[Music]
I must confess to you that when
I received the invitation to speak here.
in front of the room são paulo in this place
for that audience at that event
on this red carpet I feel
attacked by feelings almost
conflicting
logical on the one hand I felt very
honored because it is one of the summits of life
You ‘re here talking to a
audience then like you but by another
I’m on my side, wondering what the hell I
I’m doing here
this one is the place of speech of women is
an event of women for women and only
because I do nothing more than one
obligation to take care of my daughter’s worth
five years so I’ve seen a
exception and I deserve my 15 minutes of
fame
just because I changed half a dozen
diapers vanessa help at the moment in
that she needed to take care of the pineapple
but the truth is much more
sad that this in fact that the
paternity unfortunately in society
Where do we live?
she is optional millions of Brazilians
they do not have the father’s name on their
while in maternity is compulsory
often almost mandatory
we are creating a society where
Mothers are overworked
hundreds of millions of women have two
or three working days to arrive
At home you have to take care of the family because
only socially imposed on them that
they raise their own children many
times without any structural aid for
part of the company or even by
of his companions
So we’re creating a society.
unhappy depressed mothers asphyxiated
because neither talk about the
maternity, they can
they can hardly question maternity
in this day and age
and to be very honest with you, I
I did not do much more than mine.
obligation when he was taking care of the sentence
I was not such an amazing father so
fatherhood did not happen to me
from time to time I build a
identity as father
today I see more dad than any
another function in my life but the
entrepreneur rather than entrepreneur
Before, I see myself as a father.
reconfiguring my life to be a parent
but for today it has a network of
support that is composed of women
Incredible to start with than Grandma
mother of china assume that my mother
and especially by vanessa rub a
amazing woman that I’m lucky to
to have as the pina currency and what I wanted
invite main to talk together
with me about this adventure that is
Build a woman when I you
find the fact of what I received
wanted the two wine signs on the exam and
I myself do not know how to do it, this is crisis
of laughter and crying in a row but I think
and I really wanted him to talk like
this was it for him and I told
I never knew what happened in there.
Good. You know, yes. Because it was in mine.
front I was in the hallway of the house
when she showed me the show
happy please when she showed me
when she showed me the result
of exams 2-1 and immediately
I sat in a trunk and my legs turned
gelatin and people like me started to
coexist with a conflict between the
patriarchy and paternity in the
patriarchy said no, I do not know if I’ll go
have money to support your family
no I do not know if I’ll have time for me
dedicate this child, no I do not know if
I’m ready for this was the
patriarchy settling inside me
I did not even start paternity.
question at that moment began to me
ask will it be that I will be a good
dad
Will I have money anyway?
to create the pen as a reference
give up your career very well
successful
simply for the week’s worth but
it was the patriarchy that I have imposed
outside and started talking
inside of me
well I finally saw that belly grow
to be very honest with you and me
I confess this full of guilt and full of
remorse
was not a good companion while the
planet was feeding the feather in
I apologize to you so I think
that I never had in the end
that day arrived
and looks with swords at last and in that
At the moment I saw vanessa’s belly
Grow up but I could not
relate to a being in there
I saw this being growing I saw the
Pina peep I put music
for belly to hear but it was nothing more
than a belly I think in that
At that moment, that fatherhood was
beginning to build there inside me
but I was trying to anthropomorphize that
Belly I could not
I just managed to transform that
belly is not and stop seeing it as a
being that I was kidnapping my wife
like someone who was from Mexico and
I send our whole married life
in the day that pina born was born of childbirth
in a bath as it should be and the
from that moment he saw a mammal
in front of me until I remember
It happened exactly at night.
Vanessa was nursing the pen and the
he left the table and smiled
pleasure because she had just suckled and
Vanessa gave her in my lap I got
just on my lap and she smiled at me
but it was no longer an involuntary smile
I say is one of the most beautiful things and
It was there that I became the one I spoke to
this with the embargoed voice
it was one of the most beautiful things to realize
that a year he is not born human and is
built as a human in that
moment that just turned into a
The year I noticed a spark in the shine
a glint in her eyes that I noticed
that it had turned into a year
before my eyes I became in
dad
that was one of the most beautiful moments
of my life was worth it for all
every night badly slept all over
fatherhood that I had not
take all that he had at last I
had fought for so long
from the moment that the brother was born
people already had hardware but there are still
people needed to install the software either
the genre and from that moment the
people began to think how the
People are going to raise a girl in the future.
