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Filosofía SPA | Gustavo Guevara | TEDxTecdeMtyCuernavaca


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[Applause]
good night there is something that all
people all human beings that
we inhabit this planet called earth
we have in common besides being
people
that something we have in common is a
desire is a longing and that longing is to be
happy
I ask you which one of you is
happy
I raised my hand really hard for good
clear why he has not reached to see what
that there is a 23
we have about 30 people who
they declare to be happy true certain are
happy
let me tell you that they are
liars all and all are about
liars
I’m going to tell you why because I do not know
can be happy
you can be happy happiness to see
those who raised their hands go back to
lift without penalty
those who said they are happy that is
happiness forgiving strong one
mood that is happiness
do what we do happiness as
they said it a moment ago it ‘s a state
of spirit
happiness is ephemeral happiness is
a momentary situation to the
happiness is like that feeling of
sadness of anger of depression and anxiety
fear when we are sad
we do not cry all day
I think when you’re angry
there comes a moment of anger comes a moment
of despair but happiness decreases
as all moods have
a rebound
the problem with happiness
they have taught us that happiness is a
state to which we can reach the cal to
which if you follow a few steps we will
reach
if you finish a career
if your training does not find a
couple forms a family shopping dog
cat pes casanueva new car
you travel once or twice or three times
year if you have the possibility
you will be happy is not the social model
what we have about success and success
we associate happiness
then that person who does not have
a couple is unhappy according to the model
social those people who decide not to
have children
he is also unhappy according to the model
social and that person who does not have a
own car that does not have a house
own or a lifestyle according to the
mold do not fall into the concept of success
and if you are not in the concept of success
you do not enter the concept of happiness
what is the problem of happiness
happiness is a state of mind and it is
a state to which we have all come in
some time when we graduated
when we get unemployment when
we achieve that goal
when we bought that we wanted
buy with much desire and we achieve
We are fine Felix Porfi finally
get the promotion
finally finish the race finally I
buy that new cell phone that both
wanted and what and then the decline comes and
then comes the picada then comes the and
now what
and now what do I go back to ascend but
to one as side and the problem of the
happiness is that we believe that it is going to be a
permanent state and happiness not what
it’s happiness is an emotion
I repeat then we can not be happy
that person who is going to give us a
advice never trust that person
who smiles
the time really scares me assured
the party and he could smile what horror
in fi happiness can not be happy
you can not stay between
but if there is something we can do and there is
something we can look for if there is something that
we can find
and there is something that we can generate is
we must learn to know ourselves and feel
less and I ask them what is the
fullness
answer me ok the fullness
I define it as that balance between
what you are what you think and how
the fullness acts
I define it as I like to define it
as a spa, this is how to think and act if
your is your thinking and your current one
find in balance
you are going to be a person who can
say that it is full
let’s see what I know we are then in
the strictest sense
we are a set of molecules a
set of cells called life
in the strictest sense
we are a microorganism that is part
of a planet and that planet arises
part of a solar system and the
system is part of a galaxy and that
galaxy is part of a universe we are
men as women we are children we are
brothers we are mothers parents
we were children we will become old
time as we think I like that I do not
like who created as I think
who taught me to believe is where
got that information and the most
important because it is the one that projects
is the one that transcends because it is the one that
external as we act
if one of these three is not in
balance things simply in your
I’m sorry to say it is not going to
work and if you are not full you are
unable to generate happiness
let’s see be thinking actor there is a
person who wants to be the best boxer
of the world
bojan I’m going to japan in your gloves you see
To the mirror he imagines with his belt
they imagine the weighing is always
watching the competitions and someday going
to be the best in the world is that your
to think is that you value it your thinking is that
it’s going to be national narco band
international championship championship
world
and guess what is your current factors
enter one hour a week then
is going to be the best in the colony and if
well you are going to act
there is a person who knows that he was born in
a context for a gum a belief
religious
We are not going to put any if and act
according to what the standard or the
religious belief to the commandments
who abide by this religion but who believes
that person does not believe there is such
be almighty and simbad and certainly in
Variably that will make your noise
thinking is not in balance
let’s see if there is a person who
born man is a person born
man but who thinks he should have
born woman
however, his act is like that of a
man socially behaves like
play the gender role that stimulates you
you who forgive you who imposes your
context but in its cessation is assimilated as
a person back because he is a person
that does not want to be that which is that
wants to be that creates the tax that does not
he wants to be is what he was told
had to be and being wrong is
in conflict is always the subway suit
