we look at the wealthiest people in
America today Warren Buffett Michael
Dell of course Bill Gates Paul Allen and
the walton family all first generation
multi billionaires and the wonderful
thing is if you do what other successful
people do you eventually get the same
results that they do there are many ways
to get the things that we want for
ourselves in our lives but basically it
all begins with how we choose to think
if you really want to get lasting change
real results that stick around what you
got to do if you want lasting change
you’ve got to give up this idea of
trying something you get a slide you’re
going to commit to mastery most people
dabble they they talk about what I’d
like to change my body I’d like to
change my relationship better I’d like
to have more passion there but they
don’t know what to do and even if they
did they don’t have enough detail to be
able to follow through if we want to
achieve another result that we’ve never
achieved before then we have to become
somebody different we have to upgrade
our skill we have to update our
behaviors we have to match our emotions
that are self-made millionaires have
been studied exhaustively they’ve been
analyzed they’ve been interviewed by the
hundreds of thousands of millions and
what we know is exactly who they are and
what they do and how they think
and the wonderful thing is if you do
what other successful people do you
eventually get the same result that they
do Walt Disney said if you can dream
that you can do it which means you’re
never given a dream that comes out of
your own desire of place that isn’t
something you have the capacity to
fulfill you may have to learn from your
skills you may have to partner up with
some people you may need to learn some
you know how to access some new
resources along the way but all of that
is possible if you’ll simply dream the
big dream have a mind that is open to
everything and attach for nothing one of
the central principles of my life is
that no one knows enough to be a
pessimist about anything and that each
and every one of us when we close our
minds to what is possible for us or what
is possible for Humanity closes off the
genius that resides and lives in each
and every one of us
decide what you want you can’t get from
here to there unless you know where here
is and various but you’re going to
decide what you want go for what you
want not what you think is possible
most people hone down their dream
because they can’t see how they can do
it and I’m saying to you dream as big as
you want in fact big dreams are exciting
big dreams attract big people I had a
teacher named Jim Rohn he was a personal
development speaker and I remember I was
really frustrated and I’ve been working
my guts out 12 14 hour days nothing was
working and I was pissed off as
frustrated he said Tony said you’re so
focused on expecting things to happen so
fast and he said you know if you really
focus instead on building your skills
your gifts will make room for you today
people have no patience we all want it
right now and people don’t only not
commit to mastery they think you have
all the answers they try a few things or
it doesn’t work they render something
else if you want a great jump and it’s
holding your life an extraordinary jump
for the quality of your life you got to
set yourself up to win
you got to set yourself up for the
progress that allows you to consistently
grow consistently enjoy your life and
consistently produce the result that
you’re really after extensive is is very
simple if you have a clear goal make a
plan to achieve it and then do something
at least one thing each day the Mooji
one step closer to your most important
goal progress people balance if you’re
growing at any financially spiritually
emotionally in your relationship your
body you’re going to feel better in your
life where we’re made for and I think
for men to grow flip-up and again no you
can’t get them really fast
one good habits and make them your
masters most people are interested
they’re not committed and the
differences in the agency to do with
communities in the feed when you’re
committed to do whatever in case when
you’re interested you do what’s easy and
what’s convenient but when you’re
committed I’m going to get that result
you put everything into it until you get
the results you got to get going you got
to take action the disciplines is a
miracle project and here’s how to get
the miracle of your future going the
participant for concern number one do
what you can
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learning is the beginning of well
learning is the beginning of life change
don’t be lazy and learning don’t be lazy
and picking up the ideas don’t be lazy
and learning from your own experience
how many times have you had a great idea
didn’t do anything about it and then the
year later someone did something about
it made a lot of money got the promotion
etc so when you have the idea the
inspiration to act it’s time that you
don’t have to know it perfectly if you
decide you’re going to do something do
it you know they’ve done dozens and
dozens of studies over the years they
find it as one major difference to
successful people and unsuccessful
people have successful people launched
they start to get on with it they just
do it unsuccessful people get the same
ideas in the same information but
they’ve always got an excuse for not
starting if you have a big enough reason
why you want to achieve something you do
it every occasion but if your reason
isn’t big enough your excuses will be
and one of the things that we kind of
believe and hang on to and live with is
this whole idea that all of the things
that happen to me in my path are what
are keeping me from doing what I’d like
to do today so we hang on to these
things and we fill ourselves with blame
life is not so simple as black and white
my mother beat the out of me she
loved me she was freaked out I was gonna
leave I was a source of everything I
blamed her for all the B’s in my life I
blame her that I haven’t woman have in
my life because I cherished my life
because I know what the opposite is I
blame her for the capacity of feel and
care I blame is my insatiable hunger to
end suffering for any human I can
because I suffered the son get
emotionally fit by learning to trade
what upsets you which is your
expectations that aren’t being met trade
your expectations for appreciation for
what you do have your whole life changes
in a moment because our expectations
make a fist offer frustrated words or
sad and we all have them and I have them
too but when I come up I just remind
myself this is just my mind
I’m more than this mind I got a heart
and soul what can I appreciate how can I
use this challenge to go to a deeper
level and that’s the only way we get
free the only way to have a great life
is decide I’m going to find beauty and
anything that happens for my life I’m
sure if you look back on your life most
of us have that experiences where if
something horrible happens something you
never want to go through again in your
lifetime but at the same time you know
that five tickets later you look back
and go I would never want to go through
that I’ve never wanted building I care
about to go through that but I’m glad I
did because they may be so strong to
when you change the way you look at
what makes us suffer is our thoughts
right we’re the only creatures on earth
that can have fought and then make
ourself feel like or have lots of
it that don’t feel good and most people
don’t master their mind and so their
minds will crazy and we believe our
thoughts we believe that if this doesn’t
happen our lives are going to be so
stressed or over and most of it is just
bull the mind is looking for what’s
wrong your heart can change all that if
