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How Hollywood Helped Me ‘Come Out’ | Elena Piech | TEDxIthacaCollege


even though I study media and

communications I was never much of a fan

of watching television growing up in

fact by the time I was 17 I don’t think

I had really watched an entire series

from start to finish

however my lack of interest for

television changed when I realized that

I might like girls instead of viewing

television as a device that related

predictable narratives and easy to see

through plots I found it as a way to

gain meaning and exposure to an entirely

new world of people who were similar to

myself

hi I’m Alanna peach I go to Ithaca

College one of the nation’s most lgbtq+

friendly campuses and for those of you

who might not be aware of the acronym

lgbtq+

includes people who are lesbian gay

bisexual transgender queer and the plus

includes people of other sexualities and

gender identities or people who might be

questioning their own identity aside

from attending classes at Ithaca College

I was born and raised in Northwest

Indiana I’m Mexican I use she/her

pronouns and I myself am queer and even

though I’m giving this talk to you right

now I had an extremely hard time when it

came to coming to terms with my own

sexuality in fact when I was a freshman

in high school I had dated a girl for

three months but I never told anybody

about our relationship and I never told

anyone about our relationship and I

never once questioned my sexuality again

until about four years later now I

didn’t start dating another girl but I

stumbled across a pair of fictional

teens from Texas during my senior year

of high school I found the MTV

television series faking it faking it

tells the story of a me rotten felled

and karma Ashcroft two best friends who

go to high school in the liberal

environment of Austin Texas as the

series progresses

Amy realizes that she might be gay and

as I watch the series I realized that I

might be like Amy I was kind of going

through a similar series of thoughts and

processes she was I was kind of in the

same state of denial and loss and

confusion and so when I was watching

this series I just felt like I had a

character that I could kind of relate to

and after watching faking it I began

searching for other characters with

lesbian and queer characters

and I began searching for these shows

because media is an incredibly powerful

conduit for social change Viktor Evans

writes in a 2007 study with the American

communications Journal that media with

gay characters is more critical for gay

and lesbian youth because unlike racial

and ethnic minorities they’re not

usually born into a family of others

like them and they cannot easily

distinguish gay and lesbian individuals

within society

now I especially resonate with this

quote because growing up in Northwest

Indiana I don’t really know any other

individuals who were queer so by gaining

this media exposure I was really able to

find individuals who were like me and

going through similar experiences elect

myself and that’s not even just my own

story I’ve talked to several other queer

20-somethings who seem to have a similar

experience with media exposure GLAAD is

a non-governmental media monitoring

organization that specializes in

accountability every year GLAAD compiles

this thing called the where we are in TV

report they crunch the numbers to find

the overall representation of LGBTQ plus

characters and racial and ethnic

minorities on television shows primetime

shows cable shows and streaming services

glads been compiling this report for the

past 22 years and it seems like every

year the number of LGBTQ plus

representation gradually increases and

I’d like to think that this

representation has led to more people

feeling comfortable with their own

sexuality in fact according to a recent

accelerating acceptance survey compiled

by GLAAD of 18 to 34 year olds nearly 20

percent identify as being part of the

lgbtq+ community that numbers huge

that’s pretty much one in five Americans

we’re living in what might be considered

as the gayest generation right now and

I’d like to say that we’re part of that

generation thanks to media exposure and

visibility why because media is powerful

in their book media and the American

child social psychologist George

Comstock and Erica Shar point out

several social theories that show how

the media we consume is adolescents

impacts our own development as adults

now their theories are not specific to

lgbtq+ media but based on my experience

and the experience of others that I’ve

talked to I think we can see the power

and impact that this media does have

and so one theory they talk about is

social compare our social cognition

theory and when they talk about this

theory they define it as the media

outweighs other sources in defining

social reality because they not only

broaden what individuals can observe but

constitute experiences often perceived

as more universal and less idiosyncratic

pretty much by having media with queer

characters youth questioning your own

sexuality or gender identity can learn

that these groups exist referring to a

conversation I had with Luca Mauer the

director of Ithaca is very own Center

for LGBTQ education outreach and

services you can’t be what you can’t see

this media exposure shows people that

their identities are valid and once

somebody can recognize that these groups

are valid maybe they can learn how they

might belong with that group so Comstock

and shard defined the theory of social

comparison as individuals make

comparisons between themselves and

