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How to Find Yourself When You’re Lost In Life


peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again beautiful deep divers we are
here we got so much a talk about
beautiful day I hope you’re enjoying
yourself
look do you ever feel lost in life deep
divers like sometimes you have no clue
as to what you’re here to do that even
rhymes and it’s gotten to the point
where like you feel totally alone is
anybody out there no they’re not how to
find yourself when you’re lost in life
let’s just whoa breathing in that good
ass piranha baby do you feel lost in
life well this person did they wrote to
me saying that they feel totally lost in
life they lost that job their
relationship they don’t know what
they’re here to do they have no purpose
they feel like a bum all their friends
are doing so much more better than them
they’ve got anxiety goodness gracious
weenie one had breakfast yet can I get a
well don’t worry you’re talking to a
deep diver I’ve been lost I’m still lost
and it’s okay to feel lost in life let
me repeat that it’s okay to feel lost in
life you see look at it like this along
my early journey I was super lost
because we feel lost when we are at a
conflict should I go this way or go that
way you feel lost shipwrecked look at
you you see take this into consideration
if you don’t know your purpose if you
don’t know your purpose if you haven’t
got a job if life doesn’t seem to be
going your way
realize you are still young Ralph I’m
not young actually don’t worry about
that that doesn’t apply to
you I’m talking to the other person who
is still young thank you very much you
are still young
can you remember deep divers when you
were like 16 I am sixteen fourteen I am
fourteen oh my gosh ten that’s better
look do you remember when you were ten
and something really serious happened to
you well you thought it was serious at
the time but when you look back you
start laughing right you start laughing
at yourself okay and that’s how life is
at this moment you might feel lost but
it doesn’t mean it’s always gonna be
this way hmm slow motion this side I’ve
learned along my journey that you have
to stop being in resistance to being
lost okay when I really felt lost in
life I’m like okay I don’t really know
what I’m here to do on the planet even
though I had just graduated I still
didn’t know what to do cuz I’m like this
system wasn’t designed for me I felt
lost isolated alone then I realized that
the more I embraced s’ feeling lost the
more I found myself hmm
what slow motion this side so stop being
in resistance to being lost in life sits
with your energy in motion your emotions
allow yourself to feel how it really
feels to be lost and cherish those
emotions because you’re gonna tell them
like you’re gonna tell your grandkids
what it felt like
right right you see I’ve learned this in
life that sometimes you need to lose
yourself define yourself when I had just
graduated I went to Brazil I travelled
to so many different countries I was
really lost but I was like hey I might
as well travel I didn’t know what to do
so I’m like let me just book a ticket
right I went everywhere around the world
and it was probably one of the
times of my life my gosh thinking back
on it kind of brings a tear to my eye
tear well I’ll tell where are you it was
very amazing and I was like a bit afraid
but the more I was like losing myself I
was actually finding myself you see
sometimes you need to lose friends to
find who you really are
mm mm mm slow motion this side sometimes
you need to lose security to find who
you really are sometimes you need to
lose routine to find who you really are
sometimes you need to book a one-way
ticket and never come back to find who
you really are sometimes you really need
to get lost
okay I get lost in the ocean in the
forests and that’s how I find myself do
you know how I started infinite waters I
was just in nature one day really lost
in a random forest and then I started to
do this what’s that that’s that good ass
piranha baby that’s the gift of getting
lost you come up with amazing slogans
like that whoa breathing in that good ah
spur on a baby shout out to everybody
who’s been getting theirs at Ralph’s
monochrome slash close look your parents
were crazy really really crazy like so
crazy it was unbelievable you wouldn’t
believe what they were getting up to
just ask them no they won’t tell you it
won’t tell you so many times when we’re
lost it’s because we think that
everybody else has got it figured out no
they don’t
okay all of those people who are taking
selfies on Instagram who have the
perfect life I counsel them
goodness gracious their life isn’t what
it seems to be it’s far worse your
parents to remind yourself you never
bought to see their wild days okay
because many times we feel lost when we
have a lot of pressure to say hey I’ve
