do not
[Music]
Hello, good afternoon, I’m here to
tell stories because that it is
td jakes of telling stories moments and
experiences and that’s also what it’s about
life of the same thing of living those moments
I’m a workshop and I’m dedicated to doing
workshops to design workshops for children
teenagers and adults
I focused on self-esteem and
emotional intelligence
children’s workshops are for children
of 5 for children from 5 to 12 years old
this was at first until it
well started years ago and starts
detect that already at 12 years old they were
teenagers were no longer small
then start designing workshops for
teenagers from 12 to 17 years old and I have
that was my need
emotional emotional education
the traditional education system that
we have not carried this is or as
matter teach us many things but not
they teach us to live and live processes
emotional we are going to carry during
lifetime
then I see that need and start in
this one in this wonderful world of
self-knowledge and human development and
good at par because one of my children the
minor took to the workshops of
self-esteem and the biggest I say the details
for kids and the eldest took the
workshops for teenagers the greatest
the small also took as
is and so I kept on working on
all this has been an experience
wonderful
the wisdom that has been beautiful has been
has
a child and a teenager is invaluable
for me they have an answer yes he had a
day you have a problem and you are in crisis
question of a child and will surely have
a really good answer really
however the ego and the pride of
adult limits us in fact we have
phrases used here how will you teach me
you mean when you go I already come yes and
then I close to receive
knowledge of my best mirrors
life that my children are because they are
little guys then I think I do not
I have to get them but I do not
I give permission and the opportunity for
they also take me from his hand and
then to me life I ‘m going to
teach in a strong way and I will
take a phrase from Albert Einstein that
says we are all born geniuses
we are all born geniuses but if you judge
a fish for its ability to climb
stevie trees this will live thinking all
your life that is a stupid or a useless
I’m sure he said stupid but
well let’s put it useless and then
ayesa there are my little ones
teenagers these are my groups have
some incredible answers and a day like
Today I’m going to experiential workshop
I was in a workshop and there is a dynamic
very beautiful and they come to the workshop and in
the morning crisp and we ask you
make a letter to a person that they
they admire a lot yes and they have not had the
opportunity to thank you then
they are with their excited faces
making his letters there are those who say hey
I can be two if fabulous is fine
and they already make their letters before finalizing
the workshop they are sure that the
they will read and if they will read it
then before the end of the workshop
we make a circle and they are asked
bring your letters because
they are going to read they are all really
excited to express their emotions
these letters are usually written
to dad or mom
that day was the first time I did that
dynamic and then this one goes back to
talk about the gratitude of the
admiration that they are worthy of
admiration too and I tell them they are going to read
his letter but he took the phone me and
I begin to read my letter and told him my
dad and I thank you and they stay
so we ‘re going to let them talk about their
faces change completely not from the
first girl that group was a group of
15 of 15 teenagers from the first
child girl and started crying ‘not reading
your letter and I said mom please
forgive me for not being what you want
but I love you very much and the other
message was the same type I’m going to
do as you want it to be mom yes and
there was my son
I thought the portfolio for me but it was not
for me laws to his dad
he’s fine he ‘s fine and he’s not
He mentioned that but I said the same,
I mention because I was here
if then what messages I gave there
tell how we are talking to
our children because I’m safe and
I am certain that those moms and those
dads love their children like they are
so how am I communicating myself
so that they receive a message from
rejection because it is rejection
If you do not like me, there is a
rejection and then it was very shocking
for me I said how am I talking about my son
I do not mention it but I’m still
speaking in the same way and I gave
account of such simple messages that
we believe us as I do not like the
music that you listen to I do not like this
as you dress you look nothing else like that
is
you do not accept me and if they do not accept me
he also does not love me is maybe what
enough or you do not love me like I am
I swear to you of the 15
I believe that 10 asked for forgiveness for being
How was it
and I said like a human being that is like
If I tell you right now, ask him
sorry next door is sorry for
be like I am
or dad or whoever month apology
I’m like that but I’m going to change
so for me that’s part of a
abuse that we are doing and there it is born
another need the address jiapaz the
do workshops also for peace not nothing
more for habits for me is very
important that they carry a
emotional education because of great
they will face with grieving processes
every day we are in duels and not
