I was addicted to pornography this thing
has become a problem I think it’s a
worldwide problem but Ranade feed it
really really messed up my life in a lot
of ways if day turns into night and you
are still watching you probably got a
problem 70% of the Internet traffic is
pornography what has happened to us
[Music]
regularly watching internet pornography
can cripple your self-confidence and
prevent you from having sex with and
developing healthy relationships with
real women let’s get started by going
over the top 3 negative side effects and
then after that I’ll give you the 3
steps to actually quitting porn and
breaking the habit the first negative
side effect I want to go over is the
most devastating of all it is that
watching internet porn can lead to
erectile dysfunction when you regularly
watch internet porn you get used to
getting aroused by watching certain
types of scenes and watching certain
types of girls that you find attractive
and over time the more and more that you
watch internet porn the more and more
that’s sort of the way that your body
and your brain get aroused get tied to
the specific type of porn that you watch
and then what happens is when you find
yourself in bed with a real girl it’s a
lot different than watching porn most
real girls don’t look like porn stars
and that’s not a bad thing it’s just
different on top of that in porn there’s
all this perfect lighting that is being
used there are these sort of weird
elaborate stories that are used as part
of the porn and porn is even filmed
using strategic camera angles that sort
of can intensify the experience and all
of these things can combine to prevent
you from getting aroused and prevent you
from getting hard when you’re with a
real girl
the second negative side effect I want
to go over is that watching porn will
reduce your motivation to actually go
out and meet and date and have sex with
real women and this happens because when
you regularly watch internet porn and
you get used to going home and jerking
off to release the sexual tension inside
of your body then you sort of almost
develop a long-term relationship with
porn and you just get used to getting
off and releasing that sexual tension by
watching porn rather than by pursuing
real women the third and final negative
side effect I want to go over is that
watching porn will cause you to put
women and to put sex on a pedestal
after you watch hundreds and hundreds of
porn scenes the actual act of sex can
seem more like an imaginary concept than
actual a real thing that people do and
this is going to make you put it on a
pedestal and make you treat it as some
imaginary thing out of reach of your
reality and it’s not part of your actual
life it’s just something you watch on a
screen and so all of these negative side
effects and trust me there are more of
them that I don’t want to discuss in
this video but they all combine to hurt
your sexual confidence and hurt your
self-confidence in regards to women and
that’s ultimately going to prevent you
from having real-life opportunities with
women and enjoying having actual sex
with women in your life and not just sex
but developing authentic healthy
relationships with women so now that we
went over the negative side effects
let’s switch gears and talk about how to
actually quit porn the first step and I
think this is the most crucial step and
the best technique you can use to quit
any bad habit and that is to tell one of
your friends that you are trying to quit
porn and to tell them that if you slip
up a new jerk off to porn that you’ll
give them a hundred dollars or if that’s
too much money for you then maybe make
it twenty dollars and this works so well
for three main reasons the first reason
is that porn tends to be something that
we are sort of ashamed of so when you
share this with someone else that it’s
something that you’re trying to quit
it’s actually going to relieve a lot of
the shame that you have associated with
watching porn when that sense of shame
so
goes way after you’ve shared this with
someone it’s going to make it a lot
easier to actually follow through and
quit porn the second reason is the
obvious one and that’s because it’s
accountability it brings accountability
into you trying to quit this and you’re
not just accountable to yourself anymore
but you’re actually accountable to your
friends and the third and final reason
this works so well is because of the
fear of loss of money obviously we don’t
want to lose money so knowing that if I
jerk off right now it’s going to cost me
hundred dollars that’s going to
straight-up prevent most people from
slipping up and doing it
the key here is to find a friend or a
family member that you trust and you
don’t feel so intimidated to share this
with them and the other key is to tell
them to check on you every couple of
weeks to make sure that you are actually
following through
so the second technique that we’re going
to go over is to get away from your
computer when urge comes along and you
feel you’re about to slip up and to
watch porn simply leave your house and
go for a walk or call up a friend and
meet up with a friend because the fact
of the matter is that you watch porn on
your computer so if you get away from
your computer you’re naturally not going
to be able to slip up and do it the
third and final step that I have for you
is simply to masturbate without porn
you’re naturally going to want to feel
that release of tension and you’re just
going to have that raw urge to get that
release every so often so give yourself
permission to jerk off once a week
without the use of porn this allows you
to get that released but aside the steps
of all of those negative side effects
that we went over in the process [Music]
