faces of creeping me out but anyways um
I tell you what my type is I want to ask
you questions okay right the snap-in
knowledge it’s a yes or no question okay
um if it’s a yes okay if it’s an or
don’t move question one how many of you
dislike hypocrites raise your hand
great everybody second question how many
of you are hypocrites okay you have a
lot of courage just very few people but
you have a lot of kind of tracing wrap
so I’m here today proves you that
everybody is a hypocrite so you’re not
leaving the spoon until you realize that
you’re a hypocrite okay so let’s begin
what is hypocrisy longingly one of the
few people who strongly believed that
everybody is a hypocrite defined
hypocrisy through a formula hypocrisy is
equal to belief – action the degree of
hypocrisy is equivalent to the value of
the difference between your belief and
actions you can say that if you want to
sound smart but in simple words
hypocrisy um means if your beliefs are
not congruent to your actions you’re a
hypocrite okay I can give you
innumerable examples of how disgustingly
hypocritical we are on a daily basis but
since I have very limited time I will
give you just a few situations that are
prominent in the society
well place those situations in front of
you I want you to think and ask yourself
if you are one of those people that I’m
talking about here we go
prostitution so if a prostitute passes
you by you give them the death stare you
stare at them like they are not normal
people that’s okay that’s totally fine
they’re not normal people normal people
are privileged with choices they are not
in Asia children at the age of 10 are
sold to men by their parents in India
children at the age of 12 to 15 are
abused manhandled drugged so that they
will not escape this profession they
crave for the privileges that we take
for granted like education so if a girl
enters an institution I’m saying that
she wants to study there and bhaijaan’s
mentions that she was once a prostitute
do you think the institution will allow
her to study there if the institution
allows her in do you think the Society
will be okay with that
you might know all of this you might
know that um prostitutes don’t have a
choice and you might claim that you
would give them the respect and equality
they justly deserve but will you really
will you talk to a prostitute in a
public place will you sit next to a
prostitute in church will you be okay
with your children
talking to them or sitting next to them
we are taught when we were young that
it’s not okay to judge we preach to our
friends that they have no right to judge
us we tell a little children that it’s
wrong to judge it’s a sin to judge
others but don’t we judge we’re actually
waiting to judge for not willing to be
judged and that is hypocrisy right there
Donald Trump you know him very
interesting personality okay so he’s
dead that a woman who commits oppression
is a murderer and um and she must be
punished as that of a murderer
we all know that abortion is wrong it’s
well inappropriate but have you ever
thought of the pain and struggle that a
woman goes through when she reaches that
decision have you ever thought that
maybe out of the number of tribulations
that she goes to maybe abortion might
have been her best option have you ever
for a moment put yourself in her shoes
and felt the fear and agony that she
feels you must feel that Donald Trump is
a moral man he is filled with integrity
you must feel that way that’s great if
you don’t know the fact that this is the
same man who lit the cuold autistic
children and imitated mutated minute
okay mimicked a handicapped
reporter as a matter of a joke during a
conference you know cuz cuz it’s fun but
at the end of the day we’re all Donald
Trump’s the actual difference between
ours and Donald Trump is that he is
being watched and we are not if our
actions were watched and our statements
were recorded you realize that we’re
just like him or even was so marking on
hating Donald Trump is like hitting
ourselves so if you all were famous if
you are famous and you make a statement
in the public and you makes it into the
public and by chance
unfortunately or fortunately you are
found contradicting that statement with
your action you will end up being the
most hated person on social media people
are going to make fun emails about you
people are going to lift you up and
ridicule you to criticize the society so
my advice is that um we should all steer
clear from positions of authority you
we the word brave brings along the rage
it brings a lot of anger that’s great
cuz it’s disgusting it’s pathetic it’s
depressing
but the funniest thing is the hilarious
thing is that what actually happens
there is no one there no one to protect
or fight for the gun but when the damage
is done
people are nowhere come together and
there’s little performance you know like
writing big statuses on Facebook
changing profile pictures to black
conducting um debates on it I still
remember the time when I have to write a
300 words essay on the Delhi gang-rape
oh I shall here’s an I said you just
just write about it
if these protests actually helped if it
actually made a difference these
protests up the girl instead really
brought change then 29 year old Isha and
23 year old which saw me I wish turnout
would still be alive you might say that
if you were there things would be
different you might say that if you were
there caught in the scene or you you see
this girl being raped you would fight
for her well screw you that’s what they
all say tell me that you would would not
be terrified at the sight of it tell me
you will not be that and run for your
life and be afraid tell me that you
wouldn’t freeze and you wouldn’t know
exactly what to do you tell me all that
and I will tell you that you are a
tea is drowning in hypocrisy and we are
going along with it so beautifully like
a dead fish so when you deconstruct the
concept of hypocrisy it’s the little
things we do every day you’re on a daily
basis those moments when we contradict
ourselves with our actions and then it
builds up to something so big and
unstoppable
yes hypocrisy is unstoppable because we
live in a society and as long as we
continue to be a part of that society we
will always be hypocrites see when our
surroundings change our beliefs our
actions our thoughts change along with
it that’s basically how we evolved so
