[Music]
here and if I told you that we have
the opportunity to break the cycle of
violence of our society
and if we can learn from those who
are at the heart of this violence those who
have lived through this cycle and if it was in
prison that was the solution
today I bring you with me in
prison it’s gone I invite you to
start to close your eyes
we first pass the control of
security and identity
we then go through one and then two
then three automatic grids that
snap in a metal sound
strident everything is gray and dreary
we enter a big room and there
there are men
we are in a circle with
captives
the residents of the prison they are all
dressed in blue and you noticed as
me who do not speak against anyone of
same skin color you can
now reopen the eyes it’s a
unique story that I’m going to you
tell the story that brings me to three
years go to jail everyday but
to volunteer in prison it was not about
my to do list
my journey is something else
moving to the united states in napa
valley
when I was 6 years old
total involvement during all my
youth in creating our
family winery of a
great engineering school 1m tickets to
berck the 20 years of professional life
lived in business one in four lives
continents to develop products
innovative as for cancer and
access to it and all this to
positions of responsibility is not everything to
done what leads to the prison is
yet a day of summer 2015
I heard a little voice tell me 20
prison then it came from nowhere
of course I rejected and at the same time the
the more I rejected this absurd idea the
the more I felt snatched by it I did not
could no longer ignore it and having no
idea of how to find myself in prison
I typed on google prison in san diego
and five months later on December 5
2015
the grids of the prison of in our
veins two of the 33 state prisons the
california opens and from my first
exchanges with the residents I feel
quiet at ease like at home and there
my little inner saboteur goes wild
and strives to show me that I am
fallen on the head
he questions just like a
submachine gun but what are you
take what is someone like you
that a powerful pack will do in prison
seriously defeated this day to
help killers of robbers and
rapists and especially the victims in
all that you think of her
and yet it exists deep within
me that fire that peacefully and
Touba tells me go dark
you have a role to play there you will discover
as you move forward and
so I move forward with one foot
the other
I’m going to prison in our veins
three times a week I created anime
several programs
I even have the idea to organize tedx
you realize
every year a hundred people buy
tickets like you to spend the
day in jail she live a day
intervention and exchange with 100
men in blue all organized by a
team of fifteen residents and realized
with the help of 70 volunteer residents
additional and as and when
my visits to our veins I realize
that behind almost every violent act
there is a unique history of humans
caught in the violence I understand little
to small as each life story for
have a brand new end I’m starting
to glimpse the crazy idea that to break up
the cycle of violence in our society
these residents are the best placed
let’s first look at how does this work
societal cycle of violence he leaves
finally people
mired in so have a lot of trouble
to extract
even when they have the desire to take
two young people for example john is the eldest
seven children
his daily life is only violence abuse
his father’s hatred and contempt for
his drugged mother a gun passed on the
tempe by a neighbor without family love
john reach a gang and to be
recognized in this gang he commits acts
violent at the age of 19 john is
sentenced to life in prison
he is told that he was irretrievable and
will die in jail in prison
violence continues alcohol drugs gang
violent age dagger
today john is 42 years old and his son has
already made several laps in center of
juvenile detention with history
from john and many others I understood
that injured people hurt the
violent and violent people like
the men say in blue the violence
repeatedly created a disconnect with
humanity and then it’s simple to
to go after it so that was it
was disconnected humanity and so they
had to reconnect but how
to find that he finds in themselves
a reason for being
first in our veins we
work with motivated residents
to get out of their destructive journey
this work only works if they do
themselves that choice because they require
will vulnerability and courage
and then we apply the recipe
mayonnaise
you know her the recipe we take
mustard eggs and oil
that one goes up in a bowl without
stop until it becomes a
delicious emulsion
so every time we find ourselves
in a circle with the men in blue
apply five ingredients 1 listening
without expectation and judgment
2 a secure workspace in uniform
by an uncompromising setting 3 a
total accountability 40 places and
residing in the heart of almost all
decisions
4 unlocking their creativity
existing and 5 a relationship
with each other for and discoveries friendly
and from there follows dialogue after
understanding relationship and finally
connection and as for the mayonnaise
mixed five ingredients with one
permanent presence without stopping
this job takes time is
intensely personal so you keep
the rhythm and then the magic
transformational takes this magic
was at first
transformation of the samuel person into
is a good example
every young samuel decrees to want to be
