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Experiencing Diversity | Nindya Miesye Agita Pasaribu | TEDxTKMCE


I graduated from law degree at a
criminal law from University of
Indonesia so this is my university and
my master’s in international relations
focusing in ASEAN study for me I’ve been
always interesting in learning but I
know everyone have their own style of
learning and a figure out my way of
learning is from people connected with
people people to people since till 2008
I’ve been engaging with a lot of
communities NGOs organizations having
any friends like you guys you know in
here and then competing with a lot of
organizations a lot of seminars within
Indonesia but if you don’t know where
it’s exactly my country is I’m gonna
tell you a little bit about Indonesia so
we are the biggest Muslim population in
the world we have won more than 1,300
tribes in Indonesia with more than 1,200
local languages so engaging with
indonesian young people even though we
are coming with the same academic
background but when we have one
perspective it comes with a different
kind of perspectives the question is why
because we’re coming from a various
cultural background so I reckon that
it’s not only the people the way I’m
learning but also connecting with their
culture my curiosity brought me to a
perspective that I can’t I don’t want to
stop learning just within my people in
my country but also the people outside
Indonesia I want to know what’s going on
outside Indonesia so but then coming
from a Muslim background family
not too conservative not too modern not
too poor and not for each as well my mom
will not allow me to go all alone abroad
without any specific reasons so I have
to figure out the way how am I going to
go abroad so I played with thousands of
competitions forum seminars okay a lot
of pepper works motivation letters went
through a lot of interviews a lot of
rejections too much and in 2012 I was
selected as the first and the only one
representative from Indonesia to attend
the International young women summit in
Munich Germany so I was well finally I
got it and the organizer happily to
provide me with a wig accomodation in
Munich in Germany but the problems start
okay so I got permission from my parents
but then they couldn’t help me with the
trouble because I have to pay my own
travel from Jakarta to Munich and I try
to negotiate with the attribute
negotiate with the organizer and they
say I’m really sorry we couldn’t help
you with the return ticket so I was
about to stop because I was a full-time
student I was 19 years old and I didn’t
have a sort of an income but I believe
this the greatest failure is not to try
so what I do okay I made a proposed or
nothing to lease I made a proposal I
went to the companies the company’s
offices the office these miracles
waiting one week two weeks no responses
I went to my university I spoke to my
Dean and I was hoping I will be getting
help from my Dean he happening but with
advice so he say you have to know
exactly what do you want and / get the
right one so I was thinking I want a
written tick
from Jakarta to Munich right so it means
I need to go to the Airlines company I
went to the guard Indonesia Airlines our
national airlines and I gave them my
proposal and I said look before you
reject my proposal please give me one
chance to speak about how this
conference mean for me waiting for one
two days three days no respond no call
so I waited for five days finally
there’s a call all right
agita we would like to have you for an
interview I went to the office no
surprise the question is why do we have
to give you the return ticket
so my answer was fin affiliations with
many organizations but on top of what I
will be doing after this program is our
pride to have the only one
representative from our country but
beyond that this is your contribution to
contribute as a better future
generations for our nation I went back
home waited again two days three days
five days then ten days there’s no calls
no emails and then the marketing of the
director called me and then have you
checked your email then he said we just
send you a return ticket
so this 19 years old Indonesian young
women finally made her way through all
the way from Jakarta to Munich all alone
for the first time I was nervous I was
excited but I was afraid I have seen
things never seen before but then once I
reached there the good things about this
program and make me completely become an
unforgettable memory for me because I
met people from all over the world young
women now become my sister hurt
we share stories about how girls gives
you around the world discrimination
exploitation about women in Nigeria
there’s also happening in Indonesia and
I realized that as a young women we have
lots of power and we are capable
accomplishing more than society expects
from us but another thing and this
conference it gives me as well is me as
19 years old young woman from Indonesia
not a native English stood on the stage
overcome to my public speaking fear
spoke to the 1,700 conference
participants at the AL gist summit spoke
about my opinions and thoughts and one
thing that I learned about foreign
language a foreign language is assigned
of bravery and every languages has its
own power and its own value to change
the world that’s what I learned from my
visit the United Nations Edgewater in
so we know that the world it’s
constantly changing and we need this
attitude this knowledge and their skills
what kind of attitudes knowledge and
skills in my visit in 2014 the United
States of America for the first time as
a handsome fellow so Hansen promotes
peace and global security among young
leaders all over the world I’m an
amazing young people from India from
Pakistan from Russia from Ukraine from
Mexico and from Israel this program
taught me how to be diplomatic in
everyday lives talking about public
diplomacy in America but this also
taught me about being a good leader I
have to Val
diversity and pluralism opinions not
only this it was my first time
experience Ramadan in America fasting
for 17 hours and my Christian American
roommate Ilana
she never forget to wake me up every
single morning to have my cell this
means also born and growing up in
Indonesia living in Kuala Lumpur
Malaysia
being a Muslim this Amina have to stop
having a friend from Israel and learning
about Jewish this experience of
connecting people from various
background they have gifted me
tremendous growth as a person and I
believe as a global citizen as well so
visiting 25 countries participating for
more than 25 50 international
conferences seminars over time a public
speaking fear overcome my fear about
rejections but also I miss the trains
there is it important that I mean like I
got a food poisoning me straights cancel
connecting flight but I leave I learned
to be adaptable to learn and to grow so
this is my six times in India and I
simply wanted sang to all the Indians
that I met in here along my journey
thank you to my friends that I met in
Manipur Manipuri
– Miri Asami’s thank you for showing me
how to embrace diversity and to
celebrate it and thank you for the
friends that I met of Bern who is from
Syria from Iran German Iraqi Indian
Emirati – Tommy story that I never read
on my way back from young diplomats
forum in 2017 from London
I flew by and I have a long transit in
Istanbul so I went out and I went to see
them bloom oh yeah and then I met her
son has a nice mm lava so I asked him
what is exactly behind this Sufi dance
and this is exactly what he said it was
for love and u9t unity of all of the
people I never planned I’ll be
travelling in this way I never imagined
that I will be travelling and meeting
amazing young people at connecting with
the people with the passion so it feels
like the whole journey teaches me to
learn how to live the life this universe
teach me the important aspect of life
and phases me of myself that I wouldn’t
feel I wouldn’t find staying in one
place and whatever the reason of
learning process that you will do either
you will be traveling with academic
travel or adventurous but make sure this
journey will make you be a better
version of yourself and a better citizen
for our life for our future thank you [Applause]
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