you decide today that’s all we got
across from this beef I actually reached
it is for you to decide that I’m a
hundred percent responsible experienced
in my life
and that anything can happen I am bigger
than the moment I am more than anything
it happened to me and I can find a way
to find something beautiful something
change your thought and you change your
world change your expectation and you
change around what you begin to manifest
and be showing up in your life I’m not
after you to stop blaming we believe
elegantly when intelligently when
effectively claim at the level of your
soul not the level of your head
no more blame I’m just not going to
assign responsibility to other people
for where I am because now I have an
opportunity to get rid of it if I think
someone else cards it and I’ve got to
wait for somebody else to change in
order for me to get rid of it and you
might wait forever for that but if I
take responsibility for it I can do
everyone in the world has a list of
things they think they should do I
should lose weight I should work out I
should spend more time with my kids I
should work harder I should make more
calls I should I should I should I
should and then you know what people
don’t do their and they get mad at
himself maybe when I call all over
themselves they’d even help up about
what changes people is when you should
become a bus and suddenly the things
that should happen have to happen
that’s for you to being change it’s like
if you want to take the island and
you’re the head of the army you want to
take the Iron Islands the most powerful
way to take the islands and burn the
boats because there’s no way to go back
it’s amazing what happens when it’s a
must to do something that virtually
should no matter how busy you are no
matter what’s on your plate you
absolutely must if you want to be
legendary you absolutely have to do this
schedule 60 minutes a day for your
learning it could be listening to audio
books it could be the next day listening
to a podcast it might be really quietly
it might be writing in a journal because
writing in a journal about what you’re
learning which I learn from your day
what you’re learning from your life that
is learning but 16 minutes a day
I absolutely challenge you with great
love and respect wire it into your day
because that ritual will allow you to
know more about your field and anyone
who’s ever done your field in the
history of the world if you want to
change the Rope you’ve got to keep
trying new things you’ve got to get
pushing you’ve got to keep falling
we are starting your day at 4:30 in the
morning whatever do that rest of your
day no matter what happens is a brief
you can you’ve tackled the hardest part
of your day no matter what goes on you
have the confidence and you have the
wherewithal the tool belt if you will to
be able to attack sometimes it’s just
showing up and being able to push
yourself a little bit more than
yesterday called finding your heart you
know you find your heart every day and
life is a lot better because what
happens is you’re either the CEO of your
life or you’re going to be someone else
or you’re gonna be life’s employee and
every day if you wake up you don’t take
control of your day and you don’t
dominate the day especially pen start to
finish life is going to own you know if
you’re we come up with a negative
attitude you have to be able to step
back and self obsessed eyeliner badly
and you have to work from that minute
forward to build that tool in your belt
if you will to be able to assess it
address it apply it if you will and then
move forward if you can do that say life
gets exponentially easier and easier and
easier every day before you know it
you’re working with greater efficiency
more confidence more determination and
you’ve set yourself on a path to truly
self generate success but more
we have the power to strip away from the
busyness to do great work that matters
we have the power to be the most
positive people we know we have the
power to shift from making excuses to
creating results you have the power to
use day to make a choice to get really
fit or to create the financial life that
you want if you don’t like the way your
career is your businesses changes you
don’t like your body change you don’t
like your relationships change you first
or did you change it you’ll bring you to
the next one maybe you plan to change it
too but change yourself first if you
want to change any of your life you have
the choice so there’s no right or wrong
I just want to make you aware this
breakthrough session that everything in
our life changes the moment we make a
decision I mean a real decision the
decision is when you cut off any other
possibility and you commit to something
but everything you’ve got and you take
action but the big decisions start with
little decisions like what am I going to
focus on because whatever you focus on
the number one defining factor of
whether we’ve become successful or
average is whether we have grit grit is
the ability to control your vision and
not dilute it when you get laughed at
grit is the ability to try an innovation
experience failure and to say I’m going
to continue and I’m actually going to
learn and use that experience to get me
closer on my path to the mountaintop is
the one thing in life on which we can
absolutely count people who stay young
all the years of their lives not only
welcome change let’s see it for what it
really is new opportunities new chances
for further fulfillment attitude is a
reflection a result of a person’s will
it is incalculably powerful it can bring
about a marvelous result for us but we
need to train it patiently may by day
education is inoculation against
disruption and as you know more you can
achieve I like to use one quote that the
limitations exist only in our minds and
if you start using imagination then your
if you’re going to be successful in
creating the life of your dream you’d
have to believe that you are capable of
making it happen you have to believe
that you have the right stuff so that
you’re able to pull it off now whether
you call it self esteem self confidence
or self assurance
it’s a deep-seated belief that you have
what it takes the abilities inner
resources of talents and the skills to
create your desired results now
believing in yourself is simply an
attitude believing yourself is a choice
you have to choose to believe that you
can do anything you set your mind to
people who reach the top in whatever
they’re doing consistently say that you
need to follow your passion and I think
the number one reason why people fail in
business in life is because they’re not
doing the thing that their passion is
because they’re making too many
decisions with the head and not the
heart we’re for every major decision
that you make in your life the big one
you have to make with your heart and not
your head because your head will lead
you down the wrong path your head only
understands the logical world that
currently exists we are hard to help you
create something that does not yet exist
and you have the ability the skills the
talents the tenacity to be able to
decree something that nobody else has
ever done before
don’t stop narrow your focus
– one ID one and make it work that will
give birth to all the got suggestions
the disc driving cooling is critical to
making the dream come true providing for
your family to make those goals that
purpose that is unique to you real a
real reality not just a concept in your
mind
motivation is literally the desire to do
things and I know you have it anyway
that’s why you’re watching it that
motivation is is different between
waking up before dawn okay to go out
excited and staying in the workplace for
longer than anyone else and then when
