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How to be Mulan | Florence Xiong | TEDxFAUJupiter


once upon a time in a place 7,000 252

miles away

China was a girl she really loved her

family but she didn’t always do things

the proper way one day as was customary

she was sent to go see the matchmaker to

find herself a husband however within a

few minutes she the brash banker

promptly decided that Mulan would never

be married and she was not fit to have a

husband to add to her troubles there was

a war going on in China and her father

who was injured was drafted to be part

of the army one thing led to another and

Mulan found ourselves just as a guy with

training in the Imperial Army now Mulan

is a bit of a tomboy but she isn’t

exactly manly so there are definitely

some struggles along the way however

with a lot of hard work and perseverance

Mulan was able to earn the respect of

her peers and make some new friends in

the battlefields Mulan used her quick

thinking to create an avalanche that

would wipe out most of the hanai army

and then she used her newly learned

fighting skills to protect the Emperor

from Xiang Yu the Hun leader and pretend

saved China from being taken over by the

Huns then she went home with the

Emperor’s medallion and Xiang Yu’s sword

as proof of her success in the army I

don’t know about you guys but Mulan is

my all-time favorite Disney movie right

right so um I believe that even though

it’s just a Disney movie it’s not it

doesn’t mean that there isn’t this

lesson that we can learn from it first

off Mulan saved China she didn’t wait

around for Prince Charming to come and

sweep her off her feet she took matters

into her own hands and then yes thank

you she took matters into her own hands

and saved herself and her comrades but

what else can we learn from Mulan first

you’ll need good advice

Mulan’s didn’t know anything about what

it means to be a guy and she definitely

didn’t know anything about what it takes

to be a soldier in the army you meet

other than the fact that she could

potentially die you know minor detail

luckily for her there were ancestors who

were ghosts in her family shrine that

came up with a plan to spend her help so

that she would be able to get to get out

of the army and to be bringing for

herself back home alive it’s also the

same for me when I have when I see my

long to-do list and everything that I

have to do to get done in a week in a

day I get tunnel vision I starts to

stare at my computer and I do and only

see what’s in front of me however at the

same time that means I don’t eat I don’t

sleep I don’t drink water so technically

I could also type but thankfully for me

I have parents who are much wiser than

me and remind me every day and tell me

Florence you need to eat you need to

sleep and you need to drink water and

you also need to prioritize what you

need to get done in a day so you don’t

go crazy sometimes listening to the

simplest advice is all I really need to

get through a sticky situation and get

through the day

secondly you’ll need good friends lucky

from Mulan she didn’t go to the army

alone she had her family Guardian dragon

moo shu her grandma’s lucky cricket and

her trustworthy horse with her the

entire time throughout the whole movie

the Upson in the good the bad the UPS

the downs the dangerous and the slightly

less dangerous the three of them were

there with her to encourage her and keep

her and keep her going even when she had

lost hope in herself and that’s the same

for me I’ve discovered miles in college

as sometimes I really all I need is a

good encouragement and some moral

support and I can write that paper late

into the night I can study for an exam

that I five minutes ago had no

confidence in passing at all and it’s

because people in like my roommates or

my friends will text me and say hey good

luck on that exam tomorrow and I just

feel so grateful also it really helps

when there’s someone listening to you

rants and vents about your day but in

moderation guys thirdly lastly and most

importantly you’ll need some support

because

the person I am today and the things

that I can do now is because of the

strong foundation built by the people

standing behind me and pushing me

forward encouraging me to do the things

I want to do the thing that isn’t

emphasized a lot in the movie of Mulan

is that Mulan didn’t survive an

avalanche on her own she didn’t scale

the imperial palace by herself she had

help she had people who were ready

willing and able to fight alongside of

her and go with her into danger and help

her and help her defeat the unending me

and accomplished great things because a

leader without any supporters it’s just

a crazy person without in it with an

idea so once upon a time there was a

girl me who had to go to a Scholarship

interview and we got to the part where

we had to talk about our leadership

experiences and love me with how I spent

my time in high school and let me tell

you I was ready I had a five-minute

speech I have developed and perfected

and I was going to pour out all of this

information on to this poor interviewer

but he stopped me short instead he gave

me this quote that really caught me off

guard he said the best leaders are the

ones who can encourage the next

generation and build up their peers when

I decided to go to the Honors College I

knew I was gonna get a great education I

knew I was gonna learn a lot of things

and I was gonna be able to be great

become a great doctor one day however

what I didn’t think about and this Cole

always reminds me every day is that I

can grow and mature even more through

the shared experiences and struggles

that I go through together with my

classmates and my friends and on this

campus so effective leaders are the ones

who don’t let their ideas die with them

but the best leaders out there are the

ones who leave a legacy behind through

the people that they work with who will

pick up the work and finish what they left off thank you

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