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Gap Year: A Path to Purposeful Education | Jay Gosselin | TEDxKanata


so how do we know when the status quo is

no longer working what does it take for

us to see that the current model needs

to be redesigned for me it took 12,000

heartbreaking conversations with

students to fully understand how badly

our model for educational transitions

needs to be overhauled I visit with

entire high school graduating classes

and I ask them two questions first I

asked them who’s excited about

graduating from high school moving on to

university or college 10 hands go up

did I ask them who’s anxious about

graduating from high school

moving on to university or college 200

hands shoot up during one-on-one

conversations with students I ask them I

say tell me what you love to do what

takes up your time on the weekends and

what makes you feel good they tell me

things like I love learning about

different cultures and I love making

videos or you know I feel really good

anytime

I help my friends through difficulties I

say great what do you want to study

after high school and far too often they

slump their shoulders look down at their

shoes and they say oh you know I’m gonna

do engineering cuz got to make money or

well my parents they have to do

something practical so I’m thinking

either medicine or law and they go from

being so excited and enthusiastic and

optimistic to saying here’s what I need

to do if I want to be successful rather

than seeing post-secondary as an

opportunity to explore their interests

and to build important skills to many

young people today see it as a means to

a financial and social end rather than

pursuing an education with a sense of

purpose – many are pursuing it out of a

sense of obligation so given the reasons

for being on campus should we really be

surprised to hear that 65 percent of

students report feeling overwhelming

anxiety and 45 percent report major

depression should we be

shocked to hear that students generally

are disengaged and uninterested in their

education when I went back to school at

the age of thirty to study psychology I

had learned through time and experience

that I was fascinated by human

motivation achievement and relationships

I was very curious about the research

that we studied and I was very engaged

in the lectures unfortunately most of my

classmates didn’t seem to share the same

sense of excitement in each of my

courses I would show up to the lecture

hall and I would take my seat in the

back of the room and I would sit there

for three hours and see students all

around me shopping online chatting on

Facebook and streaming sporting events

they would of course take a moment to

jot down a few notes anytime the

professor mentioned that something would

be on the exam but suffice to say they

were far more interested in getting a

good grade than they were in learning

anything of value sadly this is more the

rule than it is the exception today too

many students attend classes not in the

pursuit of knowledge but in the pursuit

of the status quo their striving for

that all-important piece of paper the

Diploma that they believe is their

golden ticket to a successful career and

a happy life and their suffering the

consequences but they don’t have to I’d

like to introduce you to Michael Michael

is currently finishing up his first year

at University where he’s studying

business at the end of his first

semester Michael had managed to maintain

a perfect a average a remarkable feat

for anybody in their first semester at

university but even more impressive when

you consider that Michaels average when

he left high school was a B and anybody

thats been a university knows that this

jump in grades in the first semester is

exactly the opposite of normal this is

Kate Kate is currently executive

assistant and Media Relations

Coordinator at an intellectual property

firm she got the job after bravely

applying to an ad she saw on social

media and skillfully articulating the

value that she could bring to that

company in an industry in which she had

no previous experience

Kate’s developed a skill that all

successful people master an ability and

a willingness to push her cell

outside of her comfort zone on a regular

basis she’d be the first to tell you

that until about a year ago she wouldn’t

have had the confidence to pursue nor to

perform in this new opportunity and this

is Josh josh is also finishing up his

first year at university where he’s

studying computer science and psychology

not only does Josh do well in his

courses but he finds people and

experiences outside of the classroom

walls that help him explore his

interests and implement his strengths

during his first semester in University

Josh taught English online to students

in China at 6 a.m. every day 6 a.m.

every day and then went to a full day of

classes that ladies and gentlemen is

called purpose these are impressive

feats for young people in today’s world

a world where 14% of students drop out

of university before the end of their

first year and 40% of recent university

graduates are underemployed and here’s

the thing Michael Kate and Josh are by

every objective measure ordinary they

have no greater in challenge

intelligence no greater access to

resources than the majority of young

Canadians the one way in which they are

extraordinary is that they were willing

to stray from the well-worn paths they

are innovators and their willingness to

try something new enable them to build a

sense of confidence and purpose that few

of their peers enjoy they’re among the

minority of students who made a

deliberate decision to step off the

academic treadmill for a purposeful gap

year during their gap year they explore

their own interests values and strengths

and they came to better understand how

they could make use of their unique

talents to improve the lives of others

around them so the question is then if

the benefits of a purposeful gap year

are so great why is it that so few

students are choosing this path the

answer is that everything they’ve seen

and everything they’ve heard since the

age of five has been pointing them down

a linear path from elementary school to

high school to post-secondary education

to a successful career and a happy life

we push them along this path because we

know that statistically those who

achieve a post-secondary credential fare

better in terms of economic and social

outcomes in the long run the problem is

that we all know that the path to true

success is anything but linear the

problem is that we now know students on

this academic treadmill are suffering

mental health consequences at an

unprecedented level the problem is that

no one seems to be actively encouraging

young people to build their confidence

self-awareness and adaptability outside

of campus walls

well not nobody actually since 1973

Harvard University has offered every

admitted student the opportunity to take

a purposeful gap year in their offers of

admission they say we think you’re great

we’re accepting you to Harvard

obviously you’re pretty talented we’d

love for you to come and study with us

here however we’d prefer if you didn’t

come next year we’d prefer if you took

the year to go off and work travel

volunteer go out into the world and

build a sense of purpose and gain an

understanding of why you want to study

and then join us the reason we offer you

this opportunity is because over time

we’ve seen the benefits to this program

for young people they come to campus

more engaged they perform better

academically and they actually have

greater long-term outcomes in terms of

career and life satisfaction I’m not

here to argue against the benefits of

higher education I think we’re

incredibly lucky to have the wonderful

system that we do I am however here to

argue for purposeful education and the

kind of purpose I’m talking about

doesn’t magically show up at your door

just because you happen to have finished

the 12th grade so we’ve heard some of

the benefits to students in taking a

purposeful gap year we now know that one

of the most prestigious universities in

the world actively encourages this

practice but the question remains why is

it that so few students are choosing

this path and the answer I believe lies

in what psychologists would call

irrational beliefs irrational beliefs

are unfounded values attitudes and

opinions that we hold that are

sync with the way the world really is I

hear a rational beliefs from parents and

students about gap years all the time

and I wanted to share the top three with

all of you tonight I think you’ll find

that you relate to them parents

irrational belief number one if my son

or daughter takes a year off to work

they’re going to love making money so

much they’re gonna get sucked into the

job market they’ll never be able to go

back to school

anybody heard that one before show of

hands okay I won’t ask who’s thinking it

right now so the next question for

everyone is who here knows anybody who

loves making minimum wage exactly

me neither in fact but the reality is

that students who choose this path to

work for one year after high school

before post-secondary will most likely

be making minimum wage if you ask people

that have taken this path more often

than not they’ll tell you that

understanding what life looks like at

minimum wage for one year was exactly

the kind of motivation they needed to

return to their studies once they knew

what it was that they wanted to learn

about furthermore the American gap

Association in 2015 conducted a survey

that highlighted ninety-two percent of

students who take an intentional gap

year returned to their studies full-time

the very next year

parents rational belief number two if my

son or daughter takes a year off from

school they’re going to completely

forget all their study habits they’re

gonna lose their academic momentum and

they’ll never be able to go back anybody

anybody

guilty as charged yes thank you for

being honest I’d like to introduce you

to Rachel Rachel is a high school

dropout she left school before

completing the 11th grade we’ll just say

she wasn’t feeling it at the time I

guess

what’s she up to now 25 years later

rachel is currently the director of an

academic success program and a large

university not bad for a high school

dropout right if you’re thinking

yourself well

obviously J she had to go back to school

to get that job you’re absolutely right

she did when she was ready for it she

got her high school diploma then she

went on to get her undergraduate degree

and not too long ago Rachel completed

her PhD in psychology she’s the perfect

example of why a sense of purpose and an

understanding of why we’re studying is

far more important for academic success

than the ability to recite the periodic

table of elements

so that’s the parents what about the

students far and away the most popular

irrational belief I hear from students

on a regular basis is if I take a year

off I’ll be a year behind thank you for

joining me in on that one some other

people have heard that before too so

what’s funny about that first of all is

the question is what exactly are they

gonna be falling behind on and the

answer as you likely know is simply the

status quo and what’s ironic about it is

if you ask anybody who has ever taken a

purposeful gap here they’ll tell you two

things number one they’ll tell you I

know it seems like a long time at the

age of eighteen but trust me one year

it’s just a drop in the bucket number

two my gap year was without a doubt the

most transformative period of my life I

learned so much about myself in the

world around me I built a sense of

confidence and adaptability that enabled

me to pursue the things in life that are

actually meaningful to me and I wouldn’t

be the same person today without it so

those are some of the irrational beliefs

I hear from parents and students on a

regular basis that I believe are making

purposeful gap years prohibitive to many

students there is of course one more

glaring reason why more students aren’t

choosing this path and that’s simply

because we haven’t offered them many

meaningful options and that’s why three

years ago I set out to recruit an

incredible community of educators

teachers mentors and coaches to help

more young people gain access to the

benefits of a year experience through

experiential learning self-discovery and

skill development in our program every

student

travels and completes a community

service project over the course of the

year they also receive individual career

coaching on a monthly basis and they

meet up for weekly workshops where we

help them build the most important

career and leadership skills for their

future but most importantly over the

span of the year our students have the

opportunity to learn from and to network

with an inspiring community of over 100

mentors mentors who advocate for

diversity and inclusion in the workplace

mentors who have one Stanley Cups in

participating in the Olympics mentors

who have lost their life savings to fail

businesses and gone on to build new

thriving companies mentors who have

moved their family to another country

for a better future mentors who have

taken traumatic events in their own life

and use them as fuel for future growth

and development and mentors who dedicate

their lives to helping young people

implement meaningful social change the

positive impact of this kind of

community on our young people cannot be

overestimated our mentors share a number

of important character traits

perseverance optimism and generosity

among them but if I had to choose one

trait that I thought best characterized

the collective identity of our mentors

it would be courage courage to

continually push themselves outside of

their comfort zone and to live authentic

lives courage to admit when they’ve made

a mistake and to take responsibility for

fixing it courage to put up their hand

and say I agree the status quo may not

be the best way I’d love to help build

something different like our students

our mentors have no special powers they

have character and they have purpose

like our mentors our students have

courage and I’ve learned over the past

three years just how hard it can be for

young people to choose something

different to stray from the status quo

and to step off the academic treadmill

it could be very hard but like so many

things in life that are hard it can also

lead to incredible fulfillment I think

nobody articulated this sentiment better

than one of our mentors Scott Robertson

Scott is an indigenous rights lawyer

here in Canada and one of the most

purposeful

professionals you could ever meet he

gave our students a workshop on critical

thinking a number of months ago and

during the workshop Scott told us about

his gap year nobody is coming to the end

of high school he knew he wasn’t ready

to go to university so he decided to

plan a year-long trip to Australia and

while planning his gap year Scott went

around and he asked 20 of his friends if

they wanted to go with him every single

one said no so he went off on his own

and he told us during the workshop that

in the 25 years that have passed since

his gap year every single one of those

20 people has come back to him and said

I wish I had done that with you we need

to help our young people avoid this

future regret we need help them pursue

an education with a sense of purpose we

need to help more young people live with

a sense of confidence self-awareness and

adaptability the Michael Kate and Josh

live with today and if I had to choose

one quote that I thought best captured

the essence of the work that we’re

trying to do it would be Howard Thurman

who said ask not what the world needs

ask what makes you come alive and go do

that because what the world needs is

people who have come alive and I like to

say that a purposeful gap year is not a

guaranteed one year journey to success

but this one year is the start of a

lifelong journey to significance we need

to strive to help our young people come

alive believe me it’s a very fulfilling

journey thank you [Applause]

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