few days the exit of the bubble that
supposed to have lived for a while in
a hospital because of a serious
disease makes you think new
challenges that until then had not
appeared by your head to the chest of drawers
sense of attention and protection
almost constant that that experience supposes
Hospital is opposed by the uncomfortable
but necessary task of having to
retake its independence
returning to depend on you as much as possible
it is a curious contradiction
depend on you in its proper measure to
that you develop that so
prized and sometimes buried autonomy
you have to learn to calibrate what
precise moments ask for real help
and in what is that dependency so
assumed the one that is preventing you
grow what you should ‘simple
important to find also that
medium term in which the help that
offer others is not
increasing their dependence on them
but it is a necessary help for
achieve balance between these two
situations will contribute to a better
location after the process a process
that is not always what it seems and is that
many people think that when you have
overcome a cancer
things flow in a placid way and
that everything is easily repositioned in its
place
everything in its place however we are
many people that we know this
it’s not always like that and when you’ve
gone through an experience of these
characteristics of weeks month
it’s even years between the four
walls of a hospital
the thing is not always so simple at
common words of support of affection in
the ones that people manifest their joy
for your recovery
your thoughts join in a sense
totally opposite and the fact of not
perceive of as happy as the best of
You are indicating that you may
there is something that is not going well
to all this is added the fact that
this is a reality about which almost
nobody talks about that very few people
think about that very few people
expresses
and it is not easy to spoil the party
when you are celebrating
the cancer survivors
cancer survivors
we need a time that allows us
relocate us in the vortex of the day to
day to adjust again to some rhythms
that we already had forgotten
We also need to meet again with
that person that one day we went these are
has taken a mini vacation trying
to focus on a cure that at
principle looked very far
now we have it back with us
and you have to welcome it and receive it with the
features that it now has
we also need to take up our life again
social and labor
a social and work life that may
are not the same as we left them but it is
which also happens that we do not
we are the same people as when we
we went
In addition, the sequelae give way to
new life that by puzzling and
differently , it generates a lot of anxiety
the bubble that is the hospital of the
continuity checks and tracking
all those adapted spaces are passed
a new routine that is no longer yours and
that you do not really know how to approach and
even more so when it comes associated with that
back to normal
founds with a disability by assuming
and is that imagine what it means to
a former athlete have to say goodbye
to your passion to your favorite sport to
cause of the disease with hardly
say goodbye and try to fill the gaps
that this one left him haciendas and
activities of different kind like
can good
you also understand how complicated it is to
times have to always ask that you
take and bring to the sites because you
It does not even vouchers for yourself to catch
for example a public transport
the alternative to this that would be
staying home is also not positive
for no one
you understand that it can be complicated
reintegrate back into social life
of your people
a social life in whose agenda you can
no longer appear your number because the
cancer made it unavailable
long time
You also understand what it can mean
appear for a job interview
with a resume whose line says six
years of intense hospital experience
does not add precisely points
to all this to these new routines and
realities are what we face
the people that we have gone through this
process and we do not know very well how
handle them
Of course it ‘s wonderful to have
the love and joy of the people
before your recovery
it’s a luck and a joy and it makes us
incredibly happy to be able to tell and
have a second chance but the
people have to understand that you are in
a process of change that is required of
a time to take on this new stage
It also happens that when you have thrown
the rest throughout the process
disease
there are those who deflate when everything
strong seems to have happened and they stay
without strength to face this new
stage is there when they can arise
emotions that may seem to not come to
story
that and also when we need
a lot of support and a lot of patience on the part of
of our closest beings because
reactions of anger and sadness to
sometimes disproportionate when
it is precisely assumed that the bad has already
past
it’s a bit incomprehensible to put
An example
who you can generate some
anxiety the usual phrase leave it to
morning
well that phrase to me when the
I listened already recovered when proposing
some leisure activity generated a lot
anxiety and I was not willing to
leave for tomorrow nothing that could
do at that time had checked
in first person who can tomorrow
never get to get distorted and
I was not willing to risk this
type of situations can generate
certain tensions with your more
close
you have to understand that you are in a
process of change in a process of
adjustments and that is being dismissed is
in full farewell of the person that a
day went away and that as management of the
duel that ‘it takes a while after
which everything will be again if not equal
yes much better than before yes that is
true that once you place yourself and
after these first moments of life
come out again to meet you for
show you that if he gave you a second
opportunity is for and for something and it is there
when you discover that this time
you can not even want to leave her is capable
thank you very much
me
