there are many signs that can alert you
that your relationship may be near its
end if only you’d listen hi I’m Rebecca
Brayton and welcome to watchmojo.com and
today we’re speaking with author JM
Kern’s whose book better left next time
gives us some insight into predicting
when your relationship might end and
what to do when you’re finally on your
own in the book you list some darkly
humorous signs that your relationship is
about to end could you maybe give us a
few examples one of them is you feel sad
when your partner is nice to you the
sound of your partner eating fills you
with homicidal rage another one is your
partner thinks they’ve told you things
when they haven’t and it means they’re
starting to lose their focus on you as
an individual and yours you’re not so
much they’re here they’re the primary
ear that they want to talk to as you
used to be another one is you find
yourself lying in bed late at night
inventory in the household possessions
and figuring out which ones you’re not
gonna let go of that’s not a good sign
the last time which I don’t think is
actually listed in the book is that your
partner seems to be very irritated by
your sense of humor like they don’t seem
to think you’re funny anymore or you
feel that way about them isn’t it really
any step-by-step program someone can
follow after breakup one of the things
you need to do is honor your own sadness
I mean when you do feel sad don’t try to
shrug it off or laugh it off or
something and then when you get over the
stage of sadness inventory the things
that you’ve lost because we actually
lose assets real assets when a
relationship ends you can even lose
financial assets and you need to protect
yourself you also need to make sure that
you don’t go it alone if the
relationship was really powerful then
our friends and our family have mixed
loyalties you know like so it’s hard to
be honest with them but you need to find
someone you can be really honest with
develop the parts of your life that have
nothing to do with your ex that you may
have neglected when the relationship
ends there’s an opportunity to pick up
the things that you dropped your dreams
and the friends that your lover didn’t
like and finally for all our viewers who
may be going through a breakup or
thinking of going through a breakup
what’s your one final thought for them
even if it feels like bad news there’s a
good news side to it the good news is
once you get over that disappointment
that your plan failed you actually
discover it wasn’t such a good plan f
so you really can do better next time
that your relationship may be near its
end if only you’d listen hi I’m Rebecca
Brayton and welcome to watchmojo.com and
today we’re speaking with author JM
Kern’s whose book better left next time
gives us some insight into predicting
when your relationship might end and
what to do when you’re finally on your
own in the book you list some darkly
humorous signs that your relationship is
about to end could you maybe give us a
few examples one of them is you feel sad
when your partner is nice to you the
sound of your partner eating fills you
with homicidal rage another one is your
partner thinks they’ve told you things
when they haven’t and it means they’re
starting to lose their focus on you as
an individual and yours you’re not so
much they’re here they’re the primary
ear that they want to talk to as you
used to be another one is you find
yourself lying in bed late at night
inventory in the household possessions
and figuring out which ones you’re not
gonna let go of that’s not a good sign
the last time which I don’t think is
actually listed in the book is that your
partner seems to be very irritated by
your sense of humor like they don’t seem
to think you’re funny anymore or you
feel that way about them isn’t it really
any step-by-step program someone can
follow after breakup one of the things
you need to do is honor your own sadness
I mean when you do feel sad don’t try to
shrug it off or laugh it off or
something and then when you get over the
stage of sadness inventory the things
that you’ve lost because we actually
lose assets real assets when a
relationship ends you can even lose
financial assets and you need to protect
yourself you also need to make sure that
you don’t go it alone if the
relationship was really powerful then
our friends and our family have mixed
loyalties you know like so it’s hard to
be honest with them but you need to find
someone you can be really honest with
develop the parts of your life that have
nothing to do with your ex that you may
have neglected when the relationship
ends there’s an opportunity to pick up
the things that you dropped your dreams
and the friends that your lover didn’t
like and finally for all our viewers who
may be going through a breakup or
thinking of going through a breakup
what’s your one final thought for them
even if it feels like bad news there’s a
good news side to it the good news is
once you get over that disappointment
that your plan failed you actually
discover it wasn’t such a good plan f
so you really can do better next time
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