[Music]
but you were not scared that’s the
question that I was most asked these
last four years
then you will tell me but what is
you did well
against all odds I’m not
party will explain to me in a country
war
I was not kidnapped by a group
terrorist where I did not have to fight
against a serious illness
no me four years ago I
suddenly opened my eyes and I
am offered the most beautiful gifts
freedom I left everything of a life
maybe nice on paper but
who did not correspond to me at all
I dropped the dream job in lux
perfect man the duplex with a view
our lady and especially a big fat
feeling of emptiness and I went
realize my biggest dream do the
world tour and so I left with
my backpack my big smile
we have the saints for rio confidence
slung through this world
for almost three years hoping
put a little sense in all this is
a little life in my years and sense
god knows that I found and that the
life that I create myself since is aligned
helpful and deeply fulfilling
pilou but nothing is scary scared scared
before my trip since then
talk about that because this
life transition do you figure that I
I talked to the world I communicated them via
texts on the internet so returns
on my situation
finally I had thousands of them
will give you a little insight
if I come back, but I do not dare you
margot before leaving you were not scared
go
being a woman was not afraid
that something is happening to you
an accident to make you fly violate
assaulted more philosophical sometimes you
was not afraid to realize that in fact we
child’s dream was just an illusion or
that happiness exists only when
is shared and since you decided to
to return you are not afraid to return from
love France 2 by finding your
marks of wanting to leave everything
immediately and in another register too
sometimes you inspire me with your
change of life I will be the same
I’m scared to resign I
afraid to find anything else
lack of talent from customers’ ideas of
money time and I’m here from
the other side of the Atlantic
and I answer every fear at every
reader with every message I receive
until one day by the fear of
too much who takes it in the face without
to prevent at Costa Rica
when I realize but in fact this world
whole is scared to death and I do
shocks person
why does this word constantly scare the whole
time because and water as a reminder in
my case anyway it’s still
the story of a girl who changes her life
for the best and who realizes his dream
so is it so difficult
to imagine that beyond fear she has
could feel it be a whole
little bit of enthusiasm that it’s not
of what we are talking about it must be me
remember when humanity
the whole thing has gone
take things only from the angle of
anxiety
I’m afraid so I’m that’s it
new fashionable trick
no I have better to offer you a
other way is possible
let me get you into one of
most beautiful teachings of this famous
big trip you’re ready it’s gone
so already I would like us to understand
together now something
Very important
fear our fear
a shot a lot of industries are
built on the one that finally makes
we consumers rather docile and
faithful who even want more
beyond what it costs us and so
relates to others in arms by going
in protection systems insurance
in various and varied treatments to
not grow old do not get fat and well we
especially costs our dreams our projects
your daring and suddenly our lives next door
which we sometimes go to face to force
not to dare to launch and that to my
eyes it’s way too expensive paid next
remember that the fear at the origin is
useful in any case in small doses
in case of precise danger its function is
to gather the entirety finally the friend
all of our physical abilities
to allow us the choice of
against attacking or running away so
fear by avoiding pain
physical or death is well there allowed to
the human race to survive but
today they do not stop altogether
to live because of the small dose one is
switched to almost daily infusion
our current use of fear goes well to
beyond its physiological function
first of all more than just 8%
of our anxieties are based on
real threats
all the others are the fruit of our
mental projections to all of us who
live well in our heads too
look rather
you go wow, but did not you afraid you
come back you are not afraid to have been trait
installs in europe and you are not afraid
you see that fear is not
in the observed situation but well
in the mind of the one he observes
today and it’s a shame we
unsheath anxiety as first
reflex it’s normal at the same time
we pack there every day but we
can go against this conditioning
we can unlearn what we
have learned
yes learned you heard me well because
she became so natural to us
afraid we forget that she does not have
always been present the baby is not
that with two fears that of falling or
loud noises all the others
are reactions acquired by the child
during his first years of life
or develop later by the adult he
must understand that in fact we learn to
to fear
these things that our parents our culture
our society fear that we have
a direct experience or not
I give you an example
I was afraid of tarantulas long before
to cross one so I’m not telling you
my surprise when when but when
during my two months in amazonia I
discovered that kids even everything
little loved them and played with you
see I think it’s there in the heart
of this densest forest in the world
that I started to question my
relation to fear and I know it’s
there also on the roads of this
Latin America that I traveled in
up and down that I have
started to discover and practice
the other way because precisely voices he
there are only two fear is love
finally I should say fear or
love because precisely it is one or
the other one and understand it that changed my
