[Music]
good evening we’ll talk about a very person
important someone essential in
your life do you know who are we going to
talk ideas people well we’re going
talk about you why not because
you are the most important person
you are for you the most
important so we’ll talk about you and
I would question because sometimes
you say to yourself I’m lucky I
the chance of what the chance to have a
housing having to eat to have the ctu
to have peace since finally his
70 years we have no war in
la France
and then especially to live in one of
richest country in the world has this
chance in this protected environment
she gives us plenty of life choices
full of opportunities full of freedom
you may have a doubt about that
since we hear people say
that finally France is not top
top well do not hesitate do not hesitate to
tell you more often and to watch
more often what you have and she
counted she materialized and less
often what you miss
do not hesitate because just
take a phone or look at
information also to you compare in
less comforting places so in
this comfortable environment you have
want to succeed in your life and to be
happy for that you will fill it
many things that make you feel good
first of all moments with friends
the family you go looking for a job
you flourish one you may have it
already you will also do some
leisure activities related to your
costs what’s important is that
you know that this happiness that you
search it depends only on you
now that you are autonomous
I am mainly addressing the game of
students who have just left their
parents and it’ll be like that while at
long of your life except that in your
life in 15 years or in 50 years since
you retire a little bit more
late today you say to yourself
you probably do not want to
to say I did not do this or that or I
did not discover such a place would
a pity to regret not having
did things that were possible
when they presented themselves
so I have a board grab the
opportunities when they arise
do we do it often but not always
Why
and quite simply because for
most of us are lucky
as I said in this environment
comfortable to live happily in the
comfort is what comfort is not
that of your student room at
meaning of square meters that you have no
it’s the comfort of being close to your friends
to be near his parents may have
still for some to live at home
to have your circle of people with
who you do a lot of activities
many good times and all that
it’s comfortable it’s reassuring
it requires little effort three
clicks 3 sms and that’s it your evening is
organized
it’s also little unexpected
because in this circle made
often activities that you
already know and the most importance
and often it’s happiness and why
change things that are nice
but it has disadvantages that we see
not always where they end one day
for example we can cite for example the
risk routine in night because
finally it’s nice to see always
the same people but maybe less
of things to tell each other that when we
discover new ones when we discover
new activities
so these disadvantages they can
to gain weight in life they can
besides, even a little damaged your
happiness
if boredom takes up too much space so for
it
if you want novelty from
discover new people to go
to do new activities
well, you have to get out of his comfort
this comfort zone that offer you
a lot of happiness you can in
go out while keeping so much happiness
then while leaving your area of
comfort you will live things
probably very rewarding
in addition to those you have
in your comfort zone and
the first thing that can slow you down
to do it is to finally tell you
it’s still not toc knock out
of his comfort zone because you
go away times to the unknown is this
unknown it scares
in principle we do not like a stranger
you go in some cases maybe
see find alone anyway if
you are far from home to see you
unravel on your own really alone
and that too is less comfortable than
when in three clicks or shots of
phone friends friends help you
and solidarity is there and she does the
three quarters of the work and then those
precisely who brings this happiness
today and tongs they are far from
you will one day the phone
always social networks but that’s
not the same as to see them bah they go
you missed out eventually you do not have
necessarily want to leave comfort
so that people go so happily
that there are many benefits to go out
comfort 20 in the benefits
the first is that you will do
new meetings new activities
here I called them the new tribe and
actually serves these new people
will create a second tribute after
the one that was yours
childhood or your initial comfort and
then since you leave to the unexpected
you will inevitably have unforeseen
it will have to be solved alone
will develop autonomy of the
adaptability and you go
succeed in adapting and succeeding
you adapt you will develop in
more autonomy that will grow from
adaptability strengthen and
a lot of confidence in you and this
trust she’s going to be important she
will be important when you come back
your comfort will be important for
the rest of your life so be sure that
its benefits
they can be very important and very
useful to your personality and then well
sure who missed you if you
want to see them less often or
come to see you there you are gone
but the moments of joy will surely be
immense
in any case maybe stronger than if
you have not seen these same people
the day before
so there is the benefit of having
great moments of joy with people
that we love and have left for a
some time a little bit away from you
so once we said that ben
how and when to do it and or so
for you who are young students I
know that there are a number that
have plans already to start from
to get away a little with studies
it’s already a real start on a spell
from his comfort zone I recognize him
even if part of you are going when
even well structured well organized
since you are studying in a
place that is relatively known to
students probably preceded you
so the unknown is a little less
stronger than if you leave in others
places but it’s already a real
first step is in any case know
that you are leaving school but
not right now huh not this year
still waiting for your diplomas I do not
would not wish to have problems with
your parents get out of your area of
comfort after because that’s the
best time you have not yet
for most family ties
neither too much professional constraints
so this is a perfect time diploma in
poached
obviously then this landscape not so for
some he’s talking
if you went away maybe I
got out of my comfort zone I you
speak is a little bit of my experience
what ‘s going over my reach and that they
were also the difficulties where I am
left in bolivia bolivia is a
country twice as big as France 10
millions of inhabitants so great
countries and sparsely populated with income
per capita of $ 4000 in France it is
40 thousand so that gives you an idea
of wealth level of the inhabitants we have
all attitudes all climates
these two thousand kilometers below
the equator
you have tropical jungle level
amazonian and then you have the plateau
from the Andes to 3800 meters where there is the
capital la paz highest capital
of the world
and then you also have volcanoes that
snowed all year fraud the 6500
meters so a very beautiful country
what you see there is the biggest
salt desert of the world it may be
tomorrow the greatest wealth of the
Bolivia
what it is full of lithium and it’s
a product that makes a lot of people talk about
him right now
except that when I left there at 24
years so that’s the time there was
still the military service that could
to be made abroad
I received a paper and its marks and
you go to bolivia at the embassy of
France in La Paz – not much
information there was no internet
by the networks obviously and
the encyclopedia universalis we had
full and libraries filled with
books that could bring us some
things except that at the moment
there you have a little moment of loneliness
you are afraid is well done because
finally
daddy mom friends the environment the
buddies all this i’m going to go in ten
thousand kilometers from my home
did I do well we will see it in any
case what is certain is that I am
asked a lot of questions while
just some work I was going
where I was going to sleep what friends
what activity
it would have to adapt it arrives
down I managed only as we have
seen but not so lonely that since very
quickly we actually meet people
we go to people
we go to new people there are
also people who want to help you and
we meet enough people to
to recreate a small tribe that
will expand a loan that requires you
by the way to go to them otherwise you
stay alone actually people who
can be French who also
are gone and that can be of course
Bolivians
I adapted it was hard at the beginning
but it enriched me because
hard experience is that it’s
trust as I told you for
other hard experiences that can you
to arrive in life after three years
I had two new friends of friends that
I’ve always been there
new activities like mountaineering
still not practiced in France
called landini this sick did not allow
to climb sure it’s at the top that I
described you and who brought me here
a lot of happiness I traveled to
four corners of the country
met a lot of people I’m going to you
talk a little precisely beyond
magical places that I met who
does not exist in France obviously
since we are in countries
very different and very climates
different I’m going to talk to you a little
few aspects that have changed
a little bit my vision of the world where the
voice ways that are aspects
also complementary and that one keeps
also for life one of the first
aspects is that I was lucky enough to
work with an orphanage so I
said we are in a poor country and
that suddenly in this poor country the
orphanages often children are in
very young barely born are deposited
on the doorstep
I understood that the world could be
hard and cruel they are in front of them
the door I was lucky to be born
in France in a family that has me all
given
see a little bit of emotion
have this memory because indeed
all these experiences that I lived
and that you too can you that you
live and you already live in your
comfort too it’s finally
new memories of the highlights and
you may know that emotions
you can live creating memories
it’s very important because
finally if there are many things we
remember I think of the end of service and
of all his memories
the rest is probably less
important to know what we were able to gain
or have a moment in his life
I understood also by working at
the embassy of France where I had
charge the development of small
projects a little humanitarian as
France finances and for the
poorest people of bolivia
I have been in contact with populations
local villages where there was neither
water and electricity
very simple people who lived in
the open air and small plots
officially these people were happy
because he lived in connection with the
free nature and with simple things
and with a very community spirit
strong because he actually needs
to train when the blows were
harsh and this community spirit is
values that have helped me a lot
closer to the nature of things
simple seek not today acquire
and acquire and acquire and nature
brings me a lot and then the mind
solidarity and group spirit of
community I learned from these people there
which is finally seen at first glance
will not see anything and finally he had
maybe the most things
important
what I learned too if it’s not
more than take since I made
nice meets
you talk about friends but I also
found my wife here present and so
for me it was also an opportunity to
build a family so it’s
opportunities that presented themselves and
which make today that they are
still solid and then side
professional because I was leaving for
work I had the opportunity
because we have foreign background
responsibilities far more important and
more quickly when we do it in
france in the frame and 40 people
it was my first post it was my
first job
after a few months anyway on a
forest reforestation site
tropical in a national park
and this management experience taught me
brought to appreciate this profession which is
strongly based on relationships
human and so I continued and I
always do it and I told you about
flourishing in the work and
it’s very important and today I
am very happy to continue to be
manager then
after you spoke a little bit about me
what could you do if tomorrow you
decide to ask yourself the question of
from where you could go to work
in a non
government for a cause that you
is important we have seen several
today there are plenty of things to
make
it may not be very far and it can
to be much further away from you to choose
you could go take voluntary
international in business so that’s
all in all classic what you would have
Made in France to go and find a job
you will do your first job at
abroad in a company that has
need young people like yourself without
experience for durations from 6 to 24
months and there are plenty of French boxes
who just wants to grow at
the international and there are already
searched for them you will find and then
last point you may already have
do you think do a day after your
studies make a good break and make a
around the world or a bit of bone ride
world so the world is big and
then you will go to meet
cultures and peoples you will have
decided to explore in one end of
so there are plenty of things
against the risk is the brake the brake
to go to a business abroad
so we never worked that I
do not know anything for example the brake
to say it’s not for me where I’m not
quite autonomous I have not yet traveled
good enough we can without creating full of
brakes we create every day we have
the impression that this job there and not
for us we are not made for 6%
so it’s really important to assists
22 will then blew the brakes and
look at things in the angle of
solution find solutions we will
now go to interactive voting
so I propose to take back your
mobile and following this first part
the longest
I will ask you so you want
typing the code that is down I’m going to the
enlighten it here you have the 96 673 on
the page you had to download
so do you have time to
type his code
a little touch ok and you’re gonna go
launch the first test again 3,4
seconds
let’s go for the first
question
we launch the control room is gone so you
have thirty seconds to answer that
that you would want to do and who
will return to the ten most rewarding
are you rather to continue to you?
flourish in your social sphere
current what can be a very good
thing for
where are you rather ready to discover the
world from your tablet or any
just leave for a country that you
draws and meets its inhabitants
there are only good answers this
is not a quiz
it’s more like a poll so answered
what comes to you most naturally
and we will have the vision of the room
quite simply
so it stays that’s it we get to
bout so for those who responded I
do not know if I see the number of
answers 59 answer you are in big
party was going to leave for a country that
you draws so I do not know if it’s
I who convinced you you were
already but in any case we are in phase
you have rewarding things to
second question so we go on
you are going to have the second question
which appears it is safer the
happiness is what for you so it’s
left you can answer you count
rather bet on becoming
famous for being happy about the fact of
privilege the quality of relationships
human or just work
to become rich and offer you what
please you have fifteen seconds left
having once again all the
answers are good so that was the
little digital sequence this
intervention we get there at the end he
there will be no other questions
the results will be displayed so you
put human relationships as
something fundamental in your
daily
well listen you are relatively
Emphasize that I will pass the conclusion
the conclusion is that a study the
great harvard university that lasted
over 70 years old and who continues on a
population more than 700 people they
have studied for 70 years every year
all the time everyone men
poor rich women and only one
conclusion arrived at the end it’s
so we’ll move that we have to bet
on the quality of relations
so exit celebrity and wealth so
you want to live happier and
especially longer because you
will be healthier
thank you
[Applause]
[Music]
good evening we’ll talk about a very person
important someone essential in
your life do you know who are we going to
talk ideas people well we’re going
talk about you why not because
you are the most important person
you are for you the most
important so we’ll talk about you and
I would question because sometimes
you say to yourself I’m lucky I
the chance of what the chance to have a
housing having to eat to have the ctu
to have peace since finally his
70 years we have no war in
la France
and then especially to live in one of
richest country in the world has this
chance in this protected environment
she gives us plenty of life choices
full of opportunities full of freedom
you may have a doubt about that
since we hear people say
that finally France is not top
top well do not hesitate do not hesitate to
tell you more often and to watch
more often what you have and she
counted she materialized and less
often what you miss
do not hesitate because just
take a phone or look at
information also to you compare in
less comforting places so in
this comfortable environment you have
want to succeed in your life and to be
happy for that you will fill it
many things that make you feel good
first of all moments with friends
the family you go looking for a job
you flourish one you may have it
already you will also do some
leisure activities related to your
costs what’s important is that
you know that this happiness that you
search it depends only on you
now that you are autonomous
I am mainly addressing the game of
students who have just left their
parents and it’ll be like that while at
long of your life except that in your
life in 15 years or in 50 years since
you retire a little bit more
late today you say to yourself
you probably do not want to
to say I did not do this or that or I
did not discover such a place would
a pity to regret not having
did things that were possible
when they presented themselves
so I have a board grab the
opportunities when they arise
do we do it often but not always
Why
and quite simply because for
most of us are lucky
as I said in this environment
comfortable to live happily in the
comfort is what comfort is not
that of your student room at
meaning of square meters that you have no
it’s the comfort of being close to your friends
to be near his parents may have
still for some to live at home
to have your circle of people with
who you do a lot of activities
many good times and all that
it’s comfortable it’s reassuring
it requires little effort three
clicks 3 sms and that’s it your evening is
organized
it’s also little unexpected
because in this circle made
often activities that you
already know and the most importance
and often it’s happiness and why
change things that are nice
but it has disadvantages that we see
not always where they end one day
for example we can cite for example the
risk routine in night because
finally it’s nice to see always
the same people but maybe less
of things to tell each other that when we
discover new ones when we discover
new activities
so these disadvantages they can
to gain weight in life they can
besides, even a little damaged your
happiness
if boredom takes up too much space so for
it
if you want novelty from
discover new people to go
to do new activities
well, you have to get out of his comfort
this comfort zone that offer you
a lot of happiness you can in
go out while keeping so much happiness
then while leaving your area of
comfort you will live things
probably very rewarding
in addition to those you have
in your comfort zone and
the first thing that can slow you down
to do it is to finally tell you
it’s still not toc knock out
of his comfort zone because you
go away times to the unknown is this
unknown it scares
in principle we do not like a stranger
you go in some cases maybe
see find alone anyway if
you are far from home to see you
unravel on your own really alone
and that too is less comfortable than
when in three clicks or shots of
phone friends friends help you
and solidarity is there and she does the
three quarters of the work and then those
precisely who brings this happiness
today and tongs they are far from
you will one day the phone
always social networks but that’s
not the same as to see them bah they go
you missed out eventually you do not have
necessarily want to leave comfort
so that people go so happily
that there are many benefits to go out
comfort 20 in the benefits
the first is that you will do
new meetings new activities
here I called them the new tribe and
actually serves these new people
will create a second tribute after
the one that was yours
childhood or your initial comfort and
then since you leave to the unexpected
you will inevitably have unforeseen
it will have to be solved alone
will develop autonomy of the
adaptability and you go
succeed in adapting and succeeding
you adapt you will develop in
more autonomy that will grow from
adaptability strengthen and
a lot of confidence in you and this
trust she’s going to be important she
will be important when you come back
your comfort will be important for
the rest of your life so be sure that
its benefits
they can be very important and very
useful to your personality and then well
sure who missed you if you
want to see them less often or
come to see you there you are gone
but the moments of joy will surely be
immense
in any case maybe stronger than if
you have not seen these same people
the day before
so there is the benefit of having
great moments of joy with people