criminal this life choice brings him a
first time in prison he participates in
rehabilitation programs
he abandons his criminal behavior
he is coming out of prison
but 50 days later he’s back
in prison this time with a sentence to
life
there I select samuel with nine
other residents to be part of the
first organizing team of tedx on
apply our mayonnaise stage and
as the preparation of the
tedx i saw samuel before the
vulnerability and the courage to look
opposite his own violence
he traversed he used to
make her mayonnaise
during his first incarceration
samuel was able to comply with the framework
disciplinary and during his second there
has been able to reconnect with himself and
the humanity of killers in a gang
samuel became benevolent and
positive these darkest moments of
his bare back light source and
today residents consider it
that in major of big brother models and
the guards recognize it as
someone right like an i someday
curious to understand the difference
between those two stays in prison him
ask the question how did you also
quickly lost the behaviors
positive that you had acquired during his
first incarceration
his answer is direct
it’s simple I did not know who
was throwing this individual transformation
is already a great victory and she
is just the beginning
that is what results from it
marveled and this is where I
discovered a unique solution for
break the societal cycle of violence
here’s scott out of jail after fifteen
years is determined to create his dream
a taekwondo dojo to teach
young people at risk
the lessons that he had not received
children shortly after being released from prison
a car dealer offers him a
seller’s job and at the end of the first
month he is named seller of the month the
second month seller of the month the
third month seller of the month and that
continues until the ninth month when a
investor touched by his vision and his
determination offers to support scott
with the $ 25,000 needed for
launch his dojo today scott
works with 60 at- risk youth
daily their teachers the
rules of taekwondo as well as rules
of the virtuous and samuel and scott are only
no isolated cases
these are the friends where is the real
magic it’s this positive contagion that
I like named the butterfly effect when
our programs
residents discover why and
how they were caught by the cycle of
violence
many are the ones I saw
lights up and men who have lived
twenty thirty forty years of violence in
discover their inner beauty and the
bam light springs seven sister funds
then share this gift with their
children and their family first and then
with the leash of other residents this
butterfly effect even win the guardians
and it goes even further
these residents sharing then offers a
new way for young people at risk
they are motivated because they have lived the
same childhood
they know how to talk to them and become
their best mentor they understand the
dynamics of violence such as me
I can never understand it and a
once launched a possible to stop them
they have positive ideas for all and
their ideas are always going for far
seems so absurd
and that’s the truth I live at
daily alas for me it becomes
clear those who are at the source of the
problem of violence are also at
heart of the solution
and yes when they reconnects to
humanity the people that society
had dismissed as inhuman becomes
a solution to break the cycle
societal of violence today my
little saboteur wakes up again
sometimes but the answers I have them in
October 2017
I put aside my ambitions
professionals to found a session
a non-profit organization
called shine inside what will be due
pretty much like shine on the inside
which offers in our veins five
programs as well as a program of
reintegration outside because sesame in
blue and less taught to me three
principles
firstly they can if they
wish
write a whole new end to their
life story of each of them possesses
a unique brilliance at the bottom 2 and 3 they
can become a powerful solution
for basque to create switch to a
virtuous cycle reducing violence and
the number of victims is yes indeed
even CEOs and business leaders
are interested in creating its
performing teams
they come to the prison meet the
residents live this job and are
amazed they also talk about their
own metamorphosis as well as an effect
butterfly applied to their
business
one day a resident tells me but mariette
these ingredients that we talk about all
time
well he also works at work in
our relationships in entourage
conflict everything
and yes in our jobs at home and
in our relationships
it’s also possible to go from one
cycle of violence a cycle of peace you
remember ingredients to do
a good mayonnaise and listen well
you offer yourself a solid framework for
free your mind do you see
responsible for your choices and their
consequences have actively created your
new reality
connect to yourself and finally
accepted that this is a continuous work
let’s go back to the circle with the men in
blue I invite you again to close
your eyes what do you see
men of different origins
share and exchange
communities combined
you see the courage they express
every day to stay true to
their essence find you feel the
dignity respect and love in them
you see that they can actually
to be at the heart of the solution
some were judged monsters
today you see men here
what does the power of this
inner freedom find then
now reopen and your eyes I’ll you
thank
[Music]
here and if I told you that we have