got to get a job right now I’ve got to
get married right
now I’ve gotta have children right now
and we feel lost because we feel
overwhelmed
in other words feeling lost has a strong
link to feeling overwhelmed so what
helped me to find myself when I was lost
in life was to not be so overwhelmed I’m
like actually her mom was like dancing
to James Brown she was having those wild
nights okay
many times we never actually got to see
our parents wild days okay so realize
that they were lost – your mom was
probably a hippie somewhere okay your
dad was probably a hippie somewhere okay
they were probably so lost okay this is
what every body will have to go through
to become their greatest version it’s
what I call the rites of passage to
becoming your greatest version do you
ever think about that
all the great spiritual masters and
sages okay Buddha you always see them
alone slow motion this side because
sometimes you need to lose the crowd to
find who you really are that’s why they
went to the mountains the Himalayas
right – whoa breathe in that good ass
prana baby
right so realize that everybody is lost
in life at one point in their life okay
so realize that hey you’re not alone in
this it’s a process is part of the
metamorphosis the caterpillar is totally
lost not realizing it is actually
transforming into the most beautiful
butterfly mmm
slow motion this side like can you just
imagine if you never lost yourself like
all of those wrong terms can actually
help you discover a new path
all of those wrong turns of being lost
can actually give you a new experience
all of those wrong turns when you’re
really lost can actually give you
greater wisdom you gain wisdom from
being lost not only from being found but
from actually taking a wrong
you gain experience look I’m telling you
from personal experience I’ve been lost
all my life
we even had breakfast yet how define
yourself when you’re lost in life allow
yourself to be lost if you don’t know
your purpose if you don’t know what
you’re here to do on the planet if your
relationship you’re having a lot of
problems right now and you feel lost in
it realize it’s not gonna last forever
but allow yourself to be lost without
shame without guilt without trying to
get somewhere because all anxiety
emanates from the desire to escape the
present moment all anxiety emanates from
the desire to escape the present moment
if you’re happy where you are you can
never be lost if you are happy where you
are you can never feel lost I don’t even
care if you don’t know where you are if
you’re happy there you’re not lost right
right right
seven day vegan challenge shout out to
everybody on the snapchat actor das
Prada who’s been sending me while
they’re eating their meal plan I’m
inspired by you
your pumpkin yeah butternut squash okay
pistachios with dates you’re making me
hungry right now I’ve realized this that
one small piece of fruit will help you
step into the right direction take one
piece of fruit eat one piece of fruit
every single day to take one step in the
right direction you see because many
times many times when we’re feeling lost
we neglect ourselves we don’t practice
self-care we don’t practice self-love
and we find that when we lost we even
don’t even eat these beautiful grapes or
strawberries or dates right so start
eating good so you feel at home through
what you’re eating yes pass me the
those strawberries right this is
strawberry season driving down P driving
down PCH Pacific Coast Highway all the
time for many years and I always see
people selling strawberries I’m like hey
can I have some and they’re like oh
infinite waters take some I’m like
cheers thanks that’s the gift of being
infinite waters right right right look
how to find yourself when you’re lost in
life what’s helped me along my journey
is to stop blaming yourself for not
getting there yet but I’m not there yet
Ralph that’s why you feel lost okay
because many times we feel lost because
we don’t actually appreciate how far
we’ve already come hmm
slow motion this side mmm
yai Caramba you see if you learn
contentment say actually I’ve come a
long way I might not be there yet I
might not have a hundred million
subscribers but that doesn’t matter just
as long is just as long as I acknowledge
that actually I’ve come a long way I’ve
got to be proud of myself now you become
whole in other words you find yourself
many times we are lost in life because
we’re always wanting more never
appreciating what we already have we
have a lot of discontentment it’s time
to feel content is time to feel whole is
time to be found it doesn’t matter if
you’re not there yet
start enjoying the ride the process
forget about the destination that’s how
you find yourself when you’re lost in
life you see I’ve realized this that
situations happen to me all the time
crazy situations really ugly situations
