[Music]
I want to propose a small exercise
I want you to pay attention to the
images that I am going to show you and that in
based on my statements elaborate a
conclusion for yourselves
I am the father of a 12-year-old girl
she let him go to full places
unknown
there she can start conversations
with anyone
but not only with people of their own
age but with adults of any age
there she
it goes alone and without me accompanying it
and in the conversations they have without
import with whom I am not present
do not tell me what conclusion they reached
although I imagine but let me tell you
something most of you do the same
that I just wrote
I have to recognize also what I did
trap with the images that I showed you
so let me repeat the same
affirmations but this time with the
correct images as I told you I am
father of a 12-year-old girl and she
he let attend full places
unknown
there she can talk to any
person account talk any kind of
conversation
and not only with people of the same age
but with people of anybody with
Adults
to those places she goes alone and without me
accompany him in the conversations that
she holds no matter with whom or
what topic I ‘m not present
how will they have realized what I
I’m talking from the digital life of
boys
or many will know
most applications services
digital and others have some kind of
age restriction to use them
It is mostly 13 years
they just lying with age
You can use it anyway but
This problem is that many people believe
that restriction has something to do
with your maturity or with being ready
to use those services and the
truth is that a boy no matter how hard he is
close to 13 years is not what
mature enough to start a
conversation with an adult that his only
goal is to cheat
the fact that the boys have a
ease with the technology that
we never had distorts us
our own reality we believe that
they are sure he knows what he is doing
the truth is that it is very crazy if we
we think that we believe that they are going to
be safe in that digital environment in
which ourselves adults
We are subject to so many problems
so many risks false news frauds
steal information extortion
and so many others were a boy does not have
a credit card and therefore
be scammed and that’s why the majority
of the risks to which they are subject
they have to do with your sexual integrity
it is also believed that the digital environment is
just that and that has nothing to do with
real life
and abuse even if it is through
a digital platform is an abuse of
all ways
It is important that you know that everything
exchange of photos videos
even conversations can also
constitute an abuse against integrity
Sex of a boy
and this becomes even more serious when
gestan meetings in that digital world
that then come true they become concrete
in the real world
In 2013 , our country was approved
gruma law for which punishment is
any adult who by any
type of platform or digital service is
get in touch with a minor to
commit an abuse a crime against your
sexual integrity
surely they will agree with me
that a big step at the society level and that
It was 100% necessary
however, I consider that, as any law
Penn conduct reactive and not
implies that they are safe I think
none of us here can we
come to think that a boy a child is going
to be safe simply because there are
a law that can punish the abuser
and think for a second what I just
tell them but with a small example
who of us would leave today a
bicycle a street without padlock theft
is punishable however that does not make us
neither be nor nor feel nor believe that
we are sure
but do not get me wrong considered that
the law was 100% necessary only that as
all punitive mechanism is reactive
we are the ones responsible
to take care of our kids
and that brings me to the next question
how do we do what do we do the problems
the access
and the answer is not the social life of
a boy is very important and above all
a something that is key that is the meaning
of the belonging of the boy who
feel part of
and as I say belonging I do not mean
have something that the other has that I
I want but we must understand that today
in day much of the social life of
they go through the platforms and
digital services
to understand this let me give you a
small example a little anecdote in
the conversations with the pediatrician of
our daughter years ago we chatted
respect that a boy should not have
access to a cell phone until 11 years old
Obviously, do not use social networks
after 13 and all this made sense
if we consider what I told them
previously however in the last
conversations we talk about meaning to the
belonging what happens if our son is
the only one who does not have a cell phone and for
therefore it is the only one that is not in the
chat group Friends of the course
and this applies to all kinds of
technologies what happens if our son does not
has the last game that everyone is
together to play
as you can see it is quite complicated
complex the subject because on the one hand yes
we forbid them access we are
cutting socially but on the other hand if
we allow them to expose them to great
amount of risks so I go back to
my question how do we do what we do
Remember when you start talk
it’s an analogy with a park of
amusements and if we analyze it a park
durations is designed is designed
for the boys because they are there that they
amused however none of
we would leave them alone because we know
the risks to which they are
associates leave it alone
and that is exactly what we have to
do we have to avoid leaving them alone
we have to accompany them and we have to
get involved
but this pushes us to the next
problem
how we do it as we do it if we do not
we have the facility to have them
to with technology and much less
we know what all the
applications that they use those that
they become fashionable
let me give you a small example
15 years ago that doctor
cybersecurity even confuses a
company that develops solutions
technology for companies and governments is
say everything I do
it has to do with technology
however, I have to admit that
I had a hard time understanding the difference
between instagram and snapshot snap for free
music and the same with endless
applications that they use
and that’s where I came up with the same
questions that you should ask yourself
social networks use so they use
this other application for what it serves
you can consider a game a network
Social
the problem is that we do not have nor are we going to
have all the answers to these issues
then how do we get closer if we are
so far from the technologies that they
they use
the way we find ourselves with
our daughter was not through
prohibit but to approach but by
especially to understand each of those
applications she every time she goes to
install a new application or it’s going to
register in a new digital service
sits with us and explains
so that he will use it as for what
it serves as its friends use it and in base
to what we understand we treat
to advise her based on
what we understand
of the dangers that could be subject
approaching and congratulating the when
has for example new followers is
how we encourage her to come to us
tell your achievements on the platforms
digital
advising the skin and avoid prohibiting or
to scare is how we generate in
she that we come to consult when
have doubts but above all
things as a stranger contacts her
getting involved is like us
we managed to prevent her from being alone in
that digital world
then they will continue to leave alone
your guys in a place full of
unknown
thank you very much
[Applause]