life I explain to you
you may have understood it at this
Stadium
my trip was more initiatory than
tourist and so my experiences
spiritual but meets but
open-heart exchanges my readings
also led me to understand but
even more so to feel at what
point within the human being there is no
that two impulses two impulses two
emotions roots eventually the fear or
love and so
if we dissect every word or
behavior of a human being
finally at its source what is that
we find either a momentum of fear a
closing a mistrust be a momentum
of love of trust an opening
finally and if I insist so much on the
word or every time it’s for a
good reason
fear and love are the two ends
of the same reality
a bit like the hot and the cold the
day and night that are not there
contrast as different as we have
tend to believe it
agree to change a few moments
with me from perspectives
and if the hot and the cold and the shadow and
the light was finally not opposed
if he was the same reality then in a
case the temperature in the other the
light simply experienced at
different intensities of agreement and if
so the cold was just the absence of
heat and shadow the absence of light
in fact in the presence of one we can
not experienced the other fear love
hot-cold day night are actually like
the two real the same two faces
of the same two sides of the same
medal
so we experiment with one or the other
but we can never observe both in
same time
fear you followed me fear and
so to love what the cold is at
hot is what the shadow is at
light his absence
fear is the absence of love
which means by definition that
Whenever we choose fear and
well we do not choose love and me
it seems to me you’ve seen the place always
bigger than fear takes in our
lives and in our societies on the other hand what
which reassures me is that I really
understanding how human
could choose his experience this is to
to say that we can consciously decide
to observe the same situation under a
angle or under another
and how do we do that well it’s very
very simple we ask ourselves a question that
hold in three words what would love do
it may seem like nothing but
there is a before and after this
question in my life this question
it’s marianne williamson who told me
offered at the turn of a page of his
reference book and it’s my turn
to give it to you tonight because it’s
important gap this simple question
she has immense power that of
put love back in the center and so
to offer the possibility of a
immediate transformation
your experience your perception of a
person or situation changes into one
moment look we’re going to practice
together
what would love do in my place there in
this situation I reformulate them because
that I think it’s more meaningful than
would make the absence of fear in my place there
in this situation what is me
margot I will think what am I
would say what would I do there if I
was not afraid to be ridiculous to be
deemed to be rejected from being mocked
to miss losing to die ask yourself
well this simple question
listen to the answer is then think that
said that always more of that you’ll see
that where fear leads you to
shyness to immobility to cowardice to
anger at egoism to violence at the
sentencing judgment in the
war finally and well your heart
he will always make you
trust in indulgence at the
Benevolence to compassion to gifts
to the bias not to judge sharing
to intimacy to generosity to peace
the way of fear or the way of love
where I could also say the way of
mental where the voice of the heart that
are we going to choose to listen this is
important everyone will take us to davy
finally very different so chosen
its good and it’s important for oneself
but for this world as at every
moment we take the right decision for
self why
well I believe deeply that
our heart will take us further into
more aligned lives that we
look more like and potentially
more fulfilling
let’s take the example I really wanted
to go on a trip to leave everything and
to leave that it posed no problem
on the other hand as soon as I started to
think back it paralyzes me the
anguish
I saw myself coming back without money without
job and without lovers and then galley to
find the 3 so how did I do
well I did it quickly I took my
decision in less than 7 days
I silenced my head if not obviously
doubts and fears would have managed to
paralyze me in paris and I listened to my
heart is sincerely I would do them
without faith and besides I make them 100
times these past four years and
that’s why I think the
life that I lead today is
radically different from the one that
I left in Paris my heart gave me
courage gave me wings for
achieve among others a hundred thousand
kilometers in latin america including a
finished launches top homestay
in 12 countries inhabited in the heart of
amazonia exceeded my fear of the ocean
sharks but not it’s also my
shyness to start publishing these
texts on the internet
what I wanted to inspire people to
ask these same questions actually my
heart
it allowed me to make lots of
challenges the latest
I let you imagine obviously that
my belly is tight very strong when
I was offered this head but I
felt at least as excited
so I consciously chose to listen
the enthusiastic
be careful I’m not in
say to you now to go
head down to accept everything we’re going
offer you
no me fear I recommend the
replace with caution caution
it’s this magical thing that you
mobilizes and makes you look right
and left before crossing the road
while fear is this thing
sneaky that paralyzes you and you
potentially maintains a lifetime
on the same side of this road
of course I was aware of
risks
of course I was careful in this
trip of almost three years but that does not
did not stop me from living it in my own way