and beautiful situations but ultimately
situations where the good or bad or ugly
won’t change the only thing that changes
is your attitude towards them slow
motion this side
so how I found myself when I was lost in
life when I was like what am I here to
do on the planet I don’t know I feel
lost like everybody else is doing so
much more better than me I realized this
situation I mean it’s not gonna change
but if I change my attitude towards it
if I can change my perspective
everything will change and it did and I
ended up in nature I ended up with a
whole bunch of grapes in my mouth and I
never felt lost again because a cat down
the road kept me company
where were you though right how define
yourself when you’re lost in life ask
yourself deep divers are my friends
helping me right now or are they hurting
me right now you see ever been in a in a
crowd impacts you know what I’m talking
about in a large crowd of people a sea
of people and you feel lost how is that
possible now some people can have
everything like so many friends but
they’re still lost right a lot of people
message me I get thousands of messages
every single day Ralph I’m so lost in a
marriage I’ve got tons of friends but I
can’t talk to them like I can’t talk to
them like I can talk to you Ralph I feel
lost so it doesn’t matter how much how
many friends you have the only thing
that matters is if you love yourself and
you’ve got the right ones
you see friends who help you will help
you find yourself they’ll help you
remind you of your greatness friends
that distract you friends that hurt you
on really friends right they will make
you feel lost because once again we feel
lost when we can’t really be ourselves
when we can’t really express ourselves I
used to hang out with a whole bunch of
friends and I always felt lost because I
couldn’t really tell them that I was
thinking about the fifth dimension and
the third I I felt lost because they
were just talking about other stuff and
I was thinking about other stuff so it’s
time to start realizing you need to make
space for someone who you can really
vibe with you can really express
yourself with and that’s how you find
yourself
you’re lost in life realize you’re gonna
need people I meet you
you’re gonna need people baby are we in
a gospel quiet kind of right now now
you’re gonna need people you’re gonna
need people right that’s how you find
yourself when you’re lost in life I’ve
realized this deep divers that many
times you have to take responsibility
for where you are like responsibility
means responding to your ability when I
was lost in life what kept me even more
in limbo inception here right really
lost because I was blaming everybody for
my situation yeah I’m lost in life
because of that person because of the
matrix because of the government because
of the terrible school system and guess
what that became a self-fulfilling
prophecy I gave myself an excuse to
remain lost mm-hmm what slow motion this
side how I found myself when I was lost
in life was by actually taking
responsibility to say actually I don’t
have to feel lost ever again I’m gonna
feel complete and whole because I’m
gonna take the responsibility for moving
to where I need to go to that will help
me become my greatest version deep
divers I’m talking from personal
experience I’ve changed my whole life
around and life is just abundant okay
now how define yourself when you are
lost in life many times we don’t even
realize that we’re scared when anxious
and what we do is that we hide these
emotions we suppress these emotions we
repress these emotions what I’m asking
you to do today is to feel the fear and
do it anyway because you become found
you become hold you become complete when
you take that giant leap of faith even
though you’re scared to a brighter
future
you take that giant leap of faith even
though you’re scared towards a bright
future I was scared to even start
sharing with the world but I’m like oh I
might as well
that’s my Pisces nature right I might as
well write and then it opened up a
window of opportunities for me to live a
life of infinite abundance so if you
feel lost in life it’s because you’re
scared you know that you really want to
do something you want to share with the
world but I’m scared Ralph that’s why
you lost so take the first step even
though you’re scared and you’re gonna
feel very uncomfortable but the more you
do it you are gonna have so much
confidence you are gonna find yourself
when you are lost in life and then well
you just say Phil so get to be a live
baby can I get a hello beautiful deep
divers you are amazing we just whoa
breathing in that good ass prana baby
have an amazing day deep divers infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well
stay healthy just whoa breathing in that
you I was lost now I’m found yes you are found

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