because there is that famous phrase that
and I’m not born, woman, it’s not we
noticed this as the penalty goes
passing from a primate mammal to a
human being that really becomes
builds a woman realized that the
girls when they are born they need
be marked with girls they need
of an earring they need a bow
they need an adornment they have already stopped
to think of that stifling track that
placed on the head of newborns and
which looks like this is an instrument of
torture and that these newborns
they sleep hours with these bands on their heads
just to say that they are girls because they do not
just say it’s a girl has
which will make it whole which is very
different for the boy because the boy
born, he ‘s a boy, he does not have to
prove nothing and do not have to become
no way is just a boy there
has a naturalness of being that in the
girl has not started the first days already
can not not
the girl will understand with
very few days to suffer
a little to be beautiful
this is beautiful is a value to be
conquered but if you are a woman in
society
How many times have you caught up talking?
by a little girl dressed up in the
all sparkling
Oh, how beautiful it looks like a princess or
sit like a little girl or behave
like a little girl
We never say that to boys.
unlike sometimes parents of pride
in our daughter it is impossible the breast
full even the girls there is no
construction of the non-naturalness of being and
nor the state
We have to be in the world.
when some rules is an internal struggle
between freedom and obligation is clear
that I’m talking here about a speech
is generalized but we know that the
papers are well defined yet
people live in this society where
men are the warriors who go
to seek the sustenance that goes on
say this even computers can be and
women are the delicate fragile
sex in the frail people knows this
This phrase is based on this but we
society in which this role no longer
more because it appeared in the paper
principle of capitalism in the 15th century
for 16 and today it is no longer so
Mom and Dad have to pay the ticket.
it’s not the same
Dad and Mom have to battle in the street.
even at times even more
women who are are a large majority
of household income today is almost
than half of women say that is
passage often receive less
than men in the same role can the
People are going to come in because our lady is
an entire presentation, right?
and there are those roles of this kind be
no longer fit then the father or mother
have to do doing the same things and
Dad also has to take care of the house.
as well as good and take care of the children he
is not helping but I say I have
a great thinker of our times
that tati breaks shack and she said
that she did not sweep the house with the vagina
She sweeps the house with her hands.
world has then everyone should help
Needs to do is a time to
think a little about how we are
raising these girls to these places
where the papers are no longer so
more liquid they are not defined
as parents and mothers of a girl to us
have to prepare and prepare the
a revolution we need
build a boy’s front line
I was ask myself networks
because the end of the
had to resort
Twenty-five percent of people
they said yes girls and boys need
be constructed in different ways
75 percent said no we have
what to do
girls and boys built with the
same kind of education without taking the
meeting gender
Then I introduced the same week that
I did this inkatha I introduced this
since I had just left
is a study of thomson Reuters
October 2007 that put são paulo to the
side of new Delhi with the worst metropolis
to live
being a woman in the category of
woman
this study besides everything that we have already
knows about the subject has brought the
cases rose by 10% from 2015 to 2016
reported cases
estimated that these cases are only 10 per
10% of the cases are
reported, 90% of which were never
reported and there is another number
that it is very shocking that many
of women should know that it is the average
calculated 15 happens to rape
every 11 minutes
not only in this period that we had
here you can imagine then when the
people learn when I introduced to
my good on this data what happened
immediately everybody changed from
opinion
seventy-five percent of people
said geniuses need to be taken in
account for a moment that you are going to
education and only 25% remained in their
inner opinion what does this mean
people do not know that women
are being systematically abused in
our society
we live in a bubble that believes that
women are treated in a
equal and therefore need the same
education that the child does not need
people need to build women who
able to defend themselves from this
patriarchal and able to defend themselves
systematized violence and what the
people make the case when we go
ride pina and this please is not a
cake recipe is just one way that the
People kept going home to try
build a girl for this future
It looks good, we need to like it.