you knew
and that only accumulates because
from an expectation that someone will
he owed 100 200 pesos or 1,000 and he told you
who paid them on Monday and you did not receive
that money
you lost an expectation and they leave
accumulating and the day a crisis arrives
the day a crisis arrives then
you have everything accumulated since it arrives with
a divorce you do not know where it comes from and
all this not then all that
learning that I received from the kids in
the workshops because my children was
insulting is not the truth is that I
I’m going to I want to do this and I’m going to
do that and then it was born from a
need and now workshops of duels and
now empowering women and
now of dreams and goals and then I do not
I realized that not that someone was
watching and that went out to my children and
this child that you see here is climbing in
block
this one is climbing
in block they know the climb and it tells me
he did not tell me literally but with his acts
He tells me I ‘m not going to live like you
you want them to live and then leave the
race and there I face a good in
the adolescence
reads aleccione olé duque then now what
I see very badly yes because it is a
healthy guy who is fulfilling his
dreams that he’s living his life but I
I also noticed in that process that he
I was grieving the teenager is in
mourning is in identity duel
because he is no longer a child nor is he an adult
is looking for his own personality and
then at par
I realize that dad and mom too
they are grieving because they no longer have this
Habit is no longer a child and they begin to
lose control
that word and that emotion and very godly and
the children start saying I do not want
I do not like this
I do not think like you and a boy comes
a shock to break paradigms a
emotional shock for both then
imagine two people in the same house
with grieving processes because it is strong
in itself the grieving process is very
strong are five stages of the I’m going to
mention are denial negation
then comes the negotiation after
comes guilt or anger of pressure and to
final acceptance and that’s where
start to
I start and this starts with David and
David, as I was telling you, begins his
no sports career and it was great
because we gave ourselves to and I also gave
account that the educational system
traditional is very good but we have
another boy voice that they learn in a way
different and they need new methods
and fortunately now and there
we have constructivist matos we have
montessori methods and integrators
also and good but when still
I was in elementary school as in high school
Well, not yet, they were not very
anchored as now and begins and is in
its first nationals to participate and
[Music]
begins in his sports career and is a
guy who works because also
I remember that process leaves the race and
he says I say good but then you go to
work bear or study or work not
you will be doing nothing and remembered that
He spent a week watching the ceiling and
work to your room and the ticket
Kim
I said face and good maybe there
are your answers I ‘m not going to since
came to break my entire system of
beliefs and paradigms and everything I’m going to
give him the opportunity a week I told him
You know it’s good because you ‘re looking for a
I ‘m not a mom too
I’m going to look for work and everything and
is going to look for his work the fourth day of
that name is also difficult slab not
I do not find
I can not find work and that day was the
tomorrow and I said ok if you do not find
You do not get to work and not get to the
home because I could not you have already
decisions and he starts to good that day
in 4 work obviously if this was
fast and then now with david this
is in Cuba makes his trips abroad
but it has another way of life there are others
lifestyles
I want to tell you and message is yours is
that perfect dad for your children no no
you blame all we give what we can
nobody taught us to do for peace
and we want America whose ere known
perfect I’m not telling you in any
when you tell your children that
stop studying at all if this is
my experience with teenagers
This is my experience with my children and
point
I only ask you that this one is open to
learn from them that is open to
grow with them those too you
guide by the hand
David has a very nice phrase that
it says of small they teach us of small
they ask us what they want to be
there is when you’re small you
they ask what he wants to be big
some answer that doctor engineer or
attorney
I think it’s a good question in the
wrong time
how are we going to know what it is that
we want if we still do not know how much
what life offers us
david escalante escalada that is my son
I’m so proud of him
I’m very proud of him I do not study
He lived as in his time I wanted him
they saw me yes and that’s where many times
I wonder everyone wants the best for
our children have no children and who
wants the best for them lifts the
hand again I do not want the best
for my children sometimes I want that
want what they want and that
dream and live as they live
I say in an education they
they helped to believe in me and the bases
in that moment of adolescence and of
crisis that we had
I thought detente or because you do not trust
what you gave him is going to be successful
doing what he likes to do nothing more
and point thanks
[Music]
