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Retirement – a false goal? | Carol Black | TEDxNewnham


retirement why are we stuck with the

word retirement it’s a false goal if you

look in the English Oxford Dictionary

for the definition of retirement you’re

told it’s rest rest in bed seclusion

removal from action and danger and of

course giving up your job or your

professional activity

well maybe six or seven years after

retirement some 30 years ago you were

dead but now we live 30 or 40 years

after we retire is that going to be

lying down is it going to be in

seclusion somehow the word retirement is

synonymous with I’ve done it I’m now

going to rest

I’m going to take a break but even worse

it’s also thought that it’s good for our

health well nothing could be further

from the truth it is not good for our

mental or our physical health I often

get quite annoyed when people say to me

I’m going to take the lift not the

stairs because you know I’m getting old

why can’t we have a new name why can’t

we have a name that indicates that we’re

vibrant we’re active we have purposeful

activity so please could you think about

a new name for me some two years ago

when I was on holiday I was browsing in

a bookshop I came across a book about a

woman called Clare Boothe Luce she was

an American diplomat when this book was

written she was 80 years of age just

inside the front

cover this woman said I will be

ambitious until the day I die when you

flick through the pages you got a sense

of a truly vibrant woman who was really

living her life she was still in paid

work she was doing voluntary work now

contrast that with mr. Wright mr. Wright

was a friend and colleague of my father

they both worked in the coop warehouse

mr. Wright joined the coop at 16 he was

going to retire at 65

they gave him his gold watch and I was

talking to him over the fence about two

weeks after he retired I said mr. Wright

what are you going to do he looked

rather soulful and down and then almost

in tears he said to me I have no job I

am waiting to die I was 16 of course I

thought I was immortal I was really more

concerned about my own levels the mr.