and how is that trust in
before and I guarantee you that my
smile my good mood my benevolence
and my gratitude my open doors
absolutely everywhere because they are
universal and that’s it the last one the
last thing I’d like you
share tonight you’ll understand
listen to your heart
more than your fears it’s important
for you but it’s crucial for the
world in which we live
our societies have become so
anxiety that love has become
suspect yes suspect I weigh my words
you have already tried to smile
frankly to strangers in the street
me yes all the time and well it’s
appalling 8 out of 10 look surprised
downright worried or act as if he does not
I had not seen 2 smiled back
more crazy still a temptation the good day
the compliment to an unknown and
observe the downright you ask what
that he wonders what takes you or
look for the hidden camera it becomes
difficult in our world to help a
unknown to wear giving races
2 euros to someone who is missing for
top up the checkout or door
or or helping an elderly person
cross because she will look at you from
through
well yes what are you fishy with your
kindness on the other hand all look
on the ground in the subway insulted a
unknown driving the debate the anonymous in
as to make his hate on the internet
harassed a classmate or a
colleague it became rather banal eh
well it’s not the world in which
I want to live and neither do you
I’m sure so that’s why I
here tonight
exceeded my fear to remind us to
how much love and kindness
have never killed anyone
while fear and violence that
can arise from this if then the system of
fear will not be dismantled into one
day I’m well aware
but I also know that he needs to
all of us to start to
crumble
take care of being out of step in a
world that freaks and contains
to love and dare to start
important it is a question to ask
a decision to take a camp to choose
there is no neutrality
all together we can rewrite
the story consciously regularly
choosing the heart over fear
actively finally become activists
love and kindness
I warn you we will feel
again the fear after choosing
love is natural as light
may go out after being turned on
Well, that’s right now
that it is our responsibility to
turn on that light to open up big
the shutters and one by one
to light a swarm of small candles
teresa mother said this world will be cured
by thoughts of love a thought to the
times there are no big actions
just small actions accomplished
with great love it’s so much
important
it’s so necessary is so much
simple then you will tell me he goes so
we must sow to get out
yes but do not worry like the
said Roman gary do not be afraid of
happiness is a good time to pass
and this question that I have so often
asked I want to answer you this
evening if I was scared of course a little bit of
you even maybe a lot sometimes
but it’s not big deal
I like this
6
[Applause]
but you were not scared that’s the
question that I was most asked these
last four years
then you will tell me but what is
you did well
against all odds I’m not
party will explain to me in a country
war
I was not kidnapped by a group
terrorist where I did not have to fight
against a serious illness
no me four years ago I
suddenly opened my eyes and I
am offered the most beautiful gifts
freedom I left everything of a life
maybe nice on paper but
who did not correspond to me at all
I dropped the dream job in lux
perfect man the duplex with a view
our lady and especially a big fat
feeling of emptiness and I went
realize my biggest dream do the
world tour and so I left with
my backpack my big smile
we have the saints for rio confidence
slung through this world
for almost three years hoping
put a little sense in all this is
a little life in my years and sense
god knows that I found and that the
life that I create myself since is aligned
helpful and deeply fulfilling
pilou but nothing is scary scared scared
before my trip since then
talk about that because this
life transition do you figure that I
I talked to the world I communicated them via
texts on the internet so returns
on my situation
finally I had thousands of them
will give you a little insight
if I come back, but I do not dare you
margot before leaving you were not scared
go
being a woman was not afraid
that something is happening to you
an accident to make you fly violate
assaulted more philosophical sometimes you
was not afraid to realize that in fact we
child’s dream was just an illusion or
that happiness exists only when
is shared and since you decided to
to return you are not afraid to return from
love France 2 by finding your
marks of wanting to leave everything
immediately and in another register too
sometimes you inspire me with your
change of life I will be the same
I’m scared to resign I
afraid to find anything else
lack of talent from customers’ ideas of
money time and I’m here from
the other side of the Atlantic
and I answer every fear at every
reader with every message I receive
until one day by the fear of
too much who takes it in the face without
to prevent at Costa Rica
when I realize but in fact this world
whole is scared to death and I do
shocks person
why does this word constantly scare the whole
time because and water as a reminder in
my case anyway it’s still
the story of a girl who changes her life
for the best and who realizes his dream
so is it so difficult
to imagine that beyond fear she has
could feel it be a whole
little bit of enthusiasm that it’s not
of what we are talking about it must be me
remember when humanity
the whole thing has gone
take things only from the angle of
anxiety
I’m afraid so I’m that’s it
new fashionable trick
no I have better to offer you a
other way is possible
let me get you into one of
most beautiful teachings of this famous
big trip you’re ready it’s gone