so I baptized it are three axes what
you are how you think and how you act and
this is a tool that is the
present
it is a tool that we can all
use and it’s a matter of
meditation is a matter of
self – knowledge and not everyone can
do at home on a very personal level and
He assured them that it will be useful for them
identify how full you are
at this moment busher example is
well pleased with what you are so
happy as lights are you happy with
what you have managed to compensate also
it’s fine is in equilibrium is capable
to externally you are able to stop it
but treat it
this happened with the boxer another example
which is correct if I comply with the
norms that religion told me
I go and I fulfill being more or less
mediocre I do what I say but my thinking
your credit is also under then
metro is ideal is not ideal
it would be that we all have a kind
of equilateral triangle but we’re
talking about perfection
we are talking about a balance
perfect and like humans full of
emotions desires of needs is
impossible
the metro project serves us to
find that balance and the more
equilateral and your triangle more
balanced will be between more
balanced you fuller or fuller
you will feel happiness
Happiness happiness is not achieved
degenerate and we are capable of
swim to if we feel full let’s leave
to seek happiness
let’s erase that concept we had
let’s search and find generate
our fullness because if we are
full we are able to meet those
declines that gives us the moments
maximum happiness
we are able to control them because
I’m in balance with me with what
I am what I think with how the
happiness is individual what to me
makes no one happy to have happy and
then we can not put a label
or we can not put a step on it because
It depends on each of us looking and
generates what makes you happy not what
that the other people said that he was going to
be happy
My name is Gustavo Guevara when
I was 20 days old
I was diagnosed with a condition
genetics called osteogenesis
imperfect every one of my bones is
fracture easily from the 20s
days about 12 years my
Dad and my mom took care of me
attend I was alarmed the best they
They could give me their love to give me their delivery
but they also searched
alternatives
I went with doctors was with caregivers and
energy healers with shamans
with witches good I went with all the
world
at age 12 they forced me to certain
way to perform he refused to submit to
a surgery a surgery that was
quite painful and that I did not want and
I would ask them not, but as it was
minor
and as I now I did not know about life
so they decide on me
no doubt this surgery marked a before and
after and not because of what it caused or
for the pain that this could cause
surgery marked a before and after
because I told them enough
leave me alone, get over it, my bones are
break
and here you do not break that
me overcome what they want to support me
They really love help me to continue
studying support to perform support me
I’m with my dreams
forget about my wheelchair
forget movies I break not the
bones
they understood it very well and I
I started to understand was on the cover of
the door at 16 was very
depressed and had understood that the this
condition will accompany me and had
understood that that had to happen to
background but still I did not accept
as a person with disabilities I do not
accepted with what was
I felt useless I felt invalid
I felt someone of lesser value
one day I said your current ones a lot
write valid nothing that says that
word that represents and one day I told myself
also or I realized that the
disability had not provided three
great virtues had made me
brilliant had made me creative and I
I had become a dreamer at the age of 16
I stopped playing judging disability
and I started to find the virtues and
find the opportunities that I
he offered at 17
I discovered I understood and accepted love
love towards another person
the love towards another human being at my 17
years
I discovered how a boy
homosexual scandal like a boy
able to love another person but this
person was a man that terror fear
what conflict is going to say people do not
besides disability because the yogi
poor
imagine if that child understood
also under a process that there was not
nothing bad about me that there was not
absolutely nothing bad in what they were
in disability and an orientation and
person because I did not hurt him
javi because I was not judging
nobody at my 23 years that was about
to finish my degree
I realize that the world lacks
a lot of human sense I realize that
the world is full of discrimination
the exclusion of hate rejection to
23 years and for everything that has happened and
now so able to call myself
that I decided to do something for the world
I am judge guevara I am 26 years old I am
I am not Mexican
I am a person who lives a
disability called to caused by the
imperfect osteogenesis
I am a boy that is assumed as
homosexual
I am a marketer I am an activist
I am a son I am a brother
possibly someday be a father me
I think we should all act for
the common good that we should all
act for that which unites us and that
that unites us is love and that all
we should see the person and not see
what we think it represents and I
I have been acting since I was 23 years old
doctor promote love I dedicate myself to
make people love themselves for what they are
that is not judged that you want and that
learn to love the other doctor
promote human and medical development
promote non-discrimination to me
when they call me bush
How will you do to always be happy I
I say no I am not happy always I
I get angry I get sad I get depressed
It’s scary but if I have the opportunity to
one day get out of bed and sleep
I fully understand that nothing has happened to me
I will enjoy it and I will enjoy it
to the maximum and that’s why I tell you that’s a
issue of choice
life gave me a choice and I
I chose to be happy
thank you very much
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