At what age can you find your Why?

some people ask what is the right age to
learn your why there’s no right age to
learn your wife your wives fully formed
by the time you’re about eighteen
nineteen twenty fully formed and so
anytime after that you can find it at
for the whole four your whole life and
the longer life you’ve lived you just
have more data points you have more
information to look at to find patterns
and so people want to know if they can
help their teenagers find their wide
answers of course you can especially for
somebody who’s a little younger whether
Y is still forming I mean the odds are
and again I don’t I don’t know the
science I just know from from from
talking to people in from experience but
maybe the Y form is a little younger
it’s fully formed a little younger so
absolutely you can talk to your kids and
find out what drives them and when
they’ve been happy and most importantly
is actually pay attention to when your
kids are inspired and when they’re happy
and encourage that behavior encourage
them to do more of that because the
clearer they are of their why and the
things that drive them and have support
they will build confidence for those
things in their life and that will
actually set them on a very very good
path going forward
most of us unfortunately are not given
that opportunity we’re often just told
to get a job or do well at school or
study harder and then by the time we’re
30 or 40 or 50 years old we wake up and
realize that we’ve worked hard we’ve got
in good grades and we’ve got a job and
yet we don’t know who we are or what
drives us
so really a great parent what they do
will help push a child push someone in a
student if you’re a mentor a teacher to
someone in the direction that naturally
drives them early and that Y will become
loud and clear to them at a much much
earlier age