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How to Overcome “Not Good Enough Feelings”


do you sometimes wake up with feelings
of inadequacy deep divers like Ralph I’m
not good enough well I’m here to tell
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peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again beautiful deep divers we are
out here in nature baby another
beautiful day in this tropical paradise
we got birds everywhere we’ve got
butterflies flapping their wings
everywhere we’ve got bees everywhere and
we’re just were breathing in that good
oz prana baby take that take that take
that beautiful sunny energy I’m sending
you
but do you wake up with feelings of
inadequacy do you wake up sometimes
feeling that you’re not good enough like
everybody is doing so much better than
you
including the cat down the road well
after this video you are gonna say oh
you are gonna feel more than good enough
deep divers mark my words how to
overcome I’m not good enough feelings
and we Nev enhance jet can I get a Hello
now did Ralph smart did I ever feel not
good enough absolutely
I can relate there were days way back in
the day when I would be like I am so not
good enough like everyone seems to be
more successful than me and being left
behind right now and he’s so not fair
however what helped me along my journey
to really know I was good enough was to
realize this
by whose standard hmm slow motion this
side if you are telling me that you
aren’t good enough by who stand it who
standard aren’t you good enough by and
that’s the question that came in by the
way if you’ve got a question don’t email
me I get thousands every single day add
me on Instagram right now at infinite
waters someone else around how can I
overcome not good enough feelings
well the secret to do it is by asking
yourself by who stand it on I good
enough by deep divers many of us don’t
feel we are good enough because we are
living according to someone else’s
standard we are living according to
someone else’s expectations and this is
why a lot of us suffer so it’s time to
take back your power define yourself
that was a life-changing moment for me
like I am not competing with anybody I’m
in a league of my own relaxing
chillaxing out here in nature with the
birds and the bees there is no
competition around here I’m not
comparing myself to other people and
that’s how to overcome I’m not good
enough feelings stop comparing yourself
to other people on Instagram you are
great just the way you are only compare
yourself to other people if it will
inspire you deep divers how to overcome
I am not good enough feelings you see
many times
we still haven’t found ourselves and we
pressurize ourselves saying actually we
should have already been there by now
everything takes time a baby is in the
womb for nine months you can’t rush that
process there are seasons and there are
cycles but best believe your time will
come
deep divers I had to realize this that
once I gave myself enough time to grow
once I gave myself enough time to
develop I started to feel good enough
because I realized life isn’t about
running in other people’s races it’s
about running your own race hmm slow
motion this side mmm and that’s how to
overcome I’m not good enough feelings
deep divers what really helped me along
my journey was to wake up with gratitude
yes I get it you may not be where you
want to be it may appear that everybody
else is doing so much better than you
but guess what deep divers they aren’t
you and you come into this planet with a
unique set of experiences a different
perception and that is your power your
uniqueness is your power over seven
billion people on the planet and nobody
is you how awesome is that
so it’s time for you to start
being grateful for how the universe made
you and the more grateful I became the
more I began to accept myself seven day
vegan challenge now a lot of people are
eating avocados coconuts right now there
are a lot of mangos around here right
high in vitamin A many times we don’t
accept ourselves we don’t feel good
enough because we’re like Ralph what
he’s got a better body than me
Ralph what she’s got a better body than
me she’s look at our body Ralph look at
her booty look at mine it’s like an
ironing board when you are comparing
your body to their body you are doing
yourself a huge disservice why because
you are more than your body you are the
energy that lies inside of your body mmm
slow motion inside mmm deep diamonds how
to overcome I’m not good enough feelings
get rid of your magazines where you see
all of these people with perfect bodies
trust me they don’t look like that every
single day nobody does but give them
props if you see someone with an amazing
body they work hard for it they are
eating a plant-based diet leafy greens
so use that as inspiration to say
actually I too can start becoming
healthier yet the body I really want if
I work hard enough deep divers how to
overcome I’m not good enough feelings
you see every single day we wake up with
a choice we can have a pity party and
invite the cat down the road feel sorry
for ourselves or start to recognize the
greatness that we are you want a mistake
the universe took time when it was
creating you
you see many of us we spend our whole
life on a phone oh my gosh
look at her look at them and look at
them and look oh my gosh they’re so
successful and I’m just like a nobody
deep divers everybody you see everybody
you compare yourself to I’ve got news
for you
spoiler Allah is on a different journey
to you everybody’s on a different path
everybody has a different purpose not
everybody came to Planet Earth to take
the same exam paper hmm what slow motion
this side and that’s where that I’m not
good enough
feeling comes from by this mindset we
have that it’s me against you and you
against me no everybody is on a
different path and once you realize that
we can all shine and all of a sudden
uh-oh look you’re starting to feel good
enough right exactly
so realize everybody is on a different
path and everybody can teach us
something along our journey deep dive is
this time to be proud of how far you
have come
I remember I remember you like in those
early days all of the hardships you have
overcome all of the hardships I have
overcome right deep divers you’ve seen
me from back in the day when I had the
massive afro and I’m still here
inspiring millions of people a lot of
obstacles a lot of challenges but I’m a
Pisces
I don’t fold deep divers if you can
learn how to give yourself more credit
that you have overcome adversity trials
and tribulations all of a sudden you
start overcoming that I’m not good
enough feeling deep divers remember you
at your worst and remind yourself remind
yourself of how you got through it
that there shows the resilience of your
spirit and you have to learn how to give
yourself more credit and that’s how to
overcome that I am not good enough
feeling deep divers what’s helped me
along my journey sometimes if I’m like
whole Ralph you’re not good enough I
snap out of that and I’m like my story
is not over many many years ago I’m like
Ralph you’re not good enough all your
friends are doing so much better than
you
but now our manifesting beyond my
wildest dreams because I realized back
then my story was not over your story is
not over and it’s okay to be the work in
progress and the masterpiece at the same
time just stop beating yourself up
because you’re not there yet everything
takes time deep dive is what helped me
along my journey was to be patient great
things take time that’s how to overcome
that I’m not good enough feeling give
yourself time to grow give yourself time
to blossom I see a lot of people every
single day like Ralph I’m never ever
gonna get there Ralph is never ever
gonna work out for me Ralph I’m just not
good enough be mindful that what you
speak is creating the potential reality
in time and space so even if you don’t
feel good enough say I’m working on
myself every single day I’m loving
myself every single day a little bit
more I’m accepting myself a little bit
more and all of a sudden you now start
to overcome I’m not good enough feelings
and then deep divers you just say feel
so good to be alive baby can I get a
hello there beautiful deep divers you
are more than good enough we’re just
whoa breathing in that good ass prana
baby even that bird up there knows it’s
good enough shout out to everybody who’s
been getting the Mack
nificent good oz praana shirts Ralph
smart dog come slash clothes get more
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question Instagram infinite waters get
inspired daily they’re deep divers
realize nobody is you and that is your
power
have a beautiful day infinite waters
diving deep once again stay well stay
healthy peace yo nobody is you and that
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