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El humor como lenguaje salvador | Jairo Mio | TEDxPuertoSanchez


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On another day they told me that in a
supermarket in this city they hired
a deaf boy for the replacement of
products in the gondolas and others up
all right there but I also learned that
to the day a man went to complain with
the manager of this branch telling him
that I had made a query to this
employee and this had taken
answer him that they had not understood each other and
that he had felt very uncomfortable
because it had taken a long time to
I realized that I was deaf
and he says that the initiative of
that are not against everyone but that they had
to have put a poster
a poster or a poster I imagine
the desire that that manager had what he
He endured that time to say it
a poster we should have put a
poster if you say stupid no
posters labels know that it looks to you
that you are the products carry labels
people carry labels
or to see let’s think how you
we say to a person who can not see
as we call it
not by name has a name
person to people have a name
this anecdote is a clear example of a
negative prejudice that there is about
people with disabilities and so between
millions
because there is a connotation Super
pejorative about what is the
disability can not imagine these
sad people like miserable with a
sepia tone well with a tango background
and it is much much more different than that is
much different from that is something else but
well we are much more useful to them
society not so we are useful those
disabled not
because we show the rest that they are
normal is the ability to show the
rest that are normal that reach their
home and say thankfully I’m not like that
My name is Cairo and I am disabled
but we are all we are all
unable to do certain things not
there are 22 attitudes that have been linked
to the people that we have some
difference we do not always generate two
things
pity
God always 22 sensations does not hurt
and how is it and tenderness when clearly
we prefer to have two other admiration and
amazement and I think almost all the time
what we will be dealing with is
break with this not to get away from the
pity
I at least something every day with
that attitude with the one to get away and the
pity because I think the pity is the
worst feeling that can be felt by
a human being for pity does not drive
nothing hurts not generate anything good the
keys the feeling that you can
feel for a human being because not
build nothing only makes you feel
better to you based on your look than
you have over another is the full
feeling and I think of maradona
we can say a lot of things and
we can highlight a lot of things
negative but there is a phrase that nobody
can argue what the diego said and is
pity to anyone and post I think that what
pity no one for that if someday you
offer help to a person with
disability and this is not accepted
feel bad is doing them that
to show them that you may want
leave pity and in my case the
humor was the empowerment mechanism
to go out to give admiration and get away
of pity
in the way of step generate some that
another laugh at best not
that’s how I was 28 years old and when I was
It was like this this is the time
the talk
but 20 years ago something happened that
changed the life the house was set on fire
where I lived in the bottom of
the ladder and I was stuck in the
upstairs for reasons of
insecurity I could not get out by the
windows because it had fixed bars like that
that I went to the most remote room
of the igneous focus until it closed all
doors until it began to enter the
smoke to enter and I fainted
I woke up three months later in the
federal capital garraham hospital
then an induced coma product of the
severity of the burns that I had
and well there started another life is not
I already had an equal moro with the stickers
clearly was not your day
in the hospital I learned to write
I learned to draw I learned to paint and
I learned how to change the colors of
TV channels with the fingers of the
feet and I was very proud of my
achievement and one day a doctor came and
I show what I could do and very crazy
of me but to see more let’s use the
hands to do that the feet only
for walk
and it was a piece of advice that accompanied me
today because I never use a
prosthesis because I believe that resigning and
accept are two different things and I
I decided to accept maybe something easy for
the cerebral plasticity of a child of
eight years but good accompanies me
today because to this day he uses
hands for everything to write
to cook to bathe to use the
computer even for what the
more disgusting are thinking
the elementary school I had no older
problems only some other look
Strange wherever I went and comments
of the style of mama is the ine has legs
of dog in the hands
look mom is the one who is all melted
things like that but good are children understand
the issue got a bit more complicated in the
secondary where cruelty is currency
current and hormones does in
boiling in a strange way and
I received commentary of all kinds from
manco to burned said of everything that
imagine in the middle and I used to
anger has given me much anger much anger
and to the point that I get to go to
hands with a partner
imagine that you ask for a bank or
more than more than the thumping of the
dignity no
but good was my way of channeling what
in the moment and make many jokes
with me jokes that bothered me
jokes that I did not like but one day
I tried a different approach try
start laughing in a false way at
principle not in a false way will begin to
laugh at the jokes they made and
like many human relationships is that
it starts pretending it ends up feeling me
they began to laugh seriously
jokes and that’s when I decided to go up
another step not when I made the
difference there I decided to climb another step
do not
when they did not realize that no
I just did not mind the jokes that
they did but they had fun
I proposed something else I decided to upload another
step and as many footballers say
the best defense is a good attack but
I put an attack and started making jokes
myself from me and I realized that no
only amused me but fun and
in turn the jokes that they made
they had to be better than those
joke that they did have to be
better than what I did then
not stick them up
at the beginning of silly jokes like that
jairo give me a good hand this is what
that I have left, I have made all five
good choco four itv1 up jokes
more complex like this
I think a bit this phrase defines my
process as revolutionary
the comedian assumes the brutality of
world and he responds with more brutality
because that was what I assumed
happened and try to respond with a
overcoming bet
and really I think we all have a
saving language
and in my case it was humor humor
saved the mood not only saved my mood
saved my life was that language
savior that exceeding energy that made
that I transformed everything that had
happened in something positive and I think that
we all have a savior language all
we have that energy in some the
they deposit in the humor others in the music
others in the painting others in the dance
others in sports the important thing is that
find yours and work it in the
day to day
if I left very bold
since I was little I loved the
challenges and the biggest challenge in my
life was to relive my life
A) Yes
but luckily if the styles are
funny but luckily my shortcomings
formed skills that shaped a
little what I am today I am a tennis player in
social communication comedian and teacher
stand up if I win my life counting
jokes of hands
laughing is easy it ‘s easy but it makes king is
very difficult and laugh at yourself more not
but luckily to climb it does not
they need hands
in fact I climb up because I do not have them
and based on a joke I became the
first stand up comedian of parana
forming the first producer of
events of this type in May 2014 and
from then to now I have not stopped
act walking almost all
countries of the country including countries
bordering Chile and Uruguay and its
time out for all of Latin America
an important channel this year
so we could say that humor does not
it only saved my life but today
It is also my way of life
there is a great concern of many
sectors by finding the correct
way to name us to us the
disabled but thank you that
quiet we have names nothing more
many define by blind deaf lack
lame manco mute others for addiction
people with different abilities or
Features for
they were a kind of superhero not the same
now we are going to get to that part
the issue is disabled with
Regarding what or who, why?
we measure the capacity of a fish
to climb a tree or a cat
to dive we will probably get to the
conclusion that they are disabled
when in reality what is wrong is
the test to determine your
capabilities
it seems rando I want to tell you that if
I am disabled but you too
because under the thymus of the word
disability that means lack
of a capacity under this definition
we are all encompassed we are all
lacking capabilities and luckily
we are lacking because a lack is
a potential skill then what
what we have to do is look for that
Failure that we have and transform it into
a virtue in a personal virtue that
only we can have
For example, I can not count on the
fingers but I can tell
jokes on the fingers of my hands
laughing at yourself is a superpower and
like all superpower carries a great
responsibility
thank you very much
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