Hello, good afternoon, I’m here to
tell stories because that it is
td jakes of telling stories moments and
experiences and that’s also what it’s about
life of the same thing of living those moments
I’m a workshop and I’m dedicated to doing
workshops to design workshops for children
teenagers and adults
I focused on self-esteem and
emotional intelligence
children’s workshops are for children
of 5 for children from 5 to 12 years old
this was at first until it
well started years ago and starts
detect that already at 12 years old they were
teenagers were no longer small
then start designing workshops for
teenagers from 12 to 17 years old and I have
that was my need
emotional emotional education
the traditional education system that
we have not carried this is or as
matter teach us many things but not
they teach us to live and live processes
emotional we are going to carry during
lifetime
then I see that need and start in
this one in this wonderful world of
self-knowledge and human development and
good at par because one of my children the
minor took to the workshops of
self-esteem and the biggest I say the details
for kids and the eldest took the
workshops for teenagers the greatest
the small also took as
is and so I kept on working on
all this has been an experience
wonderful
the wisdom that has been beautiful has been
has
a child and a teenager is invaluable
for me they have an answer yes he had a
day you have a problem and you are in crisis
question of a child and will surely have
a really good answer really
however the ego and the pride of
adult limits us in fact we have
phrases used here how will you teach me
you mean when you go I already come yes and
then I close to receive
knowledge of my best mirrors
life that my children are because they are
little guys then I think I do not
I have to get them but I do not
I give permission and the opportunity for
they also take me from his hand and
then to me life I ‘m going to
teach in a strong way and I will
take a phrase from Albert Einstein that
says we are all born geniuses
we are all born geniuses but if you judge
a fish for its ability to climb
stevie trees this will live thinking all
your life that is a stupid or a useless
I’m sure he said stupid but
well let’s put it useless and then
ayesa there are my little ones
teenagers these are my groups have
some incredible answers and a day like
Today I’m going to experiential workshop
I was in a workshop and there is a dynamic
very beautiful and they come to the workshop and in
the morning crisp and we ask you
make a letter to a person that they
they admire a lot yes and they have not had the
opportunity to thank you then
they are with their excited faces
making his letters there are those who say hey
I can be two if fabulous is fine
and they already make their letters before finalizing
the workshop they are sure that the
they will read and if they will read it
then before the end of the workshop
we make a circle and they are asked
bring your letters because
they are going to read they are all really
excited to express their emotions
these letters are usually written
to dad or mom
that day was the first time I did that
dynamic and then this one goes back to
talk about the gratitude of the
admiration that they are worthy of
admiration too and I tell them they are going to read
his letter but he took the phone me and
I begin to read my letter and told him my
dad and I thank you and they stay
so we ‘re going to let them talk about their
faces change completely not from the
first girl that group was a group of
15 of 15 teenagers from the first
child girl and started crying ‘not reading
your letter and I said mom please
forgive me for not being what you want
but I love you very much and the other
message was the same type I’m going to
do as you want it to be mom yes and
there was my son
I thought the portfolio for me but it was not
for me laws to his dad
he’s fine he ‘s fine and he’s not
He mentioned that but I said the same,
I mention because I was here
if then what messages I gave there
tell how we are talking to
our children because I’m safe and
I am certain that those moms and those
dads love their children like they are
so how am I communicating myself
so that they receive a message from
rejection because it is rejection
If you do not like me, there is a
rejection and then it was very shocking
for me I said how am I talking about my son
I do not mention it but I’m still
speaking in the same way and I gave
account of such simple messages that
we believe us as I do not like the
music that you listen to I do not like this
as you dress you look nothing else like that
is
you do not accept me and if they do not accept me
he also does not love me is maybe what
enough or you do not love me like I am
I swear to you of the 15
I believe that 10 asked for forgiveness for being
How was it
and I said like a human being that is like
If I tell you right now, ask him
sorry next door is sorry for
be like I am
or dad or whoever month apology
I’m like that but I’m going to change
so for me that’s part of a
abuse that we are doing and there it is born
another need the address jiapaz the
do workshops also for peace not nothing
more for habits for me is very
important that they carry a
emotional education because of great
they will face with grieving processes
every day we are in duels and not
you knew