I said there are new tales of new
characters of new aspirations and people
brought some of those that work in each
house because it still has a separate house
so things that we usually show
our for our daughter but I think
which not only for girls but also for
boys because there are no examples
strong females out mother ne and the others
women of the number 1 family I think
which is important for all parents
and people working with children or
who have children close to educating children
is a book of shimano is a
of her books there are several others very
interesting stories and lullabies to
rebel girls that is not just for
girls can for boys also have
various profiles of women who
have transformed your universe and so
also made the world have the
tales before princess and anti hero of this
the publisher calls Chimbote is on top and
the ragged little hat that is another
book that talks about feminist tales
around the world
the first thing is to expose to new
characters the new characters
Tales
I think this is the first thing because
you bring in the ludic environment yet a
new universe and there are other things that
we put one of them to rethink the
compliment
There is a documentary that came out
recently made is sponsored by
by a makeup brand that speaks
on the issue of praise mainly
for women
back there at the beginning of our
conversation that is what cute looks
a princess because the girls have to
To be always cute has to be so
arrested in this place
is another important thing is to discuss
beauty standards and this we do
much to the bottom will speak that the
next point is that people
Do this a lot along with the pen then
Why do people have to be?
blonde slim douro blue and hair
that way and wear this outfit
Why do not we have to have this?
critical thinking and to awaken this
thought this critical view also in the
our children
It’s us when we get home tired at
We have a nanny who costs $ 14 per
more or less satisfied
Wonderful wonderful, we have to
put the child in front of the drawing
and enter our cell phone and
enter our computer
It so happens that the children are
being also constructed by the drawings
and we need to make a
critical view of these drawings
have to stay with the children and
comment to use talk talk and
deepen the ga to show that they do not
need to take that as a truth
that they can go further than
content they are receiving
of course everybody talks
the visual universe, but we
talks a lot about it is something that only
insistently repeats my body and
the rules it appropriates from the question of
body than her body and I think I speak
on the search with children is not a taboo
should not be
there is a great video was
shared by facebook is my
timeline that explains how to talk about
child abuse was an honor to me
video liberator because I could play
in this matter since it is a reality that
we live a very important thing is
why not girls learn to be
to argue that girls do not
they think only doing ballet and one last thing
not forget that when people are
building girls we also
need to build new boys is not
cool talk to your son that he is going
be picky
it’s not cool to talk to your son is not
cool to talk because the son that you
It’s going to work, it’s not going to read. It’s not cool.
talk about this kind of thing because the
abuser is also built a macho
is built at home then the way
How we build the boys is so
or more important in the way the
people build the girls we have
to build girls who defend themselves and
boys who never again the clear attack on the
truth is the greatest is the largest
difficulty of parents today create new
girls would have no sense to us
do not bring the person in question here
who is responsible for all this text
what a biological agent that our daughter
pina
[Applause]
[Laughter]
thank you guys
[Applause]
I must confess to you that when
I received the invitation to speak here.
in front of the room são paulo in this place
for that audience at that event
on this red carpet I feel
attacked by feelings almost
conflicting
logical on the one hand I felt very
honored because it is one of the summits of life
You ‘re here talking to a
audience then like you but by another
I’m on my side, wondering what the hell I
I’m doing here
this one is the place of speech of women is
an event of women for women and only
because I do nothing more than one
obligation to take care of my daughter’s worth
five years so I’ve seen a
exception and I deserve my 15 minutes of
fame
just because I changed half a dozen
diapers vanessa help at the moment in
that she needed to take care of the pineapple
but the truth is much more
sad that this in fact that the
paternity unfortunately in society
Where do we live?
she is optional millions of Brazilians
they do not have the father’s name on their
while in maternity is compulsory
often almost mandatory
we are creating a society where
Mothers are overworked
hundreds of millions of women have two
or three working days to arrive
At home you have to take care of the family because
only socially imposed on them that
they raise their own children many
times without any structural aid for
part of the company or even by
of his companions
So we’re creating a society.
unhappy depressed mothers asphyxiated
because neither talk about the
maternity, they can
they can hardly question maternity
in this day and age
and to be very honest with you, I
I did not do much more than mine.
obligation when he was taking care of the sentence
I was not such an amazing father so
fatherhood did not happen to me
from time to time I build a
identity as father
today I see more dad than any
another function in my life but the
entrepreneur rather than entrepreneur
Before, I see myself as a father.
reconfiguring my life to be a parent
but for today it has a network of
support that is composed of women
Incredible to start with than Grandma
mother of china assume that my mother
and especially by vanessa rub a
amazing woman that I’m lucky to
to have as the pina currency and what I wanted
invite main to talk together
with me about this adventure that is
Build a woman when I you
find the fact of what I received
wanted the two wine signs on the exam and
I myself do not know how to do it, this is crisis
of laughter and crying in a row but I think
and I really wanted him to talk like
this was it for him and I told
I never knew what happened in there.
