by show of hands how many of you have
ever gotten in a relationship because
you felt that you were in love very good
good how many I’ve ever broken up and
uh-huh
as a matter of fact I don’t even know
how I fell in love with you in the first
place
oh I know you were drunk in love right
in my line of field as a relationship
coach clients come to me with their love
problems one client wants me to evaluate
our relationship she’s being with her
boyfriend for over four years there is
no promise ring no engagement ring no
conversation about wedding and on top of
it is cheatin on her she wants to know
if she should continue with the
relationship or kick the guy to the curb
so I asked her how many times as he
cheated on you she says at least four
times when a lady says at least four
times multiplied that by to eat eight
times do you love him
yes she replies does he love you he says
it does but his action does not show it
what action specifically did cheatin if
you loved someone would you cheat on
them if you truly loved someone would
you cheat on them at least four times
she says no well if your answer is no
then you know what to do
Truelove that is not backed up by the
right action is not true love another
client says he’s happy in his
relationship
he loves his girl but he’s cheating on
the side with a married woman and they
are both in love together and he does no
know how he got himself in this
situation I said you know how you got
yourself in this mess you shifted your
focus from your girl to someone else you
divided your attention and your emotions
someone who’s too old the first priority
on your heart no longer hold that
position that’s how you got yourself in
this mess so what do you want to do it
says you will like the married woman to
be able to manage the situation what do
you mean by this well every time the
woman is with her husband she always
thinks about him and he does know want
the husband to get suspicious so that it
does not stop the affair I’m like wait a
minute so you want to continue having
this affair with this woman he says yes
how would your girlfriend feel about
this put yourself in her shoes you have
a boyfriend who says is happy with you
who is in love with you but at the same
time it’s cheating with someone else
that is falling in love with you can you
actually love two people at the same
time he says I don’t want any changes I
just want the situation to remain the
same I want to keep both woman in my
life I said wow you are just like
McDonald’s slogan you are loving it
aren’t you
love is powerful according to a survey
about 9 out of 10 Americans cited love
as an important factor to get married
past
statistics show that 50% of first
marriages 67% of second marriages and a
staggering high of 73 percent of TOD
marriages hand in divorce the question
is if love is an important factor that
influences people to get married how
come it does not old the marriage how
come it does not hold the relationship
together when we examine love in a
breakup I believe one of three things
has happened it’s either one there was
no love at the beginning of the
relationship to start with two there was
something bigger than the love that
broke the relationship or three the love
declined I can understand when you feel
like your love is depreciating and you
tell your partner I just don’t love you
right now especially when you are having
a meal together and your partner becomes
inquisitive to ask why because he just
ate the last piece of the pie if you
loved me you will let me have it
that’s what you say right ladies at the
same token I believe there is nothing
bigger than love that can break a
relationship absolutely nothing if the
couple truly loves each other and that
is what I want to talk to you about
today true love there are different
types of love out there you have the
filial love which is brother
love it is what you share with your
family friends or colleagues
another one is eros it’s a sexual type
of love it gives the feelings of arousal
this is what you feel when you see a
beautiful sexy person just walk in pass
and you’re like you cannot stop looking
at them you can no hold yourself
together you begin to fantasize and have
all kind of imagination about that
person
you are having IRA’s type of love the
next one is what mary j blige cause real
love y’all know the song real love
oh I’m sorry – for real love so I want
to make my heart feel real love and we
are still trying to understand what she
meant by real love you see all these
types of love cannot sustain a
relationship they cannot hold a
relationship together but true love
which the Bible also describes as a gap
in love can hold a relationship together
can keep a relationship for a long haul
what is true love true love is
passionate love you have two independent
words passion and love fused together to
make a strong definition passion is the
force that drives the love for something
it’s default that keeps
love going love without passion it’s
like a body without a soul it’s like a
car without an engine
no movement would happen and
just in case you are wondering how you
can tell if someone truly loves you or
if you truly love someone sacrifice
sacrifice for one another
will indicate if you truly love each
other and sacrifice is given up
something for another thing that is far
more important just like giving up that
piece of pie for your girl that is far
more important or it’s the release of
