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L’ocytocine ou le secret des humains | Isabelle CALMELS | TEDxAnnecy


midwife mom and consultant
I am researcher parenthood
my curiosity as with mac
Elk wedding I finally rest me
and mixing the minute news and sometimes
you must put it on front
would not say who was to avoid this
Tuesday adolescence I debated
role play and icade quoted company
young adults
I moved in his travels and explore
but life death and disease
with my midwife studies I
met all valuable people
focused my curiosity
one day an old story told
Isabelle when you lose that less water
the first person you met at
touching this baby like a virgin land
wow that day I really felt the
precious sacred life and
human and I explored my the
Genealogy and even then felt the
trees and organic farming
ecology which makes the link between
ecology land and ecology
so the birth of my children she
upset I have the names of a
loving tenderness dealer but
also surprises and questions I
sometimes felt poor in distress
incompetent to respond to crying or
the anger of my children
so I read I looked I
I wanted explored understand I
think becoming a mother I was really
being worth two researchers
definitely if I look
back
my curiosity is like waves
sometimes with great outbursts and
many excited filing
but also sometimes rest or commercy
and visit
outstanding sometimes I
the impression of having lost
so I read I looked I
I observed and explored house when
natural learning we see
children seen how
the tenacity that perseverance
Children ramp turns trying to
market to discover they lack the
world
no time for one can doubt
their curiosity is huge internal
and without limit then surely I
believe that we are all of you and
curiosity but sometimes it’s like
stress had lost a blog
think he would learn to think the
need to explore but also
Curiosity then by all a little
looking for these breaks poz
Caesar and what is happening to
we
Gold curiosity to explore the world we
was 16 and who at the moment
Rest classes is no bron they
are necessary so you sometimes
integrate or sometimes we will make
regressions to explore
regressions for some explorations
explore other explorations
sometimes even goes back to take
momentum will also be asked to fill
your sexy tank spend time
quality with our parents or the
people we like games of
hugs the young promotes secretion
a shutdown of higher brain
therefore extend buoys are really
critical times we will also have
need to integrate in time
apprenticeships are three ways
Yesterday learning innovation
immersion refining integration and
refining it needs a lot
of excited to be able to explore the
integration phase but rather it
his father when nothing is done corey
Vascon bull you can any other
than what we just learned and
all these phases there are is
really essential fact to keep
our curiosity momentum
novak and dive fully into
training and then sometimes we
feel a curiosity it
rather the judgment is pending
no longer able to explore the world
in fact it is blocked when our needs
our emotions are met
discharged us humans works
good but sometimes when needs
not to fill your emotions
no charges and know the man but
remember to take it by thinking
him our most important needs in
we humans there is the security
Security 7.6 compliance love
the need for recognition feeling
membership but also at the
control over his life physical contact
affectionate and needs
physiological needs therefore slept
and ate eliminated red and explore
Toys are important needs
if I am not I see if I am dying
do not go I want it made all
perhaps already happened in Gagnon
car you are on the highway
and then she’ll soon for you
like going to the bathroom in the early
it’s going and finally we’re like
it is thought more than that it is hard
to focus on leads we have
no more patience with our children
and then then looking at the landscape
not what is on our archaic brain
it is programmed to power us
provide training for our needs
need to be addressed and so it goes
put the brain under stress
usually it is the fac
aggression that when our children
behaviors that are poorly supported
by have already seen that we have
behaviors that are poorly supported
as the first thing to do is
checked if it would not have a
need a congress and it will fill
help us function well thank you
emotions emotions was what is
a time that comes from within that
goes to the outside world that here I
am and what’s happening to me
aside from the emotions there is anger the
fear sadness but also joy if
in my life to stress is a stress
I’ll then an emotion
in fact it charges me a voltage and
an emotional release had
charge
she knows the anger the tears
rhc which was not what was
prohibited demean when
were kids but now it’s
thanks to neuroscience that
emotional discharge is
essential to work well
we will cure to grow
we release events
it triggers not easy to
company since as it has not
authorized when a child
it not easy to accompany us
this same emotional discharge will
enable us to function well and
going much better after doublet
meet our balanced point
we are naturally cooperative
loving and joyful we humans I
was also seen off the moors
her children one day in German
car and it’s done she goes exploring
the car and I annoys me I
annoys me because it is not
often immediately on the subject and
yet I am not familiar
then suddenly I read I tried to
explore our traumatic memory
injuries it takes when making
negative comments about children
when we ask it of said label
is demeaning when their balance
our fears
when saturated working memory
against them because their enthusiasm or
their learning journeys the
curiosity
it will weaken and then
dry out and shrivel while
why these rooms but adults
because that is our memory matic
when one was hurt when
a child in the same
circumstances
the memory has gone to lodge in a
small part of our brain
emotional amygdala, and parts and
she stayed there like that
Inside adults and when we dance
finds himself in a situation in
similar
tonsil it will reactivate as
a highway and others it’s like
walking out of us as if we were
controlled by our emotions
and as if we were off 2 2
love for our children
then of course he can do
is another story
and then work on it to soothe
and gradually it work I
therefore found next belt
Security 60
she comes down for a little
time and then it subsided and
I managed to pass the course
this issue with me so what
which promotes curious each apple is
will encourage projects whenever
we will upgrade the air like
part of the way and that suits me
to allow children to be
free to explore their momentum
curiosity enthusiasm their
learning mechanisms so we’ll
participate in promoting their curiosity
but every time they go
receive affection attention
with unconditional positive regard it going
help them develop the best
sites even great confidence in
them and to their full potential