and that only accumulates because
from an expectation that someone will
he owed 100 200 pesos or 1,000 and he told you
who paid them on Monday and you did not receive
that money
you lost an expectation and they leave
accumulating and the day a crisis arrives
the day a crisis arrives then
you have everything accumulated since it arrives with
a divorce you do not know where it comes from and
all this not then all that
learning that I received from the kids in
the workshops because my children was
insulting is not the truth is that I
I’m going to I want to do this and I’m going to
do that and then it was born from a
need and now workshops of duels and
now empowering women and
now of dreams and goals and then I do not
I realized that not that someone was
watching and that went out to my children and
this child that you see here is climbing in
block
this one is climbing
in block they know the climb and it tells me
he did not tell me literally but with his acts
He tells me I ‘m not going to live like you
you want them to live and then leave the
race and there I face a good in
the adolescence
reads aleccione olé duque then now what
I see very badly yes because it is a
healthy guy who is fulfilling his
dreams that he’s living his life but I
I also noticed in that process that he
I was grieving the teenager is in
mourning is in identity duel
because he is no longer a child nor is he an adult
is looking for his own personality and
then at par
I realize that dad and mom too
they are grieving because they no longer have this
Habit is no longer a child and they begin to
lose control
that word and that emotion and very godly and
the children start saying I do not want
I do not like this
I do not think like you and a boy comes
a shock to break paradigms a
emotional shock for both then
imagine two people in the same house
with grieving processes because it is strong
in itself the grieving process is very
strong are five stages of the I’m going to
mention are denial negation
then comes the negotiation after
comes guilt or anger of pressure and to
final acceptance and that’s where
start to
I start and this starts with David and
David, as I was telling you, begins his
no sports career and it was great
because we gave ourselves to and I also gave
account that the educational system
traditional is very good but we have
another boy voice that they learn in a way
different and they need new methods
and fortunately now and there
we have constructivist matos we have
montessori methods and integrators
also and good but when still
I was in elementary school as in high school
Well, not yet, they were not very
anchored as now and begins and is in
its first nationals to participate and
[Music]
begins in his sports career and is a
guy who works because also
I remember that process leaves the race and
he says I say good but then you go to
work bear or study or work not
you will be doing nothing and remembered that
He spent a week watching the ceiling and
work to your room and the ticket
Kim
I said face and good maybe there
are your answers I ‘m not going to since
came to break my entire system of
beliefs and paradigms and everything I’m going to
give him the opportunity a week I told him
You know it’s good because you ‘re looking for a
I ‘m not a mom too
I’m going to look for work and everything and
is going to look for his work the fourth day of
that name is also difficult slab not
I do not find
I can not find work and that day was the
tomorrow and I said ok if you do not find
You do not get to work and not get to the
home because I could not you have already
decisions and he starts to good that day
in 4 work obviously if this was
fast and then now with david this
is in Cuba makes his trips abroad
but it has another way of life there are others
lifestyles
I want to tell you and message is yours is
that perfect dad for your children no no
you blame all we give what we can
nobody taught us to do for peace
and we want America whose ere known
perfect I’m not telling you in any
when you tell your children that
stop studying at all if this is
my experience with teenagers
This is my experience with my children and
point
I only ask you that this one is open to
learn from them that is open to
grow with them those too you
guide by the hand
David has a very nice phrase that
it says of small they teach us of small
they ask us what they want to be
there is when you’re small you
they ask what he wants to be big
some answer that doctor engineer or
attorney
I think it’s a good question in the
wrong time
how are we going to know what it is that
we want if we still do not know how much
what life offers us
david escalante escalada that is my son
I’m so proud of him
I’m very proud of him I do not study
He lived as in his time I wanted him
they saw me yes and that’s where many times
I wonder everyone wants the best for
our children have no children and who
wants the best for them lifts the
hand again I do not want the best
for my children sometimes I want that
want what they want and that
dream and live as they live
I say in an education they
they helped to believe in me and the bases
in that moment of adolescence and of
crisis that we had
I thought detente or because you do not trust
what you gave him is going to be successful
doing what he likes to do nothing more
and point thanks
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