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he’s infinite waters diving deep once
again we are out here with a beautiful
bird singing to us whoa breathing in
that good ass prana confident as ever I
got three questions in a row someone
asked how can I get more confident on
social media than someone asked how can
I get more confident approaching women
then telling us how can I get more
confident just being myself and anytime
I get three questions in a row I think
to myself
we even had breakfast yet can I get a
Hello so it’s time to be confident right
now apparently okay
I’m gonna share with you what’s helped
me along my journey wake up with tons of
confidence how has helped me in social
media every single aspect of my life how
to get confident in anything fast
anything now along my early journey
I wasn’t that confident confident
eminates when we talked confidence comes
from the Latin confident which means to
trust no I didn’t trust myself at all I
had to watch myself like make sure you
do it that’s not confident okay but
later on I started to find out some
secrets I’m gonna share with you about
ten so let’s start with the first one
what helped me along my journey was to
screw the rehearsal that’s right life is
not an act therefore therefore you don’t
need a rehearsal okay
and even when I used to make my early
video sometimes I would say something
like I
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wait a minute I didn’t say I properly
can we do that again cut
say it again Ralph all right no you
still didn’t do it properly say to get
out ah that’s better
cut no you didn’t say caught say it
again around con no cut do say it again
Ralph do okay that’s better
cut say it again do cut it I can’t do
this you see we are rehearsing every
single area of our lives a lot of people
they put up pictures of themselves on
Instagram then they take them back down
because they don’t even like how they
look they say is just not good enough if
you go through life with a filter oh I
can’t say this I got to be careful how I
say that you’re never going to be able
to trust yourself therefore you’re never
gonna be able to be confident life is
not a rehearsal it isn’t an act it’s a
state of being
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slow-motion its life and that’s what’s
helped me along my journey I actually
realized a secret and when you are just
being like I don’t cut my videos
whatever comes out comes out I don’t
even know what I’m gonna say next
strawberries of course I do and it’s
more organic that way
and ever since I got so confident
because I just realized that I could
just wake up my Diaz will just flood my
mind I could just share them with people
without being afraid of what they would
think because for me it was exciting
like what am I gonna say right now I
don’t even know it’s exciting but a lot
of us we script our lives
we’re like what should I wear is it good
enough I keep it simple I wear suit just
a black shirt okay
very simple okay black is a great color
if you don’t feel confident black makes
you very confident okay to color off
getting your confidence back I used to
wear a lot of black in my early videos
right you saw it okay because I was
really nervous right I got confident
okay until eventually you realize it
doesn’t even matter what you wear you
could wear literally a bin bag and still
feel good about yourself okay it’s a
mindset but obviously clothes will help
but when you realize you don’t have to
act out every single part of your life
you might be wanting to approach men
ladies or women okay you don’t need to
act that out you just need to go for it
and whatever comes out well comes out or
you won’t make an ass of yourself trust
me trust yourself what’s another way to
get confident and another reason why
people have a lack of confidence
Miles Davis a great musician who played
the trumpet really to a master level
gals watching a documentary of his a
long time ago and he said that they will
ask him how did you get so good at
playing the trumpet because this guy was
a genius literally and he said this that
even if he didn’t play the trumpet
because he was traveling somewhere he
would just touch it just touch the
trumpet that’s it
okay so by just touching the trumpet he
was getting his confidence back because
it was reminding him off becoming his
greatest version slow motion inside and
I do that with skating like sometimes
even if I’m not skating I just look at
my skates and stare at them and get
really emotional and say I love you okay
and that helps with confidence you see
we often lose confidence when we have a
lack of intimacy with that which we love
okay a lot of people say I’m I’m a great
piano player but you haven’t practiced
in years so you don’t feel really
confident when someone asks you to play
and I asked you to play at my house you
know
you don’t want to do a deep 10,000 hours
okay that’s the time it takes for you to
become a monster anything now look at it
like this the Beatles used to practice
in Berlin before they became the Beatles
so they already did their 10,000 hours
Bill Gates was as a young man he was
