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El Secreto de tu imagen Personal | Magali Montes | TEDxMoreliaSalon


hi how are you ready to continue
with the experience of becks stronger
because I do not hear that with encouragement from you
c’s and well then let’s talk in this
moment of personal image and if you
I tell an anecdote and casually
matches your experience and the
sign hours
it turns out that one day he awakens sas and
you have a laziness to get up and the
bed is warm and says its moment
more but it turns out that you have to leave
then you put a sock of 1 a
another sock a shoe of 1 a
shoe of another
I swear that happened to a real friend
you wear the first shirt that
you find that it turns out that it is the one that does not
you like it, you do not comb your hair and leave with desire
that no one sees you leaves walking and
suddenly you find someone and he tells you
that for your baby is fatal
it may be that another day you get up and
feel that it is a wonderful day
find the first combination of the
you put and nickel you would have thought all the
month because it’s perfect
you manage sales walking step
sure and when they look at you they tell you
wow how good you look if you have casually
lived any of these experiences is
because you have already had the experience of
personal image
today I want to invite you so that
concept that has changed the image
staff almost always see it as a
synonymous of looking nice see seguel and
actually the personal image is more
great is your best strategy
communication is one that allows
establish links with people
relate to you and therefore allows you
reach your goals
but when we talk about the image
staff and change this concept
we have to understand then how it
way the personal goal has three
Elements external image the image
internal and the image ideal image
external
is the one that has more weight because it is what
that others perceive appearance
Physics your clothes the way you
you wear the clothes that forgive
the accessories that you use your hair
it is as it is given more weight can
spend all the money in the world
changing your personal image only
the external part thinking that the others
you will accept pasta is fulfilling
with some stereotypes but it turns out
that the external image has a
weakness has to overcome the test
of time and that is why it is as fragile as
a shell
You may want to upload your photo to
face the goals in the photoshop you give a
hand so they have more handsome or the
best plant is an excellent program
those that you lose 50 percent of weight
body or maybe you can find
a self and a good angle so that you
face is stylized and when the time and you
they know in person they say it does not look like
that’s why this is where strength is
for this sentence what is important is what
inside the internal image and the image
ideal the ideal image is built in your
mind since you’re little is that
I want to be like him I want to see him
like him and the internal image is the
image that you have of yourself
what do you think of yourself what is your
identity
these three elements are constantly
movement
just as you are subject to a
external environment where as I said
a while ago it could be the stereotypes
besides the stereotypes it is a
environment a cultural context where
a parameter of the
beauty that maybe you want
cover but it does not correspond for its
genetics and your bone structure
anatomical
however you want to cover it and in
that movement is also subject to
the pressure of the internal image and the
ideal image that can also be the
answer that you have to everything
you are living in the environment
these images that are constantly
movement like you
it may be that one day you do not feel good
and when you do not feel good it ‘s a day
you do not want to open your eyes you do not want
get out of bed because you feel
fatal really fatal and when
you look inside you all dusty
there is a chaos that you want to find and not
can
however you know that you have to leave
forward but as if when
you try to find yourself it’s like looking at your
image in front of a broken mirror all your
images made bits and they do not
you find shape at that moment is
when you have to keep quiet and
wait but I also want to tell you
that there is not a single person in all the
planet and in all periods that do not
I have experienced one day several days
months or even some years of days
cloudy
the causes can be many
Unfortunately, it can be a disease
that can be chronic and you have to
go adapting to live with her
it might be a circumstance in
the one you ‘ve already lived bull and can
be psychological moral physical or by
Internet
the osce of considers that mexico is the
first country in number of victims of
bullying 18 million people
the main teenage group but is
the bullying
Maybe it’s discrimination because of its color
of skin for your beliefs because of its gender
The complaints received were
thousand 493 in the year of 2014 of the
which the main one was for the
physical appearance at best not you
like your body in layers because you have
idea that you have to comply with what
tell you that’s the beauty whom you
like your body
You begin to attack yourself and
begins in some disorders of
feeding with
or anorexia bulimia vigorexia
when it is subjected to these disorders
of food what you have to do
is to think if you really have to
meet that stereotype
It is estimated that there are 20 thousand more cases each
year of young people living disorders
feeding
when you are at that time on that day
cloudy
you have to think what is the secret of
your personal image because it’s the one that
allows you to achieve your goals
if someone arrives and tells you loyal ana no
Get ahead
hear how I’m going to do it if I feel
really fatal will be better the others
he does not notice it because he sometimes saves
