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Tearing Down Walls – Building Bridges | Cristina Cortez | TEDxEverett


well thank you for those words drawn

I feel really pleasured and pleased to

be with you

today all of you and thank you for being

here thank you were sharing a time and

thank you for allowing me to talk to you

today I would like you all to take a

moment to picture this a 27 week old

baby girl has just been born

she sure has she is shown to her father

then to her mother and taken to the a

nice and ICU because her lungs aren’t

developed and she can’t breathe it’s

uncertain whether she’ll survive the

night it’s uncertain whether she’ll live

at all but of course she does a year

passes her parents notice she’s noticed

she’s not developing as she should they

put her into therapy like a year passes

and no progress is made hardly any on

their own they try to find they try to

find out all they possibly can to figure

out what’s going on with with their

daughter this shouldn’t be happening and

and they come to the realization that

come to the realization that she has

cerebral palsy CP the diagnosis is

serious it is real

it’s quadriplegic she is they are told

there are no expectations absolutely

none but from the beginning neither the

prognosis

neither the diagnosis nor the prognosis

stopped the parents from giving the

daughter every thing everything that we

that we deserve as human beings they

gave everything to her that she could

possibly need to live as a human being

because they saw in her eyes and her

smile the spark and life that we have

when we are first born they saw that

potential and they went with it what

they saw was nothing more than what we

all have pure potential they use the

date untap they attacked it and they

made a future where there would where

there was none when there should have

been none from the beginning there was

no there was there was absolute belief

that this child would turn out as they

had hoped there was no doubt that this

child would become the woman you see

before you today

the woman that they have that my parents

have made me is all because of potential

and the belief that potential is all we

have to work with it’s not about

limitation is not about disability it’s

not about putting putting caps on

yourself putting lids on potential it’s

all about embracing

change and embracing the change that we

have to have our our lives be completely

be completely different than what they

could be or what they should have been

in in my life I have learned a very

simple but powerful truth life is

difficult but when you don’t accept that

life is difficult life becomes

impossible that’s the first noble truth

that the Buddha taught back in 600 BC

and that truth has stuck with me from

the beginning of my life to the be get

into the to the current day to the

current time that we have that we are

sitting here today listening to this

truth again and for me it’s all about

community community is nothing more nor

nothing less then all the people we

connected to in our lives and are

connected to community doesn’t stop

within the neighborhood neighborhood it

doesn’t stop with social media it goes

on with with every person we touch and

every person we touch is impacted by the

voice we have by the way we treat them

by the way we embrace life by the way

that they embraced us and our community

goes beyond goes beyond family it goes

beyond friends it goes beyond every

single every single boundary that we can

possibly think of and for me what

happens with that is absolutely

absolutely magical when you do not

embrace when you do not see boundaries

there are none when you do not see

boundaries you can make new

possibilities and for me all that all

the boundaries that exist in the world

our just physical this chair is not even

is real right

but this chair is just only as real as

you think of it as you think of it to be

for me it’s not about being bound to a

wilter it’s not about being restricted

it’s about having a freedom that I

otherwise would not have had I otherwise

would not have had the freedom to move

around nor the freedom to act it’s about

freedom life is about freedom all life

all community all connection is about

taking that freedom and going forward

with it if I could change if I could

make a difference why can’t we all make

a difference why can we all tear down

bridges and tear down walls and build

bridges instead why can’t we all make a

change to change our lives to transform

them that’s the message I want to leave

you with and that’s the message you

deserve to hear because you can make a

mark on the world and live your life in

the limits thank you [Applause]

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