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Cercatori di felicità | Sergio Marcellin | TEDxCastelfrancoVeneto


nicolas cheated me the question was the
question I wanted to make you the seekers of
happiness the first question I wanted
make you but how many of you are looking for it
happiness at the hand I fear how many
in search of happiness in this
room and how many found it and it is
a selected stalls of the ted is
a great audience will not leave this we will be
happy the same ok
I would like to leave I would like to take you to do a
travel within our schools
I bring it with me because it happens to me
travel in the schools of Treviso and
of the castellanese and the first question that
I students are but adults
with whom you are in contact with people
great that you meet according to you
they are alive places limit to survive
intending to live they have eyes that
they shine are thrilled they have
desire to do or are limited
simply to the routine routine
the fact that we have is that 70 per
a hundred of us adults are limited to his
tran tran
so it is true that there are 7 billion e
500 million of happiness researchers
in the world more or less I think they are
all however of these 7 sorry 7
billions of these seven billion
not many feel happiness for 70 per
one hundred finds dissatisfied think of
what resource consumption we have in the
planet for happiness and yet there is
people’s basic dissatisfaction
they survive but they do not live I am
asked if it was really so I have
tried to look for some studies that
they gave me an indication and I discovered
that neuroscientists are deficient of
many things but there is one that we have
lot
you know how many thoughts we do in one
day on average try to shoot
10,000 20,000 average 60,000
from 60 to 70 thousand thoughts every day
the measured year of these thoughts
how many we thought about the day
before
95 percent of what we have
thought we already thought about the day
first it seems a bit boring to me
eighty percent of these alone
disabling thoughts about us
on others then the feeling that I
gives and live in a swamp without
possibility of replacement with an 80 for
a hundred of all intangible material
added to which we can do
willingly less
how the hypothesis originates from all this
this is what I want to do with you
there is a child who has a great one
need the basic human being to a
great need for information has
need to know how we are there
we procure the information we do a
move our attention to a
movement and goes to the world for us
know him there where the attention is
support we know
for example right now for
I need to support you
the attention on you and to know
what I’m saying to understand you
you need to support your attention
about me then this baby is born
grows with an attention that is
projected touches to the outside world
he feels but it is always something that arrives
from outside the envelope but it is always something that
comes from out of motion
precisely this gives
inside out to get to know the
world
in this child growing up does all one
series of experiences for example could
run and could even fall
maybe when it fell, Grandma got it
takes arm cuddle and resumes
fall but it could also happen
experiences that have happened to me is
I happened to hear that Dad is from
hurry says
I feel that ca not to run falls and what
I told you I had told you the same experience
for a different experience in the second
maybe it’s better not to do ours
student boy in our young man
student could raise his hand with
enthusiasm and the teacher respond to
this happy enthusiasm that there is one
boy who finally has pleasure of
learn
or he might think again
another question from this here but what
he wants the class could see him like
an example that is always beautiful
enthusiastic and wants to know
or he could see it as one
swot
happens to all of it has happened that same
crying when I was little and
someone told you not to cry that
you are great and then you feel grains ha
clenched his teeth and made a fatigue
beast to restrain crying is though
now you’re big and then having to 5
years and you’re big, take the drill for
make a hole in the wall and someone arrives
that tells you you ‘re small I’m big I am
small and happened to attend one
interesting thing a mother who said
his son does not scream
there is something contradictory
or that I never give it for your own good
that is, I hurt you but for yours
well then you understand that in these
grow in this context could
generate in someone the feeling that
it is better not to do or with the confusion a
a certain point one does not know what to do is
the expression of the person
of the individual one progressively goes to
close but also going well
it could be that the person is missing
something but also some
information feels that something is missing but
he does not know where to look for it and where to go to
look for it if all your life has looked
from inside out it will go towards
the outside
nobody has taught him that there is one
fundamental component
and that is missing nights
from the image we have known the
outside world
leaning attention out but almost
never and almost nobody and maybe no one there
he taught to pay attention to
ourselves
this is the decisive point if we
we want to conquer happiness
we at least need one
balance of information a lot
useful information from the
outside world
so much useful information coming from
from listening to ourselves bring a little
more attention to us
ask yourself, for example, what do I want?
the lord of the first row of the
second at this time he did it all
the night at the hospital maybe he’s alone
But he keeps his eyes open for
education but what would he like to do
I feel right now in this
We almost never do these moments
questions of what I really need
right now using even more
who I am at this moment we could
just listen to a whisper that
it comes to us from the oracle of 2500 years ago
delfi that invites us to do something not
it’s a whisper he tells us in
imperative mode know yourself
starting to listen to us what
happens is that it creates in us a
progressive sense of happiness because
we begin to take possession of ours
life more and more enthusiasm a kind
optimism wants to do and always of
more happiness takes place
I would like to conclude by telling
telling you a story and I ‘m a dad
and a child who are inside a
train
the Pope is trying to read one
magazine and the child wants attention
of the Pope and then to ask from
how is it that we arrive pope and later between
45 minutes papa what’s that beautiful thing
out there and the Pope who would like to read
the magazine a certain point seeks one
tight bud rips the page a
sheet of the magazine he had
the image of the earth
the fanta in many pieces and says the
son, my son
Now have fun rebuilding the earth
keep the scotch brought from work here
with me he now reconstructs the image
of the earth and he sighs
relief says now at least for half an hour
dad and my son will leave me alone
can read the magazine in peace like
it often happens with children what happens
Papa after five minutes I finished like
the fact that I have mine is impossible
that you finished and it was a lot
simple actually behind the page
of the earth there was a man I rebuilt
man and the earth
if adjusted alone thank you
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