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“Come farla finita col femminismo” | Veronica Benini | TEDxAlessandria


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when I was a child, the teacher brought in
children in two rows male right nor
left female or vice versa
at some point we see that I quarreled
with a child I threw a kick
in the stand that child was put to
crying the gym stops the row
In my opinion, others understand less
who kicked it was unkind
to the other child and of course me
he punishes but what he does he said to veronica
You kicked but the kicks are from
males you see that you want to be one
male and has put in the middle of the line
amused by the males
I have been humiliated in an atrocious manner and
I did not tell anything at home
Today this thing troubles me a lot
my teacher has been vehicles of
sterotype unconscious stereotypes that I
I call you did it for a good purpose
to punish me but it is not punished because I have
kicked the other human being
she punished me because according to you what
from males
this made me think that from
little we have two religions
the teacher and our parents and them
they form our vision of the world
through them
we have no way of doing ours
they are them through their actions
their talk their way to punish us
make sure we get an idea for
luck to parents of my parents
they played with bow and arrows on the
trees also with dolls so had
a much more varied education than not
the stereotyped one I received a
school, but this thing made me
reflect to qom we educate our own
little girls according to the concepts of
kindness of cleaning to be nice
not to be aggressive and these
concepts are also perpetrated by the
tales if you think about it
the stories I had my age I have
40 years was that there was this
beautiful beautiful princess in fashion
absurd at one point there was a
prince saved her and lived happily there
princess did nothing
sometimes he slept even until the 50s
the only way to survive for one
It was the marriage or you sposavi
paris of the you were nun but it is not
that there were other options
so we were educated as products from
place products to be placed at their best
on the market what you do when you have to
to place well is a product at the do
nice to do it attractive to do a good
to find a good party and then
we were nice to be super
beautiful kind young people always young and
if possible, virgins were not there
doubts about the fatherhood of the Serbian children
was a burden on your family and
however the concept of single repeat
there was no independence is not
an option
mass marketing that was born big
way the same years in the 50s
so he played on these three concepts
youth beauty fertility and do the
moms
marketing is still based on these
concepts that go through the
frustration
ok above all but there is a kind of
antagonism among the advertisements that there
they want all sexy make us see sexy
and the fact that we still have to
be serious 1 series that finds
It’s okay if you have a lot of partners
it’s not good you’re a little serious try a
say a dinner you’ve had maybe one
fifty sexual partners
consenting will look at you a bit badly
ok I try it often it’s funny but this
what makes me think I ‘ve had so many
partner makes me a bad person one
bad professional or would do with me
a bad mother
I do not believe however the world wants us
so it’s a theory that I called it
fear from female infinity and this
theory consists in the fact that
biologically physiologically a man
he may then have a certain number
of times in a day while one
woman may have affected the rasmi itself
leverage if he finds then having them alone in
company, etc.
and this makes the world of
completely odd sexuality between
men and women
this fact is in my opinion that in the
history we have been very limited
for our sexual aspects and it shows
still in many religions
so we are still dominated by the fact of
have the three key concepts of youth
and above all beauty for the car
modern marketing even if the world
in the meantime it has changed but we do not have it
it matters nothing because we have grown up
with those symbols
we know that we are much more than one
body but we still want the body
perfect
now I’ll tell you the trial costume not
we know it exists for us but we work
all year in the gym with diets
for those fifteen days of vacation
yet the year to 365 days and not
we work our body to be
healthy and healthy all year round no
trial costume is the concept that does not me
returns
now I am a pro at the age of 29
she was a politically correct graduate
I had a fixed -term contract
I got married he had a loft of my own
that I wanted a child now a certain
precisely life and bully happen
of things and I could not have the
child for a variety of reasons then
my plan politically
correct boxes has collapsed
I thought my life was over
because I had a precise plan that
but another time two years later
launched a start up was single and
He lived in a van
because my plan foresaw that I
I did not have to spend for totals in
rent, however, after years of boxes
I bought politically correct
started to design mine
boxes and in my boxes go to
live a van for two years and a
right choice to do without thinking about what
others would have said and that happens
when you draw the two boxes you start
to live according to what you want
really do and not what you are for
has been indoctrinated to do things happen
beautiful
I have succeeded thanks to the heels e
