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How refugees can teach us cultural competency | Daniel Socha | TEDxKentState


so often when we think about culture we

look outwardly we try to understand and

figure out others cultural practices and

beliefs and although this can be

important another crucial part of

intercultural communication is to look

introspectively at our own assumptions

values and norms and as global

integration and emigration continue at

it to increase at an exponential rate

never has there been a more important

time to focus on our relationships and

our communication in intercultural

spaces over the next few minutes I will

describe some techniques for enacting an

introspective approach to culture this

is an approach in which we continually

and critically question our assumptions

and work to deconstruct the stereotypes

which we might have so over the past 40

years or so there’s been this large

large number of industries that have

come up with these cultural competency

programs in response to rapid

globalization many of these programs are

designed to make practitioners more

competent in their knowledge of others

cultural practices and beliefs such as

appropriate hand gestures and personal

space boundaries however in recent years

scholars and practitioners have begun to

notice the shortcomings of such

approaches for instance in one training

that tried to train medical

practitioners about Latino culture it

was found that latina patients on Latino

patients received less pain medication

than other patients with similar

ailments based on the assumption that

their pain was over exaggerated and so

in response to these cultural competency

trainings authors and researchers

Melanie toulebonne and John Marie Garcia

contend that instead of learning some

fixed body of cultural know-how we need

to enact cultural humility these

processes of ongoing self-reflection and

so building on the notion of cultural

humility the first strategy for working

introspectively involves

working with others and coming over our

cultural know-how going beyond our

cultural know-how and so in order to do

that first we must resist the urge to

essentialize and generalize culture

post-colonial writer Gary at Steve axe

turns terms essential izing as the

process through which we reduce a

culture down to a select number of

traits we’ve all done that right I mean

at some point in time so for instance

you might think about French culture and

you might think about sitting in a cafe

in the middle of the day and drinking a

glass of wine and smoking a cigarette

but is that all there is to French

culture and if the culture is not our

own we’re predisposed to use stereotypes

about those cultures to inform ourselves

about it and sometimes that can lead us

into making some crazy assumptions the

other thing is with essentializing so

reducing down we also generalize we lump

people together from particular places

and we expect them to conform to our

stereotypes and so ponder for a minute

we’re all we’re all here in the United

States of America if someone were to ask

us what is American culture can you

define that for me we would likely

provide a variety of responses based on

our own personal experiences here in the

United States stereotypes would also

likely inform our different orientations

and ideas about cultural practices in

the United States so an example that

highlights this is one time I was

teaching a English culture class English

ESL and culture class to a group of

refugees and we came on the topic of

sports and at that time the Cape

Cleveland Cavaliers were in the National

Basketball Association finals and some

of the members of the class were really

curious about this they started hearing

there was big hype around the Cleveland

Cavs and they said you know hey how’s

this game work I can only name LeBron

James you know and I know absolutely

nothing about basketball I’m like can

you pick it up and like throw it in the

air I have no idea so so to their dismay

I had no idea about these things and and

something that really stuck

me is when one of my students said to me

he said but Daniel aren’t you American

and from there the class began to

question whether or not I was Swedish so

they thought that and it wasn’t quite

true and so although this instance is

humorous and light-hearted the problem

is that sometimes these assumptions can

be very presumptuous and fraught with

racist you know racist notions and we

don’t know that we’re doing it and so we

need to think about that and so surely

we’re all going to generalize and

essentialize this is inevitable and so

this inter called introspective approach

to culture that I’m talking about tells

us that we don’t need to adhere to some

pristine cultural morality in which we

no longer generalize that’s not going to

happen but rather such an approach asks

us to continuously question our

assumptions and look introspectively

at the ways in which our personal

experiences and our personal knowledge

can create and perpetuate stereotypes

and so this leads into the second

