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really quickly again how many John’s

fans are out there excellent hey just to

be fair just to be fair I know we leave

in a living a two-team state so how many

Jets fans good luck with that

oh I’m sorry being me and I’m being mean

but uh you know all-in still can’t

really believe it happened because he I

was this close to saying no see I’ll

never forget the night I get the call

before Christmas Eve mr. Gonzales would

you please please speak to the New York

Giants and uh I honestly thought it was

a joke I thought it was a prank because

you know you want to what my full-time

job is ninth grade world history teacher

I’m not a professional football player

so when they called me up I thought what

could I possibly tell Eli Manning why

would Victor Cruz listen to me for one

second

am I gonna educate him on the

Renaissance Julius Caesar but I did say

yes and I’ll never forget walking into

walking into the team room and I

remember as I walked into the team room

I’m already nervous but as I walk into

the team room one of the first guys to

shake my hand he was on the team at the

time his name was Chris Conte now just

you know Chris Conte is almost about 6 9

320 pounds I have pretty big hands but I

remember when he shook my hand I felt

his fingers go down to here on my arm

and then I tried my best for the next 20

minutes and when I walked out of those

doors if you were standing right by the

exit and said how did you do you know

you you must have did great it’s the

Giants I would have told you I failed I

would have told you I blew it

see once again I believe the lie that

because I didn’t have a certain status

what I did really didn’t matter

I believed the lie that they were

probably just not on their cell phones

because you know they weren’t allowed

it’s a team rule they probably could

care less what I had to say I’m not

important I’m just a teacher

but see it’s amazing what happens

because our words and our actions always

have power whether we realize it or not

whether we have a million views on

YouTube or not and they start winning

and they win the next game and the next

game and I start getting calls from Fox

News in New York City to be on the show

called Fox & Friends in the morning and

then I get a call from the radio show

boomer and carton in the morning to be

on their radio show and explained all in

it then the ESPN comes down from

Connecticut tapes that whole entire

piece they say Michigan’s offset the

Giants beat the 49ers and the NFC

championship we will play that Super

Bowl Sunday in front of the world well

they play at Super Bowl Sunday now I

didn’t go to the Super Bowl I could have

but you know I’m a teacher and so I

wanted to make sure I was there for my

students on Monday and from watch the

Super Bowl I couldn’t make it also as a

teacher I was at a sick day so I

couldn’t take off anyway be honest but

I’ll never forget the day after the

Giants beat the Patriots in the Super

Bowl I’m walking to school and I turned

the corner to go into my building and

there is news fans lined up down the

block in front of my school I’m a little

nervous but I keep walking I’ll never

forget the principal waited at the door

for me said Mr Gonzales please follow me

I walk with him into the conference room

and I see reporters from CBS NBC ABC

even CNN espanol is there and I don’t

even speak Spanish it was amazing I did

interviews all morning long and the next

day I don’t walk to school I run to

school because I figure if that’s the

first day who’s going to interview me

today I’m a little bit of an Oprah fan I

thought she might be there to give me a

car something special I was hoping but

I’ll never forget I run to school on

Tuesday I look it’s nobody

that’s how Fame is it’s just that quick

and as I walk until the officer said mr.