the opportunity to break the cycle of
violence of our society
and if we can learn from those who
are at the heart of this violence those who
have lived through this cycle and if it was in
prison that was the solution
today I bring you with me in
prison it’s gone I invite you to
start to close your eyes
we first pass the control of
security and identity
we then go through one and then two
then three automatic grids that
snap in a metal sound
strident everything is gray and dreary
we enter a big room and there
there are men
we are in a circle with
captives
the residents of the prison they are all
dressed in blue and you noticed as
me who do not speak against anyone of
same skin color you can
now reopen the eyes it’s a
unique story that I’m going to you
tell the story that brings me to three
years go to jail everyday but
to volunteer in prison it was not about
my to do list
my journey is something else
moving to the united states in napa
valley
when I was 6 years old
total involvement during all my
youth in creating our
family winery of a
great engineering school 1m tickets to
berck the 20 years of professional life
lived in business one in four lives
continents to develop products
innovative as for cancer and
access to it and all this to
positions of responsibility is not everything to
done what leads to the prison is
yet a day of summer 2015
I heard a little voice tell me 20
prison then it came from nowhere
of course I rejected and at the same time the
the more I rejected this absurd idea the
the more I felt snatched by it I did not
could no longer ignore it and having no
idea of how to find myself in prison
I typed on google prison in san diego
and five months later on December 5
2015
the grids of the prison of in our
veins two of the 33 state prisons the
california opens and from my first
exchanges with the residents I feel
quiet at ease like at home and there
my little inner saboteur goes wild
and strives to show me that I am
fallen on the head
he questions just like a
submachine gun but what are you
take what is someone like you
that a powerful pack will do in prison
seriously defeated this day to
help killers of robbers and
rapists and especially the victims in
all that you think of her
and yet it exists deep within
me that fire that peacefully and
Touba tells me go dark
you have a role to play there you will discover
as you move forward and
so I move forward with one foot
the other
I’m going to prison in our veins
three times a week I created anime
several programs
I even have the idea to organize tedx
you realize
every year a hundred people buy
tickets like you to spend the
day in jail she live a day
intervention and exchange with 100
men in blue all organized by a
team of fifteen residents and realized
with the help of 70 volunteer residents
additional and as and when
my visits to our veins I realize
that behind almost every violent act
there is a unique history of humans
caught in the violence I understand little
to small as each life story for
have a brand new end I’m starting
to glimpse the crazy idea that to break up
the cycle of violence in our society
these residents are the best placed
let’s first look at how does this work
societal cycle of violence he leaves
finally people
mired in so have a lot of trouble
to extract
even when they have the desire to take
two young people for example john is the eldest
seven children
his daily life is only violence abuse
his father’s hatred and contempt for
his drugged mother a gun passed on the
tempe by a neighbor without family love
john reach a gang and to be
recognized in this gang he commits acts
violent at the age of 19 john is
sentenced to life in prison
he is told that he was irretrievable and
will die in jail in prison
violence continues alcohol drugs gang
violent age dagger
today john is 42 years old and his son has
already made several laps in center of
juvenile detention with history
from john and many others I understood
that injured people hurt the
violent and violent people like
the men say in blue the violence
repeatedly created a disconnect with
humanity and then it’s simple to
to go after it so that was it
was disconnected humanity and so they
had to reconnect but how
to find that he finds in themselves
a reason for being
first in our veins we
work with motivated residents
to get out of their destructive journey
this work only works if they do
themselves that choice because they require
will vulnerability and courage
and then we apply the recipe
mayonnaise
you know her the recipe we take
mustard eggs and oil
that one goes up in a bowl without
stop until it becomes a
delicious emulsion
so every time we find ourselves
in a circle with the men in blue
apply five ingredients 1 listening
without expectation and judgment
2 a secure workspace in uniform
by an uncompromising setting 3 a
total accountability 40 places and
residing in the heart of almost all
decisions
4 unlocking their creativity
existing and 5 a relationship
with each other for and discoveries friendly
and from there follows dialogue after
understanding relationship and finally
connection and as for the mayonnaise
mixed five ingredients with one
permanent presence without stopping
this job takes time is
intensely personal so you keep
the rhythm and then the magic
transformational takes this magic
was at first
transformation of the samuel person into
is a good example
every young samuel decrees to want to be
criminal this life choice brings him a
