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Become the leader that they are searching for. | Ken Nwadike Jr. | TEDxFurmanU


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Wow so the first time that I was ever

here in the Carolinas I found my way to

the frontlines of protests that were

unfolding in Charlotte and I knew that

there was going to be a need for a

peacekeeper and someone to step in as a

leader in the midst of such a volatile

situation that was unfolding there and

you know it’s very difficult going in

especially being from California and

showing up in Charlotte on the front

lines and not knowing anyone there and

there’s hundreds of protesters all

downtown and the police had set up their

their lines and you know as I was

running in to the the protest everyone

was running out because a protester had

just been shot in the face by another

protestor and so the anger and the

tension that was unfolding there that

night it was unlike any other protest I

had ever been to before and so right

away I tried to create a barrier between

the police and the protesters because

people were throwing bottles and rocks

and bricks at the police officers and so

I decided well I’ll try to open up and

engage in some dialogue with some people

and stand there on the front lines and

so you know that night there were a

number of police lines like that they

were blocking a number of the

intersections and it became very tough

to communicate when you have hundreds of

people not only shouting but throwing

things and so I decided I was going to

try to lead by recruiting other

peacekeepers there on the front lines

and so oftentimes when I show up at

these things I try and identify who’s

the biggest scariest looking guy that’s

there on the front lines and say hey I’m

going to need you on my side just in

case things get really out of hand I’m a

slim guy but together you know enough of

us can keep the peace out here

and so there was a gentleman who was

standing on the side I watched that

someone bumped into him and he said hey

and then the guy he apologized the

number of times and he just stood there

I figured okay that’s the guy that I

want on my side because they they

respect this guy and so I went and found

him and I got him to throw up the peace

sign as well and try to call the crowd

and in doing so if you notice we’re

standing under an overpass there and as

he’s got his peace sign up I noticed

that there were a number of protesters

three guys that had picked up one of

those cement parking stops when you go

to park a car and they were going up to

the overpass and they were planning to

drop the cement block down on the row of

officers that were beneath us and so I

rush over there and I’m shouting at them

saying hey man you guys know that if you

drop that on the cops down there you’re

probably going to kill a couple of

officers and they said that’s right they

took one of ours so we’re going to take

two of theirs

and it really made me realize that this

whole back and forth violence we’re

never going to be able to solve anything

without open dialog of peacekeepers

being there on the front lines and so

the entire night I’m running around

trying to put out small fires literally

– they were actually fires being set as

well as just the things that were

unfolding there and you know it was

difficult being a stranger in that town

and trying to have a voice but I was

surprised that it worked out and

fortunately there was a police officer

who recognized me as I was walking by

and he had asked me for a hug and that

moment kind of turned things around

where the protesters who were

cooperating with me and listening to me

for some time they saw me as a traitor

because I hugged this riot police

officer that was in full gear and in

doing so you know they start shouting

back and forth at at the cops they’re

disrespecting me calling me a sellout

and all sorts of things and I knew that

at that moment I could either rush back

to my car and hurry up

out of there I can stand and fight for

peace and so in doing so I really I’d

well I had to match their voice level so

I wouldn’t necessarily say I was

shouting at them but whatever was

shouting at you you can’t be very timid

in trying to respond to them so as I’m

responding to them I was able to

actually deescalate that situation and

get them to stop throwing rocks and

things at the police officers and so you

know so we hugged it out things were

cool between myself and the officer but

actually even these protesters who

wanted to fight me at a point we

eventually shook hands and hugged it out

as well and I was able to bring the

peace to that situation and I realized

that you know it doesn’t take much to be

a leader when you show up in the

situation just being able to really turn

people around through dialogue and

positive interaction and communication

and so I always encourage people to you

know when you’re in a situation where

there’s a leader that’s needed never

hesitate to rise up and be that person I

think we often look around trying to

find well is someone going to step up

and try to calm this down oh the police

are here is someone going to calm this

situation down and you know so this

situation that took place here it always

reminds me of a story that I heard back

at September 11th actually and we all

remember the images of the planes that

hit the two towers and the plane that

hit the the Pentagon but what we don’t

see is a plane that hit the Capitol

building and the reason why we don’t see

that is because of a leader in a hero

who stepped up that was on one of the

planes as he took a phone call from his

wife and some of you may know this story

and for those of you that don’t

there was a gentleman or a number of

gentlemen that were on flight 93 that

was headed for either the Capitol

building or the White House and there

was a gentleman on the phone who called

his wife in the uim nor he let her know

that his plane had been hijacked and she

said yeah and they’re using those planes

to hit targets and he said well they

turned our plane around that was headed

for San Francisco and their enroute back

to the east

host and they told us that there’s a

bomb on board and they’ve already

stabbed someone on the plane and so you

know she had let him know well

don’t draw any attention to yourself

just have a seat be quiet and you know

things would be okay and he realized at

that moment that things aren’t going to

be okay and he needed to step up as a

leader to make sure that that plane

wasn’t going to hit the target and you

know as I read through the telephone

transcripts of what that call was like

it broke my heart as he asked his wife

where are the kids and she said they’re

having breakfast and she said they’d

like to talk to you and he said no not

right now we’re going to take this plane

back and in doing so he rallied up the

support of a few other men that were

there on the plane and the recorder one

of the the last things that they heard

was the as the guys had rallied up and

they were trying to get through the

doors to fight the terrorists and you

can hear the terrorists shouting hold

the doors because there’s men trying to

get in here and then you hear the

fighting and then you know they were

able to prevent that plane from hitting

the Capitol building there and you know

the the famous words that I always

remember from them was the okay you guys

ready let’s roll and it took that

leadership of someone being able to step

up and say these planes are being used

as weapons to kill people and thousands

of people were killed there but a leader

was able to step up and not only fight

for peace and be brave but to make sure

that they were saving the lives of other

Americans and so in recent weeks now I

found myself out on the front lines of

protests again in Washington DC that

were taking place outside the

inauguration and same thing now I

figured okay now I’m here in Washington

DC and that was my first time ever in my

life being in Washington DC and same

thing people are throwing rocks and

bottles and bricks actually at the

police officers there and I knew a

peacekeeper is going to be needed and

someone’s going to have to take charge

and be a leader at these protests where

things are just out of

and so same thing that day I rallied up

the support of other men that were

standing around in Washington DC and let

them know you know all these bricks that

were seen on the ground and trash cans

and bottles that are being thrown at

these police officers we can stand as a

barrier to prevent things from being

thrown at the police and we can go and

talk to the protesters as well to try to

bring peace and deescalate that

situation and you know I’m just one slim

guy if it shows up at these things and

I’m able to sometimes turn the situation

around just by not only opening up

dialogue and communication but rising to

the call when a leader is needed and

someone needed to be able to bring peace

to these situations and you know I look

at all of the people around not only in

this room but across the nation and I

see how much we’re all calling for

change and it just seems like we’re all

waiting for that leader to rise up

everyone as certain is in search of a

leader but we’re not looking within

ourselves to be that leader and there’s

a countless amount of followers of very

few leaders in this world that are

really willing to step up and create

change and so now when I travel around I

always encourage people you know you can

change the world and you can create the

change that you want to see rather than

saying I wish that guy would step up and

do something or being in a situation and

saying I hope that woman is going to say

something why not you be that person and

step up and do it and we can make this

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