many secrets but inside you do not
can get ahead
then there is only one way left
build t
this rebuild is to keep
silence, wait for the pieces
that are inside you take it in its place
and in order to rebuild you have to
grab your dreams of what they are
your motivations but look carefully
I tell you your motivations not those of
nobody else, not mom’s and dad’s
neither the uncle nor the day nor the
neighbor the girlfriend nobody yours because
Sometimes it seems that we are walking the
lifetime
sweeping the dreams of others the
we keep in a bag and then if
someone told us that that dream did
happy we also take them from the air
we keep in the bag and we are loading
a bag of dreams that are not
yours that happens when you do it
the dreams are returned with their owners
and you stay empty then they have
that be yours
it does not matter if they are the ones that demand you
matter if they are small or are large
they are yours and truly believe me the simple
fulfillment of one of your goals
even if it’s tiny it has such an impact
great in your inner image that you
projects so also in the
moments where you have to
rebuild
I invite you to observe what surrounds you
observe for example nature are
photographs take them on a walk
who had an afternoon thinking about this
chat with you and I noticed that the
nature is teaching you and in this
case the trees do not matter if they are
old or are young under what
condition is sprouted
sprouts have even been mutilated
next I want to show you a
stone that I like a lot is the agate
sure you already know the agate is a
stone that is formed by a process
violent
the volcanic eruptions are forming
the rocks and over time they start to
filter minerals through the
surface of the rock and begin to
form each of these layers I said with
the time then it was circumference
that you once in the life story of the
stone and has a singular beauty
no stone looks like another is the same
that the cutting of the trees have a
life story just like the same cat
that I invite you to read with me the
next Vietnamese poem
you know we’re going to wage a war
let’s see what they thought a
two three
we fill the crater with the pumps and
new
we sow I do not hear them game
we sing and the last one stronger is
declares exact expiration since you said it
never in life is declared defeated
you do not have to give up
never happen what happens
builds and builds every day
you have to build you have to
learn how you want from the middle
society’s environment and this
reconstructions to be built not
it has only happened with people
it has also happened with the people
as we saw with vietnam his position
of life after a war and here
I want to tell you about this community of
Naya in Colombia
it’s a wooded area they had avoided
generation after generation
one day in 2001 between a group with
weapons and a massacre
the survivors decided to create a
new organization and they changed their place
of life and they looked for another space where
they began to rebuild
The interesting thing is that the latest
generations had not wanted the
customs of the original people nor their
language but when they found the new
where they were going to live
The first thing they decided was to put a
blooming earth name
see what beautiful words and two
words about which they built
a whole community
currently naya is being studied
as one of the best cases of
reconstruction
if this happens with a few words in a
village that happens inside you when
study the internal
when you are on these cloudy days
what do you say to yourself what words
are the ones that you repeat constantly
to be placed in a position of
victim or culprit is to say if I
I had to pass poor of me all
they are against me
or on the contrary what you say that I
I deserve I am to blame for everything that
it happens to me you are becoming your
own enemy are the two sides of the
same currency
do not do it try to have dialogue
kind to you every day speaks to you
pretty and with this one he talks about pretty
I do not want you to do is to
see them in the mirror every day tell
how handsome today there is no one so
smart like me because then
I would be in the wrong position
you are losing the feet of the earth
what you have to do is know that in
diversity lies wealth and
added and beauty
I want to show you
the photographs of a young Turkish man who
decided to give up his job so
fulfill your dream take pictures all
the world and has been dedicated to travel and in
these cultures that you have found decide
make an experiment take the picture
thanks to the people a before and another
after telling them the word beautiful
I’m just going to show you two
I want you to see the before and after
to tell you beautiful doctors in the
first and second light the
smile immediately the brightness in those
eyes to the greater body opening a
student from chicago did repeat the
same experience and he did it with his
classmates
the same result shine in the eyes and
a smile and in an instant all the
interior image was projected on the
body therefore you are invited to borrow
attention to your own dreams
remember your own dreams what
wants is from you
Do not let anyone else say like
it must be
it’s like you are you internal dialogue
how do you talk like that are you going to
know the true secret of the
personal image and you’re going to return the
protagonist of your life and I assure you that
one day when you open your eyes to breathe
deeply and you will fill your body
of life and that life is going to notice was going to
leave through each of your pores
and if you look at the mirror image it would be
a solid where your external image of
ideal image and your internal image are a
alone because at that moment you have
convinced that the wealth of the
diversity you are unique and unrepeatable
thank you very much
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