Press "Enter" to skip to content

What do Poor People Dream About? | Josiah Cantrall | TEDxTucson


have you ever wondered what do poor

people dream about you know growing up

in the small farming community

Farmington I quickly learned or we had a

saying I should say that poor people

don’t dream they survive what I mean is

we never actually thought that anything

would change in our lives he worked 12

hours in the factory and you do that

your whole life like your daddy did

before you or you plant corn morning to

us and I was 17 years old I was making

fence line in Farmington with my best

friend and the farm and we’re talking

about London are both excited and I say

Tim someday we’re going to London and he

said maybe you will but I won’t I’m

gonna die right here on this farm I’m

Josiah Cantrell

I grew up in this rural community of

Farmington Wisconsin it’s a bustling

metropolitan area of corn fields cow

pastures and John Deere tractors and

inside this big area there’s a little

dot on the map called Fillmore that’s

where I’m from there’s two bars and one

church smack-dab in the middle Ray’s

there’s my 13 siblings nine sisters a

lot of beautiful faces around the house

nine sisters and four brothers and the

next closest town was a little four-way

intersection called cheese Ville and

there’s still a sign there out front

that says population 22 it’s run from

you know we’re always poor right but

that’s not a big deal right a lot of

people are poor it doesn’t mean you

don’t have a happy life but life really

changed one day I’ll never forget it I

woke up was about 13 years old and my

dad’s car was in the driveway

and I ran upstairs all excited and I

said mom did dad take off a work today

to go play basketball of me and she said

no your father has lost his job so he

spent the next two three years

unemployment rolls trying to find

whatever work he could to take care of

the family and I got my first real job

on a local farm shoveling cow manure

cleaning beehives spinning wrenches and

tractors and I was proud of it because I

was becoming a man like my dad helping

to take care of the family but I always

wanted something more not that I didn’t

love Farmington but I just wanted

something more than being poor so I

figured I should become rich and

successful then right but I didn’t know

anybody that was rich so I had to go

find somebody to help me figure this out

so logically I thought I’ll go wherever

rich people hang out so I went to church

picnics right somebody’s paying for the

building right or local fundraisers

somebody’s got a right to check and I

try to figure out who in the room was

rich so I could talk to them become

their friend and maybe they could help

me figure this whole thing out but I

quickly noticed they all had died his

clothes and suits and ties not only did

I not have a tie I didn’t know how to

tie one either so my grandfather hooked

me up with one he tied it but the knot

in there and I kid you not all through

high school all through college I never

once undid that tie

well I didn’t know how to tie it back on

you know I just slipped the knot down

gently hang it on the wall and when I

needed it I just put it on and put the

knot back up if there’s something else

you know I we drove old junky rust

bucket cars and at first I parked with

next to everybody else’s but then I

started parking blocks away or I’d park

in the back by the kitchen help coming

through the kitchen doors because I

didn’t want people to know where I came

from because if I told them where I came

from they would instantly start treating

me differently and I wasn’t even meaning

it was just like all of a sudden

expectations got lowered they’d say

things like I hear you know machine

operators make really good money these

days or you can make a lot of money as a

mechanic nothing wrong with those jobs

but I didn’t want that I wanted to be a

venture capitalist er go to Harvard and

so I thought if I tell where I come from

the opportunities in life that they’ll

present to you will be much lower so I

hit it and I’ve guessed that was kind of

ashamed of it till one day I met this

man his name was James Harris I’ll never

forget it it was at a rich community

called River Hills in Wisconsin North

Shore Lake Michigan it’s where I

discovered what a coat-check was you

know what is this and he was speaking

and he was just magnificent he was this

tall black man was smoothly shaved had

he had two gold earrings big silver

rings all over the world there’s a

speaker TV comedy or everything and we

became friends and he invited me on one

of his trips I’ll never forget it we’re

riding across highway 94 north towards

the Mississippi River and he’s playing

music and bouncing and these guys come

on and they’re singing something like

ABC one two three

this is the Jackson 5 so naturally I was

like oh you know like related to Allen

Jackson he’s like so he introduced me to

Motown that day and gave me the rich

cultural music history and then I

introduced them to Allen Jackson and so

he wrote on that trip alternating song

singing at the top of our lungs it was a

beautiful thing

well I’ve kept going to places and they

invited me on this trip to go to London

to be part of international delegation

to meet the prime minister of United

Kingdom of the time David Cameron as

housing 10 Downing Street and so I told

mr. Harris I said I want to go but I’m

not going he says what what do you mean

you’re not going

and I was like four Farmington it’s like

so I’m like no no you don’t understand

like from Farmington and you know that’s

a dead a winner and our front doors

broke so we keep a dresser propped up

against it so the snow doesn’t get in

but snow still gets in and accumulates

in her foyer and in the morning the snow

is still there because that’s how cold

the house is I can’t go I I have to take

care of my family he says no you’re

going and then he said something to me

that stuck with me forever you said I

don’t ever want to hear you tell me that

where you come from

well the termina will you end up so he

helped me raise the money I end up in

London I get a postcard and I send it

home to my best friend Tim made it to

London got home and started writing

nationally got a column in The

Washington Times I’m 20 years old at the

time start doing radio and through that

I ended up getting invited onto national

television Fox Business channel wants to

send a car to Farmington to get me with

some guy named David Aston and I don’t

even know who this guy is and to this

day I don’t know where he is but I’ll

tell you this

I heard limousine coming to Farmington I

was like all right yeah so they get me

