get off I want to ride it I can’t grab
my new boy about one in four children in
the United States is the victim of
bullying hi I’m Rebecca Brayton and
welcome to watchmojo.com and today we’ll
be learning some simple solutions for
this traumatizing childhood crisis what
is characterized as bullying we’re
looking at one person who intimidates
another so he has a certain level of
control or domination we’re talking
about something that is repetitive
something where I come out of there
having a sense of empowerment or control
and the other person comes out of there
feeling yucky looser and are there
different types of bullying there’s
social bullying where for example girls
are very good at this right where they
ostracize you know she can’t play with
us cuz she doesn’t wear the same clothes
we do doesn’t have a makeup or doesn’t
swear yeah of course physical you also
have racial you have sexual and of
course what we’re seeing more today is
cyber bullying right where we have our
Facebook around MSN and you know this
week we’re not gonna play with Susie
where is bullying most likely
perpetrated bullying is mostly
perpetrated in the schoolyard would be
the number one area then number two
would be the hallway we also have
situations of course in the classroom
situations in the washroom area if we
ask children is there any bullying that
goes on in your class children will tell
you yes there’s this this this this and
this and this happened during X amount
of months when you ask the teacher is
not knowledgeable of a fraction of what
the kids saw is it possible to
characterize a typical bully and a
typical victim yes it is bullies are not
born they are made I often try to
explain that bully who is there who
keeps doing what he does to you there’s
a very good chance that they themselves
were victims or they themselves were
there when something happened and
watched and saw and saw that nobody did
anything about it or saw that they can
gain something from it and say hey if he
can do it so can I now victims believe
it or not certainly the way we raise our
children has something to do with it if
for example a child who was raised with
mommy at home tender loving care first
day at school or first couple of weeks
at school
somebody takes his juice or somebody
gets in front of him in line or somebody
does something which is totally out of
the ordinary for him because he or she
has never lived this while the other
child who is used to this rough and
tough type of world it’s just regular
day in the jungle for him please
understand that research also tells us
that there is a negative relationship
that develops between a child who
constantly goes and tells the schoolyard
monitor or tells the teacher he pulled
my hair he kicked me he called me fat he
doesn’t want me to play we need to give
more of an advice of try to iron it out
on your own initially here are some of
the things you can do that doesn’t work
then let’s go get help
my new boy about one in four children in
the United States is the victim of
bullying hi I’m Rebecca Brayton and
welcome to watchmojo.com and today we’ll
be learning some simple solutions for
this traumatizing childhood crisis what
is characterized as bullying we’re
looking at one person who intimidates
another so he has a certain level of
control or domination we’re talking
about something that is repetitive
something where I come out of there
having a sense of empowerment or control
and the other person comes out of there
feeling yucky looser and are there
different types of bullying there’s
social bullying where for example girls
are very good at this right where they
ostracize you know she can’t play with
us cuz she doesn’t wear the same clothes
we do doesn’t have a makeup or doesn’t
swear yeah of course physical you also
have racial you have sexual and of
course what we’re seeing more today is
cyber bullying right where we have our
Facebook around MSN and you know this
week we’re not gonna play with Susie
where is bullying most likely
perpetrated bullying is mostly
perpetrated in the schoolyard would be
the number one area then number two
would be the hallway we also have
situations of course in the classroom
situations in the washroom area if we
ask children is there any bullying that
goes on in your class children will tell
you yes there’s this this this this and
this and this happened during X amount
of months when you ask the teacher is
not knowledgeable of a fraction of what
the kids saw is it possible to
characterize a typical bully and a
typical victim yes it is bullies are not
born they are made I often try to
explain that bully who is there who
keeps doing what he does to you there’s
a very good chance that they themselves
were victims or they themselves were
there when something happened and
watched and saw and saw that nobody did
anything about it or saw that they can
gain something from it and say hey if he
can do it so can I now victims believe
it or not certainly the way we raise our
children has something to do with it if
for example a child who was raised with
mommy at home tender loving care first
day at school or first couple of weeks
at school
somebody takes his juice or somebody
gets in front of him in line or somebody
does something which is totally out of
the ordinary for him because he or she
has never lived this while the other
child who is used to this rough and
tough type of world it’s just regular
day in the jungle for him please
understand that research also tells us
that there is a negative relationship
that develops between a child who
constantly goes and tells the schoolyard
monitor or tells the teacher he pulled
my hair he kicked me he called me fat he
doesn’t want me to play we need to give
more of an advice of try to iron it out
on your own initially here are some of
the things you can do that doesn’t work
then let’s go get help
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