supposed to have lived for a while in
a hospital because of a serious
disease makes you think new
challenges that until then had not
appeared by your head to the chest of drawers
sense of attention and protection
almost constant that that experience supposes
Hospital is opposed by the uncomfortable
but necessary task of having to
retake its independence
returning to depend on you as much as possible
it is a curious contradiction
depend on you in its proper measure to
that you develop that so
prized and sometimes buried autonomy
you have to learn to calibrate what
precise moments ask for real help
and in what is that dependency so
assumed the one that is preventing you
grow what you should ‘simple
important to find also that
medium term in which the help that
offer others is not
increasing their dependence on them
but it is a necessary help for
achieve balance between these two
situations will contribute to a better
location after the process a process
that is not always what it seems and is that
many people think that when you have
overcome a cancer
things flow in a placid way and
that everything is easily repositioned in its
place
everything in its place however we are
many people that we know this
it’s not always like that and when you’ve
gone through an experience of these
characteristics of weeks month
it’s even years between the four
walls of a hospital
the thing is not always so simple at
common words of support of affection in
the ones that people manifest their joy
for your recovery
your thoughts join in a sense
totally opposite and the fact of not
perceive of as happy as the best of
You are indicating that you may
there is something that is not going well
to all this is added the fact that
this is a reality about which almost
nobody talks about that very few people
think about that very few people
expresses
and it is not easy to spoil the party
when you are celebrating
the cancer survivors
cancer survivors
we need a time that allows us
relocate us in the vortex of the day to
day to adjust again to some rhythms
that we already had forgotten
We also need to meet again with
that person that one day we went these are
has taken a mini vacation trying
to focus on a cure that at
principle looked very far
now we have it back with us
and you have to welcome it and receive it with the
features that it now has
we also need to take up our life again
social and labor
a social and work life that may
are not the same as we left them but it is
which also happens that we do not
we are the same people as when we
we went
In addition, the sequelae give way to
new life that by puzzling and
differently , it generates a lot of anxiety
the bubble that is the hospital of the
continuity checks and tracking
all those adapted spaces are passed
a new routine that is no longer yours and
that you do not really know how to approach and
even more so when it comes associated with that
back to normal
founds with a disability by assuming
and is that imagine what it means to
a former athlete have to say goodbye
to your passion to your favorite sport to
cause of the disease with hardly
say goodbye and try to fill the gaps
that this one left him haciendas and
activities of different kind like
can good
you also understand how complicated it is to
times have to always ask that you
take and bring to the sites because you
It does not even vouchers for yourself to catch
for example a public transport
the alternative to this that would be
staying home is also not positive
for no one
you understand that it can be complicated
reintegrate back into social life
of your people
a social life in whose agenda you can
no longer appear your number because the
cancer made it unavailable
long time
You also understand what it can mean
appear for a job interview
with a resume whose line says six
years of intense hospital experience
does not add precisely points
to all this to these new routines and
realities are what we face
the people that we have gone through this
process and we do not know very well how
handle them
Of course it ‘s wonderful to have
the love and joy of the people
before your recovery
it’s a luck and a joy and it makes us
incredibly happy to be able to tell and
have a second chance but the
people have to understand that you are in
a process of change that is required of
a time to take on this new stage
It also happens that when you have thrown
the rest throughout the process
disease
there are those who deflate when everything
strong seems to have happened and they stay
without strength to face this new
stage is there when they can arise
emotions that may seem to not come to
story
that and also when we need
a lot of support and a lot of patience on the part of
of our closest beings because
reactions of anger and sadness to
sometimes disproportionate when
it is precisely assumed that the bad has already
past
it’s a bit incomprehensible to put
An example
who you can generate some
anxiety the usual phrase leave it to
morning
well that phrase to me when the
I listened already recovered when proposing
some leisure activity generated a lot
anxiety and I was not willing to
leave for tomorrow nothing that could
do at that time had checked
in first person who can tomorrow
never get to get distorted and
I was not willing to risk this
type of situations can generate
certain tensions with your more
close
you have to understand that you are in a
process of change in a process of
adjustments and that is being dismissed is
in full farewell of the person that a
day went away and that as management of the
duel that ‘it takes a while after
which everything will be again if not equal
yes much better than before yes that is
true that once you place yourself and
after these first moments of life
come out again to meet you for
show you that if he gave you a second
opportunity is for and for something and it is there
when you discover that this time
you can not even want to leave her is capable
thank you very much
me
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