has become a problem I think it’s a
worldwide problem but Ranade feed it
really really messed up my life in a lot
of ways if day turns into night and you
are still watching you probably got a
problem 70% of the Internet traffic is
pornography what has happened to us
[Music]
regularly watching internet pornography
can cripple your self-confidence and
prevent you from having sex with and
developing healthy relationships with
real women let’s get started by going
over the top 3 negative side effects and
then after that I’ll give you the 3
steps to actually quitting porn and
breaking the habit the first negative
side effect I want to go over is the
most devastating of all it is that
watching internet porn can lead to
erectile dysfunction when you regularly
watch internet porn you get used to
getting aroused by watching certain
types of scenes and watching certain
types of girls that you find attractive
and over time the more and more that you
watch internet porn the more and more
that’s sort of the way that your body
and your brain get aroused get tied to
the specific type of porn that you watch
and then what happens is when you find
yourself in bed with a real girl it’s a
lot different than watching porn most
real girls don’t look like porn stars
and that’s not a bad thing it’s just
different on top of that in porn there’s
all this perfect lighting that is being
used there are these sort of weird
elaborate stories that are used as part
of the porn and porn is even filmed
using strategic camera angles that sort
of can intensify the experience and all
of these things can combine to prevent
you from getting aroused and prevent you
from getting hard when you’re with a
real girl
the second negative side effect I want
to go over is that watching porn will
reduce your motivation to actually go
out and meet and date and have sex with
real women and this happens because when
you regularly watch internet porn and
you get used to going home and jerking
off to release the sexual tension inside
of your body then you sort of almost
develop a long-term relationship with
porn and you just get used to getting
off and releasing that sexual tension by
watching porn rather than by pursuing
real women the third and final negative
side effect I want to go over is that
watching porn will cause you to put
women and to put sex on a pedestal
after you watch hundreds and hundreds of
porn scenes the actual act of sex can
seem more like an imaginary concept than
actual a real thing that people do and
this is going to make you put it on a
pedestal and make you treat it as some
imaginary thing out of reach of your
reality and it’s not part of your actual
life it’s just something you watch on a
screen and so all of these negative side
effects and trust me there are more of
them that I don’t want to discuss in
this video but they all combine to hurt
your sexual confidence and hurt your
self-confidence in regards to women and
that’s ultimately going to prevent you
from having real-life opportunities with
women and enjoying having actual sex
with women in your life and not just sex
but developing authentic healthy
relationships with women so now that we
went over the negative side effects
let’s switch gears and talk about how to
actually quit porn the first step and I
think this is the most crucial step and
the best technique you can use to quit
any bad habit and that is to tell one of
your friends that you are trying to quit
porn and to tell them that if you slip
up a new jerk off to porn that you’ll
give them a hundred dollars or if that’s
too much money for you then maybe make
it twenty dollars and this works so well
for three main reasons the first reason
is that porn tends to be something that
we are sort of ashamed of so when you
share this with someone else that it’s
something that you’re trying to quit
it’s actually going to relieve a lot of
the shame that you have associated with
watching porn when that sense of shame
so
goes way after you’ve shared this with
someone it’s going to make it a lot
easier to actually follow through and
quit porn the second reason is the
obvious one and that’s because it’s
accountability it brings accountability
into you trying to quit this and you’re
not just accountable to yourself anymore
but you’re actually accountable to your
friends and the third and final reason
this works so well is because of the
fear of loss of money obviously we don’t
want to lose money so knowing that if I
jerk off right now it’s going to cost me
hundred dollars that’s going to
straight-up prevent most people from
slipping up and doing it
the key here is to find a friend or a
family member that you trust and you
don’t feel so intimidated to share this
with them and the other key is to tell
them to check on you every couple of
weeks to make sure that you are actually
following through
so the second technique that we’re going
to go over is to get away from your
computer when urge comes along and you
feel you’re about to slip up and to
watch porn simply leave your house and
go for a walk or call up a friend and
meet up with a friend because the fact
of the matter is that you watch porn on
your computer so if you get away from
your computer you’re naturally not going
to be able to slip up and do it the
third and final step that I have for you
is simply to masturbate without porn
you’re naturally going to want to feel
that release of tension and you’re just
going to have that raw urge to get that
release every so often so give yourself
permission to jerk off once a week
without the use of porn this allows you
to get that released but aside the steps
of all of those negative side effects
that we went over in the process [Music]
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