that we love and have left for a
some time a little bit away from you
so once we said that ben
how and when to do it and or so
for you who are young students I
know that there are a number that
have plans already to start from
to get away a little with studies
it’s already a real start on a spell
from his comfort zone I recognize him
even if part of you are going when
even well structured well organized
since you are studying in a
place that is relatively known to
students probably preceded you
so the unknown is a little less
stronger than if you leave in others
places but it’s already a real
first step is in any case know
that you are leaving school but
not right now huh not this year
still waiting for your diplomas I do not
would not wish to have problems with
your parents get out of your area of
comfort after because that’s the
best time you have not yet
for most family ties
neither too much professional constraints
so this is a perfect time diploma in
poached
obviously then this landscape not so for
some he’s talking
if you went away maybe I
got out of my comfort zone I you
speak is a little bit of my experience
what ‘s going over my reach and that they
were also the difficulties where I am
left in bolivia bolivia is a
country twice as big as France 10
millions of inhabitants so great
countries and sparsely populated with income
per capita of $ 4000 in France it is
40 thousand so that gives you an idea
of wealth level of the inhabitants we have
all attitudes all climates
these two thousand kilometers below
the equator
you have tropical jungle level
amazonian and then you have the plateau
from the Andes to 3800 meters where there is the
capital la paz highest capital
of the world
and then you also have volcanoes that
snowed all year fraud the 6500
meters so a very beautiful country
what you see there is the biggest
salt desert of the world it may be
tomorrow the greatest wealth of the
Bolivia
what it is full of lithium and it’s
a product that makes a lot of people talk about
him right now
except that when I left there at 24
years so that’s the time there was
still the military service that could
to be made abroad
I received a paper and its marks and
you go to bolivia at the embassy of
France in La Paz – not much
information there was no internet
by the networks obviously and
the encyclopedia universalis we had
full and libraries filled with
books that could bring us some
things except that at the moment
there you have a little moment of loneliness
you are afraid is well done because
finally
daddy mom friends the environment the
buddies all this i’m going to go in ten
thousand kilometers from my home
did I do well we will see it in any
case what is certain is that I am
asked a lot of questions while
just some work I was going
where I was going to sleep what friends
what activity
it would have to adapt it arrives
down I managed only as we have
seen but not so lonely that since very
quickly we actually meet people
we go to people
we go to new people there are
also people who want to help you and
we meet enough people to
to recreate a small tribe that
will expand a loan that requires you
by the way to go to them otherwise you
stay alone actually people who
can be French who also
are gone and that can be of course
Bolivians
I adapted it was hard at the beginning
but it enriched me because
hard experience is that it’s
trust as I told you for
other hard experiences that can you
to arrive in life after three years
I had two new friends of friends that
I’ve always been there
new activities like mountaineering
still not practiced in France
called landini this sick did not allow
to climb sure it’s at the top that I
described you and who brought me here
a lot of happiness I traveled to
four corners of the country
met a lot of people I’m going to you
talk a little precisely beyond
magical places that I met who
does not exist in France obviously
since we are in countries
very different and very climates
different I’m going to talk to you a little
few aspects that have changed
a little bit my vision of the world where the
voice ways that are aspects
also complementary and that one keeps
also for life one of the first
aspects is that I was lucky enough to
work with an orphanage so I
said we are in a poor country and
that suddenly in this poor country the
orphanages often children are in
very young barely born are deposited
on the doorstep
I understood that the world could be
hard and cruel they are in front of them
the door I was lucky to be born
in France in a family that has me all
given
see a little bit of emotion
have this memory because indeed
all these experiences that I lived
and that you too can you that you
live and you already live in your
comfort too it’s finally
new memories of the highlights and
you may know that emotions
you can live creating memories
it’s very important because
finally if there are many things we
remember I think of the end of service and
of all his memories
the rest is probably less
important to know what we were able to gain
or have a moment in his life
I understood also by working at
the embassy of France where I had
charge the development of small
projects a little humanitarian as
France finances and for the
poorest people of bolivia
I have been in contact with populations
local villages where there was neither
water and electricity
very simple people who lived in
the open air and small plots
officially these people were happy
because he lived in connection with the