you get home at night exhausted you
still can’t go to sleep you’re excited
you’re motivated this is that crucial
element in setting and attain goal
anything you want
possible
the number one thing that’s going to
change your life the only thing that
will change your life change your
business change your money change your
relationship you must raise your
standard
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your life can be too big to allow
yourself to play to smoke the only thing
that changes our life long term is when
we raise our standards it means that all
of us in life have things we want we
don’t get what we want we get what we
have to have what you’re looking for and
what you’re talking about and what you
need it’s self discipline now self
discipline as the very term implies
comes from the self it comes from you it
comes from when you make a decision when
you make a decision to be better when
you make a decision that’s doing more
and to be more well I think the one
thing that this affirm definitely does
copula is it it helps you get things
done and when you get things done when
you actually few things you have more
success
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make some choices with you choices we’re
going to get new results new results
you’re going to get transformers when
you no longer willing to tolerate
something back when your life changes it
also happens you got spring bummer got
the energy but developer campuses we
know that one of the things about high
achievers they all have gold so
literally without goals your
directionless you will be used if people
without gold get used by other people
who have them people that don’t have
goals work for people who do but you
know about Michael Phelps what allow
them to be able to push beyond that
moment is its rituals go study the guy
most people who swim have these
unbelievable workouts he does two and
three of their workout sessions a day
all the other swimmers the beginning
thought he was insane you’re over
trained you can’t do that it’s not
physically possible but he had a
standard and the rituals to back it up
if it was easy everybody would be doing
it they’re always gonna be ups and downs
but I think it’s really how you really
you know get back on your horse and keep
going forward and I think the biggest
thing that I’ve always said it’s never
give up
and I never have and nobody ever should
they want something bad enough they’ll
get it have to work for it yeah it’s not
going to be easy but if you want it bad
enough he’ll do whatever it takes to get
there if you look at great athletes
remember it’s not that they were
naturally talented but whether it’s a
Kobe or Michael Jordan or a Federer it
was the quality of their rituals if you
think you can make a difference it
requires commitment
the pro goes to work and it doesn’t
matter if you’re sick doesn’t matter if
you have kids
doesn’t matter what you you’re a pro and
you go to work and that in that it puts
it in your head that this is what I do
if you don’t do the work steadily every
day like an athlete going to the gym and
practicing if you don’t do the work if
you don’t act on the idea that you don’t
integrate them if you don’t show some
self-discipline no idea will work unless
you do the work everyone in the world
has a list of things they think they
should do I should lose weight I should
work out I should work harder I should I
should I should I should I mean you know
what what changes people you should
become hot and suddenly the things that
should happen have to happen that can
you be
unless you take some new action unless
you start taking some new unless
you start having some new convert unless
you have the guts clean up some of the
things they’re not looking and install
some of the new rituals that will run
nothing in the roads of success is
through commitment and through the
strength to drive through that
commitment when it gets hard and it is
going to get hard and we’re going to
want to quit sometimes but it’ll be
colored by who you are and more who you
want to be you want to know what makes
us happy progress that’s it
I don’t care how big your life is
compared to other people progress is the
game my friends is being alive there is
no single secret of success there are
hundreds of things that you have to do
the most important quality for success
is self-discipline it’s self discipline
you see most people know that they need
to get up earlier and they need to work
harder and they need to study and become
better at what they do and they need to
set goals and manage their time and
learn new things they know this but they
don’t have the discipline to do it so
the starting point of success is always
to be doing something that you’re not
totally committed to if you’re doing
something that you’re not totally
passionate about you’re compromising
yourself every day most of you most of
you are waking up every day looking for
pain dysfunction drama unemployment
that’s stopping you from becoming
yourself when you resolve this is how
it’s going to be that’s when you cut off
any possibility except the thing you’ve
committed to it’s like the old adage if
you want to take the island we burn the
boat so when you burn those boats
there’s no going back you’re going to
find a way to make things work and most
people they’re standing what they hope
will come together and if it doesn’t
happen then they’re disappointed look
they’re not too disappointed if they’re
not too vested you are the reason you’re
not work
you keep messing with negative evil and
dysfunctional people’s and expecting
positive results it’s time you get off
the pity potty stop complaining about
being out of shape when you never go to
the gym you are the reason you look the
way you look you’re the reason you’re
unemployed you’re the reason why your
surroundings are so dysfunctional and
negative when you get to the point where
all you want to do is be successful as
bad as you want to breathe then you’ll
be successful
you gotta have a plan everybody’s got a
dream
everybody’s got a goal what’s the plan
and your plan is got to have something I
call the c5 complex your plan is got to
be clear concise compelling statistics
and committed you’ve got to have a claim
but when you’re trying to do something
that you’re really passionate about
there is no plan B that most of you say
you want to be successful but you don’t
want it bad you just kind of want it you
don’t want it badder than you want a
party you don’t want it as much as you
want to be cool you most of you don’t
want success as much as you want to
sleep some being loved sleep more than
you love success and I’m here to tell
you today if you’re going to be
successful you’ve got to be willing to
give up sleep excuses sound best to the
people that’s making them up you got
every excuse in the world that’s why
your English not playing nothing
change and nothing will change because
you have convinced yourself but
everything is wrong everything in mega
is negative and nothing will change and
guess what it won’t change change your
mind and it will change your life change
if nothing around you changes change the
changing your life is a change in the
inner game the outside world you can’t
control but you absolute control over
the money if you learn the dynamics of
what shapes you and identity is one of
those simple clear fundamental basics
that if you start to shift it everything
else will shift in your life as well
I stopped being a victim I stopped
saying I’ve gotta wait for good things
to happen to me I said I’m gonna cry I’m
going to fight I’m going to work I’m
going to press toward I’m going to learn
I’m going to do everything in my power
every single day I’m going to do
everything in my power to become a fixer
not a victim now let me say this before