down there and put me in the chair put

my makeup on and I was okay with that

and I got nine sisters I’m like you know

make sure it looks good and the bright

lights are shining I mean he’s like the

others it’s been a delay but don’t worry

you can have whatever you want to drink

and bring you whiskey drinks whatever

you need just relax I said I want orange

juice because you see better hard life

but my mother didn’t she didn’t cry much

she was a tough woman but sometimes she

would when I was a little kid I’d going

I’d hold her I say mom it’s okay someday

we’re gonna have enough money then we’re

gonna drink orange juice for breakfast

every morning because I thought only

rich people drink orange juice for

breakfast so in that moment I did viewed

on national television the lights of the

cameras on me I drink orange juice and

thought of her that appearance led to a

job offer National Coalition is directed

for a presidential candidate and I

literally didn’t care who he was I just

saw a ticket out of Farmington I took it

headed to wash in DC but before I went I

had to say goodbye to my family

pacifically I had to say goodbye to my

little sister Hattie she suffers from a

chronic disease Lyme disease and she

went from a track start to being been

laid and so growing up I’d always come

and Holi after milking cows and I just

sit there and say someday

Hattie I’m gonna make enough money to

get you better and on this day she cried

I said Hattie I have to leave all but

when I come back I’ll have that money to

get you better and so I left over all

summer sausage from Tommy Shui the local

butcher and jar of my grandma’s homemade

raspberry jam I ate that all the entire

first week because I didn’t realize that

in sometimes you actually can walk to a

grocery store

I mean this is like an all-day event if

you’re in Farmington sighs like oh gosh

I don’t have a car

walk there it always a wild ride like I

even know what I was doing half the time

right but I I had dinner with Hank

Williams junior agent and Nashville then

I met Dolly Parton’s agent and hung out

with Alabama but this guy named rich

Vincent to be partying there he’s a

member of the Hollywood Hall of Fame he

got his career started playing with John

Lennon and Alice Cooper

Rocchi and I wrote across Louisiana

Secret Service motorcade it’s beautiful

and then they’re looking for someone

write speeches I said I’m a writer so I

sent lines off to the candidate next day

on NBC he’s given a speech I turned the

TV on I’m like wow those are my words

I just wrote words for someone that

could be president United States I mean

this this is incredible kid from

Farmington

I was literally was just like wow and

then two days later I’m riding down to

Tennessee the campaign manager he says

so I hear you got this job cuz your dad

was a member of the George W Bush

administration I said no no from

Farmington right there was this silence

and I was like oh no so we get down

there calls all the staffers into there

and he says Josiah has been demoted

make no mistake Josiah is no longer

important and the time I was devastated

I just lost the biggest job of my life

not because of something I did but

because of my last name because of who I

was and who my dad wasn’t but you know

what it was the best thing that ever

happened to me

because I learned to embrace myself not

for my name or where he came from but

because of my talents and the belief

that I could get the job done and that

demotion that firing led to my life as

an entrepreneur so I learn

entrepreneurship all they really care

about is do you have an idea idea and

you can bring it to market you can make

look at the job done

so now I own a sugar-free food company

and I’m pretty well I actually sent some

packages down to Dolly Parton and her

tour manager agent invited me down for

the Christmas party even and that

journey of becoming an entrepreneur

wanting to be a venture capitalist I

decided I wanted to end up as a venture

capitalist and so I spent three years

pursuing this family actually with

Sheryl Sandberg’s family a facebook her

uncle and two cousins they owned a

venture capital firm Wisconsin and I

spent three years literally as I would

do it you know they’re part of that Club

so if I go there I might meet someone

there who has an email and then I can

need though and introduce too though and

for three years I spent this maze of

trying to fear how to get to these

people and it worked they took me out

for dinner they’re an amazing family and

I said how can I end up like you I want

to be an investor like you I don’t have

any money is there room for talent sue

brings me down there take the interview

I don’t think I have it but I didn’t get

the job and I called my old friend James

Harris and I said you know I didn’t get

the job and it kind of reminds to you

and I lost that job the presidential

campaign at this time I’m okay with it

because exactly because it’s not about

achieving something and this isn’t the

end of the journey you see in my mind

I’d always thought don’t I failed that I

fail because I failed to achieve my

dreams but really the victory was never

about arriving was having the courage to

try and get there it was the courage to

believe that something better was out

there to be 17 years old in Farmington

say I’m going to be there someday that

was the victory that’s the victory for

you – it’s not about thriving achieving

it’s about having a courage to get there

because you see it doesn’t matter where

we end up it doesn’t matter where I end

up all that matters is where we are

going and being brave enough to try to

get there

so what do you dream that really like

what is that thing in your life that you

want you thought about it lately because

I’ll tell you this what I learned coming

from Farmington that where’d you come

from

we’ll never determine where you end up

if you don’t let it so I hope you leave

here today inspire to dream again aspire

to take that step to have the courage to

believe that it’s possible can I leave

you with what I dream about lately is

that okay and I only do this is I hope

it really helps you paint a picture in

your head of where you want to be I

dream about a day where Patti is running

again and my whole family were camping

because I like camping riding down on

route 66 all 14 of us kids and night

would pitch a tent in the morning when

the Sun rises over the new horizon I

pour a glass of orange juice for my mom

and in that moment we don’t say anything

at all because we don’t have to

in that moment we know our dreams have

all come true thank you [Applause]

Please follow and like us: