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How I convince people that I’m funny (even though I’m actually not) | EB McCready | TEDxOU


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hi there good morning everyone as Clark

so kindly just introduce me my name is

Eva McGrady and today I’m here to talk

to you about how I convince people that

I’m funny even though I’m actually not

and to demonstrate I’m going to tell you

one of my favorite jokes so why were the

police suspicious of the blinds because

they were shady so as you can tell by

some of the shaking heads that I’m

seeing like the joke wasn’t funny let’s

be honest with ourselves so why are most

of you still smiling and a couple of you

gave me a nice laugh well my guess is

that it was one of two reasons either

you a pity me which is completely valid

I’m alone on stage telling you bad jokes

I would pity me too if I were you or be

you smiled because I’m smiling and well

pity does have a power all on its own it

doesn’t do much to make me seem funny so

we’re going to focus today on the power

of smiling continuing is the theme of

twos there are two possible reasons that

my smile might have made you smile the

first is that you find me attractive

according to a study conducted by a

group of Swedish researchers in 2011

both men and women found people smiling

more attractive than those who weren’t

and an additional study conducted in the

same year found that attractive people

are more often associated with positive

characteristics of confidence and

intelligence however just thinking these

things about me doesn’t make you smile

what makes you smile is that when an

attractive person smiles at you

it activates the orbital frontal cortex

which is wrong responsible for

processing sensory rewards this means

that when an attractive person smiles at

you you actually feel rewarded which is

what is causing you to smile back so if

this first case applies to you thank you

and you’re welcome but like I said there

are two possible reasons that my smile

made you smile so before I get too big

of a head we should start looking into

the second one and we’re going to do a

quick test to determine exactly what

that is I’m going to show you a series

of

images all you need to do when you see

the picture on the screen is make an

angry face so this first one we’re just

going to test it out relax your face and

the first picture in three two one

lovely you all look lovely a little

ridiculous but that’s because angry

faces especially when forced tend to

look a bit ridiculous but we’re going to

try again to relax and three two one

again you’re doing great we’re going to

have one more relax your face and three

two one mmm

see you can tell by the laughter and

looking at many of your faces that this

last one was a bit more difficult for

you and my guess is that it was for the

same reason that the first smile came

naturally you just couldn’t help it

you’ve probably heard that smiling is

contagious and that’s exactly what a

group of researchers found using a test

very similar to this one another group

of researchers expanded on their

findings more recently in 2016 and they

found that the part of the brain

responsible for processing facial

recognition is the cingulate cortex

which is an unconscious and automatic

response area of the brain so it uses a

process called sensory motor simulation

to help you better understand what

people are feeling when they’re having

different facial expressions here’s how

it works

you see an expressive face such as a

smile and your brain automatically

mimics that expression causing you to

smile back at them it then uses your own

experiences and context to determine

what emotion that person is probably

feeling you realize that that person’s

feeling happy because that’s how you

feel when you smile so what I’m really

saying is that by smiling after I told

you a bad joke I made you assume that my

joke must have been at least a little

funny because that’s why I was smiling

but the purpose of this isn’t for you to

just see a little funny I want you to

think that I’m actually funny and lucky

for me there’s more to smiling than just

what I’ve said so far when you smile

you’re activating your zygomatic major

that’s the muscle in your cheek that

pulls your lips upwards to form the

smile and the activation of this

salt triggers the release of endorphins

dopamine and serotonin if you’ve seen

the movie Legally Blonde you’ll know

what endorphins do endorphins make

people happy if you haven’t seen Legally

Blonde don’t worry I can tell you a

little more endorphins are a natural

pain reliever they help to both

alleviate physical pain and relieve your

stress levels dopamine is a motivator

that gives you a reinforcing sense of

pleasure when you do something well to

help you to accomplish your goals and

serotonin is a mood balancer that gives

you feelings of significance and

importance when released increased

amounts like when you smile all together

when you smile these things make you

feel better and feel happier which then

causes you to smile more creating a

feedback loop of positive emotions in

your body plus this feedback loop of

positivity has the added benefit of

helping to lower your blood pressure and

heart rates and increasing your overall

longevity when you start smiling enough

so you’re getting all these positive

benefits every time you smile but again

how does that affect me I want to be

funny remember well scientists have

found that when you feel happier you

have more positive responses over all to

things like different situations events

and of course humor so as long as I have

you smiling I don’t have to be quite as

funny to make you smile or laugh plus

there’s the added benefit of when you

when you smile you’re more approachable

and make friends easier and according to

the book how to win friends and

influence people it makes you more

hireable in job settings and so while

that is less relevant to the humor side

of things I am looking for a job so hit

me up if you’re interested but the this

gets even more complicated and even

cooler because whether or not your smile

is real you still get these positive

benefits and we’re going to do another

quick test to figure this out so if you

have a pen or pencil if you get it out

with me take your pencil and put it

between your lips without it touching

your teeth like so this muscle if this

is causing you to contract your facial

muscles to simulate a brown

now hold your pencils between your teeth

without it touching your lips like this

that activates that zygomatic major

muscles that I mentioned before causing

you to simulate a smile back in 1988 a

group of researchers did this test and

they found they showed participants a

series of humorous cartoons and had them

hold the pen or pencil one of the two

ways they found that the participants

that were frowning had less positive

responses compared to those that were

smiling indicating that whether or not

your smile is real as long as you’re

activating the right muscle you’re

getting the positive benefits of the

smile so in the end what I’m saying is

smiling has many positive benefits just

activating your zygomatic major makes

you appear more attractive confidence

and intelligent improve your mood

overall helps to relieve stress boosts

your immune system lowers your blood

pressure and your heart rates makes you

live longer and most importantly can

make you seem funnier than you actually

are and you have the power to share all

of these benefits with the people around

you because your smile is contagious

so I urge all of you to activate that

zygomatic major and to share it with the

people that you encounter today because

in today’s world we could all use a

little more positivity thank [Applause]

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