already studying and practicing computer
programming so he already did his 10,000
hours before he created Windows Ralphs
ma was in the garden just talking he
already did his 10,000 house okay you
got to put in the work
I say commitment consistency that’s what
gives you confidence okay confidence is
the muscle you got exercise baby slow
motion this side if you don’t use it you
lose it and that’s what I’ve seen along
my journey like when I’m sharing I
realized that I got to practice you
don’t want to get too complacent to
think okay I know it all that’s why so
many people lose confidence like I used
to play the guitar at a much higher
level but I stopped playing now I need
to learn everything I once knew how to
play kind of annoying right well that’s
what happens when you don’t touch it
when you are really into it a hundred
seven so every day ask yourself how can
I move more into what I love every
single day consistently and now your
confidence muscle is gonna get super
duper strong seven day vegan challenge
baby
okay now reason a lot of people lack
confidence and how to get confident is
are you using your body like a trash can
right now
the bin is that way not your body okay
you’re putting in a lot of junk food
check this hack I learn how to get
confident
out I love seeing your beautiful snaps
okay of delicious foods are you really
making that or are you just buying I
want to know because some of those
smoothies look so well done I’m like how
yeah you see I used to always eat out a
lot of the times okay and I still do I
love doing it but whenever I go to eat
out even if it’s some delicious
plant-based foods vegan foods right I’m
like oh this is great
when I go home I feel kind of naked
right I feel like really lost and
confused and oh my gosh okay oh my gosh
why cuz I’m like I’m not sure if I can
make this good this tastes so good this
ravioli
mmm this papaya like okay this beautiful
brown rice with tomato with watercress
and kale on the side with some beautiful
almond butter oh my goodness I’m so
hungry right now okay then I said oh
wait a minute
light bulb moment you got to make it
yourself and I’ve been making beautiful
dishes in fact I’m gonna start sharing a
lot of what I make already do on
snapchat okay but you feel so confident
when you start making your own foods not
only do you know what’s going into it
but you put that beautiful love energy
into it you’re like okay let you drive
really quickly past the restaurant you
want to go to okay
Cafe Gratitude right I always do it and
I’m like I shoulda got in there too late
so I go to make it myself and I realize
actually I can do this and it tastes so
fantastic okay that’s how you build
confidence you go into the kitchen and
you start making delicious plant-based
foods well a lot of the foods already
made like can you imagine saying I’m
gonna make an avocado nature I’m gonna
make a mango it’s already made I’m sorry
to tell you
what’s the fourth way to get confident
what helped me along my journey was to
realize this this epiphany hit me in a
beautiful way it touched me in a
beautiful way
those who do everything get nothing and
those who do nothing get everything so
check this out if you are driving really
fast you go past so much you forget to
see what’s going on the more you slow
down in life I’ve talked of mindfulness
meditation that has really helped me get
super confident because as you slow down
pees that’s so confident right there the
slower you talk okay studies have shown
how people who talk slower appear to be
more confident because once again this
is like you are more in control of what
you’re saying and people who start
really really really really really
really fast it’s like the nerves are
showing right now you’re scared right
now okay it’s just like someone rushing
to work you see them like falling all
over the place you’re like you okay okay
as opposed to so I’m just skating to
work I used to skate to work sometimes a
night I felt so confident then I used to
actually say screw work I’m just gonna
come into nature and I felt even more
confident okay so what I’ve realized is
that do less and you will feel more
confident
not gonna lie I used to be a
perfectionist I used to like I wonder
what people would think of my videos and
I see a lot of people like that not just
in terms of videos but in terms of their
whole life how do I look it’s my makeup
done right ladies you know what I’m
talking about okay check this out
perfectionism is a curse that’s what my
psychology professor told me once said
perfectionism is a curse I said why he
said because people who strive for
perfection are never there never ever
happy with themselves why I said so
because it’s never good enough slow
motion this side an Egyptian proverb a
beautiful thing is never perfect and
that’s the philosophy I adopt philosophy
break down the words Philo love off
Sophia goddess of wisdom a love of
wisdom right just a little hint theme
okay that’s the philosophy I adopt okay
to screw perfection it will do it’s good
enough for me and then the cat down the
road will plat for you the fifth little
tip to get confident fast is to realize
