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The wonders of friendship | Brian Mathé | TEDxAgroParisTech


we are going
I evoke before and when I was 6 years old
with a friend who is leaning on me
we were going to find the new neighbor who
the envy asked if I wanted well
with us and we are packed and I
believe they were happy
come and get it just published at
hardly arrived in the super neighborhood
morgan and I think we too
was very happy to be able to expand
the band and that’s how like
all the kids of tragedy
with a group of friends for
main occupation on the other a
thirty minutes to play outside
trails as and when
years and the buddies who joined the
band of others who said to leave and
live and we have constituted like that a
great energy and winner later
rest it was about seven years old
was now frozen students
in cities
a little bit away we took a
some pleasure to be
continue to play outside what morning
get wet quite say the same
thing that means small trips
and its parts always like that in
does it keep because we do not win at
take a cadet trip to keep
while you know nothing and was
editor one day the organ has arrived
with this idea told us guys
it’s not an idea that I have it’s a
project to do it three years 54 me km
heard
all the continents I’m leaving in two
years when we earn a little money and
can do it only if you want
understand the first seven sets
you can then I do not hide
at the beginning I had a tendency to me
find in the opposite situation of
departure finally it’s me have been
look for an edward cheek
even if it wanted more public in
good shape and you know not do
less
the trip to the islands is something that
seemed a little too big too
awesome cold it was scary
so it was asking me to go out a little
little of myself to think beyond
my own limits
expand a period of thinking in rest
that I was wondering I’m going to spend
with in fact with others since
was now three cases to have been
engaged in this project there and that
some conceded by thierry so this
that I would like to share with you what
evening is sam it’s the propensity
sometimes that certain friendships will have to
to interfere in life and finally to
challenging us for this would
already well launched alone and he
out of the booting lot that would be almost
too easy to read so here are two
years later a bike up to his
yell everywhere a down each one in 3 or
4 years and 4 and especially the firm will
to continue playing
good now it means to go
the world with the strength of the legs
except that we are not alone since
the human is all the credit we
bike it’s really a trick it’s a
tool to be able to discover the language
and we had anticipated that barclays in
three years 3 years and now that’s
still far enough
kapil km to 6 may the idea was in
makes this state of mind that brings us together
it was not about getting into
small challenges he had to persists
in this big project that comes to 3
so the idea was really to get started
emperor challenges so let’s start
directly going to the heart of the subject
for example cross the 2500 km avenue
on a track of which nothing is known
does very little information about this
place we started to rub a
few satellite views will notice
village it was going to take 400
kilometers maybe at most
do not look at what the classes were
water for their habitat there are
and then we actually saw it
start to be conceivable that a
lethal product
we went through what these tracks the
transamazonian English in the norm
olive tree and a year earlier in brazil and
it was really the most
difficult both physically
speaking because he is extremely
hot 40 45 degrees it’s almost 100
years in moisture at times
getty both a day per person
a death these streams and the evening
I remember a little scared in my
mac of the world that the rhone sartini
brazilian know and city and the locals
the locals where you scare the
stories already see say yes yes
good pasdarans in reality she is there
while that’s what I’m telling you
through this challenge there is that in
did this daily that we had chosen
is not comfortable at all but in
doing it was something that we
solder day-to-day because
together to decide it would like to
every day day after day so three
years to launch such challenges
there but also three years to live
together
even though in quebec so it took
we learn to imagine ourselves 54
thousand kilometers roll together all
the days we eat matt hamill
of history together we share the same
tent we discover faces we are
realizes people are actually
we are all together
sometimes there are things that we do by
together
looks on and all that to tell you
that the fly learn to speak
together if we are childhood friends he
knows very well knows a lot of
wounds one lives in the context of
now in the united states that makes a
a year and a half when we roll we have a little bit
my radio that you help me we are not
cyclists and I had read a book
so many adventurers who had defended the
choice of yukon in his lineup and I’m going
propose the idea to friends I tell them
why not take a cupboard and
put dance bikes is based on
popular music game proposed
the idea an organ he found that
nice ienne and he found that it was
a very good idea and he had
started reading in beret feast so
peter thompson and dee but does not
more than pleasure raft researcher
of gold to him if we were to arrive
soon
and if not exhibit why stop at
12:06 the city is still looking for me
stop
well why we would not go
to the Bering Strait at sea
arctic is true that the bidding war
as this might sound a little has
strength
and actually the time because this
synergy that have developed wholesale