Good. You know, yes. Because it was in mine.
front I was in the hallway of the house
when she showed me the show
happy please when she showed me
when she showed me the result
of exams 2-1 and immediately
I sat in a trunk and my legs turned
gelatin and people like me started to
coexist with a conflict between the
patriarchy and paternity in the
patriarchy said no, I do not know if I’ll go
have money to support your family
no I do not know if I’ll have time for me
dedicate this child, no I do not know if
I’m ready for this was the
patriarchy settling inside me
I did not even start paternity.
question at that moment began to me
ask will it be that I will be a good
dad
Will I have money anyway?
to create the pen as a reference
give up your career very well
successful
simply for the week’s worth but
it was the patriarchy that I have imposed
outside and started talking
inside of me
well I finally saw that belly grow
to be very honest with you and me
I confess this full of guilt and full of
remorse
was not a good companion while the
planet was feeding the feather in
I apologize to you so I think
that I never had in the end
that day arrived
and looks with swords at last and in that
At the moment I saw vanessa’s belly
Grow up but I could not
relate to a being in there
I saw this being growing I saw the
Pina peep I put music
for belly to hear but it was nothing more
than a belly I think in that
At that moment, that fatherhood was
beginning to build there inside me
but I was trying to anthropomorphize that
Belly I could not
I just managed to transform that
belly is not and stop seeing it as a
being that I was kidnapping my wife
like someone who was from Mexico and
I send our whole married life
in the day that pina born was born of childbirth
in a bath as it should be and the
from that moment he saw a mammal
in front of me until I remember
It happened exactly at night.
Vanessa was nursing the pen and the
he left the table and smiled
pleasure because she had just suckled and
Vanessa gave her in my lap I got
just on my lap and she smiled at me
but it was no longer an involuntary smile
I say is one of the most beautiful things and
It was there that I became the one I spoke to
this with the embargoed voice
it was one of the most beautiful things to realize
that a year he is not born human and is
built as a human in that
moment that just turned into a
The year I noticed a spark in the shine
a glint in her eyes that I noticed
that it had turned into a year
before my eyes I became in
dad
that was one of the most beautiful moments
of my life was worth it for all
every night badly slept all over
fatherhood that I had not
take all that he had at last I
had fought for so long
from the moment that the brother was born
people already had hardware but there are still
people needed to install the software either
the genre and from that moment the
people began to think how the
People are going to raise a girl in the future.
because there is that famous phrase that
and I’m not born, woman, it’s not we
noticed this as the penalty goes
passing from a primate mammal to a
human being that really becomes
builds a woman realized that the
girls when they are born they need
be marked with girls they need
of an earring they need a bow
they need an adornment they have already stopped
to think of that stifling track that
placed on the head of newborns and
which looks like this is an instrument of
torture and that these newborns
they sleep hours with these bands on their heads
just to say that they are girls because they do not
just say it’s a girl has
which will make it whole which is very
different for the boy because the boy
born, he ‘s a boy, he does not have to
prove nothing and do not have to become
no way is just a boy there
has a naturalness of being that in the
girl has not started the first days already
can not not
the girl will understand with
very few days to suffer
a little to be beautiful
this is beautiful is a value to be
conquered but if you are a woman in
society
How many times have you caught up talking?
by a little girl dressed up in the
all sparkling
Oh, how beautiful it looks like a princess or
sit like a little girl or behave
like a little girl
We never say that to boys.
unlike sometimes parents of pride
in our daughter it is impossible the breast
full even the girls there is no
construction of the non-naturalness of being and
nor the state
We have to be in the world.
when some rules is an internal struggle
between freedom and obligation is clear
that I’m talking here about a speech
is generalized but we know that the
papers are well defined yet
people live in this society where
men are the warriors who go
to seek the sustenance that goes on
say this even computers can be and
women are the delicate fragile
sex in the frail people knows this
This phrase is based on this but we
society in which this role no longer
more because it appeared in the paper
principle of capitalism in the 15th century
for 16 and today it is no longer so
Mom and Dad have to pay the ticket.
it’s not the same
Dad and Mom have to battle in the street.
even at times even more
women who are are a large majority
of household income today is almost
than half of women say that is
passage often receive less
than men in the same role can the
People are going to come in because our lady is
an entire presentation, right?
and there are those roles of this kind be
no longer fit then the father or mother
have to do doing the same things and
Dad also has to take care of the house.
as well as good and take care of the children he
is not helping but I say I have
a great thinker of our times
that tati breaks shack and she said
that she did not sweep the house with the vagina
She sweeps the house with her hands.