that simplicity is everything I’ve had
to learn this the hard way okay I used
to think that if I spent along the time
doing something it would make me more
confident know who like you know what
it’s like ladies if you are spending
hours and hours trying to figure out
what to wear
you’re only more insecure when you
finally find out what to wear cuz you
realize it was the actual wrong dress
right you know what I’m talking about
okay a lot of models sometimes are very
insecure how do I know because I counsel
them they tell me that looking good all
the time can make one very insecure when
you are solely being judged on your
looks
so what helped me was to say this I’m
just gonna make a video I don’t care how
I look that was back in the day right
you saw my videos just wake up do a
video and I felt so free because it was
more about the message rather than how I
looked simplicity is everything don’t
complicate your life life is already
complicated enough okay so for me how do
I simplify my life in a nutshell I take
the easiest route straightforward and it
does wonders what’s the sixth way that
you can get confident fuss and what is
the way people a reason people lack in
confidence if you are allowing everyone
to judge your entire existence you will
have a lack of confidence I am telling
you that straight and simple you are on
American Idol you want on what’s the
other one called
x-factor I don’t even watch it I just
hear of howdy okay this is not someone
you know someone isn’t just gonna judge
you you’re not singing right now are you
well where you actually see right now
okay so I started to realize I wasn’t
actually on a a pop television show
okay so
why do we do this to ourselves
constantly day in day out okay we think
that we have to perform and that’s why a
lot of artists suffer from depression
because they’re always performing when
you are performing you are moving into
the act rather than the being okay I
love artists who just don’t care about
anything they just put a song out they
don’t care if you like it or you don’t
that’s similar to me right now I just
share okay and it’s not easy there was a
time where I really did care so much and
I still do sometimes but I’ve learned
now you have to just realize that people
are gonna judge you regardless like
that’s their business that’s their job
it’s not yours so to get confident what
helped me was just to say okay whatever
I’m doing at least I’m doing something
that’s a great mindset to have whatever
I’m doing I’m doing something that helps
the birds are really confident right now
it was number seven a great way to get
confident fast ruin wait for it
your reputation didn’t truly say that be
notorious ruin your reputation
now now I started to apply this into my
life because I used to talk about things
and I would like be like Ralph you
turning into a saint then I said I don’t
want to be a saint actually because I’m
not perfect I’m still working on myself
every day to become my greatest version
it’s just like the Titanic the people
who had the most fun were at the bottom
of the boat people on top trying to be
all perfect they were miserable as hell
so I started to realize I’m taking
myself way too seriously then I started
to have fun and I realize the secret
that there are no Saints here on planet
earth they all left a long time ago
slow motion inside this is Sin City baby
what I found out was it’s all about
coming into your authenticity and
ruining your reputation a lot of people
think gosh Ralph when I first started
videos I was just talking about certain
subjects and then people thought I would
stop there then I started to dig deep in
my back started to talk about Indigo’s
uh-oh the third eye let’s go there
marijuana all of these different
subjects and I was literally ruining my
reputation any expectation you thought
of me was shattered because I was like
making videos why I stopped watching
porn all kinds of videos like just crazy
videos and and this is actually what
took me to the next level and why I wake
up at any time I want whoo and breathing
that good ass product and live a life of
infinite abundance that’s what happens
when you ruin your reputation in fact
we’re gonna do another video on Indigo’s
just for the record that’s how to get
more confident what’s number eight baby
what helped me along my journey was this
now a lot of people lack confidence and
aren’t confident because they surround
themselves with a bunch of people who
make them feel really bad about
themselves I used to sometimes I would
say stuff and people will be like
ralphing you crazy
I would be like I’m not crazy just hit
me out please okay so I started to learn
that surround yourself with people who
don’t suck out the positivity that’s in
you
okay and it does wonders that’s how to
get confident fast like surround
yourself with people that actually vied
with you that get where you’re coming
from like I used to go to a barber and
we used to talk about like how we’re all
being controlled in a kind of matrix and
I felt so free just talking to him we
just talked about ancient civilizations
he knows who he is and he’s a great guy
he helped me along my journey right