being a hypocrite is actually being
human but don’t get me wrong on all the
bad qualities of bad habits like
possessiveness greediness selfishness
laziness
if a christy is the ugliest thing that
you can wear and there are some who are
more epic ratan the others some being
90% and the others being 10% so even
though our hypocrisy is unstoppable does
not mean it can’t be reduced to a large
extent so how do we reduce hypocrisy
look at this clean screen very closely
okay I want you to read aloud can you
can you see that up for me lovely
okay so you can see you know cuz it’s
not sweat or anything so yeah it’s
actually beyond a s each letter
represents something so um I would like
to rearrange the alphabet just for now
okay it’s actually bras so just for now
I’m gonna rearrange to be on si mainly
because I want you to come in the end
cuz I have a soft corner for it and I
want to save the best for the last
so that’s not would be um B stands for
brutal honesty
brutal honesty so how do I explain this
to you don’t have it the already honesty
is really difficult and being brutal
about it makes these worse
brutal honesty simply means that start
prompt to what you believe in even if it
offends the other brutal honesty does
not mean being cruel but to say things
as it is without adding garam masala to
it right so how do you be brutally
honest let me give you one a simple
example is my butt fat yes yes it is if
it’s brutal if it’s if it’s bad you tell
me it’s that right you tell me yes yes
it’s bad if if I ask you for old you
tell me I’m old yeah yes you look old
and no cream is going to fix that Ayesha
that’s how you be brutally honest that’s
a little thing let’s you start with the
silly examples that I gave you okay
now here’s an interesting thing that you
must know our society does not promote
brutal honesty it promotes the exact
opposite lies lies lies like um dark
skin is beautiful
this lie to us that dark skin is
beautiful and then invented a cream
court fair and lovely and
we go dark and lovely does not exist
okay right and the in light was that um
everybody is beautiful in appearance and
made sure that only specific specific
people are worthy enough to be in the
front cover of Vogue or Femina or to be
models skinny skinny people not healthy
skinny all right mmm teach yourself
the act of brutal honesty so that you
can be true to others and most
importantly true to yourself have you
realized why society lies to us they lie
to us
the society lies to us because we like
we lie every day that it bill stops um
builds up to something so big that it
affects the society so why do we lie we
lie because we are people pleasers it’s
okay to be peer pleasing people that’s
fine until you lose your entire
personality by making the other live a
lie so like I said teachers at the act
of brutal honesty so that you can be
true to others and most importantly true
to yourself learn it and you’re sure to
stand out because you possess that one
trait that most of us lack all right
next is our right on stance toward
reserve your judgment okay so there are
two types of judgmental people we are
most likely to fall under both one day
your type one next to your type to the
other day you’re both of them
simultaneously so what is type one type
one are those people who talk about
things they have zero experience about
okay they are often known as opinion
races they like to give their opinions
or pass judgments on everybody you know
even though they have zero knowledge
about them or any subject to a pure
smart
are to be intelligent to look
intelligent or write gossipers usually
fall in this category so here’s my
advice to all the type one present here
to be intelligent or if you want to be
intelligent you have to possess a trait
of an intelligent person that is knowing
where to shut up to be wise you need to
talk less because a wise man once said
nothing type to okay so these are the
people who have a particular bad quality
and when that same bad quality is found
on somebody else they mock them hate
them ridicule them even though they have
it within themselves right liars who
hate other liars disliking hypocrites
when you’re hypocrites yourself I think
we’re all type 2 today so here’s my
advice to type 2 including me don’t
point at the dust in your brother’s eye
when you haven’t taken out the dog in
yours it’s from the Bible read it once
in a while okay yes sure
don’t tell showdown – lets it’s right
there I don’t think I need to explain
that but it simply means this don’t tell
me that you’re passionate about
something show me don’t tell me that you
have a wonderful personality
show me instead in our society there’s a
lot of talking and less doing what we
need is more playing and less talking
right so it yeah it is my favorite okay
so when I found out that I was a
hypocrite
how did I find that out so I was sitting
isolated in a corner and thinking about
how to destroy planet Earth and then I
would suddenly struck me that I
hypocrite I was so disgusted at myself
and I want to change so badly so it is
what I did a stands for awareness to be
aware that you’re a hypocrite
it simply means know that you are
imperfect to know that you are filled
with flaws to know that you are in no
authority to judge and only god can
judge and when you get that point of
realization you become conscious of what
you see and what you do and when you
realize those you make you find that you
begin beyond being a hypocrite and then
you become guilty and then you make an
effort to change and that is when you’re
truly aware and when you’re truly aware
you spread the awareness you tell
everybody and anybody that they are
hypocrites that’s exactly what I’m doing
right now okay so that’s the entire
concept of a oh if you haven’t done any
of these four methods then
congratulations you are among the 90% of
the majority of the population who are
big fat hypocrites if you don’t want to
be among the 90 you change now
stop now if you’re gone to all of that I
suggest you do all of it but you can’t
order that take at least one of the
methods and put it really close to your
heart and act on it every day so that
you’re on the verge to be a better human
being a human being that the society
desperately trust me desperately needs
so I’m gonna have to control now with
question okay how many of you would call
yourself a hypocrite and dare and have
the nerve to make it effort to change
thank you you