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Empathy in Business | Matthew Gonnering | TEDxMadison


we need empathy and compassion in our

organizations well we must be talking

about a nonprofit organization then

because surely a business doesn’t care

about these things right business is

tough and these things have nothing to

do with making money and that’s the

focus of business isn’t it it’s to make

money I think the focus of business

needs an adjustment it’s been influenced

by economic thought leaders with phrases

like increased shareholder value and

maximize profitability well then why do

some leaders say shareholder value is

the last thing we should focus on what

should we be focused on them we need to

get way out in front of shareholder

value we need to create a structure that

allows human beings to develop to their

fullest potential and in order to

develop to our fullest potential we need

to understand the perspectives of other

people that is empathy we need to be

more empathetic and compassionate with

each other accept culturally our empathy

is declining a 2010 study done by the

University of Michigan revealed that

college students were more empathetic

thirty years ago and that students today

are 40 percent less likely to understand

the perspective of another person and

they’re less likely to have concern for

people who are less fortunate than

themselves these people

are now these people those college

students are in the workforce which

means there’s an increase in the

quantity of people who could really care

less about what you think and we all

know the word for this selfishness right

and if more people are worried about

themselves then we’re placing less value

on our relationships and as we devalue

our relationships were less capable of

seeing the holistic value of another

person and as a result we are not

developing to our fullest potential we

need to bring empathy and compassion

into our business culture but how I know

that study reveals a drop in empathy

overall but it’s it’s not universally

true so let me share with you how we did

this where I work at widen we created a

structure that values the whole person

see most organizations they value one

thing it’s your productivity we

absolutely value your productivity too

but we also value the unique talents

that each individual brings with them

and how they contribute those talents to

our culture because how you build an

appreciation for another person’s by

using professional skills and unique

talents in fact every day people show up

at widen and apply their professional

skills to help our customers and to help

each other but they also apply their

unique talents so let me give you an

example of what this looks like at a

recent customer appreciation event we

hosted over 200 customers in Madison and

we let these unique talents shine

through an advisor on our sales team he

shared his balloon art skills at our

opening reception a customer service

person on our content team he baked

incredible cupcakes for the event

an event planner on our marketing team

she shared her concert hall piano skills

for a video story to people on our color

production team they use their

professional photography skills to

capture the event and our video expert

he shared his musical talents with his

popular band for our evening

entertainment you see the the structure

that we’ve created is what allows these

talents to shine through and I refer to

this as eudaimonia it’s a greek term

from 4th century BC it means happiness

health and prosperity see I don’t even

view my role as the traditional chief

executive officer my job as the CEO is

the chief eudaimonia officer I need to

figure out how to bring the happiness

health and prosperity of all these

individuals together both their

professional skills and their unique

talents because it is the collective

combination of these that creates a

unique wyden experience now the reason I

talk about this structure and I give you

these examples is because this is how we

were able to increase the empathy and

the compassion within our organization

we didn’t go out and buy a book on the

five ways to become more empathetic we

didn’t hire a trainer we didn’t watch a

webinar we needed to find the right

people who had professional skills that

could apply to their day to day

occupational tasks and they had the

unique skills that could teach us

empathy and compassion because how you

build an appreciation for the full value

of another person is by working

alongside those whose perspective is

different than your own so let me

introduce you to a few of the people

that helped make this happen

this is Justin and this is Rob these are

my colleagues and they helped me and

more than a hundred people at widen do

our jobs better because they’re teaching

us how to be more empathetic and

compassionate now I’m not talking about

being sympathetic because they have

developmental disabilities they don’t

need our sympathy we need to appreciate

their professional skills and their

unique talents because it’s different

than our own we need more people with

developmental disabilities in the

workforce I think part of why we have a

decline in empathy overall is because we

haven’t welcomed people with

developmental disabilities what what do

you mean we haven’t welcomed people with

developmental disabilities

well the ugly truth is we have a dark

history of how we’ve treated and how we

continue to treat people with

developmental disabilities

they’ve been institutionalized they’ve

been isolated

they’ve been deemed life unworthy of

life they are sterilized by force and

they are aborted the abortion rate for

children with Down syndrome is 90% 9 out

of every 10 children are aborted and we

wonder why we have a decline in empathy

we’re trying to eradicate an entire

group of people

because it makes us uncomfortable to

have to coexist with people or different

than us no you might think it’s

ridiculous of course we’re welcoming and

accepting of them maybe are we including

them how many of your colleagues have a

developmental disability a few

statistics reveal not many of you an ADD

Vysya peered at the rate of employment

among people with developmental

disabilities is low and it’s remain

unchanged for the last 10 years 15% of

people with developmental disabilities

have a paying job 40% want one but they

don’t have one so it’s time to stop

cheering from the sidelines and calling

it acceptance it’s not good enough this

is your call to get in the game now you

still may wonder how does employing

people with developmental disabilities

increase the empathy and the compassion

in a business culture now I’ll testify

to what has unfolded before these very

eyes but let me share some research

that’s been done on families who have

children with developmental disabilities

to articulate the impact when families

are asked about their experience they

shared that they learn to recognize

strengths in others with greater clarity

they learn to have an increased

acceptance of diversity they learn to

not place limits on what people are

capable of they learn to have a more

positive attitude they learn to have

increased tolerance and compassion to

find excitement in the little things

they learn to strengthen communication

and overall they say they’ve become

what are we talking about families here

are we talking about business because

those sure sound a lot like what every

business is looking for listen to them

again except alongside some company and

job postings I found and a few business

acceptance of diversity not placing

limits on what people are capable of a

more positive attitude increased

compassion and tolerance appreciation

and excitement and the little things

strengthen communication and an overall

improvement in becoming a better person

it is what businesses are looking for

now I can vouch for all these but not as

a parent as an employer I am someone in

the workforce experiencing the same

positive impacts learning the same

things how can I prove it to you though

beyond just this witness measure it by

businesses measure lots of things and we

should continue to measure things so as

to constantly improve but are we

measuring the right things are we

measuring the things that indicate we

are developing people to their fullest

potential we started to better

understand our own empathy and

compassion by measuring things like

dignity and integrity and a variety of

wellness dimensions and what we found

was that an increase across those

measurements tightly correlated with the

start of employing people with

developmental disabilities

another reason to measure though is to

remind us that this is not about doing a

social good the measurements remind us

that something is being given to us so

how do you get started with something

like this let me tell you how we did

this we did two things

the first thing we did is we partnered

with an outstanding community

organization called the community

support network they provide job coaches

and they help bridge the gap between

people with developmental disabilities

and businesses and the second thing we

did is we hired a popcorn manager we

bought a commercial popcorn maker and we

hired the first-ever wyden popcorn

manager Andrew goes round and tallies up

how much popcorn to make pops it bags it

and he delivers it Andrew was the first

of several hires that we made and today

5% of my colleagues have a developmental

disability what if you were to apply the

same percentage to your workforce I’ll

tell you what’ll happen the demand for

people with developmental disabilities

would be more significant than any other

career function we need 7 million people

helping us to combat this disturbing

decline in empathy we need 7 million

people with developmental disabilities

teaching us how to understand the

perspectives of others the problem is

there’s only one point eight million

people available for these 7 million

jobs why don’t we see this demand

represented in the market today we’ve

yet to embrace the value that diversity

provides increasing our understanding of

other people’s perspectives is necessary

for us to advance on our potential this

is our focus you need to experience the

joys of working alongside people with

developmental disabilities we’ve done it and now it’s your turn thank you

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