world has then everyone should help
Needs to do is a time to
think a little about how we are
raising these girls to these places
where the papers are no longer so
more liquid they are not defined
as parents and mothers of a girl to us
have to prepare and prepare the
a revolution we need
build a boy’s front line
I was ask myself networks
because the end of the
had to resort
Twenty-five percent of people
they said yes girls and boys need
be constructed in different ways
75 percent said no we have
what to do
girls and boys built with the
same kind of education without taking the
meeting gender
Then I introduced the same week that
I did this inkatha I introduced this
since I had just left
is a study of thomson Reuters
October 2007 that put são paulo to the
side of new Delhi with the worst metropolis
to live
being a woman in the category of
woman
this study besides everything that we have already
knows about the subject has brought the
cases rose by 10% from 2015 to 2016
reported cases
estimated that these cases are only 10 per
10% of the cases are
reported, 90% of which were never
reported and there is another number
that it is very shocking that many
of women should know that it is the average
calculated 15 happens to rape
every 11 minutes
not only in this period that we had
here you can imagine then when the
people learn when I introduced to
my good on this data what happened
immediately everybody changed from
opinion
seventy-five percent of people
said geniuses need to be taken in
account for a moment that you are going to
education and only 25% remained in their
inner opinion what does this mean
people do not know that women
are being systematically abused in
our society
we live in a bubble that believes that
women are treated in a
equal and therefore need the same
education that the child does not need
people need to build women who
able to defend themselves from this
patriarchal and able to defend themselves
systematized violence and what the
people make the case when we go
ride pina and this please is not a
cake recipe is just one way that the
People kept going home to try
build a girl for this future
It looks good, we need to like it.
I said there are new tales of new
characters of new aspirations and people
brought some of those that work in each
house because it still has a separate house
so things that we usually show
our for our daughter but I think
which not only for girls but also for
boys because there are no examples
strong females out mother ne and the others
women of the number 1 family I think
which is important for all parents
and people working with children or
who have children close to educating children
is a book of shimano is a
of her books there are several others very
interesting stories and lullabies to
rebel girls that is not just for
girls can for boys also have
various profiles of women who
have transformed your universe and so
also made the world have the
tales before princess and anti hero of this
the publisher calls Chimbote is on top and
the ragged little hat that is another
book that talks about feminist tales
around the world
the first thing is to expose to new
characters the new characters
Tales
I think this is the first thing because
you bring in the ludic environment yet a
new universe and there are other things that
we put one of them to rethink the
compliment
There is a documentary that came out
recently made is sponsored by
by a makeup brand that speaks
on the issue of praise mainly
for women
back there at the beginning of our
conversation that is what cute looks
a princess because the girls have to
To be always cute has to be so
arrested in this place
is another important thing is to discuss
beauty standards and this we do
much to the bottom will speak that the
next point is that people
Do this a lot along with the pen then
Why do people have to be?
blonde slim douro blue and hair
that way and wear this outfit
Why do not we have to have this?
critical thinking and to awaken this
thought this critical view also in the
our children
It’s us when we get home tired at
We have a nanny who costs $ 14 per
more or less satisfied
Wonderful wonderful, we have to
put the child in front of the drawing
and enter our cell phone and
enter our computer
It so happens that the children are
being also constructed by the drawings
and we need to make a
critical view of these drawings
have to stay with the children and
comment to use talk talk and
deepen the ga to show that they do not
need to take that as a truth
that they can go further than
content they are receiving
of course everybody talks
the visual universe, but we
talks a lot about it is something that only
insistently repeats my body and
the rules it appropriates from the question of
body than her body and I think I speak
on the search with children is not a taboo
should not be
there is a great video was
shared by facebook is my
timeline that explains how to talk about
child abuse was an honor to me
video liberator because I could play
in this matter since it is a reality that
we live a very important thing is
why not girls learn to be
to argue that girls do not
they think only doing ballet and one last thing
not forget that when people are
building girls we also
need to build new boys is not
cool talk to your son that he is going
be picky
it’s not cool to talk to your son is not
cool to talk because the son that you
It’s going to work, it’s not going to read. It’s not cool.
talk about this kind of thing because the
abuser is also built a macho
is built at home then the way
How we build the boys is so
or more important in the way the
people build the girls we have
to build girls who defend themselves and
boys who never again the clear attack on the
truth is the greatest is the largest
difficulty of parents today create new
girls would have no sense to us
do not bring the person in question here
who is responsible for all this text
what a biological agent that our daughter
pina
[Applause]
[Laughter]
thank you guys
[Applause]
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