I move forward and I can’t explain it
you better feel winners win and losers
lose and success by the way is not some
overnight event it’s all these little
things success is having a vision
success is making it compelling success
is really seeing and feeling they’re
behaving strong enough reason success he
is feeling it sensing I am here to grow
I’m here to give something to the world
more than just my dog don’t allow any
friends family acquaintances featured
whoever it is don’t allow any to tell
you that what you are dreaming to
yourself and your family is not funny
it is fun
because you let your dream get away from
you if you’re not where you want to be
it’s because you’re not right now and
dreaming and opening the back way to
change the situation I’m not saying
there’s anything wrong with drinking
we’ll talk about that I’m not talking
about you know not having a bitch you
have a bitch to the screen where you
watch the first one and if you’re going
to get somewhere else you go have to
change something doctor said I would
never walk they said I would never run
they said I would never jump play sports
and Here I am defying the life for me
the only true disability in life is a
bad attitude one of the things that’s
causing the spunk to people around is
that we’re living our lives many of us
live in these very unfulfilled ways
where you’re going to this office with
artificial light and you’re doing
something you don’t want to do all day
long and then you get home and you’re
tired we’re supposed to be out in the
fields we’re supposed to be walking up
hills we’re supposed to be looking for
animals or gathering vegetables we’re
supposed to be doing all these things
that our body is designed to do we’re
supposed to be in nature I’ve read a
couple of places where that you said
you’ve had a few struggle with
depression from time to time some prozac
for a long time
yep some prozac for for a long time and
I I’m not sure I’m it may have helped me
out of a jam for a little bit people
stay on it forever you know I had to get
off at a certain point because I
realized that you know everything’s just
okay
life is too beautiful so when we have
situations in our life
most people are defined by those
situations emotional they branded them
and they no longer wanna they no longer
want to move forward I’m going to sit
and cry and be upset and be mad about it
I’m going to do something about it I’m
thankful that I’m missing my legs I’m
thankful for that because it allowed me
to learn certain things and gain certain
your adversity is your advantage and
that your past whether you had a
terrible childhood or whether you’ve
suffered from some difficult experiences
in life you should cherish those as your
advantage because that was the training
that gave you the muscle development to
go do extraordinary things that ordinary
people just can’t do the world ain’t all
sunshine and rainbows it’s a very mean
and nasty place and I don’t care how
tough you are it will beat you to your
knees and keep you there permanently if
you let it you me or nobody is gonna hit
as hard as life but it ain’t about how
hard you hit it’s about how hard you can
get hit and keep moving forward how much
it takes and keep moving forward that’s
how we did it son
now if you know what you’re worth and
wanna get what you’re worth but you
gotta be willing to take the hit and not
pointing fingers saying you ain’t where
you want to be because of him or her or
anybody you’re either the CEO of your
life or you’re going to be someone else
here you’re gonna be life’s employee and
every day if you wake up you don’t take
control of your day and you don’t
dominate the day especially ten starts a
sentence life is going to own you you
know if you’re we come up with a
negative attitude you have to be able to
step back to self assess why I’m in a
bad mood and you have to work from that
minute forward to build that tool in
your belt if you will to be able to
assess it address it apply it if you
will and then move forward if you can do
that save life is exponentially easier
what you’re looking for and what you’re
talking about and what you need is
self-discipline
now self-discipline as the very term
implies comes from the self it comes
from you
it comes from when you make a decision
to be disciplined when you make a
decision to be better when you make a
decision to do more and to be more how
do you create your life you get hungry
for something don’t you who has done
something your life that once seems
difficult or impossible and now it’s a
part of your life it was just a vision
may have seemed impossible one time so
how did you do it started with a
concrete vision of what you wanted and
you focused on it continuously didn’t
you where ever focus goes energy love
digits nothing to get clear about it and
in Farsi – the whole season white one
get excited about this it was next to me
now I want it yes we’ve got a part of us
talk about where we focus our focus
bikinis be something magical happens the
inside Junction over your conversation
your something wouldn’t hurt you now
that how to resolve is one command in
you now looking at me now Here I am
you mean there’s no difference between
Miami and the only thing is you’re
trying to get Ken anyway no matter what
anybody says no matter what anybody
tells you you have to know beyond
knowing when something is going on news
for you something for you therefore
feeling that Lee Jong’s I will not allow
you have it will it will keep you going
when you can’t even keep yourself going
the number one thing that’s going to
change your life the only thing the big
slice to the different teams and money
changing relationship you must way more
standard learning my favorite
everybody would have a list of things
they could say you what Candice
because we should become hot we suddenly
the things that should happen have to
happen now communities can make some
choices we do choices you’re going to
get new results with new results you’re
I was cool because it didn’t have
anything I had no money I had no think
you did notice future with nothing at
kick at it is rich
start looking into the pieces of what
you would like to accomplish where you
would like to go person you’d like to be
and see if you can’t get a better
picture of the finish subjective see
yourself there in yourself in possession
odd I did a year and that just wasn’t
for me and our dream is the world
champion more lightweight coming in the
UFC and more money than I know what to
do it I have a great life for me my kids
my grandkids
everyone in my family everyone come up
with me that’s my dream my dream to be
number one pretty much my goal is number
one MMA so many people think that but
you have to have a mother or father in
your life and you have to go to a
certain school Pat when I believe it
when you wake up and you’re ready to
like live at that point I can help
weight loss where you want to be that’s
why they don’t some people think you
look at certain successful people maybe
their fathers have comes out and
butterflies I’m like oh it doesn’t make
a difference if they passed it down or
not everybody’s gotta wake up in crime
you want to work like him one of the
works to have whatever there there’s a
road to success
through commitment and through the
strength to drive through that
commitment when it gets hard and it is
going to be partners are going to want
to quit sometimes but it’ll be colored
by who you are and
no he watch the people
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you that mind control the move your life
where you want it to be if the things I
always get stronger faster smart quicker
friendlier more helpful more driven
don’t make no mind control you control
your mind and once you control your mind