that’s how you get confident when you
are around people that you can be
vulnerable now
vulnerability talking the vulnerability
if you expose yourself going back to
ruining your reputation lay your whole
life out and say I don’t care what you
think of it that’s how to get confident
and that’s what I do every single day
I’m sharing what’s helped me along my
journey right so surround yourself with
people you vibe with not with people who
are putting you down constantly that’s
no fun what’s number nine now this is
what’s helped me along my journey get
confident fast and why people lack
confidence okay here here it is I’m
left-handed and a Pisces so naturally
I’m confident I just had to put that out
there
your signature is everything
we aren’t confident because we’re so
busy looking over the fence into someone
else’s garden oh my gosh their tomatoes
have grown so much yeah because you
didn’t bother to plant any ring you
didn’t you didn’t bother to plant any in
your own garden
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slow motion excitement
who cares if their tomatoes are bigger
than yours
let it be find your own signature
meaning find your own style like when I
that’s a signature now because I say
that I’m in a league of my own that’s
all I’ve got to do like some people they
write to me and say Ralph
that’s all I watched in your video and I
just made me so happy I’m like that’s
amazing
forget about the other 19 minutes
doesn’t matter I’m just happy that hello
there helped you out okay
change my life Ralph great okay
so finding your signature is really
flipping the script we spend our whole
lives in this society trying to be like
someone else while we forget that who we
are originally is good enough let me
repeat that we spend our whole life in
this society trying to be someone else
when we forget that who we are is good
enough number 10 how to get confident
for us is to own it right own your
signature that weird thing you do that
makes you stand out be proud of your
weird nature really weird like me don’t
deny it
we’re all weird spent if you’re a deep
diver your weird period you watch these
videos you’re it own it love it okay a
lot of people lack confidence because
they don’t own it
you don’t own their signature you have
so much weirdness about you I could
write a whole book on you
we even had breakfast yet right own it
beautiful and then you say feel so good
to be alive baby ten
I get a hello there and that’s how to
get confident fast whoa breathing in
that good ass product have a beautiful
day
we’re out here baby continue diving deep
you [Music]
he’s infinite waters diving deep once
again we are out here with a beautiful
bird singing to us whoa breathing in
that good ass prana confident as ever I
got three questions in a row someone
asked how can I get more confident on
social media than someone asked how can
I get more confident approaching women
then telling us how can I get more
confident just being myself and anytime
I get three questions in a row I think
to myself
we even had breakfast yet can I get a
Hello so it’s time to be confident right
now apparently okay
I’m gonna share with you what’s helped
me along my journey wake up with tons of
confidence how has helped me in social
media every single aspect of my life how
to get confident in anything fast
anything now along my early journey
I wasn’t that confident confident
eminates when we talked confidence comes
from the Latin confident which means to
trust no I didn’t trust myself at all I
had to watch myself like make sure you
do it that’s not confident okay but
later on I started to find out some
secrets I’m gonna share with you about
ten so let’s start with the first one
what helped me along my journey was to
screw the rehearsal that’s right life is
not an act therefore therefore you don’t
need a rehearsal okay
and even when I used to make my early
video sometimes I would say something
like I
[Music]
wait a minute I didn’t say I properly
can we do that again cut
say it again Ralph all right no you
still didn’t do it properly say to get
out ah that’s better
cut no you didn’t say caught say it
again around con no cut do say it again
Ralph do okay that’s better
cut say it again do cut it I can’t do
this you see we are rehearsing every
single area of our lives a lot of people
they put up pictures of themselves on
Instagram then they take them back down
because they don’t even like how they
look they say is just not good enough if
you go through life with a filter oh I
can’t say this I got to be careful how I
say that you’re never going to be able
to trust yourself therefore you’re never
gonna be able to be confident life is
not a rehearsal it isn’t an act it’s a
state of being
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slow-motion its life and that’s what’s
helped me along my journey I actually
realized a secret and when you are just
being like I don’t cut my videos
whatever comes out comes out I don’t
even know what I’m gonna say next
strawberries of course I do and it’s
more organic that way
and ever since I got so confident
because I just realized that I could
just wake up my Diaz will just flood my
mind I could just share them with people
without being afraid of what they would
think because for me it was exciting
like what am I gonna say right now I
don’t even know it’s exciting but a lot
of us we script our lives
we’re like what should I wear is it good
enough I keep it simple I wear suit just
a black shirt okay
very simple okay black is a great color
if you don’t feel confident black makes
you very confident okay to color off
getting your confidence back I used to
wear a lot of black in my early videos
right you saw it okay because I was
really nervous right I got confident
okay until eventually you realize it
doesn’t even matter what you wear you
could wear literally a bin bag and still
feel good about yourself okay it’s a
mindset but obviously clothes will help
but when you realize you don’t have to
act out every single part of your life
you might be wanting to approach men
ladies or women okay you don’t need to
act that out you just need to go for it
and whatever comes out well comes out or
you won’t make an ass of yourself trust
me trust yourself what’s another way to
get confident and another reason why
people have a lack of confidence
Miles Davis a great musician who played
the trumpet really to a master level
gals watching a documentary of his a
long time ago and he said that they will
ask him how did you get so good at
playing the trumpet because this guy was
a genius literally and he said this that
even if he didn’t play the trumpet
because he was traveling somewhere he
would just touch it just touch the
trumpet that’s it
okay so by just touching the trumpet he
was getting his confidence back because
it was reminding him off becoming his
greatest version slow motion inside and
I do that with skating like sometimes
even if I’m not skating I just look at
my skates and stare at them and get
really emotional and say I love you okay
and that helps with confidence you see
we often lose confidence when we have a
lack of intimacy with that which we love
okay a lot of people say I’m I’m a great
piano player but you haven’t practiced
in years so you don’t feel really
confident when someone asks you to play
and I asked you to play at my house you
know
you don’t want to do a deep 10,000 hours
okay that’s the time it takes for you to
become a monster anything now look at it
like this the Beatles used to practice
in Berlin before they became the Beatles
so they already did their 10,000 hours
Bill Gates was as a young man he was
already studying and practicing computer
programming so he already did his 10,000
hours before he created Windows Ralphs
ma was in the garden just talking he
already did his 10,000 house okay you
got to put in the work
I say commitment consistency that’s what
gives you confidence okay confidence is
the muscle you got exercise baby slow
motion this side if you don’t use it you
lose it and that’s what I’ve seen along
my journey like when I’m sharing I
realized that I got to practice you
don’t want to get too complacent to
think okay I know it all that’s why so
many people lose confidence like I used
to play the guitar at a much higher
level but I stopped playing now I need
to learn everything I once knew how to
play kind of annoying right well that’s
what happens when you don’t touch it
when you are really into it a hundred
seven so every day ask yourself how can
I move more into what I love every
single day consistently and now your
confidence muscle is gonna get super
duper strong seven day vegan challenge
baby
okay now reason a lot of people lack
confidence and how to get confident is
are you using your body like a trash can
right now
the bin is that way not your body okay
you’re putting in a lot of junk food
check this hack I learn how to get
confident
out I love seeing your beautiful snaps
okay of delicious foods are you really
making that or are you just buying I
want to know because some of those
smoothies look so well done I’m like how
yeah you see I used to always eat out a
lot of the times okay and I still do I
love doing it but whenever I go to eat
out even if it’s some delicious
plant-based foods vegan foods right I’m
like oh this is great
when I go home I feel kind of naked
right I feel like really lost and
confused and oh my gosh okay oh my gosh
why cuz I’m like I’m not sure if I can
make this good this tastes so good this
ravioli
mmm this papaya like okay this beautiful
brown rice with tomato with watercress
and kale on the side with some beautiful
almond butter oh my goodness I’m so
hungry right now okay then I said oh
wait a minute
light bulb moment you got to make it
yourself and I’ve been making beautiful
dishes in fact I’m gonna start sharing a
lot of what I make already do on
snapchat okay but you feel so confident
when you start making your own foods not
only do you know what’s going into it
but you put that beautiful love energy
into it you’re like okay let you drive
really quickly past the restaurant you
want to go to okay
Cafe Gratitude right I always do it and
I’m like I shoulda got in there too late
so I go to make it myself and I realize
actually I can do this and it tastes so
