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Success means different things to us all | Mairead Crosby | TEDxShannonED


what is success I’ve worked employee

relations for many decades and one of

the things that I keep finding is that

people judge success on having a good

leaving certificate a first-class

honours degree a master’s or even a PhD

but success is something that is

completely different to each individual

person it’s a personal thing so what

success means to you to you and to you

is something that will be completely

different I believe success is about

finding a healthy balance in life that

is right for you finding that balance

it’s ongoing it’s a process it doesn’t

end because it’s not the fact that you

have an end goal and you achieve it and

suddenly you have a calm peaceful

meaningful life and because of the fact

that it’s ongoing if you will evolve and

it will change education is one of the

keys to that process education is what

helps us to achieve that one thing we

want to do in our lives so that it can

be a success for us and finding that

balance will be very different so along

the way for each individual we will

acquire new skills new learning and the

good thing about education is that it is

open to people from all backgrounds

there’s no limitations and it allows us

to expand our human mind with knowledge

so what it does with education and

knowing that we are going to be

successful it means that our dreams can

become a reality and sometimes our

dreams don’t happen and the reason they

don’t is because we don’t believe enough

in ourselves we tend to sell ourselves

short because we believe that we won’t

reach that what that goal is to be and a

good friend of mine recently told me

when I was telling her what I was

preparing for and she said her motto is

if you dream us you can make us and if

we look

when we start with our dreams and

aspirations they start from a very young

age I’ve a nine-year-old daughter Anna

her dream is that she’s going to work

for NASA and she’s going to be the first

woman on Mars to prove it she has a

solar system in her room for the last

two years when she decided that this was

her dream each year it comes up and even

Santa now knows what needs to be there

to add to that so that each night she

can focus she knows what her dream is

she knows the path that she’s going to

get there that’d probably be twists and

turns and few diversions and probably a

few bumps along the way but if she

continues to maintain her belief it’s a

possibility yes she will go through

education and she knows the route that

she wants to take and it would be

important that she attains those skills

as she goes through education but it’s

not just education it’s also going to be

the social skills that she needs to

acquire along the way so it equally is

the role of pollen eyes her parents to

assist with that side and the educators

to help her along the way in relation to

what she needs to achieve academically

so education and we go back to it being

a process we start educating from when

we were very very young to the time that

we start learning to feed ourselves when

we’re learning to walk and each time as

we evolve we’re learning new skills

socially but on the job in the school

college format as part of life they say

that in the first five years of your

life you learn more than you will learn

for the rest of your life so if we take

it back to that that means that at that

time during that time that’s when a

child becomes the person they’re going

to be it’s when they learn there so many

of their social skills their empathy

about relationships

boundaries and we know the phone with a

young child trying to learn how to push

boundaries they’re very good at us so

when we look at that and take it into

context as we progress some interesting

facts to share with you this morning the

good news is that there are experts who

stated that if you’re 60 years old in

reasonably good health the good news is

that you are going to reach the big 100

the not so good news is that a result of

this it means we’re going to have to

work longer so as a result of working

longer what they say is that we’re going

to take some time out we’re going to

have recuperation we’re going to be up

skilling ourselves we may even have some

career changes along the way because we

now will be working until we’re in our

80s so the traditional life model that

we’ve all known that the experts have

said is that from 15 to 21 you’re an

early adulthood so that’s full time

education from 21 to 65 that’s the

career move potentially across three

companies then from 65 to 80 retirement

on the self funded pension so as a

result of that lifestyle change what’s

this going to mean for education is a

huge shift in how we educate ourselves

both on the job because we’ll be

developing goes back to recuperation to

upskilling ourselves and all the changes

that new advanced technology and to be

fair even sitting here today there’s

probably technology we don’t know that

will even be developed that could be

here in less than five years so if we

take it back to education education is

not just the traditional route not

saying there’s anything wrong with third

level institutions but it’s open to us

as individual it’s not for each person

to go that route but there are other

options available and here in the mid

west of Ireland were very fortunate we

have University Limerick we have

Limerick and truly Institutes of

nology our education and training boards

the local development companies and we

have a host of apprenticeship programs

we also have the midwest regional skills

forum which was founded in 2015 and this

was part of the irish government’s

national strategy skills strategy which

was going to bring employers and the

educators together to look at what are

the emerging skill needs in each region

because there’s nine regional skills for

in ireland so when we look at that and

all the different opportunities that we

have there’s so many different paths

that we can take they don’t all have to

go straight from A to B as I said there

can be many that have diversions you can

take a long route it really depends what

success is for you what do you want to

do and how do you want to get there and

if I look at someone who’s taken rather

a long path to get to what they wanted

to achieve want to share with use my

brother Neil academically Neil thought

he’d never finished school leaving cert

on I think everybody breathes a sigh of

relief so he decided because we were

farming that he was going to farm and my

mom stopped him one day and she said why

are you doing farming he said because

that’s why not that’s what we do and we

have a farm I you know dad’s not going

to be there forever he’s going to want

to step down someday and she said but

why are you doing it and he’d never

thought about that because he wanted to

that was it had to be done and she said

what do you really want to do with your

life is it farming and he said of course

it is off he went and he did an

interview because he had to do in

agriculture course and my dad got a call

to say he did really well but he

actually talked about horses for the

whole hour he was in there and this is

specialization for pig farming don’t

really know it’s my moment back to her

conversation

and so they think have you thought about

this and he went I till want to let you

down I’d love to work an IT because he

was always breaking our toys and putting

them together not so successfully

sometimes so he decided then he was

farming by day and with a government

body called force he did nighttime

courses in IT so after a year he then

took up a job as a junior person with

NIT he progressed through that and

continued on his nighttime programs

again the study but at least he was

doing something he enjoyed for the first

time today he’s a senior IT manager in

an international security IT firm he

works side by side with peoples who

academically are much more successful in

that sense of what he was they have

masters and degrees he took a longer

route but he got to where his dream was

sometimes it takes a little help from

somebody else and whoever said moms know

best so if we look at that and look at

it can be achievable it all depends on

what route you want to take and if i go

back to anna and her dream to be on Mars

the other day we were talking and she

was really excited NASA have just

announced that they have a new program

Mars program they’re going to put people

on Mars by 2030 to 20 30 50 she’s there

she’s getting ready her dream can become

a reality so the fact that she goes to

sleep at night looking at the solar

system she can now believe actually one

day I will be there so it’s up to each

of us so if there’s one things that I’d

like you to take away with you this

morning it’s this ask yourselves what is

success for me and when you’ve answered

that ask yourself how do I make that

happen

and then when you’ve vast answered you

know what your path is what you need to

do to be successful remembering it

different for each individual person

that is here so to be very different for

you for you and for you thank you [Music]

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