free nature and with simple things
and with a very community spirit
strong because he actually needs
to train when the blows were
harsh and this community spirit is
values that have helped me a lot
closer to the nature of things
simple seek not today acquire
and acquire and acquire and nature
brings me a lot and then the mind
solidarity and group spirit of
community I learned from these people there
which is finally seen at first glance
will not see anything and finally he had
maybe the most things
important
what I learned too if it’s not
more than take since I made
nice meets
you talk about friends but I also
found my wife here present and so
for me it was also an opportunity to
build a family so it’s
opportunities that presented themselves and
which make today that they are
still solid and then side
professional because I was leaving for
work I had the opportunity
because we have foreign background
responsibilities far more important and
more quickly when we do it in
france in the frame and 40 people
it was my first post it was my
first job
after a few months anyway on a
forest reforestation site
tropical in a national park
and this management experience taught me
brought to appreciate this profession which is
strongly based on relationships
human and so I continued and I
always do it and I told you about
flourishing in the work and
it’s very important and today I
am very happy to continue to be
manager then
after you spoke a little bit about me
what could you do if tomorrow you
decide to ask yourself the question of
from where you could go to work
in a non
government for a cause that you
is important we have seen several
today there are plenty of things to
make
it may not be very far and it can
to be much further away from you to choose
you could go take voluntary
international in business so that’s
all in all classic what you would have
Made in France to go and find a job
you will do your first job at
abroad in a company that has
need young people like yourself without
experience for durations from 6 to 24
months and there are plenty of French boxes
who just wants to grow at
the international and there are already
searched for them you will find and then
last point you may already have
do you think do a day after your
studies make a good break and make a
around the world or a bit of bone ride
world so the world is big and
then you will go to meet
cultures and peoples you will have
decided to explore in one end of
so there are plenty of things
against the risk is the brake the brake
to go to a business abroad
so we never worked that I
do not know anything for example the brake
to say it’s not for me where I’m not
quite autonomous I have not yet traveled
good enough we can without creating full of
brakes we create every day we have
the impression that this job there and not
for us we are not made for 6%
so it’s really important to assists
22 will then blew the brakes and
look at things in the angle of
solution find solutions we will
now go to interactive voting
so I propose to take back your
mobile and following this first part
the longest
I will ask you so you want
typing the code that is down I’m going to the
enlighten it here you have the 96 673 on
the page you had to download
so do you have time to
type his code
a little touch ok and you’re gonna go
launch the first test again 3,4
seconds
let’s go for the first
question
we launch the control room is gone so you
have thirty seconds to answer that
that you would want to do and who
will return to the ten most rewarding
are you rather to continue to you?
flourish in your social sphere
current what can be a very good
thing for
where are you rather ready to discover the
world from your tablet or any
just leave for a country that you
draws and meets its inhabitants
there are only good answers this
is not a quiz
it’s more like a poll so answered
what comes to you most naturally
and we will have the vision of the room
quite simply
so it stays that’s it we get to
bout so for those who responded I
do not know if I see the number of
answers 59 answer you are in big
party was going to leave for a country that
you draws so I do not know if it’s
I who convinced you you were
already but in any case we are in phase
you have rewarding things to
second question so we go on
you are going to have the second question
which appears it is safer the
happiness is what for you so it’s
left you can answer you count
rather bet on becoming
famous for being happy about the fact of
privilege the quality of relationships
human or just work
to become rich and offer you what
please you have fifteen seconds left
having once again all the
answers are good so that was the
little digital sequence this
intervention we get there at the end he
there will be no other questions
the results will be displayed so you
put human relationships as
something fundamental in your
daily
well listen you are relatively
Emphasize that I will pass the conclusion
the conclusion is that a study the
great harvard university that lasted
over 70 years old and who continues on a
population more than 700 people they
have studied for 70 years every year
all the time everyone men
poor rich women and only one
conclusion arrived at the end it’s
so we’ll move that we have to bet
on the quality of relations
so exit celebrity and wealth so
you want to live happier and
especially longer because you
will be healthier
thank you
[Applause]
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