Gonzales there was a message left for

you they wanted you to call them back

and I call it back and what’s to tell me

that there’s a victory parade in New

York City and that I should join them

and as I walk into New York City that

day I start seeing t-shirts the first

couple of shirts I saw us but well

that’s a coincidence and then us also

more and then I saw more and then I saw

a couple of hundred and before I know it

there were t-shirts all over New York

City made by the Giants I had two words

on the front and the two words were all

in and I said you know that’s that’s

pretty great and I went back to my

school on Wednesday and I showed my

class in first period they loved it by

third period they could care less and

freshmen and I remember I put the shirt

on my desk and I’ll never forget the

phone rang and I picked up the phone and

a voice said are you mr. Gonzalez and I

said yes this is the same students also

talked to the Giants and they won the

Super Bowl I said yes sir at this point

in time the phone call starts getting

very very aggressive repeating words I

would never say up here and I finally

interrupt the caller and say why are you

so angry why you are you yelling through

the phone he said wamba i’m the head

football coach of the high school you

work at you know you coulda told us

about all and we could watch some

football games too I said coach I had no

idea was even gonna work he said well we

start preseason conditioning I would

love for you to talk to my team in a

couple of weeks and as I walked down to

the weight room in the beautiful city

that I get the pleasure of teaching in

Union City all the guys are wearing

shirt and as you can imagine there’s two

words on every shirt the two words are

all in and I said you know what that’s

great and I love helping my students but

I said it’s done well two weeks later

another phone call mr. Gonzales yes to

sing one to talk to the Giants yes we

would you mind helping our team I said

yes but I’m a teacher they said don’t

worry we’ll work it out your school will

give you two days off I said Shorin

before I know what I’m flying out to

Chicago and there’s a team in the NBA

and they’re called the the Portland

Trailblazers and they decide they would

like to be all in as well except they

haven’t won a championship yet so let’s

not talk about them anymore oh not a

magic word and then I get a call from

from Ireland and I remember pick up the

phone they said well mr. Gonzales we saw

that piece and we play football of your

briefs we’ll play something called a

Gaelic football and I didn’t know too

much about it but it’s an amazing sport

they play they’re just breathtaking and

well they actually got a chance to win

and this is a Dublin Gaelic football

team and they were all in and and then I

got a call and they said well mr.

Gonzales where you were you’re from you

play American football but here we play

real football so it was from London and

it turns out to be a team over there

that plays real football and they’re

called the Arsenal soccer club and you

know amazing experience actually playing

Manchester United right now I hope they

win but and it gets corporate then

corporations start calling up like PNC

Bank and DSW shoes and an anheuser-busch

and help us our clients be all in and

our our employees and I’ll never forget

I get the call to go down

consoling as I go down to Arkansas I

wasn’t sure exactly who it might be but

it turns out to be a company you

probably heard of them to their the name

is Walmart and I thought it was just

going to be speaking to cashiers or

registers or things of that nature but

it’s actually their shareholders meeting

and I remember walking to the

shareholders meeting very nervous and

you know it’s quite nerve-wracking when

you speak right after Daymond John or

the running back Marshall Faulk and then

next up is Tom Cruise and once again you

say I’m just a ninth grade world history

teacher right not have to say without a

doubt probably one of the biggest honors

it is the biggest honor a lot of my

students they like to play a video game

maybe you’ve seen it’s become quite

popular it’s called call of duty and in

the video game you interact in the life

of a soldier complete different missions

it’s one thing to play a video game it’s

another thing entirely getting the honor

and the privilege to work with our Armed

Forces

at first it was a privilege to speak

with cadets from the West Point Military

Academy and then speak with some of our

Air Force and then this past summer

going down to Fort Dix and get to work

with our United States Army and honestly

who better to represent being all in

than our armed forces men and women who

are all in for us every single day and

honestly they always deserve a round of

applause for what they do it’s amazing

absolutely amazing their sacrifice for

us if I can be honest some people just

don’t get it

I had a chance to speak for a

corporation not too long ago and I’ll

never forget after the talk an

individual came up to me afterwards and

they said mr. Gonzales thank you for

speaking that was pretty good but I

think you’re wasting your time I was a

little taken back by the comment he said

Michigan’s odds please don’t take any

offense see I work in the marketing

department for our company here and well

this all end thing it’s a great slogan

you know what a slogan is right mr.

