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Tough Love | Raul Carrasco | TEDxSanPedroSulaWomen


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many of you will wonder what
it means this
I’m sure they’ll feel more
familiar familiar with the phrase
love and rigor that is more Latin
love and rigor emphasizes training
integral of individuals
in order to prepare them for their optimum
development in lives
note in this I did not say perfect
development of their lives I said optimal
development of your life I emphasize here
because life and time are variable
last October 18 this year
migdonia ayestas director of the
observatory of violence in Honduras
states that 55 percent of the
Death in Honduras is presented in a
population younger than 35 years
that is, our young people who
they are the present and the future are being
killed because of drug thefts
violence and lack of opportunities
however, guadeloupe
rapporteur director house alliance in
Honduras expresses that although it has
showed a decrease in these figures
they are still alarming are numbers
according to save the children
says that Honduras has the rate of
highest juvenile mortality of all
Latin America
according to said organization
39% forgiveness according to said organization
I think we’re hanging around with at level
worldwide juvenile homicide is 4
per 100,000 inhabitants
here is the data the world average is
of 4 per 100,000 inhabitants in
honduras of a 32.8 percent
I was part of several
of several programs where they helped
to poor kids
and without father
where it was used with philosophy of
impact helios love or just love
we noticed that consciousness towards
responsibility
and life
had been damaged by not implementing
basic concepts like working so
that you want or even make yourself feel
deserving of what is being obtained
God was a resounding failure because it was
gave them a false idea of the external world
that young people need to be
empowered at an early age
they need to be induced into a society
of order
of respect and love
it is clear that it is crucial
it is clear that inculcating the
love
but also the rigor
because change a life of this
it means to change a country means
change
a generation and even the world
and create awareness of this kind of
concepts is important for the
development of them
when we speak of rigor
we talk about showing young people
limits but beware of this
not limit your mind or your dreams
we talk about showing young people
clear consequences
where every action has a reaction
but neither do we seek to make them feel
fear
we want to make him understand the concept of
this as a moral value
and that I take it as my own
awareness of this kind of thing are
important for the development of their
lives
61 percent of drug trafficking in
Honduras is done by children
and there is 39% done by girls
these figures are super alarming
we have the real case
from a soul member
this boy
grew one of the most dangerous neighborhoods
from san pedro sula
surrounded
and violence
crime without any guidance or
discipline
it was a toxic environment
not only physically but also
emotional
this boy for
make a clearer idea began to ask
at an early age at the traffic lights of the
city
eventually the theft came
by the time he was eight years old he already
was doing drug deliveries for
gang members in the area
his despair did not block
any kind of awareness towards what
that was the wrong thing because it was the only
exit that he had to be able to
feed himself
and his seven little brothers
he grew up without understanding the concept of
loyalty
love
respect there was nobody there for
show him this kind of thing
when he became part of the
souliers program we came across the
biggest challenge of our lives
how to explain
and make people understand what values ​​are
human for how to do this
someone who does not even know this
type of terms
how to achieve this how to achieve
understand this to someone
that if for him the theft or the lie the
manipulation the aggressiveness were
natural to survive where he lived
then that’s where the process started
of impact
where what is attacked for soulier
they are the three fundamental pillars
in the formation of a boy which
are these three pillars
pay close attention to this
mind
body and soul
let’s go into each one of these
to try to define
the three pillars are going to start with
mind
when we speak of mind
we talk about giving young people
any kind of opportunities for your
intellectual development what do I mean
with this studies technical classes
tongues
culture
we talk about breaking paradigms we talk
to break boundaries we show you that there
a world full of opportunities there
outside
eager for change so they can
achieve it and why not
we undertake them we want them to undertake
We want you not to be afraid of
failure because they are being prepared
as warriors where the failure
I have really seen myself as such but more
well as
an opportunity
of learning to then return more
strong let’s define now body
with this pillar the second and not less
important we seek to create awareness of
that our body should be fed
in a healthy way
our body our vehicle of
impact and change but you
they will ask how you do that
how we managed to influence the
head of these guys in this pillar
and that’s where the arts come in
martial
the jiu jitsu the mma are our
impact tools the arts
martial allow us
inculcate honor loyalty allows us
instill respect
they allow us to present you with a world
different and ordered
with this one with this pillar and it calls me a lot
the attention the fact that
we immediately begin to see
behaviors different from when
they entered
they began to understand
order to be arctic
when this happens they were motivated if they saw
more motivated to change
when they were motivated to change
we can see
an increase in your self-esteem
and when this happens they start to
identify opportunities
then come the dreams
and when this happens
hope is born
let’s define soul
and esque
all these pillars form a narrow
relationship between them
unbreakable then it is clear that
the lack of one of them can
mean the breaking of the thin thread
between life and death in Honduras
with this pillar we seek to create awareness
we seek to create leaders
change’s agents
We seek to create with passion but also
rigor
in an optimal balance
Soler involves young people in
social activities in order that
you start to get familiar with this guy
of things
we identify the places of origin
and we push them to return there with
hope with light that they become agents
of change that become heroes
It catches my attention and I like it
this because that makes them feel like
in a certain way pressed so
positive to change
when using when attacking these types of areas
mind body and soul under the concept of
all loose love and rigor
we notice
that your safety
his self-control
their dreams
his life itself made sense now
it was interesting to see real cases
become living testimonies
us
we challenge us to prepare our youth
for the road and not the road for them
since we are preparing them for
Lead the destiny of humanity
Thank you
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