something in your possession in an
exchange for another thing that you love
this is exactly what God did when he
released and sacrificed his only son
Jesus just to have us for God so loved
the world that He gave His only begotten
Son that whoever believes in Him will
not perish but have everlasting life God
demonstrated through love a gap in love
love feels with passion and sacrifice
had an opportunity to demonstrate my
true love I was in college I enjoyed
govern izing people for networking and I
do this by throwing parties and if you
know one thing about throwing parties
the more women you have there the more
men want to come in spend money at the
bar buy drinks pop bottles so my goal
every time is to have as many ladies at
the party
this however opens the door to always
have women around me I remember after
touring a party three women that do not
know each other say they want to spend
and I am a house they wake up in the
morning one begins to feed me breakfast
the second one gets jealous she goes
into the kitchen grabs food comes back
she starts to feed me
the third one looking like this is crazy
should I join the party or what I’m
thinking to myself it’s on a dream but
no it’s a reality I’m like you have no
up in my house with the bunnies but that
reality was short-lived as I meet a girl
that I’m truly in love with and she’s
truly in love with me as well but she
does not like the lifestyle that I’m
living she does not want to compete with
any other woman this is a deal-breaker
for her and of course it’s off situation
for me because that means I’m gonna have
to give up throwing parties and spending
time with other women so that I can have
and keep her so I begin to analyze the
situation what am I gonna do who or what
should I pick her over them or them over
her this is my Kairos moment my moment
of decision this is where true love and
so I made a decision and the sacrifice
to give up both throwing parties
and spending time with other women so
that I can have and keep this girl that
I’m truly in love with a few years later
we got married and we have two beautiful
amazing children together you see true
love is the only type of love that can
keep and sustain a relationship it will
help you to make the ultimate sacrifice
to give up playing games quit
destructive habit and seek counseling
when you came to acquire tools and
knowledge in order for you to have a
healthy relationship because of the love
problems that people are having is the
reason why I wrote my book revelations
of relationship what you don’t know
about finding true love and sustaining
relationship I want to admonish you all
to find and practice true love in your relationship cheers to your improvement
ever gotten in a relationship because
you felt that you were in love very good
good how many I’ve ever broken up and
uh-huh
as a matter of fact I don’t even know
how I fell in love with you in the first
place
oh I know you were drunk in love right
in my line of field as a relationship
coach clients come to me with their love
problems one client wants me to evaluate
our relationship she’s being with her
boyfriend for over four years there is
no promise ring no engagement ring no
conversation about wedding and on top of
it is cheatin on her she wants to know
if she should continue with the
relationship or kick the guy to the curb
so I asked her how many times as he
cheated on you she says at least four
times when a lady says at least four
times multiplied that by to eat eight
times do you love him
yes she replies does he love you he says
it does but his action does not show it
what action specifically did cheatin if
you loved someone would you cheat on
them if you truly loved someone would
you cheat on them at least four times
she says no well if your answer is no
then you know what to do
Truelove that is not backed up by the
right action is not true love another
client says he’s happy in his
relationship
he loves his girl but he’s cheating on
the side with a married woman and they
are both in love together and he does no
know how he got himself in this
situation I said you know how you got
yourself in this mess you shifted your
focus from your girl to someone else you
divided your attention and your emotions
someone who’s too old the first priority
on your heart no longer hold that
position that’s how you got yourself in
this mess so what do you want to do it
says you will like the married woman to
be able to manage the situation what do
you mean by this well every time the
woman is with her husband she always
thinks about him and he does know want
the husband to get suspicious so that it
does not stop the affair I’m like wait a
minute so you want to continue having
this affair with this woman he says yes
how would your girlfriend feel about
this put yourself in her shoes you have
a boyfriend who says is happy with you
who is in love with you but at the same
time it’s cheating with someone else
that is falling in love with you can you
actually love two people at the same
time he says I don’t want any changes I
just want the situation to remain the
same I want to keep both woman in my
life I said wow you are just like
McDonald’s slogan you are loving it
aren’t you
love is powerful according to a survey
about 9 out of 10 Americans cited love
as an important factor to get married
past
statistics show that 50% of first
marriages 67% of second marriages and a
staggering high of 73 percent of TOD