I want to propose a small exercise
I want you to pay attention to the
images that I am going to show you and that in
based on my statements elaborate a
conclusion for yourselves
I am the father of a 12-year-old girl
she let him go to full places
unknown
there she can start conversations
with anyone
but not only with people of their own
age but with adults of any age
there she
it goes alone and without me accompanying it
and in the conversations they have without
import with whom I am not present
do not tell me what conclusion they reached
although I imagine but let me tell you
something most of you do the same
that I just wrote
I have to recognize also what I did
trap with the images that I showed you
so let me repeat the same
affirmations but this time with the
correct images as I told you I am
father of a 12-year-old girl and she
he let attend full places
unknown
there she can talk to any
person account talk any kind of
conversation
and not only with people of the same age
but with people of anybody with
Adults
to those places she goes alone and without me
accompany him in the conversations that
she holds no matter with whom or
what topic I ‘m not present
how will they have realized what I
I’m talking from the digital life of
boys
or many will know
most applications services
digital and others have some kind of
age restriction to use them
It is mostly 13 years
they just lying with age
You can use it anyway but
This problem is that many people believe
that restriction has something to do
with your maturity or with being ready
to use those services and the
truth is that a boy no matter how hard he is
close to 13 years is not what
mature enough to start a
conversation with an adult that his only
goal is to cheat
the fact that the boys have a
ease with the technology that
we never had distorts us
our own reality we believe that
they are sure he knows what he is doing
the truth is that it is very crazy if we
we think that we believe that they are going to
be safe in that digital environment in
which ourselves adults
We are subject to so many problems
so many risks false news frauds
steal information extortion
and so many others were a boy does not have
a credit card and therefore
be scammed and that’s why the majority
of the risks to which they are subject
they have to do with your sexual integrity
it is also believed that the digital environment is
just that and that has nothing to do with
real life
and abuse even if it is through
a digital platform is an abuse of
all ways
It is important that you know that everything
exchange of photos videos
even conversations can also
constitute an abuse against integrity
Sex of a boy
and this becomes even more serious when
gestan meetings in that digital world
that then come true they become concrete
in the real world
In 2013 , our country was approved
gruma law for which punishment is
any adult who by any
type of platform or digital service is
get in touch with a minor to
commit an abuse a crime against your
sexual integrity
surely they will agree with me
that a big step at the society level and that
It was 100% necessary
however, I consider that, as any law
Penn conduct reactive and not
implies that they are safe I think
none of us here can we
come to think that a boy a child is going
to be safe simply because there are
a law that can punish the abuser
and think for a second what I just
tell them but with a small example
who of us would leave today a
bicycle a street without padlock theft
is punishable however that does not make us
neither be nor nor feel nor believe that
we are sure
but do not get me wrong considered that
the law was 100% necessary only that as
all punitive mechanism is reactive
we are the ones responsible
to take care of our kids
and that brings me to the next question
how do we do what do we do the problems
the access
and the answer is not the social life of
a boy is very important and above all
a something that is key that is the meaning
of the belonging of the boy who
feel part of
and as I say belonging I do not mean
have something that the other has that I
I want but we must understand that today
in day much of the social life of
they go through the platforms and
digital services
to understand this let me give you a
small example a little anecdote in
the conversations with the pediatrician of
our daughter years ago we chatted
respect that a boy should not have
access to a cell phone until 11 years old
Obviously, do not use social networks
after 13 and all this made sense
if we consider what I told them
previously however in the last
conversations we talk about meaning to the
belonging what happens if our son is
the only one who does not have a cell phone and for
therefore it is the only one that is not in the
chat group Friends of the course
and this applies to all kinds of
technologies what happens if our son does not
has the last game that everyone is
together to play
as you can see it is quite complicated
complex the subject because on the one hand yes
we forbid them access we are
cutting socially but on the other hand if
we allow them to expose them to great
amount of risks so I go back to
my question how do we do what we do
Remember when you start talk
it’s an analogy with a park of
amusements and if we analyze it a park
durations is designed is designed
for the boys because they are there that they
amused however none of
we would leave them alone because we know
the risks to which they are
associates leave it alone
and that is exactly what we have to
do we have to avoid leaving them alone
we have to accompany them and we have to
get involved
but this pushes us to the next
problem
how we do it as we do it if we do not
we have the facility to have them
to with technology and much less
we know what all the
applications that they use those that
they become fashionable
let me give you a small example
15 years ago that doctor
cybersecurity even confuses a
company that develops solutions
technology for companies and governments is
say everything I do
it has to do with technology
however, I have to admit that
I had a hard time understanding the difference
between instagram and snapshot snap for free
music and the same with endless
applications that they use
and that’s where I came up with the same
questions that you should ask yourself
social networks use so they use
this other application for what it serves
you can consider a game a network
Social
the problem is that we do not have nor are we going to
have all the answers to these issues
then how do we get closer if we are
so far from the technologies that they
they use
the way we find ourselves with
our daughter was not through
prohibit but to approach but by
especially to understand each of those
applications she every time she goes to
install a new application or it’s going to
register in a new digital service
sits with us and explains
so that he will use it as for what
it serves as its friends use it and in base
to what we understand we treat
to advise her based on
what we understand
of the dangers that could be subject
approaching and congratulating the when
has for example new followers is
how we encourage her to come to us
tell your achievements on the platforms
digital
advising the skin and avoid prohibiting or
to scare is how we generate in
she that we come to consult when
have doubts but above all
things as a stranger contacts her
getting involved is like us
we managed to prevent her from being alone in
that digital world
then they will continue to leave alone
your guys in a place full of
unknown
thank you very much
[Applause]
Please follow and like us: