peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again how to read someone’s mind
whatever you do do not try this at home
can I get a Hello when I say mind reader
what pops into your mind probably a
street magician asking you to pick a
number from one to ten you say seven and
they still get it wrong I’m talking
about a very different kind of
mind-reading that can help us all become
our greatest versions form better
connections with people and a lot of
times we think of mind-reading being
about control manipulation actually mine
reading in its highest form is about
forming more intimacy with someone else
it is where you both create more
liberation through an authentic
connection together now can you look at
someone and through their words emotions
body language no their mental terrain
their mental mindset this is what we
call empathetic accuracy now if you are
an intuitive empath you can naturally do
this sometimes you pick up a bit too
much of what someone else is going
through but is it accurate let me share
with you what’s helped me along my
journey it first starts with spending
more time with that person if you want
to be a better mine reader move in with
that person see what they’re like on a
Friday on a Wednesday spending time with
someone is very important why because
now you get to see how they behave
in different situations you get to see
what they’re going through a certain
times in their life this is what we call
in psychology the acquaintanceship
effect so if you spend one month with
someone you’re going to be a better mind
reader with them compared to if you
spend three seconds with them sometimes
you’ve been in a relationship with
someone for two years and you still
don’t know who the hell they are who are
you no comment but it helps because that
forms more intimacy
now you can empathize with what they’re
going through because you have that
information you’re not a complete
stranger the second tool is through body
language over 90 percent of
communication is nonverbal what are they
doing with their forehead please look at
that is their forehead creased maybe
their stress yes they are because they
worked a 12-hour shift that’s a lot what
are they doing with their face how is
their body language their posture the
great social psychologist Amy Cuddy
talked of high power poses like this get
your arm stretched out
you got your feet up on the table you’re
walking around with your head held up
high you’ve got full confidence now what
happens on a molecular level is that
testosterone increases you see primates
in the wild show their dominance through
this their cortisol levels decrease
someone who is in a low power pose maybe
like this hunched over
their cortisol levels increase so they
have more stress in their bodies so just
by looking and observing at someone’s
posture you can tell if they are stress
or not and it’s very simple to do even
through someone’s breathing are they
breathing deep from the base of their
spine it means they’re more relaxed or
are they breathing very shallow and fast
once again that’s the key indicator that
they may have a lot on their plate back
away back away but also look at the face
I say the body never lies
people say the eyes are the windows to
the windows to the mind and this is
fascinating because through pupil
observation you can actually know what
someone is going through mentally a lot
of psychological studies have been done
on this for instance when you are
thinking too hard what’s going to happen
your pupils are gonna dial 8 the great
psychologist has showed this he asked
people very difficult questions and he
saw how their pupils were just dial 8
because if I was to ask you ok
what do I say at the beginning of my
videos Oh peace that’s easy but if I was
to ask you I want you to name me five
books on rocket science uh watch how
your pupils just grow larger and larger
but he also saw that
when the brain is overloaded the pupils
actually constrict so whenever you see
someone who has a lot of problems going
on in their life look at their pupils
you’re going to find their pupils
constricting also through showing people
pictures of injured people he saw that
they were shocked so their pupils widen
but then they constricted because they
wanted to avoid seeing those kinds of
images so whenever we have this
avoidance going on in our lives you know
what someone’s going through what about
if you are showing interests white the
great psychologist said that this is a
great way to know through people’s
pupils what they really think of you for
instance if you like someone you’re
talking to them you see many people
these days we don’t have enough eye
contact and that’s the real secret to
becoming a better mine reader why
actually he read three books different
extracts one book was about errata sysm
the other book was about mutilation the
other book was just neutral information
and at first he saw people’s pupils
widen because once again you’re curious
is something new but he said that
people’s eyes that pupils only remained
widened when they showed interest in
whatever he was reading so
let’s put that into a very practical
example attraction dating if you want to
know if someone is into you you want to
know if someone is interested in you
look at them in the eyes don’t be afraid
if you see their eyes dilating that’s a
good thing also if someone is turning
you on or you’re turning them on their
pupils are going to dilate so we can
tell so much because the eyes are reveal
our innermost secrets also another tool
that’s helped me is from The Voice now
if you are a singer you know when you
can’t sing to your best you’re going to
hear it
but the voice tells our emotional state
and our mental state in a very clear way
the tone of our voice the pitch the pace
how fast are we speaking if someone is
speaking very fast really really really
really really really really fast what’s
going to happen that’s showing us maybe
they are agitated at something if they
are speaking in a more slower calm way
it means that they have more in a
relaxation at that moment in time but I
say it’s never what people say it’s the
energy behind that matters what kinds of
words are they using yes that’s
important but more so what kind of
energy are you extracting from the words
they are saying because it’s all mental
everything is mental everything is
energy and that’s the biggest clue just
listen once you become a better listener
you become a better mine reader also
whenever you can relax because we have
mirror neurons when someone smiles
you want to smile back when someone is
grumpy we naturally want to add grumpy
so if you want to become a better mind
reader you have to make sure you are
relaxed because once you are relaxed
people can open up to you
in ancient times you had Oracle’s people
used to go and consult with them because
they could read their minds why because
they won full of anxiety they were in
total peace for instance if you are very
tense when you are around someone what
happens they now actually mirror your
tension so therefore it makes it harder
for them to open up to you so you will
never you will never know what’s really
going on in their mind once you are
relaxed now you become more receptive to
whatever
they have to tell you and lastly
whenever you just ask it’s very simple
to do guesswork I think you’re going
through some problems see what they say
uh yeah you’re right you’re right now
it’s easier to become a better mind
reader because once again you have to
ask and then it’s given to you because
if you just assume oh boy you are going
to be guessing for days but once you tap
into your natural intuition just ask and
more times or not the more we ask and we
follow our intuition we are usually
right and then the person says gosh yeah
how did you know how did you know and
now they just reveal more and more so in
a nutshell that is how to become a
better mind reader just realize that
it’s all about spending more time with
that person looking at their body
language
also the pupils are they dilating or are
they constricting the tone of their
voice and asking people how they feel
all of this now allows us to create
better connections with one another have
a beautiful day enjoy yourself
we are here infinite waters diving D once again stay well stay healthy
once again how to read someone’s mind
whatever you do do not try this at home
can I get a Hello when I say mind reader
what pops into your mind probably a
street magician asking you to pick a
number from one to ten you say seven and
they still get it wrong I’m talking
about a very different kind of
mind-reading that can help us all become
our greatest versions form better
connections with people and a lot of
times we think of mind-reading being
about control manipulation actually mine
reading in its highest form is about
forming more intimacy with someone else
it is where you both create more
liberation through an authentic
connection together now can you look at
someone and through their words emotions
body language no their mental terrain
their mental mindset this is what we
call empathetic accuracy now if you are
an intuitive empath you can naturally do
this sometimes you pick up a bit too
much of what someone else is going
through but is it accurate let me share
with you what’s helped me along my
journey it first starts with spending
more time with that person if you want
to be a better mine reader move in with
that person see what they’re like on a
Friday on a Wednesday spending time with
someone is very important why because
now you get to see how they behave
in different situations you get to see
what they’re going through a certain
times in their life this is what we call
in psychology the acquaintanceship
effect so if you spend one month with
someone you’re going to be a better mind
reader with them compared to if you
spend three seconds with them sometimes
you’ve been in a relationship with
someone for two years and you still
don’t know who the hell they are who are
you no comment but it helps because that
forms more intimacy
now you can empathize with what they’re
going through because you have that
information you’re not a complete
stranger the second tool is through body
language over 90 percent of
communication is nonverbal what are they
doing with their forehead please look at
that is their forehead creased maybe
their stress yes they are because they
worked a 12-hour shift that’s a lot what
are they doing with their face how is
their body language their posture the
great social psychologist Amy Cuddy
talked of high power poses like this get
your arm stretched out
you got your feet up on the table you’re
walking around with your head held up
high you’ve got full confidence now what
happens on a molecular level is that
testosterone increases you see primates
in the wild show their dominance through
this their cortisol levels decrease
someone who is in a low power pose maybe
like this hunched over
their cortisol levels increase so they
have more stress in their bodies so just
by looking and observing at someone’s
posture you can tell if they are stress
or not and it’s very simple to do even
through someone’s breathing are they
breathing deep from the base of their
spine it means they’re more relaxed or
are they breathing very shallow and fast
once again that’s the key indicator that
they may have a lot on their plate back
away back away but also look at the face
I say the body never lies
people say the eyes are the windows to
the windows to the mind and this is
fascinating because through pupil
observation you can actually know what
someone is going through mentally a lot
of psychological studies have been done
on this for instance when you are
thinking too hard what’s going to happen
your pupils are gonna dial 8 the great
psychologist has showed this he asked
people very difficult questions and he
saw how their pupils were just dial 8
because if I was to ask you ok
what do I say at the beginning of my
videos Oh peace that’s easy but if I was
to ask you I want you to name me five
books on rocket science uh watch how
your pupils just grow larger and larger
but he also saw that
when the brain is overloaded the pupils
actually constrict so whenever you see
someone who has a lot of problems going
on in their life look at their pupils
you’re going to find their pupils
constricting also through showing people
pictures of injured people he saw that
they were shocked so their pupils widen
but then they constricted because they
wanted to avoid seeing those kinds of
images so whenever we have this
avoidance going on in our lives you know
what someone’s going through what about
if you are showing interests white the
great psychologist said that this is a
great way to know through people’s
pupils what they really think of you for
instance if you like someone you’re
talking to them you see many people
these days we don’t have enough eye
contact and that’s the real secret to
becoming a better mine reader why
actually he read three books different
extracts one book was about errata sysm
the other book was about mutilation the
other book was just neutral information
and at first he saw people’s pupils
widen because once again you’re curious
is something new but he said that
people’s eyes that pupils only remained
widened when they showed interest in
whatever he was reading so
let’s put that into a very practical
example attraction dating if you want to
know if someone is into you you want to
know if someone is interested in you
look at them in the eyes don’t be afraid
if you see their eyes dilating that’s a
good thing also if someone is turning
you on or you’re turning them on their
pupils are going to dilate so we can
tell so much because the eyes are reveal
our innermost secrets also another tool
that’s helped me is from The Voice now
if you are a singer you know when you
can’t sing to your best you’re going to
hear it
but the voice tells our emotional state
and our mental state in a very clear way
the tone of our voice the pitch the pace
how fast are we speaking if someone is
speaking very fast really really really
really really really really fast what’s
going to happen that’s showing us maybe
they are agitated at something if they
are speaking in a more slower calm way
it means that they have more in a
relaxation at that moment in time but I
say it’s never what people say it’s the
energy behind that matters what kinds of
words are they using yes that’s
important but more so what kind of
energy are you extracting from the words
they are saying because it’s all mental
everything is mental everything is
energy and that’s the biggest clue just
listen once you become a better listener
you become a better mine reader also
whenever you can relax because we have
mirror neurons when someone smiles
you want to smile back when someone is
grumpy we naturally want to add grumpy
so if you want to become a better mind
reader you have to make sure you are
relaxed because once you are relaxed
people can open up to you
in ancient times you had Oracle’s people
used to go and consult with them because
they could read their minds why because
they won full of anxiety they were in
total peace for instance if you are very
tense when you are around someone what
happens they now actually mirror your
tension so therefore it makes it harder
for them to open up to you so you will
never you will never know what’s really
going on in their mind once you are
relaxed now you become more receptive to
whatever
they have to tell you and lastly
whenever you just ask it’s very simple
to do guesswork I think you’re going
through some problems see what they say
uh yeah you’re right you’re right now
it’s easier to become a better mind
reader because once again you have to
ask and then it’s given to you because
if you just assume oh boy you are going
to be guessing for days but once you tap
into your natural intuition just ask and
more times or not the more we ask and we
follow our intuition we are usually
right and then the person says gosh yeah
how did you know how did you know and
now they just reveal more and more so in
a nutshell that is how to become a
better mind reader just realize that
it’s all about spending more time with
that person looking at their body
language
also the pupils are they dilating or are
they constricting the tone of their
voice and asking people how they feel
all of this now allows us to create
better connections with one another have
a beautiful day enjoy yourself
we are here infinite waters diving D once again stay well stay healthy
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