so already I would like us to understand
together now something
Very important
fear our fear
a shot a lot of industries are
built on the one that finally makes
we consumers rather docile and
faithful who even want more
beyond what it costs us and so
relates to others in arms by going
in protection systems insurance
in various and varied treatments to
not grow old do not get fat and well we
especially costs our dreams our projects
your daring and suddenly our lives next door
which we sometimes go to face to force
not to dare to launch and that to my
eyes it’s way too expensive paid next
remember that the fear at the origin is
useful in any case in small doses
in case of precise danger its function is
to gather the entirety finally the friend
all of our physical abilities
to allow us the choice of
against attacking or running away so
fear by avoiding pain
physical or death is well there allowed to
the human race to survive but
today they do not stop altogether
to live because of the small dose one is
switched to almost daily infusion
our current use of fear goes well to
beyond its physiological function
first of all more than just 8%
of our anxieties are based on
real threats
all the others are the fruit of our
mental projections to all of us who
live well in our heads too
look rather
you go wow, but did not you afraid you
come back you are not afraid to have been trait
installs in europe and you are not afraid
you see that fear is not
in the observed situation but well
in the mind of the one he observes
today and it’s a shame we
unsheath anxiety as first
reflex it’s normal at the same time
we pack there every day but we
can go against this conditioning
we can unlearn what we
have learned
yes learned you heard me well because
she became so natural to us
afraid we forget that she does not have
always been present the baby is not
that with two fears that of falling or
loud noises all the others
are reactions acquired by the child
during his first years of life
or develop later by the adult he
must understand that in fact we learn to
to fear
these things that our parents our culture
our society fear that we have
a direct experience or not
I give you an example
I was afraid of tarantulas long before
to cross one so I’m not telling you
my surprise when when but when
during my two months in amazonia I
discovered that kids even everything
little loved them and played with you
see I think it’s there in the heart
of this densest forest in the world
that I started to question my
relation to fear and I know it’s
there also on the roads of this
Latin America that I traveled in
up and down that I have
started to discover and practice
the other way because precisely voices he
there are only two fear is love
finally I should say fear or
love because precisely it is one or
the other one and understand it that changed my
life I explain to you
you may have understood it at this
Stadium
my trip was more initiatory than
tourist and so my experiences
spiritual but meets but
open-heart exchanges my readings
also led me to understand but
even more so to feel at what
point within the human being there is no
that two impulses two impulses two
emotions roots eventually the fear or
love and so
if we dissect every word or
behavior of a human being
finally at its source what is that
we find either a momentum of fear a
closing a mistrust be a momentum
of love of trust an opening
finally and if I insist so much on the
word or every time it’s for a
good reason
fear and love are the two ends
of the same reality
a bit like the hot and the cold the
day and night that are not there
contrast as different as we have
tend to believe it
agree to change a few moments
with me from perspectives
and if the hot and the cold and the shadow and
the light was finally not opposed
if he was the same reality then in a
case the temperature in the other the
light simply experienced at
different intensities of agreement and if
so the cold was just the absence of
heat and shadow the absence of light
in fact in the presence of one we can
not experienced the other fear love
hot-cold day night are actually like
the two real the same two faces
of the same two sides of the same
medal
so we experiment with one or the other
but we can never observe both in
same time
fear you followed me fear and
so to love what the cold is at
hot is what the shadow is at
light his absence
fear is the absence of love
which means by definition that
Whenever we choose fear and
well we do not choose love and me
it seems to me you’ve seen the place always
bigger than fear takes in our
lives and in our societies on the other hand what
which reassures me is that I really
understanding how human
could choose his experience this is to
to say that we can consciously decide
to observe the same situation under a
angle or under another
and how do we do that well it’s very
very simple we ask ourselves a question that
hold in three words what would love do
it may seem like nothing but
there is a before and after this
question in my life this question
it’s marianne williamson who told me
offered at the turn of a page of his
reference book and it’s my turn
to give it to you tonight because it’s
important gap this simple question
she has immense power that of
put love back in the center and so
to offer the possibility of a
immediate transformation
your experience your perception of a
person or situation changes into one
moment look we’re going to practice
together
what would love do in my place there in
this situation I reformulate them because
that I think it’s more meaningful than
would make the absence of fear in my place there
in this situation what is me
margot I will think what am I
would say what would I do there if I
was not afraid to be ridiculous to be