fantastic okay that’s how you build
confidence you go into the kitchen and
you start making delicious plant-based
foods well a lot of the foods already
made like can you imagine saying I’m
gonna make an avocado nature I’m gonna
make a mango it’s already made I’m sorry
to tell you
what’s the fourth way to get confident
what helped me along my journey was to
realize this this epiphany hit me in a
beautiful way it touched me in a
beautiful way
those who do everything get nothing and
those who do nothing get everything so
check this out if you are driving really
fast you go past so much you forget to
see what’s going on the more you slow
down in life I’ve talked of mindfulness
meditation that has really helped me get
super confident because as you slow down
pees that’s so confident right there the
slower you talk okay studies have shown
how people who talk slower appear to be
more confident because once again this
is like you are more in control of what
you’re saying and people who start
really really really really really
really fast it’s like the nerves are
showing right now you’re scared right
now okay it’s just like someone rushing
to work you see them like falling all
over the place you’re like you okay okay
as opposed to so I’m just skating to
work I used to skate to work sometimes a
night I felt so confident then I used to
actually say screw work I’m just gonna
come into nature and I felt even more
confident okay so what I’ve realized is
that do less and you will feel more
confident
not gonna lie I used to be a
perfectionist I used to like I wonder
what people would think of my videos and
I see a lot of people like that not just
in terms of videos but in terms of their
whole life how do I look it’s my makeup
done right ladies you know what I’m
talking about okay check this out
perfectionism is a curse that’s what my
psychology professor told me once said
perfectionism is a curse I said why he
said because people who strive for
perfection are never there never ever
happy with themselves why I said so
because it’s never good enough slow
motion this side an Egyptian proverb a
beautiful thing is never perfect and
that’s the philosophy I adopt philosophy
break down the words Philo love off
Sophia goddess of wisdom a love of
wisdom right just a little hint theme
okay that’s the philosophy I adopt okay
to screw perfection it will do it’s good
enough for me and then the cat down the
road will plat for you the fifth little
tip to get confident fast is to realize
that simplicity is everything I’ve had
to learn this the hard way okay I used
to think that if I spent along the time
doing something it would make me more
confident know who like you know what
it’s like ladies if you are spending
hours and hours trying to figure out
what to wear
you’re only more insecure when you
finally find out what to wear cuz you
realize it was the actual wrong dress
right you know what I’m talking about
okay a lot of models sometimes are very
insecure how do I know because I counsel
them they tell me that looking good all
the time can make one very insecure when
you are solely being judged on your
looks
so what helped me was to say this I’m
just gonna make a video I don’t care how
I look that was back in the day right
you saw my videos just wake up do a
video and I felt so free because it was
more about the message rather than how I
looked simplicity is everything don’t
complicate your life life is already
complicated enough okay so for me how do
I simplify my life in a nutshell I take
the easiest route straightforward and it
does wonders what’s the sixth way that
you can get confident fuss and what is
the way people a reason people lack in
confidence if you are allowing everyone
to judge your entire existence you will
have a lack of confidence I am telling
you that straight and simple you are on
American Idol you want on what’s the
other one called
x-factor I don’t even watch it I just
hear of howdy okay this is not someone
you know someone isn’t just gonna judge
you you’re not singing right now are you
well where you actually see right now
okay so I started to realize I wasn’t
actually on a a pop television show
okay so
why do we do this to ourselves
constantly day in day out okay we think
that we have to perform and that’s why a
lot of artists suffer from depression
because they’re always performing when
you are performing you are moving into
the act rather than the being okay I
love artists who just don’t care about
anything they just put a song out they
don’t care if you like it or you don’t
that’s similar to me right now I just
share okay and it’s not easy there was a
time where I really did care so much and
I still do sometimes but I’ve learned
now you have to just realize that people
are gonna judge you regardless like
that’s their business that’s their job
it’s not yours so to get confident what
helped me was just to say okay whatever
I’m doing at least I’m doing something
that’s a great mindset to have whatever
I’m doing I’m doing something that helps
the birds are really confident right now
it was number seven a great way to get
confident fast ruin wait for it
your reputation didn’t truly say that be