fundamental strategy to this

introspective approach and it’s called

reflexivity

and reflexivity goes beyond evading

stereotypes and prompts us to reflect

and think during our cultural

interactions and after and so on one

level reflexivity is enacted in fleeting

moments where we just take a moment to

stop and pause and we don’t do that

often enough and but then on another

level we can practice reflexivity before

and after interactions in intercultural

spaces and we can do this through

jotting down notes you know just musing

for a while journaling talking with a

friend about our experiences um and so

we need when we’re doing this we need to

silence the assumption making demons our

head the other important part is we need

to ask our questions more humbly and

whoever said there are no bad questions

they were very very wrong I’m under the

belief that they were and so for

instance a professor of history and

political science

Curtis kiemce he notes that when

Americans meet people from Africa

oftentimes the very first question they

ask is what tribe are you from and so

Curtis Keene goes on to point out the

ways in which this can be really

offensive and loaded with assumptions

first Africa is an incredibly diverse

continent it’s huge and to describe the

social and political structures in that

continent and reduce it down to just

tribe is completely incorrect and then

the other part is sometimes we think

about tribe and its associated with

primitiveness and it perpetuates

falesha stereotypes of Africa is savage

or backwards and this is not true and so

although these kind of questions are

formed with curious intentions it’s very

fun to learn about where other people

are from we all want to do that right

like that’s that’s what’s fun about

living in an intercultural world but

what we need to do is we need to look

more introspectively

at how our assumptions can hinder us in

the way that we can add those

assumptions into our intercultural

communication and so the next thing is

we need to get rid of this learned

cultural expertise in this day and age

we like to learn about culture and I do

it all the time I’m so guilty of it all

the time and I noticed myself thinking

like I’m the expert and people will ask

me they’ll say oh you’ve been Africa

tell me about what they do in Africa and

I’m like well I don’t really know

because I’ve been to like five cities

you know and so when we’re thinking

about this when we relinquish our selves

of expertise we need to go beyond what

we read on the internet so I have this

story is when I went to Morocco I went

to Morocco and before I went I went on

the internet to learn about the taboos

and culturally appropriate customs of

Morocco and in many ways this served me

well I learned that you eat with your

right hand and you put your hand on your

heart to say nice to meet you and these

things were really helpful because

people were very happy that I took the

time to learn

but sometimes it sent me astray and so

an instance of this is in Morocco dogs I

read on the internet on this website

should never be in the house they’re

considered dirty they are considered

dangerous

you shouldn’t go and touch a dog on the

street this is just a bad bad thing to

do

so I was like alright I’ll see a dog I’m

not touching it like get out of there

and there’s a lot of stray dogs and so

one day my friend invited me to his home

for dinner and he’s like alright come

over to my house Daniel we’d love to

have you I want to introduce you to my

father and I walk into the house and the

first thing I see is my friend’s father

sitting on the couch with this tiny

little dog on his lap and he’s petting

it and I think the thought I forget what

the dog’s name was but so like I go up

to him and with curious tension in

tension I go up and I say hello and I

say why do you have a dog in your house

isn’t that taboo in Morocco to which he

responded for some people yes but for me

I really like my dog so I go to my

friend’s house for dinner and the first

question I even say like how are you I

just say to him isn’t that taboo and

Morocco based on something that I had

read on the Internet and so although

like this wasn’t super detrimental to

the relationship sometimes when we

impose our assumptions and put them into

our questions they can and so through

practicing reflexivity this really

crucial part of an introspective

approach we can take the time to make

pauses in our communication and think

you know just thing is that is there an

assumption in there and then so an

introspective approach can be

drastically helpful in improving our

relationships in intercultural spaces

and now more than ever in a social and

political climate that demonizes

refugees and immigrants we need to look

inside of ourselves for ways to support

and welcome people from diverse cultural

backgrounds and ultimately an

introspective approach looking inside of

ourselves lacks us to focus less on

culture and more on individuals as you

and beings thank you so much [Applause]

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