deemed to be rejected from being mocked
to miss losing to die ask yourself
well this simple question
listen to the answer is then think that
said that always more of that you’ll see
that where fear leads you to
shyness to immobility to cowardice to
anger at egoism to violence at the
sentencing judgment in the
war finally and well your heart
he will always make you
trust in indulgence at the
Benevolence to compassion to gifts
to the bias not to judge sharing
to intimacy to generosity to peace
the way of fear or the way of love
where I could also say the way of
mental where the voice of the heart that
are we going to choose to listen this is
important everyone will take us to davy
finally very different so chosen
its good and it’s important for oneself
but for this world as at every
moment we take the right decision for
self why
well I believe deeply that
our heart will take us further into
more aligned lives that we
look more like and potentially
more fulfilling
let’s take the example I really wanted
to go on a trip to leave everything and
to leave that it posed no problem
on the other hand as soon as I started to
think back it paralyzes me the
anguish
I saw myself coming back without money without
job and without lovers and then galley to
find the 3 so how did I do
well I did it quickly I took my
decision in less than 7 days
I silenced my head if not obviously
doubts and fears would have managed to
paralyze me in paris and I listened to my
heart is sincerely I would do them
without faith and besides I make them 100
times these past four years and
that’s why I think the
life that I lead today is
radically different from the one that
I left in Paris my heart gave me
courage gave me wings for
achieve among others a hundred thousand
kilometers in latin america including a
finished launches top homestay
in 12 countries inhabited in the heart of
amazonia exceeded my fear of the ocean
sharks but not it’s also my
shyness to start publishing these
texts on the internet
what I wanted to inspire people to
ask these same questions actually my
heart
it allowed me to make lots of
challenges the latest
I let you imagine obviously that
my belly is tight very strong when
I was offered this head but I
felt at least as excited
so I consciously chose to listen
the enthusiastic
be careful I’m not in
say to you now to go
head down to accept everything we’re going
offer you
no me fear I recommend the
replace with caution caution
it’s this magical thing that you
mobilizes and makes you look right
and left before crossing the road
while fear is this thing
sneaky that paralyzes you and you
potentially maintains a lifetime
on the same side of this road
of course I was aware of
risks
of course I was careful in this
trip of almost three years but that does not
did not stop me from living it in my own way
and how is that trust in
before and I guarantee you that my
smile my good mood my benevolence
and my gratitude my open doors
absolutely everywhere because they are
universal and that’s it the last one the
last thing I’d like you
share tonight you’ll understand
listen to your heart
more than your fears it’s important
for you but it’s crucial for the
world in which we live
our societies have become so
anxiety that love has become
suspect yes suspect I weigh my words
you have already tried to smile
frankly to strangers in the street
me yes all the time and well it’s
appalling 8 out of 10 look surprised
downright worried or act as if he does not
I had not seen 2 smiled back
more crazy still a temptation the good day
the compliment to an unknown and
observe the downright you ask what
that he wonders what takes you or
look for the hidden camera it becomes
difficult in our world to help a
unknown to wear giving races
2 euros to someone who is missing for
top up the checkout or door
or or helping an elderly person
cross because she will look at you from
through
well yes what are you fishy with your
kindness on the other hand all look
on the ground in the subway insulted a
unknown driving the debate the anonymous in
as to make his hate on the internet
harassed a classmate or a
colleague it became rather banal eh
well it’s not the world in which
I want to live and neither do you
I’m sure so that’s why I
here tonight
exceeded my fear to remind us to
how much love and kindness
have never killed anyone
while fear and violence that
can arise from this if then the system of
fear will not be dismantled into one
day I’m well aware
but I also know that he needs to
all of us to start to
crumble
take care of being out of step in a
world that freaks and contains
to love and dare to start
important it is a question to ask
a decision to take a camp to choose
there is no neutrality
all together we can rewrite
the story consciously regularly
choosing the heart over fear
actively finally become activists
love and kindness
I warn you we will feel
again the fear after choosing
love is natural as light
may go out after being turned on
Well, that’s right now
that it is our responsibility to
turn on that light to open up big
the shutters and one by one
to light a swarm of small candles
teresa mother said this world will be cured
by thoughts of love a thought to the
times there are no big actions
just small actions accomplished
with great love it’s so much
important
it’s so necessary is so much
simple then you will tell me he goes so
we must sow to get out
yes but do not worry like the
said Roman gary do not be afraid of
happiness is a good time to pass
and this question that I have so often
asked I want to answer you this
evening if I was scared of course a little bit of
you even maybe a lot sometimes
but it’s not big deal
I like this
6
[Applause]
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