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10 Simple Ways to Love Someone


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he some senate waters diving deep once
again we’re out here in nature baby got
a t-shirt on the arms out that’s
beautiful shows it’s not cold ten ways
to love someone
this is sexology water fire hot cold
yin-yang we’re back daddy’s home let’s
just whoa breathing in that good ass
prana baby so someone wrote to me saying
ralph hi
i used to really love this person and i
still do and they were open to me then
they close themselves off for me then
they will open then they close
themselves up for me then they open one
day then they’re close next day i mean
so let me share with you what helped me
along my journey love someone no
relationship is a waste of time if it
didn’t bring you what you want it
definitely taught you what you don’t
want and a lot of us we are meeting all
kinds of people along our journey some
we like some we want to run away from
and some that touch our heart and some
we want to open up to when we talk of
loving someone the first way to love
someone that’s helped me along my
journeys realize that when you want to
love someone you have to know what love
isn’t and for me love isn’t about
perfection love isn’t about being
perfect it doesn’t have to be perfect it
only has to be real slow motion this
I too like you was raised on Disney
films and fairytales and then I was like
there’s no Castle around here this isn’t
a fairy tale
life is so real it’s unbelievable and
therefore when we stop trying to speak
perception in other people we will
actually find authenticity when we stop
trying to seek perfection in other
people we will actually find
authenticity because we are so concerned
about finding the perfect person that we
actually forget that we aren’t even
perfect ourselves no we’re not we can
only be real we can only be authentic
but we’re not here to be perfect we’re
not Saints all the time and that’s okay
and if you can realize that I get it I
can love this person flaws as much as I
love their laughter you can love this
person’s flaws as much as you love their
laughter as much as you love their
crying as much as you love everything
about them but don’t just think that
people are going to be one way like
someone’s going to let their hair down
from a castle it just doesn’t happen
like that or maybe it does somewhere
it’s just not on planet earth right now
okay
perfection is an illusion authenticity
is real and that’s what helped me love
someone to say hey I’m going to accept
that person and I’m not going to try and
change them around love is not about
altering what is before you it is about
accepting it and choosing to accept it
for what it is the second way to love
someone that’s helped me along my
journey is to realize this love is not
ownership it’s not like you’re going to
the car dealership and saying okay I
want that car I want that one
if ever you said that like buying two
cars at once right you’re just like I’ll
take that Cup
like it’s not about being possessive and
so many of us this human love which a
lot of it is very egotistical because
it’s just mine my love mine just like
you would say this is my computer this
is my phone and love is totally
different from that and that’s why a lot
of us we either get into a relationship
or we’re seeing someone and we are in
for a rude awakening when we realize we
don’t possess or own anyone that’s like
a total illusion and once you realize
that you actually start loving someone a
whole lot more because you’re like I am
honored to be in your presence right now
it’s like oh thanks so much like this is
like I feel honored right now but you
see when you say this is mine
I possess this person I own this person
they have a curfew time they must come
in by has it ever happened to you in a
relationship like when someone tells you
when you can go out and when you have to
be inside what the hell is that like did
they buy you in a shop or something
right you are free being and that’s the
higher love water relationship where
people realize people are giving you
their time you have to be thankful for
that as opposed to feeling it is a right
of yours the faith I possess this person
because in actuality you actually push
people further away when you say I own
you
you see let a bird fly free from the
cage and if it comes back then it loves
you but I didn’t come back Ralph well
then it doesn’t love you this business
actually it came back it loves you and
loves you the birds love you they’re
singing for you right now right
what is the third way the third way to
love someone all it takes is to love
yourself a little bit more to love other
people a whole lot more love yourself a
little bit more to love yourself to love
covers a whole lot more so love yourself
a little bit more to love others a whole
lot more you get it a lot of us we don’t
realize that it starts with self love
because there is no way you are going to
love someone else if you don’t love
yourself and a lot of us we’re always
speaking outside of ourselves to feel
complete and that’s great because other
people can actually enhance our own
happiness for sure well where so many of
us go wrong and loving someone else is