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America today Warren Buffett Michael
Dell of course Bill Gates Paul Allen and
the walton family all first generation
multi billionaires and the wonderful
thing is if you do what other successful
people do you eventually get the same
results that they do there are many ways
to get the things that we want for
ourselves in our lives but basically it
all begins with how we choose to think
if you really want to get lasting change
real results that stick around what you
got to do if you want lasting change
you’ve got to give up this idea of
trying something you get a slide you’re
going to commit to mastery most people
dabble they they talk about what I’d
like to change my body I’d like to
change my relationship better I’d like
to have more passion there but they
don’t know what to do and even if they
did they don’t have enough detail to be
able to follow through if we want to
achieve another result that we’ve never
achieved before then we have to become
somebody different we have to upgrade
our skill we have to update our
behaviors we have to match our emotions
that are self-made millionaires have
been studied exhaustively they’ve been
analyzed they’ve been interviewed by the
hundreds of thousands of millions and
what we know is exactly who they are and
what they do and how they think
and the wonderful thing is if you do
what other successful people do you
eventually get the same result that they
do Walt Disney said if you can dream
that you can do it which means you’re
never given a dream that comes out of
your own desire of place that isn’t
something you have the capacity to
fulfill you may have to learn from your
skills you may have to partner up with
some people you may need to learn some
you know how to access some new
resources along the way but all of that
is possible if you’ll simply dream the
big dream have a mind that is open to
everything and attach for nothing one of
the central principles of my life is
that no one knows enough to be a
pessimist about anything and that each
and every one of us when we close our
minds to what is possible for us or what
is possible for Humanity closes off the
genius that resides and lives in each
and every one of us
decide what you want you can’t get from
here to there unless you know where here
is and various but you’re going to
decide what you want go for what you
want not what you think is possible
most people hone down their dream
because they can’t see how they can do
it and I’m saying to you dream as big as
you want in fact big dreams are exciting
big dreams attract big people I had a
teacher named Jim Rohn he was a personal
development speaker and I remember I was
really frustrated and I’ve been working
my guts out 12 14 hour days nothing was
working and I was pissed off as
frustrated he said Tony said you’re so
focused on expecting things to happen so
fast and he said you know if you really
focus instead on building your skills
your gifts will make room for you today
people have no patience we all want it
right now and people don’t only not
commit to mastery they think you have
all the answers they try a few things or
it doesn’t work they render something
else if you want a great jump and it’s
holding your life an extraordinary jump
for the quality of your life you got to
set yourself up to win
you got to set yourself up for the
progress that allows you to consistently
grow consistently enjoy your life and
consistently produce the result that
you’re really after extensive is is very
simple if you have a clear goal make a
plan to achieve it and then do something
at least one thing each day the Mooji
one step closer to your most important
goal progress people balance if you’re
growing at any financially spiritually
emotionally in your relationship your
body you’re going to feel better in your
life where we’re made for and I think
for men to grow flip-up and again no you
can’t get them really fast
one good habits and make them your
masters most people are interested
they’re not committed and the
differences in the agency to do with
communities in the feed when you’re
committed to do whatever in case when
you’re interested you do what’s easy and
what’s convenient but when you’re
committed I’m going to get that result
you put everything into it until you get
the results you got to get going you got
to take action the disciplines is a
miracle project and here’s how to get
the miracle of your future going the
participant for concern number one do
what you can
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learning is the beginning of well
learning is the beginning of life change
don’t be lazy and learning don’t be lazy
and picking up the ideas don’t be lazy
and learning from your own experience
how many times have you had a great idea
didn’t do anything about it and then the
year later someone did something about
it made a lot of money got the promotion
etc so when you have the idea the
inspiration to act it’s time that you
don’t have to know it perfectly if you
decide you’re going to do something do
it you know they’ve done dozens and
dozens of studies over the years they
find it as one major difference to
successful people and unsuccessful
people have successful people launched
they start to get on with it they just
do it unsuccessful people get the same
ideas in the same information but
they’ve always got an excuse for not
starting if you have a big enough reason
why you want to achieve something you do
it every occasion but if your reason
isn’t big enough your excuses will be
and one of the things that we kind of
believe and hang on to and live with is
this whole idea that all of the things
that happen to me in my path are what
are keeping me from doing what I’d like
to do today so we hang on to these
things and we fill ourselves with blame
life is not so simple as black and white
my mother beat the out of me she
loved me she was freaked out I was gonna
leave I was a source of everything I
blamed her for all the B’s in my life I
blame her that I haven’t woman have in
my life because I cherished my life
because I know what the opposite is I
blame her for the capacity of feel and
care I blame is my insatiable hunger to
end suffering for any human I can
because I suffered the son get
emotionally fit by learning to trade
what upsets you which is your
expectations that aren’t being met trade
your expectations for appreciation for
what you do have your whole life changes
in a moment because our expectations
make a fist offer frustrated words or
sad and we all have them and I have them
too but when I come up I just remind
myself this is just my mind
I’m more than this mind I got a heart
and soul what can I appreciate how can I
use this challenge to go to a deeper
level and that’s the only way we get
free the only way to have a great life
is decide I’m going to find beauty and
anything that happens for my life I’m
sure if you look back on your life most
of us have that experiences where if
something horrible happens something you
never want to go through again in your
lifetime but at the same time you know
that five tickets later you look back
and go I would never want to go through
that I’ve never wanted building I care
about to go through that but I’m glad I
did because they may be so strong to
when you change the way you look at
what makes us suffer is our thoughts
right we’re the only creatures on earth
that can have fought and then make
ourself feel like or have lots of
it that don’t feel good and most people
don’t master their mind and so their
minds will crazy and we believe our
thoughts we believe that if this doesn’t
happen our lives are going to be so
stressed or over and most of it is just
bull the mind is looking for what’s
wrong your heart can change all that if
