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Trust me with your life | Daniel Koehler | TEDxFrankfurt


this is mama Newell alum booyah the time

he gave this interview to NBC warming

rule was 25 years old

mama Newell is one of the few United

States American so-called foreign

terrorist fighters

he’s a person who actually successfully

left the United States to travel to

Syria to join a terrorist organization

what we hear in the West usually call

isis isil daesh so-called Islamic state

he made it their joint organization

receive training and wanted to come back

in October 2014 he contacted the FBI

wrote an email said I want to come back

I need your help well the FBI was still

thinking about what to do with Mohammed

no he eventually made it back on his own

a couple of days later now I don’t have

his story in here today because he

actually made it back very few very very

few individuals make it back after

having successfully traveled to Iraq and

having joined ISIL of course he was

immediately arrested for the trial he

will eventually face about 25 years in

prison

what makes his story so interesting

today is that mama Newell had a very

very bright future ahead of them between

January and May 24 2013

he was actually studying at Columbia

University’s School of General Studies

making him arguably the first and so far

only known Ivy League student who ever

joined ISIL now the Washington Post

reported that more mineral wrote an

essay a student essay praising Franklin

D Roosevelt and Winston Churchill for

fighting against the forces of evil

under Adolf Hitler then that essay more

minou wrote quote I believe I have

greatness in me I want to be a superhero

we in the West

tend to think of violent radicalization

a process that would lead you to making

that decision of leaving everyone behind

joining a terrorist organization and

participating in a civil war that

process must be something pathologic it

must be a disease a sickness that these

persons are not normal they have to be

missing something in their lives they

have to be desperately longing for

something that they would actually make

that step now we also think that if you

have a loving family friends a job

future perspectives education you would

never succumb to an extremist violent

ideology or would you during the last

six years I’ve worked with close to

hundred and fifty families around the

world all of them have been affected by

violent extremist radicalization

processes

mostly so called jihadist radicalization

their sons and daughters and these

families wanted to join ISIL some of

them made it some of them came back and

I helped these families to prevent that

children from going further down the

road help them to return help them to

work with them when they eventually end

up in prison or when they were killed I

helped the families to grieve in short I

helped to deer addict lies their

children I’ve done that with a network

that I’ve helped to create an end of

2014 called mothers for life originally

it started off with four mothers whose

sons had been killed while being foreign

fighters while being active members of

ISIL and these mothers bounded together

today this network includes close to 200

families from 11 countries all of these

families either have lost someone they

loved or they’ve still someone alive who

is in the process of radicalization or D

radicalization now that network provides

help and assistance for these affected

families provides access and contact

points to experts that I train through

my own Institute for the organization

which mothers for lives a project office

called German Institute and

radicalization and davidic ization study

or Gertz which is located in stuttgart

which is very important because it

trains and I do that I trained expert D

reticles ation counselors family

counselors provide family counseling and

advise government’s how to build D

radicalization and family counseling

programs now when we look back on these

years of experience I’ve come to

recognize that there’s something that I

would call a radicalization recipe

that’s very individual it’s individually

mixed but always includes two sets of

factors it includes

negative factors and positive factors

negative are indeed frustration anger

when you lose your job when you have

fights in a family when you experience

racism or bullying in school we don’t

have a perspective or a lack of

education but that does not turn anyone

radical or extremist all of you in this

room have some kind of frustration that

would never make you considering joining

an extremist or terrorist organization

now the second factor set of factors

actually the positive ones our quest for

justice freedom honor dignity pride help

to defend your brothers and sisters in

Syria women and children to turn the

world to be a better place again

everyone in this room has a certain

degree of positive factors we have high

ideals hopes and values grown to live

out these ideals and values now these

two sets of factors there are blinded

together by a radical ideology every

ideology provides you with three things

provides you with a problem definition

it tells you what is wrong in the world

and what is wrong in your life and why

that is connects these two things

second provides you with a solution it

offers you tools to solve the problems

in the world and in your life and

thirdly provides you with a future

vision it gives you a specific goal to

strive for it explains to you why it is

worthy to strive and fight and

eventually die for a certain idea now a

group like ISIL which is a jihadist

terrorist organization

very easy core narrative and ideology

like any other jihadist organization

they think and claim that Islam is

globally under attack by the forces of

evil and disbelief second they say

there’s only one solution to that

problem which is making a stand fighting

back performing the violent jihad as an

individual duty for every true Muslim

and thirdly

they say every jihadist organization

does that the only true future the

vision what we are striving for as true

muslims is to establish and defend the

caliphate the almost mythical perfect

home state for every true Muslim to

