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WINNING PSYCHOLOGY #2 Best Motivational Speech for 2019


the most important conversation you’ll
ever have in your teen life is the one
you have with yourself
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you wake up with it you walk around with
it you go to bed with it eventually
you’re gonna act on it but they good or
bad you have to that’s what the whole
thing about this book I have it’s about
you it is about you it’s strictly about
you finding who you are so many people
die live 100 years never know who they
are never know who they are you have to
look in that mirror and know this
there’s so much more in here man
because I can literally right now be a
300-pound guy spraying for cockroaches
still to this day if I did not look in
that mirror and say there has to be more
to this this can’t be it
and then willing to go into it dive deep
into it and give all I have to find it
so that’s what is that’s what all that’s
about in the book you tell people to
make a list of everything working
against me every real valid excuse right
why do you have them do that there’s a
lot of power in that list so in that
list of who you are what makes you up
all these other things
it goes back to once again accepting you
have to first accept it before you can
fix it a lot of people walk around oh
man I’m good I’m good no you’re not you
have to accept which you’re not you have
to and people don’t want to do that
that’s the only way you can fix it you
have to accept it first before you can
go on the journey a lot of folks never
even start the journey man never start
to join me because I live in this fake
life that who they want to be they act
like they are but they’re not because
they haven’t fixed all this stuff yet
you gotta fix this first before we can
start our journey in life so that’s why
I haven’t make this list you fix these
problems now your journey can begin
because you no longer care about how
people are judging you we when you care
more about how someone’s judging you
you’re gonna stay right there
there’s no formal minimal so that’s one
thing about that list how do people go
about using I don’t know if it’s the
accountability mirror how do they go
about
addressing each of those issues each
thing that is wrong with you has to be a
focal point you can’t look at this
gigantic list since I got to change all
this my god this is crazy no you
take off the first one I want to be
smarter for me that was my thing I have
to I have to become more intelligent
I’ve such a severe learning disability I
can’t retain I had to now get that
one thing and then strategize in that
one problem how can I do this I’m not
gonna learn like you I’m not gonna learn
like anybody else how am I gonna figure
this out so I didn’t figure that okay
we’re my strengths here with my
weaknesses in learning alright ma’am how
am I gonna do this and I figured out a
way to do it but it’s strategizing so
how I learned to this day if I have a
big manual to study I will have to get a
bunch of spiral notebooks from the from
the daggone store and each page I have
to write each page out maybe ten times
so there was a thousand page dive manual
that I got eighteen months before I went
to dive school most people I’m not smart
I’m a ghost if I can pass this test
I realized hang on a second I’m not
smart how can I get past this how can I
get through this obstacle I need to get
I need to acquire this book eighteen
months in advance because it could take
me 18 months to write down each page
over and over again to then put it to
memory so when the question came up I’d
written that question so many times down
in that and you know on paper that I can
recall okay page 71 was where I remember
seeing this and I can recall it that way
and that’s how I did it so you got to
strategize on each problem you have in
life slowly break down that problem
don’t think about all the problems you
have just one at a time and before you
know it you fix all these problems but
you cannot focus on all of them just on
the one thing at a time a lot of us
mediocrity is everywhere right now and
we’re always trying to find an easy way
out and we’re judging ourselves let’s
there’s ten people in this room and
we’re all mediocre but I’m the best of
the mediocre people I now think I’m
great I’m great we surround ourselves
around people that make us feel great
they tell us what we want to hear the
second we put ourselves amongst the
uncommon people we don’t like that
feeling that challenge and feel that of
that person’s break about three thirty
more hey push your on we’re going
for a run we don’t like that challenge
we like that person who says hey you
know I mean I don’t feel good today man
and they said oh it’s okay brother
we’ll take a day off maybe get a pizza
and watch the game we like that we
we love that feeling why cuz you
understand man we’re good bro we don’t
want that girls like this hey man no bro
get your on man it’s not
being a punk we don’t want in our lives
we don’t want that person who’s
constantly challenging our weaknesses we
want that process constantly you know
making us feel nice and good insecure
nurse that’s the mediocrity of life we
want to be the best amongst the average
people people wonder how do you stay
hungry all the time
because after I accomplish something I
don’t sit back like a lot of guys to
graduate buzz graduate this graduate
that they get comfortable they wonder
why I’m getting weak man I don’t know I
lost my edge what’s going on cuz once
you hit the top of the mountain guess
what happened I’m good I’m good so you
wonder why you’re falling down now
because we reach the top of the mountain
you got booked another one that’s