marriages hand in divorce the question
is if love is an important factor that
influences people to get married how
come it does not old the marriage how
come it does not hold the relationship
together when we examine love in a
breakup I believe one of three things
has happened it’s either one there was
no love at the beginning of the
relationship to start with two there was
something bigger than the love that
broke the relationship or three the love
declined I can understand when you feel
like your love is depreciating and you
tell your partner I just don’t love you
right now especially when you are having
a meal together and your partner becomes
inquisitive to ask why because he just
ate the last piece of the pie if you
loved me you will let me have it
that’s what you say right ladies at the
same token I believe there is nothing
bigger than love that can break a
relationship absolutely nothing if the
couple truly loves each other and that
is what I want to talk to you about
today true love there are different
types of love out there you have the
filial love which is brother
love it is what you share with your
family friends or colleagues
another one is eros it’s a sexual type
of love it gives the feelings of arousal
this is what you feel when you see a
beautiful sexy person just walk in pass
and you’re like you cannot stop looking
at them you can no hold yourself
together you begin to fantasize and have
all kind of imagination about that
person
you are having IRA’s type of love the
next one is what mary j blige cause real
love y’all know the song real love
oh I’m sorry – for real love so I want
to make my heart feel real love and we
are still trying to understand what she
meant by real love you see all these
types of love cannot sustain a
relationship they cannot hold a
relationship together but true love
which the Bible also describes as a gap
in love can hold a relationship together
can keep a relationship for a long haul
what is true love true love is
passionate love you have two independent
words passion and love fused together to
make a strong definition passion is the
force that drives the love for something
it’s default that keeps
love going love without passion it’s
like a body without a soul it’s like a
car without an engine
no movement would happen and
just in case you are wondering how you
can tell if someone truly loves you or
if you truly love someone sacrifice
sacrifice for one another
will indicate if you truly love each
other and sacrifice is given up
something for another thing that is far
more important just like giving up that
piece of pie for your girl that is far
more important or it’s the release of
something in your possession in an
exchange for another thing that you love
this is exactly what God did when he
released and sacrificed his only son
Jesus just to have us for God so loved
the world that He gave His only begotten
Son that whoever believes in Him will
not perish but have everlasting life God
demonstrated through love a gap in love
love feels with passion and sacrifice
had an opportunity to demonstrate my
true love I was in college I enjoyed
govern izing people for networking and I
do this by throwing parties and if you
know one thing about throwing parties
the more women you have there the more
men want to come in spend money at the
bar buy drinks pop bottles so my goal
every time is to have as many ladies at
the party
this however opens the door to always
have women around me I remember after
touring a party three women that do not
know each other say they want to spend
and I am a house they wake up in the
morning one begins to feed me breakfast
the second one gets jealous she goes
into the kitchen grabs food comes back
she starts to feed me
the third one looking like this is crazy
should I join the party or what I’m
thinking to myself it’s on a dream but
no it’s a reality I’m like you have no
up in my house with the bunnies but that
reality was short-lived as I meet a girl
that I’m truly in love with and she’s
truly in love with me as well but she
does not like the lifestyle that I’m
living she does not want to compete with
any other woman this is a deal-breaker
for her and of course it’s off situation
for me because that means I’m gonna have
to give up throwing parties and spending
time with other women so that I can have
and keep her so I begin to analyze the
situation what am I gonna do who or what
should I pick her over them or them over
her this is my Kairos moment my moment
of decision this is where true love and
so I made a decision and the sacrifice
to give up both throwing parties
and spending time with other women so
that I can have and keep this girl that
I’m truly in love with a few years later
we got married and we have two beautiful
amazing children together you see true
love is the only type of love that can
keep and sustain a relationship it will
help you to make the ultimate sacrifice
to give up playing games quit
destructive habit and seek counseling
when you came to acquire tools and
knowledge in order for you to have a
healthy relationship because of the love
problems that people are having is the
reason why I wrote my book revelations
of relationship what you don’t know
about finding true love and sustaining
relationship I want to admonish you all
to find and practice true love in your relationship cheers to your improvement
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