others in order to learn about values

and expectations in the culture and they

develop a perception of their legitimate

place within that culture so by having

media with more lgbtq+ characters

individuals can kind of compare

themselves to the people that they’re

seeing on screen and they can see what

it might be like to be part of this

group and they can see how they fit with

this group they can see how they belong

for me when I discovered the character

Amy from faking it I learned what it was

like to be a gay teen and after I

watched faking it I turned for other

series that had queer and lesbian

characters such as Netflix’s orange is

the new black which is about women who

are in an all-female prison or even the

l-word which is about lesbians that live

and work in Los Angeles or even Carmilla

an online web series about a girl who

discovers that her roommate might be a

vampire and also a lesbian and so by

watching these shows I was kind of able

to learn more about my own identity I

was able to learn that it was empowering

to be gay and also that it was okay to

not know who or when to come out this

media brought about conversations that I

would not have been exposed to at home

and even talking about home life media

with queer characters can benefit

viewers who are non LGBTQ plus

identifying its Comstock and Shar called

this cultivation theory they talk about

this theory by saying how exposure to

the consistent themes that mark

television content shapes audience

members views of reality

pretty much television can be a way

where viewers can watch a show and learn

that the environment portrayed on screen

reflects that of the world around them

by having content with more queer

characters people can see how these

identities are valid in that for your

characters are not only on screen but

they’re their neighbors or the person at

the grocery store maybe the person

driving in front of them one of the

biggest and first examples of this might

be the launch of the 1998 television

series Will & Grace Will and Grace is a

show that talks about the fictional

friendship between will Truman a gay man

and grace Adler a straight woman at the

time this show is credited for bringing

gay culture to mainstream audiences and

even looking at the success and impact

of the show when talking about his

support for gay marriage back in 2012

Joe Biden said I think Will and Grace

probably did more to educate the

American public than almost anybody’s

else has done so far and so we can see

the power that comes with media and

especially given times where a political

administration may have a questionable

viewpoint of lgbtq+ rights

I do find comfort in Biden’s

acknowledgment but that’s not to say

that Will and Grace was perfect looking

back at the show nearly 20 years later

from its initial launch we can see how

we’ll might have been portrayed in a way

that wasn’t as progressive as it could

be he seemed almost tailored for an

audience that might be hesitant to

welcome a gay character to their screens

and as a way to accommodate for that

hesitation Will was portrayed in a

quote/unquote safe way he was

stereotypically feminine and he rarely

showed affection to his partner but it’s

not just will looking up until probably

the mid 2020s the majority of media with

queer characters consisted of these

white men who were cisgender

traditionally attractive able-bodied and

from the upper-middle class in reality

these white men only make up a small

portion of the entire lgbtq+ community

when we’re watching media it’s

imperative that we all engage in a

robust critique of who how and why

someone is being brought to the screen

the use of stereotypes or tropes can

oftentimes minimize the complex reality

of what it might mean to be an lgbtq+

person even looking at my media

experience I can see how it was not one

perfect cultural inclusion for me most

of the queer characters that I watched

were all white women

I didn’t relate to them exactly because

I’m a woman who is both queer and also

Hispanic and so when we’re watching

media it’s important that we see that we

have characters who are more

intersectional with different identities

as well it’s great that we do have a

space for LGBTQ plus characters but we

need to make sure that that space is

larger and also that that space includes

LGBTQ plus characters of color or

characters with disabilities or

characters with multiple marginalized

identities and we need this space

because it’s going to bring about more

recognition and exposure overall people

should be able to turn to media as a way

to see themselves and as I sit in my

park classes with other students who are

communication students I realize that we

have the ability to set the tone and the

culture and I’d like to think that we

are more aware of the power that can

come with telling these diverse and

inclusive narratives we have the ability

to create characters that let somebody

watch a show and see themselves for

maybe the complex beautiful or sometimes

messy human being that they are Media is

powerful and media with queer characters

is great because it can show people that

their gender or their sexuality is valid

and that it’s okay to be feeling the way

that they are feeling or to be part of

this group and for me I’m definitely

thankful to have had my moment of

discovery with the character of a me

from faking it

but I’m looking forward to a future

where more individuals and more youth

are able to have their own moments of

discovery thank you [Applause]

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