[Music]
ah I wanted to tell a story that I
I spent my childhood on the farm
my parents had a horse farm
and I could get close to them has always been
very enjoyable for me it is on the farm
and horses to be
so what I’m going to tell the horses
now it makes a lot of sense to me
I often went forth valga
up early with 56 years my mother me
told and I returned at night and she
He spoke but where was working
so for me this story I
count makes sense pain traditional
Sleep was done by spanking
hit and submit the horse
I saw a ted talks I do not know if the
maria dalva are here today you me
deep breath
it speaks of rational taming which is a
one made by the partnership and
affection and trust between achievement
horse and rider
she speaks a sentence in her lecture
It is intended to tame horses
I took myself is that by
magic she managed to tame himself
for horses same tame
I’ll introduce magic now she
made or that the image that we will do
with our children there is no magic
the magic is in practice in caring for
ourselves and educate ourselves and train
because our emotions from us
from our care we can
take care of our children how to start
I want to talk about three points of
method a first step is
learn to be firm and gentle at the same
time with our children is not
easy
the second step which tools
communication that we have to
able to be firm and gentle
at critical times and the third is
when all else fails I
do is I like to think that
They refer people at the same time it’s like
we were a technical
technical knowledge and he has a
You want to pass that knowledge for a
apprentice a horse a child by a
sportsman
besides knowing the knowledge he knows
how to pass that knowledge
it has a communication he
communicating appropriately with
appropriate language for each type of
apprentice
a child of three years is different
a 10 year old and our
Communication has to be different
I’m seeing has many little babies here
0 years one communication is different
ten years
the coach is clear communication
he says exactly what he wants his
step
if I take my daughter three years
his mother of twin
luísa antónio who has three years I
pick up my daughter and tell her we
store toys
she will have
she will get up and will keep
toys because I clearly told the
I want now I say the same
thing
do not let their toys then I
I am not giving a three girl
years what she should do what is very
different
she does not have it ready within it
often a 12 year old boy
I should have done it within himself
It has and continues leaving the towel
wet on the bed and this can be
a conflict at home then
clear communication at that time as
I would say to her stepson 13 years johan
put your wet towel in the bathroom
nonreactive I’ll tell a story
when I was nine I did think
Olympic from 9 to 14
I had a coach that I liked
much of it and he thought he was now
firm and gentle with me
gymnastics was not a sport
easy for me was very demanding in
a challenge
had many years I had
too scared to do and he said do it
so I practiced I wandered
he repeated I practiced I wandered
he repeated I practiced and I wandered
this was repeated many times and I never
he felt angry with me because I
I messed up
the same way we get angry
when the towel on the bed or
when the toys are all
scattered as it is trying to hit this
looking realizes we can have
a firm and gentle look but is not
easy in after a hundred times you speak
but I guarantee that is more productive and
more efficient than I yell door
the dinner hour room and out and I
to table
ten minutes later I’ll tell you time
dinner
test again and when back ever cry
dinner time I have spoken to us
could be clearer and more efficient
in expressing themselves because it stresses me
You have to speak five times
I hear several mothers saying the same
thing you go to the person you
otherwise communicates
remember I will speak of the tools
we have more
remember that you can get close
that person touches for that person is a
child
we are talking about children and another on
ipad the phone is involved I spoke
three times on the door I called you
arrives puts his hand on the shoulder and speaks to
dinner time
then you can get mad afterwards because
he did not answer
then the voice of the people is a
tools and grandparents we can talk
high low surratt we have to
remember that silence can communicate
a lot of things
the way we talk is the way
we listen today to talk more
is the voice we have to put
because we can talk about many
low or high ways
this is a nuance with the body and
soul a dance around like ballet of
Navy teaches how to get as
set this entry with this child
more than knowing the way I wanted
leave with you today that you take
which consciousness is the serious tone or
acute or the voice of his son you
irritates
I know what pisses me there’s named
there is
this will making me so nervous I
I have tried to avoid getting nervous
Beer I’m talking about me and right
not the child and how I can
communicate to her that she is
troubling because this later
this cry I go to aa acer would
me down
and I say you are mediating was
bothering
we will try to change the timbre is me
very troubling
sometimes it works but with my son
he would much I say we will be more
firm
we put a captain’s voice
america brings the voice of the leg and the hulk
earring otherwise but I do not want
to hear is sown and shout with them
three years or even 10 and talk
comes screaming to weaken this good
is the maximum that is love love when
you talk to your child to scream
screaming is sensational but how
be aware to get near the
his son screaming and you talk comes
It is too high it hurts my ear
not to mention low
button is not once in tone
let’s make a princess voice invent
things because I do not want to hear
that noise
I do not know if you could say that I changed
focus I do not want to hear I do not
I want to be sá
then how will I communicate here in
for
look let’s remember that look can
host is a nuisance that I think
the technician does so he receives no
able to make a right exercise
I can not make us do not have that
We lost it find it so