protect Muslims to be a new rallying

point for them and I so claims that they

have done that they have succeeded in

establishing the caliphate so when we

look back and take this together its

radicalization recipe the ideology we

can see that it’s not frustration

theology adventure-seeking that

initially opens you up for that ideology

that narrative it is plain and simple

trust it’s plain and simple trust in a

specific recruiter in specific video

picture high glossy magazine that

transports these narratives in a very

specific way and ISIL knows how to do

that they have taken over a handbook a

recruitment handbook that was designed

originally by al-qaeda they just taken

it over and made it more specific which

is very very sophisticated includes a

five-step recruitment process actually

they wouldn’t even mention the term

jihad until the fourth stage because

they know key to reaching out to these

individuals and all around the world is

to gain that trust to build a positive

emotional relationship while of course

not every recruitment process starts

with a human recruiter being present

initially at some point a young adult or

teenager will get in touch will get in

contact with the person

has received that kind of recruiter

training so this trust that actually

someone has recognized the greatness in

you that someone is actually providing

you with the chance the unique

opportunity to be a superhero and to

change the world is what makes Isis so

attractive and other violent extremist

groups luckily for us violent

radicalization process are not a one-way

street they are very dynamic they go

back and forth and together with mothers

for life I work with individuals who in

the academia are called associate

gatekeepers gatekeepers are persons who

already have that trust that ISIL needs

to build up they already have that

relationship that ISIL wants to have so

ISIL is very careful not to step in

between a potential recruits gatekeepers

until their own relationship with that

person is strong enough to play that one

out against the gatekeepers gatekeepers

can be mothers parents family members

brothers sisters colleagues students

friends employers childhood friends

whoever has some form of close

relationship to that person it’s the

trust that exists between you and your

mother the felt when your mother was

caring for you when you were sick the

trust you felt when your father caught

you falling one day all the trust you

felt on you shared your deepest secrets

with your brother sisters or childhood

friends that’s the trust iceless envious

about and it’s the trust they want to

have as well so together with other

parents together with expert counselors

that I’ve trained over the years I am

using that trust I’m working with that

trust to turn around

isil’s own recruitment psychology

against the organization I’m

strengthening and protecting that

specific trust that already exists

between gatekeepers and the potential

recruit now to do that we need to

understand how to empower families how

to empower communities to become what I

call

in counter-narratives by their own

existence by their own by the way they

speak and interact with family members

with their friends with their students

they can completely take the fume take

the fuel out of isil’s narrative or the

narrative of other extremist

organizations like neo-nazi groups for

example we have to realize that mothers

for life Gertz and other programs that

are currently spreading adjust a first

start so what I want to tell you today

is what you can do to help me to help

the mothers for life in that process

first of all do not judge the families

these families are already feeling guilt

and shame they think it’s their fault

many have been blamed that it’s their

fault that their children have gone to

ISIL or other extremist organizations

they are feeling alone massively don’t

they think they are the only ones in the

world this has this burden and they’re

not a thousands of families around the

world who have experienced the exact

same thing so don’t judge the families

don’t actually think that is something

wrong in these families they have no

chance they are standing up against a

massively superior sophisticated and

wealthy terrorist organization that

directly charges or aims their own

psychology into these families and

communities second get involved get out

work in your communities work with your

neighbor your friends your corporations

universities whoever needs to see that

diversity and pluralism actually works

we need to show and build trust mean to

live out that trust to fill that gap

that organizations like ISIL and

neo-nazi groups for example prey on we

need to prove that even to our weakest

community members in diversity lies

strength because if we do that we

suffocate that straw fire that

organizations like ISIL use as a

fertilizer to grow division hate and

anger and frustration and provide that

solution

and thirdly every one of you in this

room today is an associate gatekeeper

every one of you so you have special

relationships trust-based relationships

with many people in your lives one day

you might come across a person here

about a person talk to someone who is

maybe in a process of radicalization who

knows someone else who might be in a

process radicalization not just only

ISIL base maybe a right-wing extremist

group or other extremist groups it’s

your role to use your own trust-based

relationship to trust you get from other

individuals to suggest alternative

solutions to suggest alternative visions

future visions because that is the

unique capability that you as associate

gatekeepers have you can tell these

people that they’re not alone that there

are networks like mothers or life out

there that provide expertise knowledge

understanding and tools to defuse that

radicalization process so what you can

do is spread the word follow our work

and connect us to those individuals who

need that specific expertise and expert

advisement and eventually to D

radicalize their beloved ones so in the

sense is up to you to shut the gate to

extremists and terrorists in our own

communities thank you [Applause]

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