you decide today that’s all we got
across from this beef I actually reached
it is for you to decide that I’m a
hundred percent responsible experienced
in my life
and that anything can happen I am bigger
than the moment I am more than anything
it happened to me and I can find a way
to find something beautiful something
change your thought and you change your
world change your expectation and you
change around what you begin to manifest
and be showing up in your life I’m not
after you to stop blaming we believe
elegantly when intelligently when
effectively claim at the level of your
soul not the level of your head
no more blame I’m just not going to
assign responsibility to other people
for where I am because now I have an
opportunity to get rid of it if I think
someone else cards it and I’ve got to
wait for somebody else to change in
order for me to get rid of it and you
might wait forever for that but if I
take responsibility for it I can do
everyone in the world has a list of
things they think they should do I
should lose weight I should work out I
should spend more time with my kids I
should work harder I should make more
calls I should I should I should I
should and then you know what people
don’t do their and they get mad at
himself maybe when I call all over
themselves they’d even help up about
what changes people is when you should
become a bus and suddenly the things
that should happen have to happen
that’s for you to being change it’s like
if you want to take the island and
you’re the head of the army you want to
take the Iron Islands the most powerful
way to take the islands and burn the
boats because there’s no way to go back
it’s amazing what happens when it’s a
must to do something that virtually
should no matter how busy you are no
matter what’s on your plate you
absolutely must if you want to be
legendary you absolutely have to do this
schedule 60 minutes a day for your
learning it could be listening to audio
books it could be the next day listening
to a podcast it might be really quietly
it might be writing in a journal because
writing in a journal about what you’re
learning which I learn from your day
what you’re learning from your life that
is learning but 16 minutes a day
I absolutely challenge you with great
love and respect wire it into your day
because that ritual will allow you to
know more about your field and anyone
who’s ever done your field in the
history of the world if you want to
change the Rope you’ve got to keep
trying new things you’ve got to get
pushing you’ve got to keep falling
we are starting your day at 4:30 in the
morning whatever do that rest of your
day no matter what happens is a brief
you can you’ve tackled the hardest part
of your day no matter what goes on you
have the confidence and you have the
wherewithal the tool belt if you will to
be able to attack sometimes it’s just
showing up and being able to push
yourself a little bit more than
yesterday called finding your heart you
know you find your heart every day and
life is a lot better because what
happens is you’re either the CEO of your
life or you’re going to be someone else
or you’re gonna be life’s employee and
every day if you wake up you don’t take
control of your day and you don’t
dominate the day especially pen start to
finish life is going to own you know if
you’re we come up with a negative
attitude you have to be able to step
back and self obsessed eyeliner badly
and you have to work from that minute
forward to build that tool in your belt
if you will to be able to assess it
address it apply it if you will and then
move forward if you can do that say life
gets exponentially easier and easier and
easier every day before you know it
you’re working with greater efficiency
more confidence more determination and
you’ve set yourself on a path to truly
self generate success but more
we have the power to strip away from the
busyness to do great work that matters
we have the power to be the most
positive people we know we have the
power to shift from making excuses to
creating results you have the power to
use day to make a choice to get really
fit or to create the financial life that
you want if you don’t like the way your
career is your businesses changes you
don’t like your body change you don’t
like your relationships change you first
or did you change it you’ll bring you to
the next one maybe you plan to change it
too but change yourself first if you
want to change any of your life you have
the choice so there’s no right or wrong
I just want to make you aware this
breakthrough session that everything in
our life changes the moment we make a
decision I mean a real decision the
decision is when you cut off any other
possibility and you commit to something
but everything you’ve got and you take
action but the big decisions start with
little decisions like what am I going to
focus on because whatever you focus on
the number one defining factor of
whether we’ve become successful or
average is whether we have grit grit is
the ability to control your vision and
not dilute it when you get laughed at
grit is the ability to try an innovation
experience failure and to say I’m going
to continue and I’m actually going to
learn and use that experience to get me
closer on my path to the mountaintop is
the one thing in life on which we can
absolutely count people who stay young
all the years of their lives not only
welcome change let’s see it for what it
really is new opportunities new chances
for further fulfillment attitude is a
reflection a result of a person’s will
it is incalculably powerful it can bring
about a marvelous result for us but we
need to train it patiently may by day
education is inoculation against
disruption and as you know more you can
achieve I like to use one quote that the
limitations exist only in our minds and
if you start using imagination then your
if you’re going to be successful in
creating the life of your dream you’d
have to believe that you are capable of
making it happen you have to believe
that you have the right stuff so that
you’re able to pull it off now whether
you call it self esteem self confidence
or self assurance
it’s a deep-seated belief that you have
what it takes the abilities inner
resources of talents and the skills to
create your desired results now
believing in yourself is simply an
attitude believing yourself is a choice
you have to choose to believe that you
can do anything you set your mind to
people who reach the top in whatever
they’re doing consistently say that you
need to follow your passion and I think
the number one reason why people fail in
business in life is because they’re not
doing the thing that their passion is
because they’re making too many
decisions with the head and not the
heart we’re for every major decision
that you make in your life the big one
you have to make with your heart and not
your head because your head will lead
you down the wrong path your head only
understands the logical world that
currently exists we are hard to help you
create something that does not yet exist
and you have the ability the skills the
talents the tenacity to be able to
decree something that nobody else has
ever done before
don’t stop narrow your focus
– one ID one and make it work that will
give birth to all the got suggestions
the disc driving cooling is critical to
making the dream come true providing for
your family to make those goals that
purpose that is unique to you real a
real reality not just a concept in your
mind
motivation is literally the desire to do
things and I know you have it anyway
that’s why you’re watching it that
motivation is is different between
waking up before dawn okay to go out
excited and staying in the workplace for
longer than anyone else and then when
you get home at night exhausted you
still can’t go to sleep you’re excited
you’re motivated this is that crucial
element in setting and attain goal
anything you want
possible
the number one thing that’s going to
change your life the only thing that
will change your life change your
business change your money change your
relationship you must raise your
standard
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your life can be too big to allow
yourself to play to smoke the only thing
that changes our life long term is when
we raise our standards it means that all
of us in life have things we want we
don’t get what we want we get what we
have to have what you’re looking for and
what you’re talking about and what you
need it’s self discipline now self
discipline as the very term implies
comes from the self it comes from you it
comes from when you make a decision when
you make a decision to be better when
you make a decision that’s doing more
and to be more well I think the one
thing that this affirm definitely does
copula is it it helps you get things
done and when you get things done when
you actually few things you have more
success
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make some choices with you choices we’re
going to get new results new results
you’re going to get transformers when
you no longer willing to tolerate
something back when your life changes it
also happens you got spring bummer got
the energy but developer campuses we
know that one of the things about high
achievers they all have gold so
literally without goals your
directionless you will be used if people
without gold get used by other people
who have them people that don’t have
goals work for people who do but you
know about Michael Phelps what allow
them to be able to push beyond that
moment is its rituals go study the guy
most people who swim have these
unbelievable workouts he does two and
three of their workout sessions a day
all the other swimmers the beginning
thought he was insane you’re over
trained you can’t do that it’s not
physically possible but he had a
standard and the rituals to back it up
if it was easy everybody would be doing
it they’re always gonna be ups and downs
but I think it’s really how you really
you know get back on your horse and keep
going forward and I think the biggest
thing that I’ve always said it’s never
give up
and I never have and nobody ever should
they want something bad enough they’ll
get it have to work for it yeah it’s not
going to be easy but if you want it bad
enough he’ll do whatever it takes to get
there if you look at great athletes
remember it’s not that they were
naturally talented but whether it’s a
Kobe or Michael Jordan or a Federer it
was the quality of their rituals if you
think you can make a difference it
requires commitment
the pro goes to work and it doesn’t
matter if you’re sick doesn’t matter if
you have kids
doesn’t matter what you you’re a pro and
you go to work and that in that it puts
it in your head that this is what I do
if you don’t do the work steadily every
day like an athlete going to the gym and
practicing if you don’t do the work if
you don’t act on the idea that you don’t
integrate them if you don’t show some
self-discipline no idea will work unless
you do the work everyone in the world
has a list of things they think they
should do I should lose weight I should
work out I should work harder I should I
should I should I should I mean you know
what what changes people you should
become hot and suddenly the things that
should happen have to happen that can
you be
unless you take some new action unless
you start taking some new unless
you start having some new convert unless
you have the guts clean up some of the
things they’re not looking and install
some of the new rituals that will run
nothing in the roads of success is
through commitment and through the
strength to drive through that
commitment when it gets hard and it is
going to get hard and we’re going to
want to quit sometimes but it’ll be
colored by who you are and more who you
want to be you want to know what makes
us happy progress that’s it
I don’t care how big your life is
compared to other people progress is the
game my friends is being alive there is
no single secret of success there are
hundreds of things that you have to do
the most important quality for success
is self-discipline it’s self discipline
you see most people know that they need
to get up earlier and they need to work
harder and they need to study and become
better at what they do and they need to
set goals and manage their time and
learn new things they know this but they
don’t have the discipline to do it so
the starting point of success is always
to be doing something that you’re not
totally committed to if you’re doing
something that you’re not totally
passionate about you’re compromising
yourself every day most of you most of
you are waking up every day looking for
pain dysfunction drama unemployment
that’s stopping you from becoming
yourself when you resolve this is how
it’s going to be that’s when you cut off
any possibility except the thing you’ve
committed to it’s like the old adage if
you want to take the island we burn the
boat so when you burn those boats
there’s no going back you’re going to
find a way to make things work and most
people they’re standing what they hope
will come together and if it doesn’t
happen then they’re disappointed look
they’re not too disappointed if they’re
not too vested you are the reason you’re
not work
you keep messing with negative evil and
dysfunctional people’s and expecting
positive results it’s time you get off
the pity potty stop complaining about
being out of shape when you never go to
the gym you are the reason you look the
way you look you’re the reason you’re
unemployed you’re the reason why your
surroundings are so dysfunctional and
negative when you get to the point where
all you want to do is be successful as
bad as you want to breathe then you’ll
be successful
you gotta have a plan everybody’s got a
dream
everybody’s got a goal what’s the plan
and your plan is got to have something I
call the c5 complex your plan is got to
be clear concise compelling statistics
and committed you’ve got to have a claim
but when you’re trying to do something
that you’re really passionate about
there is no plan B that most of you say
you want to be successful but you don’t
want it bad you just kind of want it you
don’t want it badder than you want a
party you don’t want it as much as you
want to be cool you most of you don’t
want success as much as you want to
sleep some being loved sleep more than
you love success and I’m here to tell
you today if you’re going to be
successful you’ve got to be willing to
give up sleep excuses sound best to the
people that’s making them up you got
every excuse in the world that’s why
your English not playing nothing
change and nothing will change because
you have convinced yourself but
everything is wrong everything in mega
is negative and nothing will change and
guess what it won’t change change your
mind and it will change your life change
if nothing around you changes change the
changing your life is a change in the
inner game the outside world you can’t
control but you absolute control over
the money if you learn the dynamics of
what shapes you and identity is one of
those simple clear fundamental basics
that if you start to shift it everything
else will shift in your life as well
I stopped being a victim I stopped
saying I’ve gotta wait for good things
to happen to me I said I’m gonna cry I’m
going to fight I’m going to work I’m
going to press toward I’m going to learn
I’m going to do everything in my power
every single day I’m going to do
everything in my power to become a fixer
not a victim now let me say this before