mediocrity there’s a lot of people in
mediocrity
who have a nice resume but they’re
one-timers man they hit they hit a one
time deal they busted it open got a lot
of money but they’re good
you’re a mediocre now man what are you
getting doing today tomorrow the next
day that’s why I listen to theorists I
don’t listen all that I listen
to them who’s like this man what’s wrong
man tired dude right tired cuz tomorrow
I got to do the again man
whenever this is that made me
nauseous and sick to my stomach
it made me hurt
there’s no ending and that’s the person
I listen to that’s the person who’s
gained knowledge you gain knowledge do
suffering and on the other end the
suffering is a world that very few very
few have ever seen it’s a beautiful
world because that’s where you find
yourself you don’t find yourself in over
here you find yourself on the other end
like the hundred mile race I was wrong I
ran it for 24 hours I found myself on
the other end of that race that 19 hours
I found Wow there’s a whole nother world
out here that never even stopped but the
worlds in your mind you always tell
people if you want to change go do
something physically demanding
like go find yourself in the suffering
and in the pain of doing something with
your body yes it is utterly fascinating
to mean it’s just hitting me now I’d
never heard you say that before so I
reserve final judgement for round 3 when
we come back together but the thought of
you feel lost you feel insecure you
don’t have a passion you don’t know what
to do you’re reaching out to somebody
you need that help you know you could do
more be more and the answer is you in
the last interview we did you called it
the bag of if I remember right yes you
reach in to the bag of and start
changing those one by one that may be
the most extraordinary piece of advice
I’ve ever heard in fact I will say the
way it’s hitting me right now that’s a
single most extraordinary piece of
advice for self transformation I’ve ever
heard it’s a truth who is sitting here
this is the real me obviously but I’m
gonna go kind of I’m a very
philosophical person and I’m gonna go
there with you real quick I believe in a
higher power don’t know the name don’t
know where it’s coming from the leanings
like that but I believe that this power
and visualize will be real quick let’s
say it’s a man up there or woman
whatever and they have a chart and when
you’re born they say David Goggins born
February 17 1975 at 6 a.m. they write
the chart down because they can see
everything they know exactly where
you’re supposed to be they know what
you’re supposed to be you die you go to
so-called heaven you arrive at heaven
I’m 300 pounds I retired as a
ecolab guy which is okay just a job
whatever I go up there and God looks at
me and he’s chosen my chart and my
Charter in there says you were supposed
to be a Navy SEAL you’re supposed to be
her in 85 pounds you’re supposed to be
one of the smartest people in the planet
this this all this you see this and now
you’re in heaven you made to heaven but
you’re like God don’t I supposed to live
that life I’m supposed to live that life
and then you find out that the reason
why because we all think that if we pray
on it if we do this if we do that
whatever if we don’t work we just
whatever is could magically happen for
us no I believe that when I’m all said
and done with my whole job is to outwork
the chart whatever the chart says about
me to all-knowing power up there I want
to get up there and say him look at me
and say I know everything
I didn’t can see this
I didn’t can see this I want to feel
that I want to get to the other end of
this ski world and however I’m being
judged
whoever’s judging me to look at me and
said I did not he know I had you at 185
had you that this but all this other
I was riding as you were living it
I want to I want to find more all I can
and in that can sack of you have to
dive in that to find more because if
you’re not willing to go in there and
face yourself I can find anything you
can live right here on surface man right
here on surface so if there is an ending
to this world and there is somewhere to
go in this a judgement you’re gonna get
there and you might see a chart and that
chart may tell you who the you should
have been and now you get to rest your
life to think about that man I could
have lived a much better life like just
would have just suffered a little bit
more if I just would have went in that
and realized I had so much more but
fear and the 40% and living here versus
living here being afraid stop me so
that’s why I’m a big guy in visualizing
I’m a big guy in making a world it may
not exist to me it does to me it does
and I’m overpowering myself every day
and you got to find tools to do that
that’s the tool that I use so that’s
what it’s all about
my last question what’s the impact that
you want to have in the world
the impact that one have in the world is
for everybody to be able to face who
they are I would have that kind of
impact where you can go on TV you can
put your life on a billboard you’re not
ashamed of who you are you’re not saying
that what life made you what you helped
life make you all that all that bad
that’s now in this big pot that’s
stirring you no longer ashamed of it you
realize we’re off up stop judging
yourself against other people who have
hidden it better than you it’s all
they’ve done they’ve mastered
better than you have and now they’re
flipping it back on you and saying
you’re I want you to realize that this
world life is one big head game and once
you learn to play the head game there’s
no longer game any more at all you can start living your life
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