difficult for a child awaiting the
toy is every night I tell her
I have to keep toy
but we can have a better look and
welcome to look also host wants
say no I stand firm in this kind
look and touch the body
our body is higher than the
children we’re talking about
let’s use because it can stay that
size and his son to carry on his lap
then at that time you come around
you use the arm you hold me
I can speak with a touch mad holding
but gentle right I can the child
runs through the house I can get
close and hold and talk at the time of
lunch
otherwise the words the word I
use can be soft can be aggressive
It may be vague
let’s have lunch I tell my daughter
let’s have lunch three years is
playing
not I do not I asked so I say
firm at lunch
I do not want to happen in my house
I do not think that my house is but say
I have it on the head all the time
how can I communicate
here I do not do any good stress
shouted let’s you’ve talked luisa
No use getting easier
close to her and hold her because small
I use my body and I take her to the show
good then ok’re right
already said it works the same kind
time is easy
learned and we will do that we already
voiceless look
the current direction changes its look and is
and it is easy
let’s face it can not really be
firm gentle at the same time and time
all people leave a valve
escape we need is to understand that
We are a technical as I think
I go home I came here now I
I came here wearing a persona I
I’m here
lecturing to you then come to
home when I go home I Wear
Mother Hats
so I do not think it is
going on and I do not have a function
I have a function , but can not really
do the same time
then before we do this
because it makes you want to do this if
removes the tada dramatic event or
until you give account on another day
another time but you are not well
you withdraw at least be breathing
going to the bathroom
if you have someone at home and you call
asks for help
how do you restore your
bathroom you back with another energy
because you’ve heard here today that is
all too easy I told you so
They will come back with that firm energy and
gentle at the same time for the child
you’re willing to take on
wall
it is logical that it will not work all
times and it is logical and will fail and
I’ll scream I’ve ever done for
scream I’ve done and still do to
often but when I do I speak
not something is wrong it does not
do and I go back and I call
help or I’m going to the bathroom
breather
and I go back with another energy that the action
scene can is happening the same but
I’m against power
then we came back but ach someone finds
your help to make a community network
help call the mother parrot
parakeet alligator who can friend
who has son also where she gets
his son could be done with the other
the bar who can not walk are help
gives to be a good mother without help
and here I want to leave you me
with luísa that antônio mt three days
14 because they are not in the maternity and
I really believe that we care
the people we can take better care
our children
[Applause]
ah I wanted to tell a story that I
I spent my childhood on the farm
my parents had a horse farm
and I could get close to them has always been
very enjoyable for me it is on the farm
and horses to be
so what I’m going to tell the horses
now it makes a lot of sense to me
I often went forth valga
up early with 56 years my mother me
told and I returned at night and she
He spoke but where was working
so for me this story I
count makes sense pain traditional
Sleep was done by spanking
hit and submit the horse
I saw a ted talks I do not know if the
maria dalva are here today you me
deep breath
it speaks of rational taming which is a
one made by the partnership and
affection and trust between achievement
horse and rider
she speaks a sentence in her lecture
It is intended to tame horses
I took myself is that by
magic she managed to tame himself
for horses same tame
I’ll introduce magic now she
made or that the image that we will do
with our children there is no magic
the magic is in practice in caring for
ourselves and educate ourselves and train
because our emotions from us
from our care we can
take care of our children how to start
I want to talk about three points of
method a first step is
learn to be firm and gentle at the same
time with our children is not
easy
the second step which tools
communication that we have to
able to be firm and gentle
at critical times and the third is
when all else fails I
do is I like to think that
They refer people at the same time it’s like
we were a technical
technical knowledge and he has a
You want to pass that knowledge for a
apprentice a horse a child by a
sportsman
besides knowing the knowledge he knows
how to pass that knowledge
it has a communication he
communicating appropriately with
appropriate language for each type of
apprentice
a child of three years is different
a 10 year old and our
Communication has to be different
I’m seeing has many little babies here
0 years one communication is different
ten years
the coach is clear communication
he says exactly what he wants his
step
if I take my daughter three years
his mother of twin
luísa antónio who has three years I
pick up my daughter and tell her we
store toys
she will have
she will get up and will keep
toys because I clearly told the
I want now I say the same
thing
do not let their toys then I
I am not giving a three girl
years what she should do what is very
different
she does not have it ready within it
often a 12 year old boy
I should have done it within himself
It has and continues leaving the towel
wet on the bed and this can be
a conflict at home then
clear communication at that time as
I would say to her stepson 13 years johan
put your wet towel in the bathroom
nonreactive I’ll tell a story
when I was nine I did think
Olympic from 9 to 14
I had a coach that I liked
much of it and he thought he was now
firm and gentle with me
gymnastics was not a sport
easy for me was very demanding in
a challenge
had many years I had
too scared to do and he said do it
so I practiced I wandered
he repeated I practiced I wandered