they were rather positive and
it is true that if someone had told me one day
that it be consistent with others too
to get off the Belgian would have
absolutely not believed okay but
yet we started thinking
together and that’s done so we
here on the 20 carats of our own
hands with the help of a fun
carpenter he met on the
road is at the beginning and it is not necessary
that I was proposed to undo this raft
I did but all that is more my
idea that I canoe down I have a
empathy quote also I feel that I
for paris is actually this
readability and d go in both
meaning it’s not because I’m
initiator of the snack or a project that
I put the sole decision maker and then I
discuss everything that the team of
search or again and it’s lost the
life in this project this is
that indeed creativity in
group is observed and proposed but
it is also knowing how to welcome the eye
on the other on his skin
I immerse myself in his head as the
basement very simple very happy that
you can foam with courage but
so this is also going at the end of the
end of the problem
so me on my diction here are the say
I think it’s completely crazy
so why am I talking to you about all this
finally
it’s to tell you is what we
could not bring another look at
our friendship is what we will be able to
say ok certainly we will have a cost
finally we dine together eventually
go on vacation together but friendship
lived to the end what is it
could be for us it was a
commitment in time we also discussed
to lebanon which is actually today one
tends to have a friendship like
that I see they are separating
so I can understand either
that ‘s so I talked about us because
that I could not talk about others
game examples for example take in the
happiness
maria Steve Jobs if he is well bump
right or not that share a couple
electronic gadgets shooting together
with a little daring and abilities
of each well used create his
computer on the water of the lord
know all that it’s become like
we can all say bad about success
commercial is extraordinary
then there is another example I like
very quickly in the social field or
corner politics thelma and louise two
heroines from a movie are two women
who are managers fight against the
patriarchy and finally there is she flees
the misogynist face husband completely from
one of them and they are rare
in a road movie completely
amazing and at the end she
wanted to residence even life one
sorry I was spoiler the movie
they go that far and me for me all
these examples there he wants to say
really the friendship lived up to so
I ask you about me, I warn you
well the big ideas in content
a little philosophy of life
warm up an idol to wait
the boys and we had with others
publishers and wrote a book about our
first big trip around the world and
he arrives collection that was
interesting that could lend to a
rally on friendship
we started working on it
together and so I bought a pile
books
we do not start very big
already not bad I started reading
his subject what we saw
ultimately it is the relationship that exists
and that it can not be obvious at all
me not between friendship and democracy
explains christophe anquetil acts
democratic elementary what is it
enough talked together a free dialogue
104 egalitarian as well but in view
an action that goes in the direction of
common interest common interests one
has previously defined the whole and
who can at any time be
modified so in fact democratic and
social
this virtuous process finally the word
Republic
the etymology is res publica the cause
politics so the public cause
defended from fatigue
so I read it’s really slow rain
or on your oracle would actually like
that’s exactly what we did but
in our little microphone can help us
to us to play right and I believe
that today in our culture
modern western alternately have
a craft like the times something
of the order of the respondent domain rider and
we understand for example the watch
the announced that I also wish that
everyone knows but who is
institutionalized institute in the
public domain through marriage has nothing
equivalent to the friendship we will
see the good nowadays the heavens
like that in public friendship
what does it mean
aristotle 10.1 in the noblest sense of the
term it means to be an actor of
the year will have for us that wanted
say serious and demonstrates has gone through
deserts of young people lined up on 20
km per day
and it’s true that when we tell
how for a long time tells the
trip on
and I actually had it
very good school to learn to
live together
but that’s not the way I did it
to bear but fashion for three years
so I come back more tolerant in
normal life is finally it
was a little bit to say to himself is this
we could not see that kind
of adventured also learning the
flat some jackets and a respect that
actually means in the other barge the
elbows before judging
and you say why he did not
maybe a good idea
the direct ones with my idea is from the
defense so that’s why he does not want
say yes to please the other
he does not want to say no so inflate this
we are yours is it simply
Jacques Caraës I do not think he is
archi the care of the possible actually under
the pool and during all this
adventure that’s really what I have
learned when we lose
and if I could leave you with
something tonight that would be
maybe a little bit of consistency and in
this pro of African proverbs which I
believe is known by many people
who says alone we go faster
together we go bigger wines so I
will not leave you now because
I have friends waiting for me
for the Vaudois moral thank you
[Applause]
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