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Le paradoxe de Robin des Bois | Fabrice de Boni & Axel Lattuada | TEDxLaRochelle


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it shows fabrice we said we
would do like that I know but it’s
see this seeing an agreement has changed my
pump
please thank you we are
pissed
we’re pissed off because we realized
we had exactly the
problem of the subject we came to you
talk it’s nerd me my name is
access from the tua da and right now I
am author and comedian me
my name is fabrice de bonis and in this
moment I am author and director
I do not know what I’m doing here
do I think you ‘re an imposter
but no that is to say that most of the
time I tell myself that anyway he
there’s someone somewhere
is a lot more interesting month and
who should be in my place and me me
I think I’m going to throw up
because there when I
speak I am extremely uncomfortable
because in fact the thing is that I
the belief that when you film me in
party is beautiful I am I am always
ugly on the screen yes so beats like a
rat as a good director I have me
always hide behind the cameras
really what does not tell you is that it
is also a specialized coach
applied neuroscience and he says it
not because he believes that if he tells you
that mike rann it happens to you from
to believe things like that that
make you unhappy in fact what he
wants to ask you this is when the
last time in your life that you
have given up something in you
finding as good reasons a phrase
of the kind no no no no I am
like that because in fact frankly
I asked a question is what you
find it relevant to believe in
your life things with which
you do not agree already and who
then two that we prevent you from
do what you want and if you
know it’s all the sentences that
starts with no but no but any
way I’m too old to do that
no in your way I have no time to
do that in the same way I have not
enough confidence in his name but I
can not do a teddy that because I
I’m ugly to the camera no but of
way I can not do tedx
because I’m not interesting it’s
ok list
see all that it’s called the
beliefs for those who take
notes these cries these helps to he
announced it bronze and know how
so it’s written a belief actually
it’s to summarize it’s all
thoughts it’s all opinions you
have in your head and that you
consider it to be the truth and
after a year in all his thoughts
and then we’ll end up believing she
become our identity me for example
I’m not photogenic this is at
because of the distribution is made of
words faces on the head no but there are
people in the room who believe like
fabrice they are ugly to the camera
all this is that are not photogenic
people have not had a hand yes
ah ah bah like model for example
you want to say with us on the stage
two minutes we are not bad
was how well your name
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karine karine shadrake fabrice matheu
stand up there how are you
you name you can tell you what
kalyna I should have taken four
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then is that someone can tell me
Karine because what is easy and pretty
yet smile and curls
the super ability to say the eyes
sparkling she is graceful she
smiling
yeah I find it vulnerable I
do not know what you think about it but
no no no but wait wait because
what I mean by that is
that I personally find it
rare I do not know if it’s for you
but it’s rare that someone shows his
vulnerability like that it requires
courage actually
ok me it does me something when
I see people like that who put themselves
on stage who show their
vulnerability
I find it beautiful in my point
from low view right now where I find
extremely pretty in fact you center
continuous is what you want us to
continue are 400 they are 450 of time
yeah ok bombay that are in vain
stop there because it’s a bit
too long it to 400 people
thank you we applaud it actually what it
must understand the secret listen well
is that the brain is a little con
because in fact the more you believe
something and more your brain there
will go in search of the reality of
details that will isolate like that and
that he will put end to end for you
to believe that what you believe
it’s the truth in fact one of those taf
to the brain is to confirm our
beliefs
exactly for example at this moment
your thoughts conscious
they have a speed of 2008 seconds
it’s as if you had pretty much
2000 passing information that’s it
who spent every second in your
head up for low and at the same
moment I’m talking to you your thoughts
unconscious
they have a speed of 400 billion
bits to the second to let tell
so you realize well in
does what you think conscious is
to say everything in it actually
your beliefs passed that a tiny
selection of reality like thank you
so by dint of believing the same
things in a loop we do the same
stuff from doing the same stuff
had we get it’s same result
and as we get the same
results