Gonzales

it’s like those things after the

commercial it’s Nike has a slogan just

do it McDonald’s has a slogan I’m loving

it it’s a great slogan and well the

reason I say you’re making a mistake is

you still like being a teacher

working with students no offense but

there’s really not a lot of profit in

that is there I was a little taken back

by the comment so I said honestly for me

sir all-in is not a slogan it’s a

lifestyle

it’s something I try to live out every

single day he said well that’s nice but

I’m just telling you what it is it’s a

it’s a slogan and it’s at the end of

commercials for adidas adidas has been

using all-in on did you did you get a

copyright for that are you getting any

royalties I stopped him there and I said

I’ll tell you what all it means to me I

began to tell him about a young woman

who was sitting in the doctor’s office

most the time we have to be at the

doctor’s we really don’t want to be

there but she’s excited to be at the

doctors and as her name is called cheap

rigorous runs past the nurse in t

examination room sits upon the table and

lays back she’s so excited to be at the

doctor’s because because she’s going to

get to see her child again she’s

pregnant

and as she see the images flick around

the screen and she hears the heartbeat

it’s emotional it’s beautiful the nurse

the doctor there everything is great

except the doctor walks out of the room

and the nurse follows she doesn’t mind

because they printed out pictures she’s

excited to show her mother except the

nurse comes back in the room with a

small card on her hand handed to the

woman on the table and walks out now the

woman is curious so she opens a card and

begins to read him it says we’re sorry

to inform you but you’ve contracted the

measles nothing’s wrong with getting the

measles get some small bumps on your

body a fever a flu a couple of weeks

it’s gone

but if you get the measles while you’re

pregnant we believe it will have very

dangerous effects on the child inside

also on the card it said we don’t see

certain limbs of the body developing

properly we don’t see a properly

developed arm or leg on the bottom the

card it simply said it’s in our opinion

that you consider termination of this

pregnancy you try again later with your

husband for another child as you can

imagine the woman is crushed search had

been absolutely ecstatic – completely

distraught in a matter of moments the

nurse walks back in the room and said

miss I know this is very difficult but

what would you choose to do woman sits

up off the table and she says thank you

for your opinion thank you for your

advice truly I choose to be committed to

this child well he lives for two more

weeks or lives for 20 years I choose to

stick with him whether he has one arm or

no arm one leg and her legs

that is my choice see guys I’m so

thankful for that woman could see that

woman is my mother and I was a child

inside of her and the doctors that day

see that’s what all that means to me

it’s not a t-shirt it’s not a wristband

it’s not a slogan at the end of

commercial see what all it means to me

is when you when you keep going when

other people tell you to quit and when

you don’t stop when other people tell

you you are wasting your time there’s a

lot of people that told my mother I was

just going to be a waste of her time I

am so glad she didn’t listen see the

fact of the matter is all in his

personal some people just take it as a

way to score a couple extra goals and

win a championship and that’s great for

some people it’s just a increasing the

profit margin by ten percent in the

first quarter and that’s happened for

some companies that’s great too but for

me the greatest thing is when people

make it a lifestyle when it’s not just

another event because we go from event

to event to event and yet we feel more

see when I talk to the Giants at night

people think I talked about football I

never talked about football I walked in

the room and I asked him one question

towards the end of our talk I said what

does it mean to be committed some guys

said this and some guy said that so I

said you know guys let’s use an analogy

maybe you can understand you’re playing

the game of poker if you take all your

chips and you push them in the middle of

the table what does that mean

player on the team at the time named

Justin Tuck was there I remember he

smiled he was sitting in the back room

he said well if you push all your chips

in middle table the means are all in

you’re ready to when you’re done going

halfway I said okay but what happened if

everyone shows their cards but then you

pull your chips back and you tell

everyone you were just kidding I

remember he smiled even wider and said

well if you’re playing poker at my house

that’s how you get punched in the face I

said Justin you’re right so if we would

never do it in a game of poker why do we

do with our lives why do we say we’re

going to be committed to something when

things get tough when on the unexpected

happens we back away and say it’s not

for me so I gave him a chip that night

and I gave him a marker I said guys

there’s nothing special about this chip

in fact it it’s from Walmart I take this

chip and if you mean business you take

this marker and you sign it you put it

someplace you’re going to see it every

single day when you see it you ask

yourself the question am I really giving

my best or am I just going halfway some

guys took the chip and they put it in

their locker and they said they they

would see it before they hit the field

they said help them play better I guess

other guys took a little more personally

and they said they took that chip and

they were all in for the game of

football but they said they wanted to be

more committed at home so they put in

the middle their kitchen table to be a

more committed husband and father one of

the guys in the video even in trouble he

played for the Chicago Bears last year I

remember he sent me the Twitter picture

he got the words all in tattooed on his

chest

I said intro no one said to do that

but he actually sent me one of the best

replies ever received he said for me

John Paul if if all-in is just about

well if it was just about a t-shirt well

I can put a t-shirt on and take it off

whenever it looks good

but if I’m really committed I’m

committed even when things don’t look

good when they look ugly

they look difficult I want to be

reminded of that every time I look in

the mirror what commitment truly is it’s

not something I can take off and put in

the trash that’s what it’s all about

it’s about being committed inside of

here not when the lights are on not when

the crowd is cheering but what do we do

or no one’s watching that’s a lifestyle

see the one question you might have in

your mind is John Paul that’s great but

I still have one question why the Giants

call you up in the first place they

wanted a better motivational speaker

Tony Robbins has an office in New York

they wanted a better 9th grade teacher

I’m sure they could have found one

Giants called me out because I went to

jail nope let’s correct that I was not

personally in jail ok saw some faces but

see when I came back from playing

basketball in the NBA Summer League I

want it to be personal I wanted to make

a difference in people’s lives and well

I wanted to be a teacher but I didn’t

know you need this thing called the

teacher certificate my college failed to

tell me that so I had to go back to

college and get one and as I was getting

my teacher certificate I went to the

only place ever opened their doors so I

could help kids juvenile jails I went to

juvenile jails throughout my state and I

started tutoring and after tutoring then

they found out I was a basketball player

so they asked if I would coach their

basketball program I said sure and they

said Hall this is great it’ll be like

the movie the Gridiron Gang and you kind

of look like the rock so this is perfect

and I said I’ll give it a try and they

said well we’re going to buy jerseys for

the kids

what do you want on the jerseys these

kids you know these kids made some

pretty bad and they’ve made their

mistakes and you got to have a tough

name I said first of all I don’t believe

you’re a mistake you could make a

mistake but you’re not born a mistake

and I said if you’ll let me coach the

team I only want two words on our

and these are the jerseys that that we

wear in jail to this day and this is the

word on the front see I believe this is

the best thing you can play for and live

for there’s a movie I enjoy a lot you

may have seen it’s called the Shawshank

Redemption there’s a quote at the end of

that movie that says hope is a good

thing maybe the best of things and a

good thing never dies it’s true see the

greatest thing is when you give somebody

hope because they see you live a life of

commitment and they are all in this is

our reverse side and we have to change

colors you give somebody hope they

you don’t personally have to go to

juvenile jails and wear these jerseys

and play with us on on Wednesdays I

personally believe we all have the

opportunity to wear this type of Jersey

every single day see when we walk into

our homes

do we give hope or do we take it away

because the power of the tongue has the

ability to do both do we give others on

our team in our school the ability that

they can be greater than us a future but

see like I said before I hung up the

phone I asked the Giants why did you

call me and they said Willie you

wouldn’t believe it but we didn’t hear

about you from YouTube and we didn’t

hear about you because you’re a teacher

we heard about you because you went and

you worked with kids in jail and we

thought it’d be great for the guys to

know about that

see I didn’t get to talk to Eli Manning

and Victor Cruz because I sent in my

resume 20 times I guess I got to do it

because I decided I wanted to be all in

for the least of these and then I got to

do it for the greatest if you question

what should I be all in for don’t start

at the top everybody wants to get to the

top start at the bottom be committed to

the ones no one wants to be committed

for and pretty soon I think you’ll be up

here telling your story god bless you

guys thank you for your time [Applause]

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