Wright and his problems I wasn’t really

very sympathetic mr. Wright was dead by

17 he had no purposeful work he had

nothing to live for now work is defined

in the dictionary as purposeful activity

it could be paid could be unpaid it

might be full or part-time or

self-employment you might be caring for

someone you may be a homemaker bringing

up a family you may be doing voluntary

activities all of these things are

social good and individual good they are

purposeful activity I want that work

be good work I’m not talking about bad

work and there is quite a lot of bad

work around I’m talking about work where

you feel valued where you listen to

where you’re given a sense of control so

I have to tell you about my underground

train driver this was when I was

national director for health and work

and I thought that some people had very

boring jobs so I said can I go and join

someone who’s driving an underground

train so I joined my driver at Baker

Street tube station it was the early

shift 5:00 a.m. in the morning we sat

together in his little cabin well I got

pretty bored we went up and down the

Bakerloo line so I said you know could

we do the Jubilee Line and and this is

an awfully early shift and wouldn’t it

be good for your family if you could

have the afternoon shift and then I said

course if your employer was a good

employer you could have a week above

ground at the barriers talking to people

and then three weeks underground in this

really dark tunnel well he was very

happy to drop me off well when he

dropped me off what he did it was

wonderful he banged on his reel and said

looking fairly cross with me this is my

train nothing happens here but that I

give the orders I’m responsible for the

safety of the people behind me I’ve got

good mates I don’t want the Metropolitan

Life but I don’t want a later shift

we’ve got good occupational house I’m

reasonably well paid more or less he was

saying go away

now I thought my train driver would be

in that job until he was in his sixties

until he was going to retire but then

what had we thought about him having new

skills did he have an educational need

or was he going to sit lie down and

shrivel this was a man with purposeful

activity now for most of you in the

audience this will not be a problem you

will have thought about this transition

period and what can happen afterwards

but there are thousands and thousands of

people out there who are not in the sort

of jobs where they have thought about

this I believe if someone is mentally

and physically able if they have

aspirations if they have hidden

ambitions they should be able to do this

at whatever time of life they are indeed

encouraging my train driver to slow down

to sit down take more rest is actually

bad for his health just to concentrate

on one part of health just let us think

about physical activity we now know that

physical activity is very related

strongly correlated to your overall

health

in fact it’s bad for you to really just

rest and sleep and do nothing else and

we now know there is a medical condition

called frailty if you’re frail you sit

more when you walk you walk far more

slowly your grip strength gets worse you

feel exhausted

and you lose weight now that condition

of frailty you might think happens oh

well after when you’re 80 but let me

tell you there is good evidence now this

happens to people in their fifties and

their sixties and it is correlated with

your ability to be in work so we don’t

want to be encouraging people to do too

much sitting which brings me to my story

from this summer I was on holiday in

Spain on a walking holiday um and it had

been rather wet and damp we were coming

down the mountain and I fell and I

fractured my left leg fortunately just

the small bone in my left leg I was put

in a nice boot with a rocker and I could

walk pretty fast but all my friends were

highly protective Carol I think you

should sit down let us make you a cup of

tea it would really be better if you had

a car to go there and then one friend

said well why don’t you take two months

off work it’ll help you recover as if

just resting was going to help me

recover indeed the opposite is true if

you want a bone to heal you have to give

it some messages you have to give it a

little bit of tension so walking was

very good for me and I did walk and two

weeks after my accident then I was able

to join in the Cambridge Chariots of

Fire race I just did fast walking now

I’m really pleased to say that a light

bulb has gone on in Whitehall the

government really gets this connection

and is concerned about it so just before

Christmas there was a very good report

published which linked active aging to

our musculoskeletal system and being

physically active with some pretty good

advice about what we might do and I’m

really delighted

that our charities for example Age

Concern are right behind this movement

but what would I like to eliminate from

the way we think about and indeed treat

older people well I want to eliminate

our being overprotective you know what

we say is well you might trip or fall if

you go out you might break your leg so

why not sit at home we make them less

self-confident they know that they’re

balanced this is just good we all know

our balance isn’t as good as we get

older but rather than be hugely

protective so they don’t go and meet

their friends for coffee they don’t go

to the church hall to have afternoon tea

they don’t go and do their shopping why

don’t we help them do things that

improve their balance you can clean your

teeth standing on one foot that’s very

good for your balance and surely it is

for the social good and indeed it would

cost less money if we concentrated on

being positive rather the leaving people

in their home secluded and if you’re

secluded you become lonely and I don’t

need to tell you that loneliness is now

a national disease the other thing I

really get upset about is going into a

care home now some care homes are very

good but I’ve been into too many when

you go in and you see people just

sitting all around the room they’re not

talking to each other some of them are

just looking straight ahead some are

looking at the television but there’s no

purposeful activity now why aren’t they

on the floor doing a movement Plus why

aren’t they going out for a walk or what

about a bit of yoga or

simple artists why isn’t there some

purpose now my own life has had many

episodes of purposeful activity and many

of them have been after the age of 50

indeed many of the best things have been

after the age of 50 I would describe

myself as a late developer I became

national director for health and work at

the age of 66 and had a wonderful

challenge but earlier in my life I

didn’t have enough confidence I wasn’t a

good enough risk-taker

there were periods when I was pretty

static but things did develop after the

age of 50 and I talked about this when I

did Desert Island Discs and I was

immensely moved by the number of people

who either wrote me emails or letters

and told me their stories their stories

of how they wanted to do things after 50

and 60 their aspirations their ambitions

their hopes

it was truly moving just to give you an

example of a really good message that I

received was from a woman who said well

my husband had a very good career and

he’s thinking of taking early retirement

I took some time off with the children

got a part-time job then a full-time job

and now it’s my time I want a career I

might live to be a hundred so I told him

I’m just starting

we often inside do not feel confident

when we go for jobs at this age will

they regard me as old incapable not

mature

will I be resilient enough why can’t

they see us as experienced capable

people who will do the job

surely that should be possible I’m going

to be flippant for a moment because I

want to talk about clothes and shoes now

when you get to my age should you want

to buy fashionable clothes I can’t tell

you it’s difficult what they would like

to do is to put us into rather long

skirts the colours are often drab and

there’s a lot of sort of pale floral

colors and it gets worse

when you want a pair of jeans really you

shouldn’t be wanting jeans at this age

what about shoes I can’t wear those very

big heels but I could wear elegant pumps

with a heel that is suitable for me

feeling a really competent woman at the

age I am why do these retailers not see

us as a market why are we not encouraged

to go into those shops like the young I

wish that that could happen so I talk to

you about retirement I taught you about

how its defined that you will sit that

you will lie down that you’ll be

secluded removed from the world I don’t

want that I want anyone and everyone of

that age to feel that they have purpose

and that they can live life to the full

you often feel there is a deadness

living I hope to be ambitious until the

day I die I will not be part of the Living Dead

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