re serious about scale we’re

absolutely serious about scale I’d like

to introduce you to a couple of young

people who’ve been receiving information

about positive education at their school

I find that I treat my friends a lot

better and I pay it forward a lot I use

the power of yet I have a lot of perma I

use mindfulness and I harness my

character strings and normally I would

just freak out and do something else

before positive education came along and

now I’m learning to just can’t my anger

and not take it out on my sisters when I

go home I really think it is brilliant

it’s a brilliant program I think it

should be in every school every I think

they should bring it into workplaces as

well it’s brilliant it’s helped my kids

help me I relate to better to my kids

now and we have a better relationship

now than what we used to so now I think

it’s a brilliant program and I’m really

glad that I did it I’m really glad that

and now Martin Martin’s manufacturer is

in the car industry the car industry is

leaving Australia and we’ve been

introducing resilience training into his

particular organization this is what he

says about the psychological skills that

he’d never heard of before he’d never

come across this information before me

the most important thing is it is

something you can learn it’s not you

don’t have to be born a certain way you

can actually you know learn those skills

doesn’t matter where you’re educated

what your education level is so at any

level you can learn those skills and

they will learn you know help you in

life so these skills and this

information are simply tools to give you

the opportunity to have a think about

that structure of self that University

you that sits over your head

are you happy with your life are you

satisfied with where you’re going

do you like the direction of if you want

to make some modifications it’s really

good to understand that you’re to build

on that architecture and you can have

tools and capabilities to make changes

in that if you choose to now you may

want to do that for yourself but this is

important not just for you this is not

just about the you or me this is about

families who need more resilience and

more strength and better relationships

it’s also about communities who need to

bond together I need to work together to

be safe them content in their

environment

it’s about workforces who need to

respond to digital disruption and the

other pressures belong the economic life

of the society and who need flexibility

and growth mindset and finally it’s

about political units organizations

nations cities etc where people need to

know that their governments care about

the world

of everyone in their mobilization or

their country so this is this

conversation of this building mental

health of scales not just about you it’s

about everyone it’s about the whole

society and we’ve shown that it can be

done and it can be done anywhere by

copying what we’re doing here and we’d

like to see that happen and when I look

around the world and I feel myself to be

part of the 21st century glorious chaos

that’s going on around us it’s about the

only thing I can think of that might

make a difference and that may become

part of the next scaffold to build the

next evolutionary capability of we humans together thank you sir

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