I move forward and I can’t explain it
you better feel winners win and losers
lose and success by the way is not some
overnight event it’s all these little
things success is having a vision
success is making it compelling success
is really seeing and feeling they’re
behaving strong enough reason success he
is feeling it sensing I am here to grow
I’m here to give something to the world
more than just my dog don’t allow any
friends family acquaintances featured
whoever it is don’t allow any to tell
you that what you are dreaming to
yourself and your family is not funny
it is fun
because you let your dream get away from
you if you’re not where you want to be
it’s because you’re not right now and
dreaming and opening the back way to
change the situation I’m not saying
there’s anything wrong with drinking
we’ll talk about that I’m not talking
about you know not having a bitch you
have a bitch to the screen where you
watch the first one and if you’re going
to get somewhere else you go have to
change something doctor said I would
never walk they said I would never run
they said I would never jump play sports
and Here I am defying the life for me
the only true disability in life is a
bad attitude one of the things that’s
causing the spunk to people around is
that we’re living our lives many of us
live in these very unfulfilled ways
where you’re going to this office with
artificial light and you’re doing
something you don’t want to do all day
long and then you get home and you’re
tired we’re supposed to be out in the
fields we’re supposed to be walking up
hills we’re supposed to be looking for
animals or gathering vegetables we’re
supposed to be doing all these things
that our body is designed to do we’re
supposed to be in nature I’ve read a
couple of places where that you said
you’ve had a few struggle with
depression from time to time some prozac
for a long time
yep some prozac for for a long time and
I I’m not sure I’m it may have helped me
out of a jam for a little bit people
stay on it forever you know I had to get
off at a certain point because I
realized that you know everything’s just
okay
life is too beautiful so when we have
situations in our life
most people are defined by those
situations emotional they branded them
and they no longer wanna they no longer
want to move forward I’m going to sit
and cry and be upset and be mad about it
I’m going to do something about it I’m
thankful that I’m missing my legs I’m
thankful for that because it allowed me
to learn certain things and gain certain
your adversity is your advantage and
that your past whether you had a
terrible childhood or whether you’ve
suffered from some difficult experiences
in life you should cherish those as your
advantage because that was the training
that gave you the muscle development to
go do extraordinary things that ordinary
people just can’t do the world ain’t all
sunshine and rainbows it’s a very mean
and nasty place and I don’t care how
tough you are it will beat you to your
knees and keep you there permanently if
you let it you me or nobody is gonna hit
as hard as life but it ain’t about how
hard you hit it’s about how hard you can
get hit and keep moving forward how much
it takes and keep moving forward that’s
how we did it son
now if you know what you’re worth and
wanna get what you’re worth but you
gotta be willing to take the hit and not
pointing fingers saying you ain’t where
you want to be because of him or her or
anybody you’re either the CEO of your
life or you’re going to be someone else
here you’re gonna be life’s employee and
every day if you wake up you don’t take
control of your day and you don’t
dominate the day especially ten starts a
sentence life is going to own you you
know if you’re we come up with a
negative attitude you have to be able to
step back to self assess why I’m in a
bad mood and you have to work from that
minute forward to build that tool in
your belt if you will to be able to
assess it address it apply it if you
will and then move forward if you can do
that save life is exponentially easier
what you’re looking for and what you’re
talking about and what you need is
self-discipline
now self-discipline as the very term
implies comes from the self it comes
from you
it comes from when you make a decision
to be disciplined when you make a
decision to be better when you make a
decision to do more and to be more how
do you create your life you get hungry
for something don’t you who has done
something your life that once seems
difficult or impossible and now it’s a
part of your life it was just a vision
may have seemed impossible one time so
how did you do it started with a
concrete vision of what you wanted and
you focused on it continuously didn’t
you where ever focus goes energy love
digits nothing to get clear about it and
in Farsi – the whole season white one
get excited about this it was next to me
now I want it yes we’ve got a part of us
talk about where we focus our focus
bikinis be something magical happens the
inside Junction over your conversation
your something wouldn’t hurt you now
that how to resolve is one command in
you now looking at me now Here I am
you mean there’s no difference between
Miami and the only thing is you’re
trying to get Ken anyway no matter what
anybody says no matter what anybody
tells you you have to know beyond
knowing when something is going on news
for you something for you therefore
feeling that Lee Jong’s I will not allow
you have it will it will keep you going
when you can’t even keep yourself going
the number one thing that’s going to
change your life the only thing the big
slice to the different teams and money
changing relationship you must way more
standard learning my favorite
everybody would have a list of things
they could say you what Candice
because we should become hot we suddenly
the things that should happen have to
happen now communities can make some
choices we do choices you’re going to
get new results with new results you’re
I was cool because it didn’t have
anything I had no money I had no think
you did notice future with nothing at
kick at it is rich
start looking into the pieces of what
you would like to accomplish where you
would like to go person you’d like to be
and see if you can’t get a better
picture of the finish subjective see
yourself there in yourself in possession
odd I did a year and that just wasn’t
for me and our dream is the world
champion more lightweight coming in the
UFC and more money than I know what to
do it I have a great life for me my kids
my grandkids
everyone in my family everyone come up
with me that’s my dream my dream to be
number one pretty much my goal is number
one MMA so many people think that but
you have to have a mother or father in
your life and you have to go to a
certain school Pat when I believe it
when you wake up and you’re ready to
like live at that point I can help
weight loss where you want to be that’s
why they don’t some people think you
look at certain successful people maybe
their fathers have comes out and
butterflies I’m like oh it doesn’t make
a difference if they passed it down or
not everybody’s gotta wake up in crime
you want to work like him one of the
works to have whatever there there’s a
road to success
through commitment and through the
strength to drive through that
commitment when it gets hard and it is
going to be partners are going to want
to quit sometimes but it’ll be colored
by who you are and
no he watch the people
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where you want it to be if the things I
always get stronger faster smart quicker
friendlier more helpful more driven
don’t make no mind control you control
your mind and once you control your mind
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