he repeated I practiced and I wandered
this was repeated many times and I never
he felt angry with me because I
I messed up
the same way we get angry
when the towel on the bed or
when the toys are all
scattered as it is trying to hit this
looking realizes we can have
a firm and gentle look but is not
easy in after a hundred times you speak
but I guarantee that is more productive and
more efficient than I yell door
the dinner hour room and out and I
to table
ten minutes later I’ll tell you time
dinner
test again and when back ever cry
dinner time I have spoken to us
could be clearer and more efficient
in expressing themselves because it stresses me
You have to speak five times
I hear several mothers saying the same
thing you go to the person you
otherwise communicates
remember I will speak of the tools
we have more
remember that you can get close
that person touches for that person is a
child
we are talking about children and another on
ipad the phone is involved I spoke
three times on the door I called you
arrives puts his hand on the shoulder and speaks to
dinner time
then you can get mad afterwards because
he did not answer
then the voice of the people is a
tools and grandparents we can talk
high low surratt we have to
remember that silence can communicate
a lot of things
the way we talk is the way
we listen today to talk more
is the voice we have to put
because we can talk about many
low or high ways
this is a nuance with the body and
soul a dance around like ballet of
Navy teaches how to get as
set this entry with this child
more than knowing the way I wanted
leave with you today that you take
which consciousness is the serious tone or
acute or the voice of his son you
irritates
I know what pisses me there’s named
there is
this will making me so nervous I
I have tried to avoid getting nervous
Beer I’m talking about me and right
not the child and how I can
communicate to her that she is
troubling because this later
this cry I go to aa acer would
me down
and I say you are mediating was
bothering
we will try to change the timbre is me
very troubling
sometimes it works but with my son
he would much I say we will be more
firm
we put a captain’s voice
america brings the voice of the leg and the hulk
earring otherwise but I do not want
to hear is sown and shout with them
three years or even 10 and talk
comes screaming to weaken this good
is the maximum that is love love when
you talk to your child to scream
screaming is sensational but how
be aware to get near the
his son screaming and you talk comes
It is too high it hurts my ear
not to mention low
button is not once in tone
let’s make a princess voice invent
things because I do not want to hear
that noise
I do not know if you could say that I changed
focus I do not want to hear I do not
I want to be sá
then how will I communicate here in
for
look let’s remember that look can
host is a nuisance that I think
the technician does so he receives no
able to make a right exercise
I can not make us do not have that
We lost it find it so
difficult for a child awaiting the
toy is every night I tell her
I have to keep toy
but we can have a better look and
welcome to look also host wants
say no I stand firm in this kind
look and touch the body
our body is higher than the
children we’re talking about
let’s use because it can stay that
size and his son to carry on his lap
then at that time you come around
you use the arm you hold me
I can speak with a touch mad holding
but gentle right I can the child
runs through the house I can get
close and hold and talk at the time of
lunch
otherwise the words the word I
use can be soft can be aggressive
It may be vague
let’s have lunch I tell my daughter
let’s have lunch three years is
playing
not I do not I asked so I say
firm at lunch
I do not want to happen in my house
I do not think that my house is but say
I have it on the head all the time
how can I communicate
here I do not do any good stress
shouted let’s you’ve talked luisa
No use getting easier
close to her and hold her because small
I use my body and I take her to the show
good then ok’re right
already said it works the same kind
time is easy
learned and we will do that we already
voiceless look
the current direction changes its look and is
and it is easy
let’s face it can not really be
firm gentle at the same time and time
all people leave a valve
escape we need is to understand that
We are a technical as I think
I go home I came here now I
I came here wearing a persona I
I’m here
lecturing to you then come to
home when I go home I Wear
Mother Hats
so I do not think it is
going on and I do not have a function
I have a function , but can not really
do the same time
then before we do this
because it makes you want to do this if
removes the tada dramatic event or
until you give account on another day
another time but you are not well
you withdraw at least be breathing
going to the bathroom
if you have someone at home and you call
asks for help
how do you restore your
bathroom you back with another energy
because you’ve heard here today that is
all too easy I told you so
They will come back with that firm energy and
gentle at the same time for the child
you’re willing to take on
wall
it is logical that it will not work all
times and it is logical and will fail and
I’ll scream I’ve ever done for
scream I’ve done and still do to
often but when I do I speak
not something is wrong it does not
do and I go back and I call
help or I’m going to the bathroom
breather
and I go back with another energy that the action
scene can is happening the same but
I’m against power
then we came back but ach someone finds
your help to make a community network
help call the mother parrot
parakeet alligator who can friend
who has son also where she gets
his son could be done with the other
the bar who can not walk are help
gives to be a good mother without help
and here I want to leave you me
with luísa that antônio mt three days
14 because they are not in the maternity and
I really believe that we care
the people we can take better care
our children
[Applause]
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