see what the heels have to do with everything
this centering a lot because I in the
I use my work as an instrument of
empowerment this thing here
in practice I put something together
very frivolous like that of a heel
that everyone thinks it’s a habit with
equal opportunities and is an instrument
physiological empowerment now I do not know if
there are women in the hall who use heels
and if I asked how you feel
by condemning facts, you know how to answer me
how you feel powerful power is there
very specific reason why a woman is
he feels power when he puts a pair of
heels but let’s start from a distance
men have on average 11 events
and reptiles a day
women do not because we have an organ
their external interior honor so much
so much confidence that they give you names
there are a lot of adjectives also in
many languages ​​there is no 6 badass balls
ilha de cui skype boskov hoeness
etc. e
badly it is also said to women you are one
woman with balls
now I honestly do not want them and not
I’d also like that there are six of me
It was a great chuene entrusting so
even then we do not connect
this thing of manly power with the
career and the power men
excessive that happens however when one
woman puts on her heels
change the posture you know that with i
heels to the most breasts plus buttocks
ok but because we have to straighten out
have a lumbar crush this
lombardi crushing what does brings the
sit backwards, however, doing so
our member moves about 4 cm
backwards and this creates one thing
very particular on a physiological level
we feel that we have a member
because the lips open slightly
and this feeling makes us enter the same
dynamic sex power career of the
men but with an attribute let me
feminine and an ager an accessory
feminine because when women are
come in mass to work you are
masculinized in the look with the suit
trousers in acting with the glue
aggression because man is being
human dominates the world because the
ability to adapt now centuries of
male domination in the world of
work had made the world of work
from the male dynamics the woman when
arrived that he did
Well he said I fit and got confused
masculinity with so are
professional so do not go and tell
a recent graduate not to go to one
talk in trouser suit why
she looks like that because only this way
he feels he is professional
now the problem is that you will tell me
Now yes, but I have the cabbage
put on your heels to feel me pussy for
feel power
no is an expedient an exercise if you
you feel bad an endless morning i
heels you feel a pussy go and conquer
the world and you can do it too
removing them because it is an exercise
ok in 2017
we no longer need to get married for
survive we are independent we are
our
now the marketing is continuous
hammering on the usual concepts must
be young and beautiful pussy you’re fat
you’re ugly, you’re old, you know
I’m fat ugly and old honestly
we can take back our image
ok and there is no prince we are
Prince
now there are so many leaders now
they begin to talk has become almost
a fashion win a prize weil and makes the
feminist and fashion talk but not
we can leave the leaders alone
carry on this cause the idea is
this the idea this they say that the
revolutions are not done on the keyboards
now I went to the square eight
March there were very few people for that
which is really the feminist cause
cause of the woman the feminist word
a bit of sanders the revolutions themselves
they can do in the keyboards the idea is
this company progresses for the average
not for the peaks that can be
speaker it’s good that they are there
because they tell us something is changing
something moves there they listen to us
let’s hear but we are millions and
we all have a cell phone all
how many we have an influence in our
entourage and everyone we can go
to tell a brand that advertising that
is doing and using the image of the
woman who was doing at that moment
with that campaign we do not like it
go there to treat them badly I do not say
to be active to become activists
digital constructively
so we can also hire women
we can promote virtuous campaigns
go and protest in the countryside that
we do not like them and share stories
because he shares a little story of
a friend who maybe launched herself in
own had this idea changed life
among the hundreds of friends we have
maybe
the person seeing that sharing
that one’s own history can have
that click on the head that makes you think
cabbage is right maybe I can do it
me too and can start a new one
path alone then sharing
networks are important do not think of
be small do not think that you do not have
the power to boycott a brand for
what I talk about average for what
I talk about small actions and for what
I speak that we are truly millions and one
click can make the difference can do
to click in the head of another I
I am a digital activist for 11 years e
I get so many letters so I know that
it works
do not leave us alone, however, each of us
he can do a very small thing and he has
sense to do it and it’s never small there
he wants courage, above all
constancy because we are all good
on March 8th all but on March 8th one
time a year and we are fighting for the
our rights to overthrow the
stereotypes for too many centuries
so we are millions
we are the market and the market
we can decide it then
tell each other share created
Sparks
you were and I declare the world to ours
image and likeness for us
we are millions whose thanks
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