to be worthy of their life
there are as many forms of intelligence
many paths of curiosity you
insult me by supporting it is ready
before it then with my job
midwife a few years ago
discovered physiology
birth and also oxytocin site
hormone of love and attachment
lé potential at the time of birth
but also to all ages
while these duckweed antelope
to put forth her baby
she will get my vehicle
the shot of adrenaline at our place
paved kissing and then oxytocin
their monks of love and attachment
which will promote rapid delivery
it will go up to eso but I
ever achieved at other times in
life
but if the lioness street road is
in danger from but I can I can I
save with my baby in my belly
I submit with my baby in
my arms but I can not save me
So when the baby is out
actually yes it takes only
adrenaline because it’s a time
which must be extremely brief because
the sea and which is extracted from a
Arabity large opening and the
that they may at its supper
this time it is also time ago
need adrenaline
because because in fact it is the
our birth is our greatest
challenge
our life is the time that have chosen
leaving the northern safety
sea to go out and get into the
fashion it so it’s a great challenge of
life and throw explain why there
low they participate in our debut
life
then suddenly I read I tried to
explore oxytocin is true is
not so easy to adrenaline it’s
hormones is chemical messengers
body and when one wants to
listen to our bodies actually they
give all messages for good
this function is distressing files
are contagious knew already had
felt in a common room one feels
if the atmosphere is warm or if
the atmosphere is electric
adrenaline it will participate in the
survival of our species but also all
our challenges we have seen with the birth
new and immobilizing work
our activities but our externalize
also setting our limits
the other side is oxytocin
it will not break it’s a start
healing it will encourage their skin
Recovery grow guerrillas
repair be linked to other
also find resources to
better a better resistance
Stress and why our pick
internal resources to cross
difficulties of life
Unfortunately in our society
it is often immediately sign her cup
Tea that oxytocin y AnnaLynne
to which should allow good
operate and for our good
Health survival of our species
it is often unbalanced then
I guess you see what
people and I talk about technique and I
we are talking overload
adrenaline in our societies we
are in chronic stress
School social pressure in terms of
Performance success everything is very
quickly turn a shower image it is
Chronic stress and suddenly it goes
promote this overload
adrenaline worth promoting
also forget is that there has to savings
devalued during long
This time of rest recovery
evening take care etc and therefore the
suddenly does not take this time
still promotes and accentuates the
unbalancing
the problem is that the effects of this
imbalance
they are really toxic for us
excess cortisol and boarding line
in fact toxic to our for our
neurons
it develops the learning and
then it promotes behaviors
individualism of aggressiveness
competition one can feel without
strength without courage can social
isolate can be seen as one of the other
hazards
and yes the world is as we cut
Because of self and others
The problem also is that this
imbalance practice this snap
are also compounded by the fact of our
issues of children we are afraid
and then also by the injunction
perfection we received
this injunction we perceived it
door really expected it really
heavy in our society
it costs us to us and our
pink t fear is to fear
then try oxytocin quote
Hall also not to allow it
a hectare of healing it not
encourage cooperation the empathy
benevolence there learning the
game allows us to rehash stress
‘m imbalance
the empathy kindness
creativity curiosity the
learning
they are reading with other thank you
she told me about links with
Other cooperation altruism
would also need to have a vision
broader life and what to take
care take care of yourself and others
of the planet
it allows us to get more
easily our resources and also
pre enjoy being with others
So it seems to me to be fully
human so why for me it is the
Secret humans is because too
possible what is a hormone that has not
have a place like the others
others when we reached we stop up
secrete in which
when it reaches a floor enr
secret is that makes hormone
we have two more then secretes cougar
ease known celebrate this most sorry
oral if possible then secretes pure
facilitate arcep the summer
the address is also possible and in this
I think it is known that it
creates humans because in fact it
is worth being available
Free individual provisions
so at this point I guess you
Wondering how Florida is also
Here you can go factory
oxytocin every time we made the
things that make us happy in
other when we are with people
we love when we eat something
makes me happy when we see a
beautiful landscape
when doing an activity that we
vibrates but also hugs the
Massage physical contact and
loving the game when it receives
support heat empathy a
unconditional positive regard is
produce oxytocin and even think
to remember or to persons
we love make us possible
and suddenly it will enable us to
balance to be in this
balanced
Oxytocin where adrenaline is needed
be happy that once repaired
to have to deal with our rings
makers
so if I can synthesize
suddenly we can look at the needs and
emotions so we can be
connected to our curiosity
needs and emotions
it is to give him the paedo
that must be filled emotions
loads and can work on
our hub of our pharmacy memory
to try to change otherwise
to look at the children and then hands
oxytocin in our lives things
who do us good
to be in the balanced ago
many forms of a region that you
doing a great with you and if my
favorite is greatly oxytocin
it is for us humans is to
receive a rare positive cases
professional it really gives
wings to be fully human it
taking care of oneself and others
Party
and remember we need at times
before resting rooms where you go
to integrate actually
how see how long
then explore how to preserve
curiosity of children
can be observed and whenever
it’s possible
respect their pace of their emotion
they felt their need them
vulnerability and immaturity and
submit to live up to their
feelings welcome their loved
alive and enthusiastic to say yes
life
there are plenty of input to change
the world but the one I have chosen and
which I think will be very effective in the long
term is the wood stove support
parenthood to change
I look at the children accompanying the
Professional parents to
reconnect to the point of life and
relation to regain their seat
they recover their researchers
curiosity to understand and even
then to understand their children
they can keep intact the figure
Children ideas be tomorrow
gourd researchers
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