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Camino del medio: Liderazgo neuroespiritual | Jose Bizai & Maria Luz Avellaneda | TEDxPuertoSanchez


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I’m sure you all have lived
something like this sometime
moments in which so much emotionality
is controlled makes them break
year links
times when we might think that
good would be to have resources to
manage our emotionality
to lead our lives to where
we want to leave
and Marian and I are friends for
about 11
within this time and we have learned
to overcome situations similar to this one and
we have done it thanks to what we have
managed thanks to a series of
resources that we do not want today
share with you
in my particular case, the leadership
take or I had to live from the point
in view of the sciences that are known
as soft I trained in law in
philosophy and good linguistics in this
to travel my own path first had
that I influence myself to be able to
lead me and then I had to have
that influence other people to
lead in different contexts to me
it was time to walk the path of
leadership from the so-called sciences
hard
I trained as a systems graduate
of information and for a long time I
I dedicated to bring solutions to people
and companies using as tools
computers form
in those years of work I shared with
many people who thought differently than
I believed the solutions so
different
Then I thought it was important
incorporate resources to lead and there
was where I discovered that I had to first
lead me to be able to lead teams of
work and at a point in our lives
we meet
we realized that we were
walking with the same
a rather little traveled road a
path that went through the middle
a path where the soft and the hard
they merge they complement exactly one
path that we know when it started
and that we also know that he no longer has
turn back
and if we talk about leadership we talk about
a lot of literature written about it
and in all that bibliography appear
disciplines like the neurosciences that
come to throw them into concepts that have
to do with leadership if for example
I told them what they think
in the aroma of the morning coffee that
freshly prepared we like to take
everyone
the smell of freshly cut grass is
he comes to mind an image for
a memory
and some emotion
did to associate an external situation to
an internal emotional state has a
name for neurosciences and that’s called
anchor or flash memory
for different reasons of life to me
I had to have what
in different countries of the world they lived in
Central American countries of Europe
asia so I got in touch with
different cultures
with religions other than mine etc and
so I found in a book from india that
It’s called Ramayana dating back 5,000 years
back a concept that in words
Sanskrit is said
sam’s face and that could be translated as
groove in the memory of a person that
face assange concept is exactly the
same concept that we just
explain to her with Maria anchor light or
star memory five thousand years ago
and that was already written and where
we go with all this that we are
counting good towards the start of the
middle path towards starting to lead
us
and it turns out that to start traveling
that path is very important to decide
carry forward processes of
transformation and personal growth
among so many things that we study with
jose we found a model that
represents that exactly that we
We were looking
stephen hill gang a very famous
American psychologist defined a
model in which there are three energies
inherent to all human beings
three energies that should be in
balance in every good leader
those energies are the force that has
what to do with determination with the
will to carry forward our
objectives the compassion that has to do
with the ability to empathize with
build and sustain healthy bonds
the humor that has to do with the
flexibility with creativity with the
ability to solve situations
difficult in a different way
these three forces should be
always in balance because when the
force is presented without compassion and without
humor becomes despotism
it becomes aggression in violence
when compassion is without strength and
without humor is weakness is subjection
and when the humor is without the force and
without compassion
We talk about irony self deception
It would be interesting to analyze these three
energies in different people and
we have done it we study the
biography of many leaders of the
history
but we find something pretty
particular for example we study the
biography of this man
to the capons and we realized that in the
those three energies were pretty
balanced also he had strength
I was motivated I knew where I was going to have
one that tribune ‘clear also had
compassion because I knew that I just could not
It was necessary to work as a team and it was
necessary to generate in porridge and also
It was creative enough to solve
the problems that were presented
you know that he used a chain of
laundries in chicago to launder money
that’s where the concept of washing
money but precisely this gentleman does not
was the leader model that we
We wanted people to follow
then we saw it as a kind of
table with three legs three kicks the
strength of compassion and tenderloin but
was missing something that table lacked a
Paw to generate balance
we study a lot we study a lot and we
we realized that that lack was missing
it was the spirituality
but writer already conceived as values
and as principles but not associated with a
particular religion
the spirituality that leads us to
do the everyday things that we do
but a much more transcendent way
the meaning of transcendence
and so then we meet other
leaders
where if the four energies are given
the four legs of the table were given
as for example gandhi and albert there are two
people that undoubtedly left their mark on
humanity and if we talk about
transcendence and we talk about
spirituality
we talk about passion of passion for life
we talk about that space where
limits disappear fears no longer
is it so
we talk about family we talk about work
we talk about friends we talk about joy
we talk about music and all that as a
played so that our hearts
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and I ask them and I wonder how
we make the things of our life
by obligation or compassion that passion
that dictates from spirituality it
contagious
and allows us to build more spaces
happier humans but that many
Sometimes the most interesting ideas more
originals occur to us in the
less thoughtful moments and places
less thoughtful ward told them a
personal anecdote one day came in from the
shower of my house and it was with the prefix
neuro spinning around my head
because they are thinking of words like
neuromarketing neuroeconomics saw that
now everything is neuro is not another vain and
I came mind that idea and I said a
spiritual aura
is that running out of the sky computer
from my house enter the library more
great of the world is to say and write that
the concept to the neuro leadership
spiritual
you know what the result of that
search a huge zero
At least until that moment, nobody
it had occurred to him then what
I did was noticing my profession of
lawyer base register them so that
nobody steal something of course good
it seems then I was writing
some pieces of paper on some napkins
of some neighborhoods where I frequented
write some things and that I had
kept in the shoe box I took out
computer and over time I realized
that I had a book form
then one day he hits a mary house
light the door and tell your hands I have
this corrected
and I of course corrected him gave his
opinion and he also wrote the prologue
this was transformed into a book about
this we can talk a lot of things
really very much but today we
we want to share a definition with
your
we lead spiritual neuroscience is a goal
transdisciplinary model of influence
and persuasion where the convergence
science
yes, this model means that it is a
model that transcends other models that
already exist is transdisciplinary because
take elements from different disciplines
of the programming of the linguistics of
coaching of emotional intelligence
reverse engineering and it’s influence
because it serves to influence not us
themselves and to influence other people
but something that is very important
ethics and principles are the pillar
fundamental of this model is a model
efficient because it uses very few
resources
and achieve truly lasting results
in time it would be like a way of
Japanese art that is called Kim Sung and
I commented
who your good is an art form that
allows to join with gold threads the
different pieces of a vase that has been
broken
to achieve an improved version of
seed
in the same way hydrogen leadership
spiritual neurosis allows to achieve a
improved version of ourselves and of
our relationship with others leadership
spiritual neuro would then be the
gold threads
how do we apply this in our life
good by consciously doing
simple things
learning to breathe
and being very observant and attentive to what
what happens with all the emotions and we
they tell our body the beats of the
heart the gestures that accompany
words and actions learning to
listen to listen 100% here and now
available for the person that I am
listening leaving aside my
thoughts and my prejudices
learning to speak from me from what
that I need not from what you
you do because people do not make us
things people do what
we can at any time
resources that we have available
learning to look at us in a way
conscious and they know that for that we
humans have a help
wonderful you know we are the
only species that has such a big thread
white of the eye
and you know why
for anything that has to do with the
vision the white of the eye is there for
that we can find
quickly the pupil of the other person
establish a communication channel
In short, it is about learning to
work together
in tune flowing heart and reason
becoming sentient beings
paraphrasing the great galeano eduardo
letting heart
brain go hand in hand
We invite you to live an experience in
where we make conscious the simple
and we are not going to do
I need for that to trust me and
that they are doing what I am going to
suggest they can be left if they can what
they have in their hands sit down
comfortably on the chairs
to have their feet on the floor
if you can put the tanks separately
stay at shoulder height
take off a little on your back from the
chair
you can do this very well with your eyes
closed or can do it with the eyes
open I assure you that with the eyes
live closed so people
let’s be conscious our
breathing
we breathe deeply once
we inhale
we jump
we inhale
and now that we are aware of our
breathing
let’s start listening to the beats of
our heart
nati carrying the blood for all our
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and now that we are they get
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and the natives
we open our eyes
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and smile
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because the magical authorities
and we have generated an emotionality
different from truth
and that we did
a little bit more than one
so our invitation is that
let’s take that minute of our lives
to add the
to navigate our nature towards the
port we want to reach
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