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Inspire with love, fight with inner-inner-strength | Jemyma Betrian | TEDxCuracao


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so good night I’m 40 years old

for the first time in my life I stepped

into a gym

it was an old antigen they even had the

boy punching bag and it smells like old

socks there was only one girl and maybe

ten other guys training and making a lot

of noise like I was too afraid to join I

just take a look the second time I was

like I’m gonna do the same I just take a

look I don’t watch exactly what they

were doing to try to understand what

they are doing the third time when I

came there I say I’m ready

I gotta join during the training I was

training and I had to smell my face

because I was like wow I’m doing

something that I really love to do and I

could give all my energy because I have

too much energy the trainer came to me

and asked me did she done this before

and I told him yes but it was nothing a

gym you should know my parents divorce

when I was nine years old and I had a

lot of street fight going on the beer

after that the trainer told me you have

a lot of talent and if you keep training

like this you will be a great pro

fighter and I saved that directly great

profiler there this one I want to be the

second training the guys really kicked

my butt and after the training and look

at them and I told him guys I see you in

two days and they look at me with the

surprised face and was I thinking she

really coming back when I came home with

my legs full bruising and with the black

my mom asked me Shamima do you really

want to continue what have you done and

say mom I really want to continue and I

like this and they are making me

stronger if they are thinking different

about it even they are thinking they are

bidding me up

they are making me strong and they are

making me better and what I learned from

the first training was like to never

give up on your dream and to keep going

forward let’s go forward in time I’m 19

years old I’m travelling to America to

Las Vegas for a world title fight and my

dream was to become the best fighter of

the world and I make that happen with my

19 years old I want the world title in

Las Vegas after that I decide to step

over to MMA I step over to MMA there’s

some mixed martial arts that is stand up

fighting and on the ground but I had to

learn a lot now because I did nine years

kickboxing that was only standing up I

had to learn grappling jiu-jitsu and

wrestling and the trainer told me that I

have to change my training schedule and

I did that because I wanted to learn I

wanted to learn and new things but after

a few months I started to feel very bad

and sad because I couldn’t control

myself anymore

my my life was in somebody else hands

and I couldn’t talk for myself but after

that I was like hey my man don’t give up

come up for yourself and talk for

yourself and I told the trainer you know

what it is I did this already for nine

years and the things have to change

you’re gonna listen to me and I gonna

listen to you and together we will be a

strong team but there was always a

but but if you do this you will be the

greatest fighter but if you do this you

will be awesome and I came with my but

also because I tell them but I always do

what I love to do and that is the most

important thing for me that I can do

something that I love to do after that

it was still but but but and they are

using the big word in America I think

you guys already know what they are

using no it was money but if you do this

you can make a lot of money and I always

told my mother money is not the most

important thing because I did kickboxing

for nine years and I didn’t make a lot

of money with it but I keep going why

because I loved it and I liked it and I

could be a role model and that was the

most important thing for me not to be

sad not to do a training just because I

know I can make a lot of money after no

I want to enjoy the sport I that I am

doing the two lessons that I learned in

America is never focus on the money do

something that makes you happy and if

you are able to live in it I’m blessed

the second one is to focus on your mind

and your body because that is what you

need to keep going forward that were the

two most important lessons that I

learned but I learned a lot more let’s

go to now 25 years old five-time world

champion and they are calling me the

they asked me to come and join a basic

day show this a Dutch show in Holland

they are making little children’s the

dream come true and they asked me if I

want to join it say yes of course when a

little girl from 10 year her biggest

dream was to meet me that I could teach

her the favorite hi cake and I was like

yes that is what I want to do the fight

never stopped after after their after a

ring it keep going but now I can help

other and that is what I want to do feel

it is and before I told my mom mom I

want to be a role model and I gonna be a

role model but what I have to do is to

make my name to be a champion to work

hard for it

to sweat for it to cry for it and I did

that and now I can be a role model like

you guys know I born here on this

beautiful island of Curacao I raised up

in Holland but to every match

I’m taking my curse off leg with me why

that is I’m very proud where I come from

thank you my biggest goal right now is

to come back to Curacao and to build a

big gym right here and to become a

teacher for the children’s and to teach

them what I have been learned before and

the lessons that I share which unite

together until they denied it you guys

thank you very much I love y’all [Applause]

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