that we forget about you have to love
yourself to begin with to even love
someone else otherwise what will happen
is you’ll find yourself having a lot of
insecurities because you don’t feel good
within your own skin so what helped me
along my journey love someone was to say
I got to love myself first
I got to accept myself I love my skin I
love my smile I love a lot about myself
and that’s why I can love someone else
hello motion these sites that bud is
singing to you right now what’s the
fourth way to love someone seven days
Egon challenge respect my bowl respect
my plate oh yes I was in a relationship
with someone who was needing a
plant-based diet many years ago and we
really did have an affinity for each
other it’s just that she didn’t respect
my boat because I would be saying how
beautiful a plant-based diet was and she
just wasn’t interested and I’m like why
am I here and I really didn’t respect
her Bowl either what she was eating cuz
I’m like hey I’m letting go of a lot of
meat dairy I’m eating more plant-based
diet and it’s like both of us
what respecting each other’s vote and
therefore it was harder for me to open
up to her and vice-versa it was hardest
for me was harder for me to love her
because I didn’t respect her Bowl and
she didn’t respect mine so then I met a
vegan
alright it became a whole lot easier
because we respected each other’s bowls
we respected each other’s food values we
both love animals and if you find
someone where both of you have a similar
eating attitude and food attitude food
value system that’s what I call it the
food value system then it’s going to be
a whole lot easier to love someone and
you’re going to see the reciprocity
being shown all throughout the
connection because both of you respect
each other’s roles so the goodness sake
respect my bowl right I respect everyone
Bowl on snapchat right that beautiful
kale Lemon test smoothie I respect that
right what is number 5
now what I’ve seen along my journey is
that to really love someone
what help me is to ask yourself what can
I bring out of them am i bringing the
best energy out of them are they
bringing the best energy out of me you
see because we close ourselves off from
people who don’t bring anything good out
of us if they’re just bringing up a
whole load of drama in you gossip
cobwebs and really lower energy like a
lot of us we just don’t love people who
do that to us like bring the worst out
of us all the time and I’m like it’s
really about bringing the authentic out
of people but also bringing the best out
of people that’s how to love someone you
can’t hurt them a lot of people they
have neg and psychologies we’re right
neg is where you kind of fell insults
someone expecting them to give you more
attention because they’re like oh you
just insulted me like why did you do
that doesn’t work here’s why you might
get their attention but you definitely
won’t get their heart space people open
up to you when you bring out the best in
them when you encourage them when you
comfort their insecurities right that’s
how to love someone slow motion this
side what’s number six oh it feels so
breathing in that good ass prana baby
love is not manipulation love is not
thought love is slow and that’s what
I’ve discovered along my journey because
many times we are around someone with
someone and we’re still trying to
control that person this is like
Cinderella does the shoe fit yes or no
it’s very clear-cut sometimes and we are
not willing to see that so
we can’t manipulate anyone we can try
and it might work for you second for a
few minutes or even a few days but
afterwards you’re going to realize the
power of the flow where everyone who is
truly everyone and everyone who is truly
meant to be with you will be with you
always and every day right you can try
and manipulate it’s just not going to
work why because people will wake up
people will wake up keep know what
they’re worthy for when you really want
to love someone you have to not use
force not use manipulation allow the
flow between your connection and that’s
how to really love someone and create a
better connection what’s number seven
what help me along my journey is to love
people for them not how much money they
have not because they’re inspiring
millions of people or they got a black
t-shirt on or they’ve got a turquoise no
love them for them like who they are
what they represent the energy they
represent you see a relationship is kind
of like a business agreement and
therefore when whenever we are looking
for people someone to come into our
lives we’re also thinking about okay how
much money they have will they take care
of me
where will we go on holiday I want to go
somewhere where it’s hot and tropical
where they’ve got a mango juice every
day for me right I know but when you
really learn and this is what I learned
to really love someone when you strip
away all of that like I don’t care where
you work I don’t care how much money you
have I don’t care you live in a mansion
well actually I do but that’s another
story okay I don’t care about that I
care about you I love you for you
not what I can get out of you not the
places I can go because I’m with you
know I love you for you and that’s
really how to love someone when you love
