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El ingrediente secreto | Marielena Melgoza | TEDxTecdeMtyCuernavaca


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very good night as they are I am
very happy to be here especially with
the large audience and once you
thank everyone because always
go back home
it’s a blessing comeback
technological of Monterrey always
represents to find the second
family to the friends that we leave in a
road as beautiful as the race was
how was the high school and I want him
thank the dae for thanking
professionals who will appreciate
media lab to the entire team
of law see and then everything and everyone
you are here
thank you very much well let’s
begin this paper is called the
secret ingredient that many of
you have to think that we are going to talk
of food that is truly rich but not the
today we will all be on a diet
and let’s just talk about a recipe very
important that falls on life
notice that for me it was very important
have this opportunity to talk to
you about the reality of a girl
24 years old that is not so young anymore
because many still confuse me
especially my parents but I want
tell them that for me it was very important
give my life meaning
even though they were so few years old and
we do that very little young people
but good as I see them very quietly and
I like more encouragement so that
all know please and be my model
for me sofía because I am a comunicóloga
this field if for example it was expensive and
I want to take advantage of you are ready
they all smiled or they all to one
2 yes thank you very much thank you
when I was little my parents
they said that life was a journey a
trip that was not planned in which
I could not have luggage did not know that
you every window or aisle or not
I knew if they were going to give
a dinner complete some peanuts like
many and then I decided to take
contradict my parents but because
now the rebellious girl always but
because for me life was more than a
single and simple trip I was very
unfair that people could have the
opportunity to fly in peace flowers and
have trips of 92 years and others
people who had trips of months
probably two to three years
I said hey unjust this is not for me
life can be a journey but what
bored to leave it alone there then
I understood that my life was the recipe
I understood that as my father tells me they are
the steaks you know how it grows not
they ‘re just going to charge it would be a blow
that’s how they get big
The truth is that I did not want to be a
steak of those who had no juice
I wanted the work of the iron and
they know how they are and rhythm
I wanted 01 the truth quite juicy
and since I was a little girl
I understood that my recipe had to carry
they already know about eggs because life
the recipe of the life of all of you
here present mine the one of this country
the world requires a good
eggs and do not tell me no because you’re
recipe has no eggs but good that it
think very little
later via mary poppins tell me
I had to fix the recipe a
little bit of sugar because you already know is
a bitterness because neither is given to me
and then I said that I already have eggs
sugar but it’s not enough
I need something more legal a recipe that
I nurtured a recipe that is very
different from the other recipes and everything is
traced back to that generation trip he made
a trip to acapulco veracruz a
community is very recognized
at the national level and at the Latin America level
for extreme sports if they have
chance to visit
please do not is the little red arrow
Mark and the little girl of 12 years
that Colombia has made especially for
a generation with whom he leads
amazing
we were only five students then already
know problems arise with one
called the plot and I said good
andrés manuel lópez obrador does not know about
plots
that is a plot or and then in that
travel jalcomulco veracruz
I learned three life lessons that
they changed my life 360 degrees
they returned me to have a more effect
heavy that some drug peyote what is
can you imagine something truly
impressive number one point when
came to the river very excited seems a
ninja turtle with a crushing helmet
all the skull and a life jacket
that makes me look smaller and so from
plane was not seen makes the cupcake omar
yale no road guide and I said I’ll
die was a person with a screen
gigantic that I did not know if there was
eaten a lot throughout his life or
I had a solitary hatchery today or
I do not know the truth in her tummy
but it was spectacular
later he had a tail of
horse that came under the
hip i said good this man
planes like the bag
the bbva rescue in case I
go home or have an unforeseen
as well as in the river downstream is
he painted a very nice panorama for
me two mountains many toucans flying
a river with a lot of personality and
I said how beautiful is beautiful this is
unreal country so beautiful we have and don
ponytail came up to me and I
he said welcome to my office
at that time medium particularly a
condition that only we Mexicans
they give that does not give any other
nationality or another part of the world is
chronic critic and it’s called its
concession
I understood that your advice is going to change me
life that moment I did not know if
breathe without giving him I did not know what
do and then what was it that I did
I kept anger and envy and said
well this bastard can not boast
from his office I want no offices and
then he takes me for right said
the river did not care about me
I forgot and down the river I was rescued
Argentinean boat
I’m about to die conclusion
first life lesson
If you do not have an office or you’re
thinking at this moment in the office
all gray with the photo of your boss in the
Godinez birthday they had
three days and they did not hit the eyes
something you are doing very badly
lesson number two life if it’s a
trip very well but it’s a trip is a
flight of a toucan you know how
the toucans fly the locals good
they are so weighted by the toucan’s beak
never stable in a straight line
just life is like this never stable
never straight line
13 if life decides that by
external circumstances about to die
remember that there is always a power
superior will not leave you this way
I was weak and cooperative and everything
it’s going to be fine
probably a foreign boat
is willing to rescue is about
a generation millennials a lot of
you have surely heard this
concept of millennials and the
snap chat and puppy title and if
grandmother lives here she smiles
devil filter not most of the
media currently publishes in this type
of messages to the community
the strange case of the millennium to which
I loved your job my line is to change the
idea of work it turns out that we’re going to
make the generation from 1984
until probably the 2000 the
poorest generation of all
existing generations
why because first in the first place
we do not have a stable job
this means that on average according to
fort according to others and others
investigations speak of that in
average online cell hard forgiveness