notorious ruin your reputation
now now I started to apply this into my
life because I used to talk about things
and I would like be like Ralph you
turning into a saint then I said I don’t
want to be a saint actually because I’m
not perfect I’m still working on myself
every day to become my greatest version
it’s just like the Titanic the people
who had the most fun were at the bottom
of the boat people on top trying to be
all perfect they were miserable as hell
so I started to realize I’m taking
myself way too seriously then I started
to have fun and I realize the secret
that there are no Saints here on planet
earth they all left a long time ago
slow motion inside this is Sin City baby
what I found out was it’s all about
coming into your authenticity and
ruining your reputation a lot of people
think gosh Ralph when I first started
videos I was just talking about certain
subjects and then people thought I would
stop there then I started to dig deep in
my back started to talk about Indigo’s
uh-oh the third eye let’s go there
marijuana all of these different
subjects and I was literally ruining my
reputation any expectation you thought
of me was shattered because I was like
making videos why I stopped watching
porn all kinds of videos like just crazy
videos and and this is actually what
took me to the next level and why I wake
up at any time I want whoo and breathing
that good ass product and live a life of
infinite abundance that’s what happens
when you ruin your reputation in fact
we’re gonna do another video on Indigo’s
just for the record that’s how to get
more confident what’s number eight baby
what helped me along my journey was this
now a lot of people lack confidence and
aren’t confident because they surround
themselves with a bunch of people who
make them feel really bad about
themselves I used to sometimes I would
say stuff and people will be like
ralphing you crazy
I would be like I’m not crazy just hit
me out please okay so I started to learn
that surround yourself with people who
don’t suck out the positivity that’s in
you
okay and it does wonders that’s how to
get confident fast like surround
yourself with people that actually vied
with you that get where you’re coming
from like I used to go to a barber and
we used to talk about like how we’re all
being controlled in a kind of matrix and
I felt so free just talking to him we
just talked about ancient civilizations
he knows who he is and he’s a great guy
he helped me along my journey right
that’s how you get confident when you
are around people that you can be
vulnerable now
vulnerability talking the vulnerability
if you expose yourself going back to
ruining your reputation lay your whole
life out and say I don’t care what you
think of it that’s how to get confident
and that’s what I do every single day
I’m sharing what’s helped me along my
journey right so surround yourself with
people you vibe with not with people who
are putting you down constantly that’s
no fun what’s number nine now this is
what’s helped me along my journey get
confident fast and why people lack
confidence okay here here it is I’m
left-handed and a Pisces so naturally
I’m confident I just had to put that out
there
your signature is everything
we aren’t confident because we’re so
busy looking over the fence into someone
else’s garden oh my gosh their tomatoes
have grown so much yeah because you
didn’t bother to plant any ring you
didn’t you didn’t bother to plant any in
your own garden
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slow motion excitement
who cares if their tomatoes are bigger
than yours
let it be find your own signature
meaning find your own style like when I
that’s a signature now because I say
that I’m in a league of my own that’s
all I’ve got to do like some people they
write to me and say Ralph
that’s all I watched in your video and I
just made me so happy I’m like that’s
amazing
forget about the other 19 minutes
doesn’t matter I’m just happy that hello
there helped you out okay
change my life Ralph great okay
so finding your signature is really
flipping the script we spend our whole
lives in this society trying to be like
someone else while we forget that who we
are originally is good enough let me
repeat that we spend our whole life in
this society trying to be someone else
when we forget that who we are is good
enough number 10 how to get confident
for us is to own it right own your
signature that weird thing you do that
makes you stand out be proud of your
weird nature really weird like me don’t
deny it
we’re all weird spent if you’re a deep
diver your weird period you watch these
videos you’re it own it love it okay a
lot of people lack confidence because
they don’t own it
you don’t own their signature you have
so much weirdness about you I could
write a whole book on you
we even had breakfast yet right own it
beautiful and then you say feel so good
to be alive baby ten
I get a hello there and that’s how to
get confident fast whoa breathing in
that good ass product have a beautiful
day
we’re out here baby continue diving deep
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