them for them what is number eight many
of us we have hidden agendas okay along
our journey when it comes to water fire
hot Kody and yank acknowledge right
meeting someone there’s a lot of hidden
agendas certain people get with someone
to go somewhere else
certain people use people some people
just want to be with someone to say I
was with someone I was with a famous
celebrity and I got with them just to
say that right to really love someone
you have to love without hidden agendas
and it’s really really hard to do
because once again it’s not about taking
from someone it’s about saying what can
I give to them and it’s about them
saying what can they give to you so I’ve
learned that to truly love someone you
got to love without agendas you got to
love because it’s something that you
want to do and let’s talk about number
nine honesty saves a lot of time
honesty save everyone a lot of time
honesty save everyone a lot of time okay
I get it Ralph I’m just being honest
right now that’s how to love someone
because many times it’s hard to love
people who hide people who lie people
who are honest and many of us
are still learning to become more honest with ourselves in the way we live in
with ourselves in the way we live in being on planet earth in our mission to
being on planet earth in our mission to really love someone you have to be
really love someone you have to be audience to say okay I’m with this
audience to say okay I’m with this person and I’m going to be totally
person and I’m going to be totally honest with them and of course you can
honest with them and of course you can tell if people are honest because you
tell if people are honest because you will feel the vibration but moreso over
will feel the vibration but moreso over time
time people’s true colors start to show okay
people’s true colors start to show okay I remember when I was in a relationship
I remember when I was in a relationship years ago and it was just an honesty of
years ago and it was just an honesty of saying I respect your mission as simple
saying I respect your mission as simple as that
as that be honest like if you’re with someone
be honest like if you’re with someone say okay I respect what you do like I
say okay I respect what you do like I respect what you’re here to do on planet
respect what you’re here to do on planet earth that’s being honest but if you’re
earth that’s being honest but if you’re not tell them that and then you’ll have
not tell them that and then you’ll have more transparency within the
more transparency within the relationship to really love someone I’ve
relationship to really love someone I’ve realized that you don’t want to make
realized that you don’t want to make permanent decisions with temporary
permanent decisions with temporary feelings it’s about being honest to say
feelings it’s about being honest to say okay just because someone did this to me
okay just because someone did this to me I’m not just going to live my life by a
I’m not just going to live my life by a quote right I’m going to be honest say
quote right I’m going to be honest say okay maybe I’m in my feelings right now
okay maybe I’m in my feelings right now and maybe tomorrow I will feel like this
and maybe tomorrow I will feel like this but I’m not just going to be so adamant
but I’m not just going to be so adamant right in this kind of temporary feeling
right in this kind of temporary feeling right I’m not going to make a permanent
right I’m not going to make a permanent decision it’s about being on it all the
decision it’s about being on it all the time you really love someone another 10
time you really love someone another 10 okay it’s about trust
okay it’s about trust now why is trust so important because
now why is trust so important because for me I’ve realized along my journey
for me I’ve realized along my journey trust is love if you are with someone
trust is love if you are with someone and they don’t trust you they don’t love
and they don’t trust you they don’t love you to love someone you have to trust
you to love someone you have to trust them they go hand in hand and that’s
them they go hand in hand and that’s what I’ve realized along my journey
what I’ve realized along my journey because love is the ultimate surrender
because love is the ultimate surrender of the ego the ego never trust the ego
of the ego the ego never trust the ego is always about control the ego is all
is always about control the ego is all about manipulation love is about the
about manipulation love is about the letting go love is about the flow love
letting go love is about the flow love is about saying I trust this person
is about saying I trust this person because I trust myself
and that’s 10 ways to love someone and then you just say feel so good to be
then you just say feel so good to be alive baby can I get a Hello we are out
alive baby can I get a Hello we are out here in nature baby whoa breathing in
here in nature baby whoa breathing in that good art prana have a beautiful day
that good art prana have a beautiful day infinitely diving meet once again they
infinitely diving meet once again they won’t stay healthy you
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