between a year two years maximum in a
teaching position for the family for
friends even for the girlfriend or the dog
this is how the picture is painted
dominial the unicorns expectations
the life of establishing the life of the
Facebook
we have the image of others as if
was great but the reality is that
within them there is a totally world
different and we are constantly
crashing into this wall that is called
reality which creates a lot
frustrations us throughout my
life I’ve listened to there are not very many
nuclei very close those of my family of
my friends from my boyfriend of any
person close to me this does not mean
that they do not want me
that means that probably I do not
understand or do not know what I am
living so when they tell me that
Maria Elena by boxes of
communication that do you take
coffee and talk with cookies
when you’re going to earn a thousand pesos for a
video
the truth is that I thought this before
make my career
we see the little gioda years later
with a lot of experience saying that it was
young in the photo above but
I needed money
most of us do that we
we make efforts of someone who we are not
people that we want to appear to be but
that within us we are another
person
that ‘s my face every time it comes
with me and tell me
aires comunicóloga the career more
easy
why were not you an engineer by God
imagine these characters
oprah winfrey world is me go gogh
lionel messi
Gaudí would have thought that he was not
what managed their lives
remember that when someone tells you
that he’s not talking about his
limitations but those of the
limitations of one’s own person
Oprah Winfrey was fired from a
communication company at 23 years old
because he did not have the ability to be
clear communicator did not imagine that
they were saying goodbye to opa because if not
I would have let it go
van gogh painted hundreds of paintings in his
life and only sold 1 for after
die in the painter one of the painters
most important of all time
lionel messi the bionic flea and had
a disease that he was told never to
I was going to be able to play soccer
currently for me the Barcelona player is
the soccer player best footballer of all
the history
finally gaudí a Catalan a
small town called reus
instead, not only the identity of
barcelona but from the whole world
that day was a very important day for
I was the day that signed my title
I did not have to wake up halfway
night thinking about the cardboard that
had to deliver the next day and
it turned out to be something very difficult for me
because unfortunately with so much not with
either own or at last there was
discovered the secret ingredient that
you have to add it to my life recipe
the secret ingredient that oprah winfrey
secret ingredient that lionel messi that
van Gogh and all these characters you
they had put their recipe and this was
flame love love is in all our
be
is in every particle in the air in
absolutely everything
sometimes I will ask a question you
They believe that our rulers love
this country
you believe that you love this land
wonderful a land but a land
that we have all ecosystems by
God
answer then count down by
Of course not
with this I learned something and that has
It cost a lot to learn because it has
chronic gastritis side has cost
frustration and it has cost me a lot
the things that really is not easy
get here tell it
Many times the penalty beats us and I
I understood that the opposite of love is not
hate the opposite of love is the
indifference as Mexicans all
days we are indifferent to our
reality what happens
we are indifferent to our work
when was the last time you felt
your feet habits to wake up and
they know they have fingers
that is, do not take for granted not in
sure you have in life guaranteed
and much less believe and at the end of
your days are going to be remembered as
all these characters or probably
yes better think about how they have
transcend in the hearts of their
families in the hearts of their friends
the hearts of this country like you
are changing day by day as your
work not being drunk downtown
because the money will go well but that
are you doing with your work
to benefit you first for
supposedly in a congruent way
but beyond that how are they
benefiting this country that are
doing you every day for
this country by family for their friends and
for future generations
when you think of this top in being a
person that I love very much and that was
part of this campus
a teacher that when I arrived
dismissed by the criticism of my family
for criticizing my brother for the
criticism of my friends by criticism
I think ex-couple what it was that
I said I’m going to do engineering
mechatronics already flat I can no longer
plus
this teacher came and she always told me
is that it pumps your heart when
you talk about mechatronics
I said ‘good if my boyfriend mechatronic
but they are not very different things
this teacher told me you can follow
ahead
loves what she does is move forward that
passion for communication because this
country and this world needs that side
not just declared the crisis
most critical and tragic humanitarian
all times in this 2010 and 7 well
as we see a lot of people flooding
of money and ideas and projects to
moldova for the people who are in
serious war in totally situations
different to what we are experiencing today
this teacher after a
Chemotherapy was marked us
endure I come from Mexico but I’m going
there
this teacher was still weak and
he transmitted a love for
communication was removed the pashmina that
had in the head and told us soon
I’m going to have more hair than you that
day
I missed that day because that day
I thought I had a date with her
here in the Cuernavaca campus and that
they believe that the appointment and up by the
CEO by the sole
president for power was lost by
the superior power because it was not not that
place roosters or sunday day and has been
one of the days more semiamargo than me
I have had and I can tell you that I have
that being happy for my family has to
be happy for my own grandmother aunts
because his friends for myself too
but how could I stand the
lost
the only person who was every day
with me telling me if you can love me
I love this phrase because I like
explained the love to the tolerance of
I respect talking about assuming the right thing to
the time to transform every step that
we give and accept so much love is needed in
the world so much love that many times I
I’m stuck and I say my god when
let’s be able to share this love with
all the people that when we go to
to be able to work for something more
I do not want them to get out of here and
filled with kisses and have a moment
passionate probably yes do it
but what I want with this what I
I’m looking at this is to make us
think about doing what I felt and especially
in making them current ended with this
phrase that I love many things
because in love there is the true
force and that nothing much will achieve much and
what is done with love is well done
many thanks
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