she and we reinforce our beliefs of
base has compiled a quick plate that
I tell you I’m clumsy as
like that like that so why do we
freaking
when we are afraid to change our beliefs
wanted to stay clumsy or your life
in front of Lille and in fact we say
that if we change our beliefs
verma lose our identity and the
confusion is to think that our
identity it’s based on our beliefs
our identity it pushes back on our
values ​​then what is it a
value
he’s going so that’s why I’m doing
Something
for example right now in your
villa i stay to see something
what really motivates you in
your villa now right now
what is it love is the
freedom
I do not know security the joy the
beauty pleasure pleasure voluptuousness
it’s values and what’s magic
is that all these values ​​that we
you talk to me you and all the people of
the planet
we share all the same all its course
so to do that identity
what are we going to do
take all these values ​​and then we’ll
to do a kind of hierarchy we’re going
make a top ten to his woes each
scene is where a value is
why do I do things
a belief that’s just how I do
things
ok a belief it’s just a way
to express your values is
strategies in fact for example there are
many different ways to express
love I can choose to be libertine
or to be exclusive
to be married or to be pacsed or to be
to become pastor given my love to god
there are plenty of ways to express the
freedom also we can imagine
someone say yes then me in this
when I do not work like that
I have all my time and then go I am
free i can do what i want bah
I work a lot
I have a lot of money like that
do what I want and so I am
free you see times you have the
same value as someone and you
put on the slice because you
have opposite beliefs it’s not
clear but with the gesture we do not understand
now because I have a super
example for them to be Christians
so I explain you we are a super
example it’s like an example but with
a Cape
ok so tintin it’s good it’s good
is the story of Robin Hood
which Robin Hood his belief is
that we must steal from the rich to give
to the poor
but its low value and justice on
agree that’s why he’s doing
that the sheriff of nottingham his
adversary him his belief that it takes
protect robin rich from the woods
and again its value is
what is justice it was clear that
these two characters and are banging on each other
because they have beliefs
completely opposite while they have
exactly the same values of another
example when we make war by
example I did not do war music
ukulelists that’s a belief by
example yeah so what’s needed
understand that if you have
developed a belief but that’s
only at some point in your life
she helped you served something
but as you evolve throughout
your life that belief that has you
helped a given moment in your life a
another moment in another context
Well, she can become limiting
that is, she will become a
obstacle actually for your evolution
and from there it’s a little
as if you decide to spend your
life while driving with a handbrake
good idea
the good news is that your
beliefs she belong to you so
you understand well that if your beliefs
they come from you is that you
are responsible for what you believe
and so that you can choose your
beliefs
Is it clear for all
world because it’s not clear no there
I cheated it’s down there so you
understand boxing I see it’s
because if ever there are still
people who have doubts about who we are
telling you we’ve told you
brought back evidence
look at me, it’s been ten minutes
that I’m on the stage of a
pbx before 400 people is
asleep after a while so that’s it
maybe I’m pretty
interesting is that I ‘m at my place
In fact, I’m exactly the same
time it’s on this stage is a
priori the cameraman did not vomit he
separates have fled he has not cleared the
memory card
so that’s the proof that bah I
am filmed at bhl in the proof it’s
that I’m filmed what we want you
to say in fact is that as we had
want to be here and share it
with you, we had to start
to believe stuff that she is us
help to do it in fact so I
decide there now in front of you with
you thanks to you too for believing that
I am legitimate and I am doing my
place and because my place is me
who chooses them so I am necessarily
legitimate in fact I
and I chose to believe that in
does the beauty down it depends on the
look at things in fact
it’s not things in itself that
are beautiful we agree it’s the
face we look at them and who makes them
beautiful and what’s crazy is that actually
to believe all that bah we did not have
at all to question our
identities
that is, our values ​​that are
humor creativity the friendship and the
sharing
so now before finishing this
short rates tlx and possibly before
your applause
we just want you to go back
with a question and you ask yourself
sincerely and this question is
what do you think of yourself
even
it makes you happy every day
even on Tuesday thank you
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