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Learning my Mother’s Mother Tongue | Milind Gandhi | TEDxYouth@ISBangkok


as I sit down to dinner with my parents

and siblings I can usually expect to

find good food a relaxed atmosphere a

few jokes and always yes always

mysterious secrets shot off in

rapid-fire Hindi conversation it’s not

the rapid-fire part that bothers me my

parents could speak Hindi as slow as

they wanted and I still wouldn’t be able

to understand a word and this is

actually quite a normal occurrence for

me as Hindi is my family’s home language

a home language can be defined as a

language most commonly spoken by members

of a family for everyday interactions at

home so Hindi was always heard

especially at every single one of my

extended family’s regular Sunday dinners

together being that I couldn’t speak

Hindi I almost always had to redirect my

attention from my elders who spoke this

incomprehensible language that was alien

to me to my cousins and siblings who

were as comfortable speaking English as

I was most conversations then ended up

with my grandfather with my grandparents

and even in some cases my

great-grandfather being forced to speak

English or Thai in order to communicate

with me

I now realize though that my elders

shouldn’t be the one having to bear this

burden in order to in order to

accommodate me but rather I should be

the one stepping forward and trying to

learn Hindi in order to communicate with

them I started to question though why

don’t I know Hindi

especially as I hear it so often in my

everyday life here are my conclusions

language is the driver of information

and communication technology it is not

only the tool for transmitting this

knowledge and information but it has

made social integration cultural

identity development and sustainability

a reality however with the advent of

globalization languages has become much

more homogenized and linguistic

minorities are slowly but surely

drifting further and further away

from their home cultures and native

tongues my grandfather was one such

immigrant who experienced these effects

of globalization as he escaped the chaos

of the 1947 india-pakistan partition

eventually making his way over to

Thailand where he started a family

raising my father as a first-generation

Thai and me as a second-generation time

my grandfather also set the precedent

for an international based education in

the family by sending my father and his

siblings to an international school my

father though still acquired Hindi as he

was sent to a boarding school in India

for two years when he was very young

being immersed in a completely pure

Indian environment set the perfect

conditions for my father to start

speaking Hindi and my mother was put

into a very similar situation as well I

on the other hand lacked this experience

lack this exposure which is the main

region where I do not speak Hindi today

while I received that while I received

the benefits of an English language

based education my drive for sports and

academics left little to no time for me

to acquire this vital aspect of my

cultural identity but I could speak

English with my family and friends and

my grandparent understood some Thai as

well so to be honest not knowing Hindi

never really troubled me this was until

I attended an Indian family wedding in

which my friend who is approximately the

same age as me was shooting off the same

rapid-fire Hindi with elders who

embraced his skill with pride I was the

only one there who did not know how to

speak Hindi I felt isolated my cultural

experience at the wedding felt ambiguous

I questioned my identity it was then

that I realized that one’s language

especially their home language is not

just a tool for communicating but it is

an axe as an indicator for cultural

identity the relationship between

language and culture is deeply rooted

and one may be able to foster a deeper

connection to

their parents family relatives history

culture and religion do the use of their

home language being unaware of one’s

language culture or history can leave

one with no other option than to seek an

alternate identity but what about in our

classrooms learning in one’s home

language has also been linked to

academic growth as well having a strong

foundation in one’s home language can

contribute to developing stronger

literacy skills and other language

potentially learned at school as a

student can transfer their knowledge and

abilities across languages a study

conducted by the by the George Mason

University found that younger students

who had enrolled in the second language

immersion program often outperform

students who didn’t in coursework

standardized tests and throughout the

scholastic careers basically those who

had the opportunity to learn in their

home language they better than those who

didn’t now embracing one’s home language

is clearly an extremely important issue

but to what extent are our home

languages being represented in everyday

life what is our community especially

one as diverse as is be doing to promote

the use of home language among young

children as we walk through the hallways

entering is B the number of colorful

flags flying above our heads clearly

represents the diversity of the

nationalities of our peers but it wasn’t

until only a few years ago that our

languages were represented as well to

name a particular example there are

approximately 40 different mother

tongues belonging to students at ISB

however in the classrooms most of these

languages are invisible only last year

were Korean and Japanese added as mother

tongue elective courses in the middle

school and the time allocated for

students to learn in the home language

will only increase next year while I

commend ISB for making this important

change more still needs to be done as I

am currently a junior taking the IB

Diploma program

I’m required to take a language other

than English I chose to take Spanish now

I consider myself to be a Thai born

non-hindi speaking Indian who studies in

English and is currently taking a

Spanish class simple right

having taken Spanish for approximately

half a year I saw I started I felt like

I’ve picked up enough to have some small

conversations with my friends but it got

me to think if I can learn Spanish a

language completely unrelated to my

origin and identity why aren’t I

learning why aren’t I learning my home

language after all I have a family full

of teachers waiting for me at home

learning other languages is clearly

beneficial but one shouldn’t forget

about their home language everyone has

the need to belong we need to realize

the importance of staying connected to

our home language as much as possible so

I challenge you to immerse yourselves by

watching movies reading books and

listening to music in your home language

and try to incorporate what you’ve

learned it’s a conversation with their

parents and extended family as well it

is never too late at home I started to

incorporate more and more Hindi into my

life and who knows maybe soon enough

I’ll be able to decipher the mysterious

secrets that my parents are saying

behind my back at the dinner table

I’ve got a hobby hot pan Javad or in other words thank you very much

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