first time in prison he participates in
rehabilitation programs
he abandons his criminal behavior
he is coming out of prison
but 50 days later he’s back
in prison this time with a sentence to
life
there I select samuel with nine
other residents to be part of the
first organizing team of tedx on
apply our mayonnaise stage and
as the preparation of the
tedx i saw samuel before the
vulnerability and the courage to look
opposite his own violence
he traversed he used to
make her mayonnaise
during his first incarceration
samuel was able to comply with the framework
disciplinary and during his second there
has been able to reconnect with himself and
the humanity of killers in a gang
samuel became benevolent and
positive these darkest moments of
his bare back light source and
today residents consider it
that in major of big brother models and
the guards recognize it as
someone right like an i someday
curious to understand the difference
between those two stays in prison him
ask the question how did you also
quickly lost the behaviors
positive that you had acquired during his
first incarceration
his answer is direct
it’s simple I did not know who
was throwing this individual transformation
is already a great victory and she
is just the beginning
that is what results from it
marveled and this is where I
discovered a unique solution for
break the societal cycle of violence
here’s scott out of jail after fifteen
years is determined to create his dream
a taekwondo dojo to teach
young people at risk
the lessons that he had not received
children shortly after being released from prison
a car dealer offers him a
seller’s job and at the end of the first
month he is named seller of the month the
second month seller of the month the
third month seller of the month and that
continues until the ninth month when a
investor touched by his vision and his
determination offers to support scott
with the $ 25,000 needed for
launch his dojo today scott
works with 60 at- risk youth
daily their teachers the
rules of taekwondo as well as rules
of the virtuous and samuel and scott are only
no isolated cases
these are the friends where is the real
magic it’s this positive contagion that
I like named the butterfly effect when
our programs
residents discover why and
how they were caught by the cycle of
violence
many are the ones I saw
lights up and men who have lived
twenty thirty forty years of violence in
discover their inner beauty and the
bam light springs seven sister funds
then share this gift with their
children and their family first and then
with the leash of other residents this
butterfly effect even win the guardians
and it goes even further
these residents sharing then offers a
new way for young people at risk
they are motivated because they have lived the
same childhood
they know how to talk to them and become
their best mentor they understand the
dynamics of violence such as me
I can never understand it and a
once launched a possible to stop them
they have positive ideas for all and
their ideas are always going for far
seems so absurd
and that’s the truth I live at
daily alas for me it becomes
clear those who are at the source of the
problem of violence are also at
heart of the solution
and yes when they reconnects to
humanity the people that society
had dismissed as inhuman becomes
a solution to break the cycle
societal of violence today my
little saboteur wakes up again
sometimes but the answers I have them in
October 2017
I put aside my ambitions
professionals to found a session
a non-profit organization
called shine inside what will be due
pretty much like shine on the inside
which offers in our veins five
programs as well as a program of
reintegration outside because sesame in
blue and less taught to me three
principles
firstly they can if they
wish
write a whole new end to their
life story of each of them possesses
a unique brilliance at the bottom 2 and 3 they
can become a powerful solution
for basque to create switch to a
virtuous cycle reducing violence and
the number of victims is yes indeed
even CEOs and business leaders
are interested in creating its
performing teams
they come to the prison meet the
residents live this job and are
amazed they also talk about their
own metamorphosis as well as an effect
butterfly applied to their
business
one day a resident tells me but mariette
these ingredients that we talk about all
time
well he also works at work in
our relationships in entourage
conflict everything
and yes in our jobs at home and
in our relationships
it’s also possible to go from one
cycle of violence a cycle of peace you
remember ingredients to do
a good mayonnaise and listen well
you offer yourself a solid framework for
free your mind do you see
responsible for your choices and their
consequences have actively created your
new reality
connect to yourself and finally
accepted that this is a continuous work
let’s go back to the circle with the men in
blue I invite you again to close
your eyes what do you see
men of different origins
share and exchange
communities combined
you see the courage they express
every day to stay true to
their essence find you feel the
dignity respect and love in them
you see that they can actually
to be at the heart of the solution
some were judged monsters
today you see men here
what does the power of this
inner freedom find then
now reopen and your eyes I’ll you
thank
[Music]
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