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Quiet Confidence: Follow the Introverted Leader | Nikki Ling | TEDxYouth@ISBangkok


be a leader not a follower this is

something we’ve been told our entire

lives but what does a leader supposed to

be we see a leader as someone who is

charismatic sociable and outspoken we

live in a world where we revere those

who are talkative and outgoing also

known as extroverts our society has

built up a belief that if we are quiet

and an introvert we will always only be

a follower growing up one of my biggest

fears was parent-teacher conferences no

it wasn’t because I was afraid that my

teachers would complain about my bad

grades rather it was because I dreaded

hearing the phrase your daughter needs

to talk more or she’s too quiet over and

over again I always felt like something

was wrong with me just because I prefer

to listen instead of talk just because I

am an introvert in school we are told

that our introversion is something we

must overcome a weakness an obstacle

that is standing in our way of becoming

a great leader but recently I’ve been

wondering why approximately 50% of the

world’s population are introverts are we

telling 3.5 billion people in the world

that if they want to be a great leader

they must change who they are this is a

belief that is widely based on our

misconceptions of what an introvert is

the dictionary describes an introvert to

be a shy reticent person but in reality

an introvert is not always shy and a shy

person is not always an introvert be

an introvert just means that you

appreciate your time alone and lose

energy when being around others for too

long it also means that you may be

relatively quieter or more reserved this

leads to the notion that introverts

cannot be leaders and that extroverts

are the ideal leaders of the world right

now there is a cultural bias against

introverts in a survey conducted by USA

Today in 2006 65% of senior corporate

executives viewed introversion as a

barrier to leadership only six percent

believe that introversion could actually

be an advantage additionally statistics

show that while only 50% of the world’s

population are extroverts 96% of all

leadership positions in the world are

held by extroverts if we choose to

believe this extrovert ideal but

extroverts are somehow better leaders

been introverts we are saying that

people like Mahatma Gandhi leader of the

movement for India’s independence from

Great Britain was not fit to be a leader

that Douglas Conan Bill Gates Steven

Spielberg and Abraham Lincoln were not

fit to be leaders because every single

person up there on this screen is an

introvert and yet every single one of

them was able to lead others and achieve

something that changed our world for the

better we tend to think of these people

as exceptions to the extrovert ideal

people that were somehow able to

overcome this so-called obstacle of

introversion and achieve greatness for

what we should do is see them as pie

years of the community of introverts who

are paving their way towards becoming

great leaders and breaking the

misconception that extroverts make the

best leaders in fact there are many

qualities of introverts that may make

them even better leaders than extroverts

first according to the frontiers of

human neuroscience Journal introverts

are more responsible and prudent

introverts tend to think through their

decisions more clearly instead of

jumping to rash conclusions extroverts

have a different way of processing

information their brains are more

sensitive to rewards which pushes them

to be more hasty when making decisions

their extraversion pushes them to seek

risks however as a leader it isn’t some

time unfortunately before taking action

because you are not only everyone who is

following you on July 2nd contrary to

popular belief introverts work very well

in groups because they are great

listeners a study by Harvard Business

Review showed that introverted leaders

are better for proactive groups the

researchers studied managers and

employees from a hundred and thirty

pizza companies the results showed that

when a proactive group had an

extroverted leader their profits were

14% lower than average on the other hand

when a proactive group had an

introverted leader their profits were

16% higher than average in this case

having an extroverted leader actually

damaged the success of the pizza

franchise this is because the

introverted leader was able to do

something that the extroverted leader

couldn’t which is to listen

listen to the ideas of the people around

them and listen to improve the success

of the pizza franchise the introverted

leader could then analyze all these

different ideas and thoughts and turn it

into something productive and beneficial

furthermore initial rooms and braiding

solitude and extra credit tend to go and

uncomfortable when being alone for too

long and in seize the company of a large

group of people however according to the

susan mccain author of a quiet a power

of introverts she’s dazed but solitude

is a catalyst to innovation and in the

words of Picasso without great solitude

no serious work can be done because

introverts are comfortable working alone

in addition to working with others this

flexibility in work environment allows

them to think both productively and

creatively in different situations so my

question to you today is why do we

continue believing that extroverts make

the best leaders because that’s the way

it’s always been

it isn’t because that’s what society has

taught us well it’s time to change that

it’s time that we recognize the

strengths of introverts instead of

pushing them to be something they’re not

next time when you’re looking for a

leader don’t look for the loudest voice

look for the person who has the best

ideas and the most level-headed mind and

this may be the quietest person in the

room but it’s time we acknowledge that

leaders come in many different forms

some may be the extroverted leaders we

have known for so long but they may also

be the ones you just labelled a follower

simply because they were more quiet

to the introverts in the room if we join

the whole world in talking who will

listen the world must be a balance of

those who listen and those who talk or

else we would just be a chaos of noise

without understanding and like Gandhi

once said in a gentle way you can shake

the world thank you [Applause]

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